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tnerro1:
Married ex ke? Cook for you ke? In your house alone ke? Went to the market together Ke?

No let them Chidimma you oooo

This time around nah Chibike dem go do am.

mariahAngel:
Both cooking for him and coming to his house were totally wrong and disrespectful to the lady's husband.

You are right but let's say he is desperate for the food, he can at least meet her someplace.

BonPatrick:
Am not hurt see you guys are getting it wrong she came with free mind we didn't do anything she just renders help

That is how it starts o

See I always tell guys, the fastest way to the grave is to sleep with a married lady.

Guy please put an end to it. Don't even allow her cook for you any longer.

BonPatrick:
Good morning guys I leave alone and I don't know how to cook soup but can cook stew and others so I called my ex girlfriend yesterday and she is married last year so she came we went to market and buy food stuffs and she cooked for me. I want to know if is wrong for a married lady to do that?

Not too cool but not entirely wrong to cook for you but very wrong to come to your house.

Remember Okafor's law...

cfree14:
I just need some opinions about this. I'm thinking of settling down soon and everyone is telling me to go for a younger lady. They believe the man should be older at all times. I understand their concern, looking at the fact that ladies tend to age faster than guys.

To me I don't think it should be anything of concern as long as true love is there.
What should be the age difference if you think otherwise?

There is no specific answer to this... Age has little to do with connection.

But it is always advised that you marry someone in the same generation with hug and a generation is 25years.

lalasticlala:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/07/04/obasanjo-moves-form-new-party-alternative-pdp-apc-ahead-2023

Misplaced priority...

What we need now is restructuring or there will be no more election with the way things are unfolding.

Kobojunkie:
The people going around with these tracks do not have Jesus Christ living inside of them. Don't get me wrong though. They probably believe and are saved but like the parable of the wheat and tares explains, not everyone planted in the Kingdom of God were planted by the owner of the field. So what good could come out of the tares preaching Jesus Christ when all they are filled with is lies and more lies? Do you presume the Truth of God(Jesus Christ) could somehow result from those lies?

Look around you...how many out there really have the Jesus Christ you read of in the Bible , the very Spirit of Truth(Jesus Christ), living on the inside of them?

The lady who gave me the tract was even so arrogant that she snubbed me when i asked for her audience regarding the contents.

Kobojunkie:
What good has so far come out of folks who dont know Jesus Christ focusing on deceiving others with the lies they are filled with , all in the name of Jesus Christ?

i dont get.

HedwigesMaduro:
Back them with scriptures? We don't do that here!

The problem with many believers is that they don't have a mind of their own, they are sheeples,Very lazy to study the scriptures and they have a closed mind.

You can see how they ignorantly counter a Scripture based notion without any Biblical reference simply because they don't even know what they are standing for.

Dtruthspeaker:
Isaiah 57:17. 2 Corinthians 7:1-2.

Please dont stress anyone here.. Quote the scriptures here fully and dont just mention them.

You see how i dissected the scriptures on the write up so please follow suit.

Witttyduchess:
sorry I don't have such time bringing scriptural verses to ignorant minds whose conscience has been seared with hot iron.
Enjoy your delusion while it lasts.
Go back to romance section cos that's what you're obviously good at.

Thank goodness you just confirmed that you are a mindless sheeple so please with all due respect just be a spectator and refrain from making comments henceforth.

Thanks

Dtruthspeaker:
Aren't all those things evil? If you do not think those things are Truly not good, then you really do not care to know the good and evil that you already know.

Please quote a Scripture to back up your point cos all the Scriptures quoted on that tract have no bearing except the tattoo which will still not take you to hell.

Witttyduchess:
it won't send anyone to hell but rather the person wearing it is an evidence that he/she isn't born again with a renewed mind cos any genuine born again Christian still wearing those need to question his/her salvation.
I see you're doing a lot of work here promoting indecency in Christendom.
If you don't repent you'll meet your Doom soon.

They are here...

Please back up your point with Scriptures or don't bother to make comments

Bola146:
Kindly give your life's to Christ!

I wish they focused on this.

Lalasticlala come and see what I saw o.

Even using waist beads and wearing handless attires go send person to hell

I saw this tract yesterday and i can't imagine the level of heresy.

We all know that appearing decent is good but the level of condemnation as seen in this tract is mind blowing and does not reflect the teachings in the Scriptures.

Nearly all the Scriptures quoted have no bearing with the images... These are the false preachers the Bible warned us about... They make salvation look like bondage hence make it extremely difficult for many to be saved... Believe it or not, some people will see this and actually believe they can't make heaven and will either give up their salvation or not even bother to accept salvation.

Can't believe that someone will take time out to spend money just to spread this heresy. Is this what salvation is all about?

Collosians 2:8
See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ.

1 Samuel 16:7
But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not look on appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart.”

Mathew 7:1 Amp
“Do not judge, criticize and condemn others unfairly with an attitude of self-righteous superiority as though assuming the office of a judge, so that you will not be judged unfairly.

