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Family › Re: What Generator Are You Using? by tobechi74: 12:46am On Sep 24, 2020
I pass me nebo go suffer u
Family › Re: Would You Sell The Land Where Your Parents Were Buried? by tobechi74:
Nigeria is a country where north care for cow and south care fore dead bone. More than Living
Romance › Re: Teacher Impregnates SS3 Student Preparing For WAEC In Ekiti State by tobechi74: 12:40am On Sep 24, 2020
Taking advantage of a minir
Romance › Re: Video Nigerian Man Pronounced Dead By 4 Hospitals, Resurrected By Pastor Oyedepo by tobechi74: 12:37am On Sep 24, 2020
In advanced countries,the doctor that proscribed him dead will be investigated and mare loose his license for Hasty and wrong verification
Romance › Re: Cos Of Pussy Truth Is So Hated This Days lazy & stupid generation by tobechi74: 12:35am On Sep 24, 2020
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? by tobechi74: 12:25am On Sep 24, 2020
Billionsclub:
one of the most painful thing in life is when you are accuse wrongly. when someone says you do something that you didn't do.
A boy in my area who does menial job to survive was accused of stealing. Someone came to their house to steal and the thief was enter all the rooms in the house. it is a passage house. the thief broke into all the rooms in the house but didn't break his. He became a suspect because the thief broke other people's room but not his. he was publicly disgrace. a large crowd of people surrounded him. after all these, he was freed and they said he was not the one. the boy later packed out of the house. The worst thing is that not everyone in the large crowd was reached to discard the wrong mindset that he was a thief. This guy is an hustler. He searches for menial job and he is hard working.

share your experience or someone else experience
and how did you know he is not the one. Hardworking people steak ...wait, I dey suspect u ooo
Romance › Re: Is It Right To Give An Opinion On Other People's Relationship? by tobechi74: 12:17am On Sep 24, 2020
If he ask ,then tell the truth. If he did not, keep miyr
Romance › Re: Meet Michael, the 90 day fiancé when He Was A Corper by tobechi74: 12:14am On Sep 24, 2020
The freemode crew cannot see the oics. Someone should describe to me
Romance › Re: Join The Masturbation Quiting Challenge by tobechi74: 12:13am On Sep 24, 2020
Why do you want to stop. Let us start from there
Romance › Re: My Friend Snapped His Fiancee And Here Is The The Pic The Appeared On The Phone by tobechi74: 12:09am On Sep 24, 2020
Free mode crew. Those with data should explain
Romance › Re: Can A Adopted Son Marry The Biological Daughter Of The Family He Is Adopted To by tobechi74: 12:04am On Sep 24, 2020
kings59:
Go and watch sweet love

Filipino movie

Tenten later married Serena despite Tenten being the biological son, and Serena that adopted daughter.

They married each other in the end of the movie.
These Z- world generate equating fiction with real life
Romance › Re: Men; Never You Wife A Hoe Nor A Prostitute. by tobechi74: 12:00am On Sep 24, 2020
Aksnoopy:
So I got the news that a former neighbour who was former prostitute died yesterday morning upon her return from a night out with a client.
The woman named joy was married/cohabitating with a man who is often away from home.
She opened a bar and has been running it and also prostituting with varieties of men for about two years due to her husband absence.
According to a source who broke the news to me today. She went out with a customer on Monday night to an undisclosed hotel and was subsequently dropped off very early on Tuesday morning.
She started vomitting thick substance suspected to be blood and subsequently died.
I was shocked by the news, because this is a woman with 4 children.
I do hear about this so called ritualists, but now I believe this evil people are so real.

This was a woman I almost wooed but backed off when I discovered she has 4 kids.

Men be careful of whom you marry or sleep with this days.
Women be careful of the men you date/go out with.

Lots of evil is happening out there!!!
similar thing can happen to one who is not prostitute
Romance › Re: I Just Confirmed I'm Gay by tobechi74: 11:49pm On Sep 23, 2020
Congrats I am happy for you

Read this,It might help

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/
Romance › Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74(op): 7:55pm On Sep 23, 2020
BornSnner9:
I need a breakdown of this story book
Yru to read it
Politics › Re: “I Am A Movement” – Tinubu Brags As He Reacts To Apc’s Defeat In Edo State by tobechi74: 2:04pm On Sep 23, 2020
Movement will soon move out
Romance › Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74(op): 8:59am On Sep 23, 2020
Lalaatica
Romance › Re: Guys That Plays Betnija by tobechi74: 7:48am On Sep 23, 2020
Ladies love men who can take risk no
Politics › Re: 'uzodinma's Ranting Was Nothing But Unjust' - Former Buhari Aide by tobechi74: 7:44am On Sep 23, 2020
Uzodinma is justified to rant. His political Godfather, Oshiomole lost.
Politics › Re: What Else Does Ekweremadu Want? by tobechi74: 7:42am On Sep 23, 2020
Noted
Politics › Re: CAN Lauds Ayade For Running Welfarist Government by tobechi74: 7:41am On Sep 23, 2020
CaAN has lost its purpose
Politics › Re: Tinubu's APC Presidential Ticket In Jeopardy by tobechi74: 7:40am On Sep 23, 2020
So you strongly believe they will support him to be president before. nooo
Politics › Re: Why Nigerians Should Ignore NLC/TUC call for Protest on October 1st! by tobechi74: 7:39am On Sep 23, 2020
He first claims to be a pdp supporter to win your heart
Politics › Re: Governor Condemns Push For Resource Control by tobechi74: 7:38am On Sep 23, 2020
Any day gold is discovered in the North,North will shout resources control
Politics › Re: United Kingdom Lawmakers Write Commonwealth Over Bloodshed Under President Buhar by tobechi74: 7:34am On Sep 23, 2020
Da problem of Nigeria is greater than UK. It is a cultural issue that exists before I was born- Buhari
Politics › Re: Akwa Ibom @ 33: Celebrating Fulfilment Of The Promise: by tobechi74: 7:31am On Sep 23, 2020
They have a lot to show for it more than Nigeria at 60
Politics › Re: Bulk Purchase For COVID Palliatives Behind Rising Price Of Foodstuffs - FG by tobechi74: 7:31am On Sep 23, 2020
Lame Excuse
Romance › Re: Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74(op): 2:57am On Sep 23, 2020
josephubah111:
Nice.. I concur
Glad you do
Romance › Why Men Are Becoming Weaker and Women Are Becoming Stronger by tobechi74(op): 2:43am On Sep 23, 2020
When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public. Expression of vulnerability is a sign of a weak man. Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in education at an early age especially science and law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.


Girls who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .


Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side. we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

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