Acts 13:39

"And through him everyone who has faith is made free from all those things, from which the law of Moses was not able to make you free."

This scriptural verse simply makes it clear that we as believers are no longer under the several laws of moses as listed as sinful acts in the attached.

And finally let us go to 1 Peter 3 which makes it clear that looking beautiful outwardly in our own way is not a sin but advises that we do not just focus on looking good outwardly but also have a Godly nature... It may interest us to know that even GOD almighty loves gold, diamonds and other lovely jewels which is why he meticulously adorn paradise with gold and precious jewels.

1 Peter 3: 3 -5
"Your adornment must not be merely external--with interweaving and elaborate knotting of the hair, and wearing gold jewellery, or being superficially preoccupied with dressing in expensive clothes; 4but let it be the inner beauty of the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality and unfading charm of a gentle and peaceful spirit, one that is calm and self-controlled, not overanxious, but serene and spiritually mature which is very precious in the sight of God. For in this way in former times the holy women, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves'',

If GOD sends people to hell because of body arts(Tattoo), wearing jewelries, braiding of hair, wearing dreads, earrings and so on as listed on the attached image then that will definitely trivalize the sacrifice JESUS made on the cross...

If you feel that dressing in a certain way or appearing in a particular way is not ok by you then please dress in a way that you love but don't ever judge or condemn anyone based on your own standard or belief.

MAY GOD HELP US ALL.

Story

We keep hearing the same promise of constitutional review for years but it never sees the light of day.

The constitution as it is has ceded Nigeria to the north and this is why they always vote against it.

The 19 Northern states by default produce 57 senators out of the 109 and they only need few more to make 2/3 of the senate... This is why we will remain under the authority of the North.

If the constitution is not amended or if Nigeria is not restructured in such a way that each state controls their resources and only a meagre percentage is given to the FG I guess Nigeria will remain stagnant forever.

No matter who will vote in to succeed Buhari, the constitution as it is will make the person very ineffective and things will get worse.

You can never build on a faulty foundation.

Thinkfree:
https://thenationonlineng.net/constitution-requires-buhari-to-crush-kanu-igboho-says-nba-vice-president/

Ofcourse we know that the constitution is the problem we have as a nation which is why we are asking for it to be totally scrapped or amended from the scratch.

It was imposed on Nigeria by few selfish people.

MANDIPUTIN:
A former presidential aspirant who is also a controversial social media personality, Adamu Garba has come out in a recent video of an interview that was uploaded by Roots TV to share his thoughts concerning the ongoing Oduduwa agitation by Sunday Igboho with reference to the Biafra agitation in the Southeast which is being spearheaded by the recently arrested IPOB leader, Nnamdi Kanu.

According to Adamu's statement, he disclosed that Sunday Igboho started attacking people from other regions who were living in the Southwest part of the country after he gave orders for every fulani herdsman residing in Yoruba land to be exterminated.

Adamu however noted that it's not bad to have an Oduduwa nation or the Biafra Republic but all of them must be under the sovereign rulership of Nigeria or else it wouldn't work. He went further to use South Sudan as an example while narrating how they fought for a separate nation but weren't able to achieve it until China came to their aid.

Adamu when asked about his thoughts concerning the fact that the Oduduwa agitation was brought to place due to the incessant killings of indigenes of the Southwest by fulani herdsmen, stated that he had long been against open grazing and anything that has to do with grazing routes which is why he had advocated for the federal government to adopt the practice of cattle ranching.

Adamu made it clear that some miscreants in the country wouldn't have stood up to start attacking and insulting elder statesmen if the government had adopted the policy of cattle ranching, as he noted that there wouldn't have been people like Sunday Igboho and Nnamdi Kanu inciting people to kill and chase out fulani herdsmen from their regions.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MKIbNh3M4A

Root TV

We can as well go back to regional governance with 3 regions under one umbrella country.

crazymommy:
I only told you what every doctor out there will tell you...know the status of your partner before having sex with them...simple

See the truth is that nobody is safe.

That your partner is HIV positive today does not mean he or she won't stray tomorrow to have unpr sex with an infected person.

Your husband or wife can also stray.. Make GOD shaa help us.

crazymommy:
That is an incomplete advice because even condom is not 100%....

Ofcourse it isn't but if you must... Use one.

kushercain:
Can you educate us on these factors?

I just explained above.

There can be infections that the HIV person may not even know they have and this infection causes spike in the viral load regardless of him or her using retro drugs.

It is because of this unexpected spike that makes it dangerous to have unprotected sex with HIV P person with low viral load.

Kewtt:
Let's go:
I met this well endowed lady.,... Those that make your eyes turn Tom and Jerry.... We got together long and short I discovered she was positive.... Late into the night.... I froze spiritually and physically.... My mind was doing Usain Bolt... But I maintained civility....till the next morning when she left...... Hmmmm what a close shave!


After a nice rendezvous she calmly informed me of her status. As that was a requirement under the law in the country. My mind did a million somersaults.... Is she bluffing? Do I find out? Do I call her bluff? And the backside was like a mountain.... My oh my....the trauma was real.... I went out of the room... Consulted with my guys.... Some advised double condoms... Me? Mba! I maintained a civil relationship with her.... She slept over. Second day she left. We maintained good friendship afterwards... HIV infection is not a death sentence. Please let your partners know your status ahead of time. If he or she will stay, they will.

Gazzuzz kingreign nakoks share your experiences

I always advise HIV P people to look for another HIV P person to be with cos that way, it will be balanced and they will have great fun together.

There are many online communities where HIV P people interact.

HIV is no longer an issue cos you can live till you grow old as long as you use your retro drugs but it is still very difficult for a HIV P person to be with a negative person.

crazymommy:
A person taking his or her drugs consistently will not have any occasional spike.....and do you know the status of your partner or you rely on what she tells you ..

There could be spikes but most times they don't even know.

There are times when they may have some regular infections and these infections could lead to sudden spike.

This is a known fact. This is why no matter what, it is advisable to always use a condom when making out with HIV P person.

crazymommy:
If I may ask,those ladies or that lady you have slept with,have you confirmed her HIV status from the medical centres??confirm by yourself and not what she told you...

Kilagbe kileju?

Gideon16:
Fear those that are carrying it and don't know than those that have already know their status. You see those that have already know their status, they will have be on drug already which will suppress the viral load and once the viral load is low, they won't be present in the vaginal fluid or semen thereby reducing their risk of transmission. You see those that don't know their status............. They are the real military zone. Keep off

Low viral load yes but the problem is the occasional spike in the load due to several factors

It is because of the unexpected spike that makes it entirely dangerous to sleep with a positive person except you use protection.

Kewtt:
Share your experiences..... Have you ever been motivated enough to engage in sexual activities with a known HIV positive person? Or you did not know until it was too late?

There is nothing bad in sleeping with HIV P person but you must use protection.

For me I can't be with such cos I love eating snails a lot and there is no condom for the mouth.

OnionBandit:
Problem is, you just don't trust the government. Not like have thought outside the box is on this issue.

I was in the South East working before my redeployment back to my place in Edo state. Guy, the only thing the ESN placed reliance on was charm and nothing more. I was living with them and I know these things far better than you ever will. Sometimes when they are out displaying to check the potency of their charms, they do this in broad day light and you will see human skulls with some of them.

There is this video I would love you to see. I just can't find it yet..but as soon as I do, I will mention you. Some of these guys were gunned down and the people were happy. Listen to what they were saying and you will see the truth in the narrative(topic of discussion)

GOD FORBID I trust a terrorist government.

Buhari is cursed with bad governance and that is just the truth..

I just hope that he won't be removed the way he was removed in 1983.

A government that does not listen to the citizens, a government that banned freedom of expression and a government that romances with bandit whilst treating freedom fighters like criminals.

A mumu president that does not even know what restructuring is.. A president that does not value his vice...

Buhari is a curse.

sammyj:
The man just shows how bold and strong the agitation is. FG just scored an home go with that attack !!!

He has made it clear that he is ready to die for this course.

It runs in his blood just like his father and grandad... They are freedom fighters.

I wish him well

EjaikreTheViper:
MANY NIGERIAN YOUTHS ARE VERY STUPID!

ONLY FOOLS BELIEVE SUCH WRITTEN SCRIPT

I will rather use a more subtle adjective like dumb, mindless and Clueless.

OnionBandit:
You are Igbo and it's can't be surprising following the same direction as your kinsmen. You guys are known to believe whatever you choose to believe. If you see a narrative, you twist it till it wins your fancy...and then you spread it.

I don't usually reply mentions like I am doing with you today..na because say I dey see sense in some of your threads from way back..but now, I think I know you better

First and foremost I am Omoluabi from the sophisticated ile Oduduwa and I'm very very pragmatic in my actions which is why you love my threads.

Now I don't know your tribe but lemme advise you... Try to always think outside the box... Learn to dissociate your emotions from your cognitive ability to reason and when you discuss issues try to focus on the subject matter without attacking the discussant in any way... That is the opium of a progressive mind.

If I may ask... Why did you believe the narrative as written by a corrupt system? Is it because you are bias towards the igbos or you just feel the accusation must be right..

The same way DSS invaded the house of Igboho and destroyed properties which is a characteristic nature of bandits yet they now display guns claiming it was recovered from Sunday's House...

The same mindset that makes me disbelieve this crazy lies against the ECN is the same mindset that I have towards Sunday's case.

OnionBandit:
if I no use my eye see thousands of shrines wey dey south East, I for no believe. Majority of you are idol worshippers. This is no DSS script. It's the truth and nothing but the truth

That you see shrines do not equate to using 10 heads. Think abeg... Shrines are every where.