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Fulaniherdmens:
Don’t date whom I turn down that’s how girls role.

Can you imagine.

But a lady can date the friend of the guy they turned down.

After watching a video on YouTube, I'm compelled to ask this question...

Why do many ladies see nothing wrong in this first scenario and see the second as a serious issue.

First scenario

1. Titi meets two friends, Richard and Tom... She desires Tom so much but it was Richard who approached her first and of course she turns him down... Tom gets the vibe that she likes him, he tries his luck and voila she is in... Richard finds out latter and is cool with it.. No issues at all The lady also sees nothing wrong in dating a guy who is a friend to a guy she just turned down.

Another scenario

2. Dare Meets two good friends, Tara and Lizzy... Lizzy desires Dare so much but he goes for Tara and Tara turns him down but the guy gets a good vibe from Lizzy and tries his luck and Lizzy gladly obliges but Tara starts to go crazy threatening her friend for going out with a guy she turned down...

Are both scenarios not the same? Why do many ladies feel the first instance is cool and the second one isn't?

Even if the lady dates the guy and latter dumps him for whatever reason, what is her headache if her friend now falls in love with the same guy...? Is there anything wrong if another person sees what you dumped as a treasure.

Is there a written law that states that a lady can't date a guy her friend rejected or the ex of her friend?

What is your opinion?

Stakeholders:
All this blogger self, the heading is confusing Oyedepo did not mention Twitter ban or social media ban he just encourage those people that are social media addict

How else will they get traffic if they don't use crazy misleading heading.

Stupid bloggers.

He made valid point but he also forgot the freedom of choice.

Let everyone make their decisions about what they want to do with their lives..

If they want to get addicted to smedia so be it... You can't go about regulating people's lives even GOD gave man the freedom of choice and he ought to know better.

And this is what GOD used to make streets and foundations of paradise. Even the type the world is yet to discover.

What humans die for.

Chai!

OgaSeun:
It doesn't change the fact that Jesus is not an ONIDURO...
He is more like someone who collects the loan on your behalf than someone who stands as a guarantor.
You will understand better if you work in a bank.

Oniduro means many things

Guarantor

Advocate...

Righteousness2:
Very True words from Pastor Evangelist Mike.

The devil is a Fraudster.
In this our journey to Heaven, the Moment he sees a small chance he enters you and use you to do things that are ridiculous and if you are not careful, he will cripple your work and Assignment with God.

I thank GOD for the silence of sister Adeyinka in all these.
I also Praise GOD for opening the eyes of Sister Tope Alabi to humble herself and do the Needful.

We are very Close to the Finish line , Every Heaven Concious believer Need to be Watchful and Prayerful.
The devil has deployed all his Arsenals to bring us down so as to Miss Heaven.
We need to Watch and Pray. We need to be Wise as Serpent and Harmless as doves..

As for My Sister Adeyinka, I Believe GOD has used this whole thing to advertise you .
Remain Humble and Holy.

No be small advertisement o... Even me no know the lady until now.

She is a good

begoniaa:
[color=dodgerblue]Lol. I love how you people are bending over, backwards and sideways, still whipping up more terms and phrases -- anything to absolve the man of his acts, while still holding yourselves up as wise and logical.

Make una continue. Men are polygamous, men are logical. Fear woman, but knack them, ba? You think the CEO man didn't know all these?

The leader of the home doesn't know how to control his weakness, ba? But he can control a woman. Shebi your toks2008 sensei has said any woman that knows her husband is cheating, as it is inevitable, should lock up and focus on other things?? Ehnn, na the outcome una dey see so be that.[/color]

What are you saying?

So because he has a side chic that justifies the murder?

If every side chic kills their mate then I wonder how many married men will be alive.

TruthinAction:
Then get properly married to them instead of flirting with them. You think you will remain young forever. If you don't repent, you will end up in the pit of hell. There are no women to sleep with in hell.

Gbam!

As much as I love christ, I am also a realist in this matter.. One man one wife nah scam.

But if you must be with more than one woman, marry them properly.

Any man who puts himself under the perpetual bondage of one man one woman nah swegbe.

If a guy wants to be with one wife then let him do just that but that crazy hypocrisy of one man one wife many side chics nah madness.

Most Women are very twisted they do things that please them and will see nothing wrong but once they dislike a move they will start throwing tantrums ... A woman will see nothing wrong in being the 10th wife of dangote yet will start bullying one simp into monogamy cos the guy ko get better money.

The gospel truth but rather than have side chic upandan thereby risking your life and exposing yourself to diseases as well as committing adultery kuku marry as many as you can and be at peace with yourself.

I just detest that side chic thing.

Hmmmmm!

My own deep gan.

3 strangers for that matter but what they did is a story for another day.

I pray your angelic strangers visit you...

Mike2021forGod:
I just recently gave my life to Christ before I was into fraud and redeeming of gift card by Yahoo boiz... I was planning to establish on intimacy gadget business what should be done i have quit fraud but is redeeming of gift card a sin and can a Christian sell intimacy gadgets and all this enlargement cream

Nothing wrong in that.

WowSweetGuy:
See swift response

Those guys swift die.

hustla:
So in a country of over 200M people buhari is all you have got

Now I will stop responding.

You don't have what it takes to have this discussion. Cheers.

hustla:
Lmao

Suffer never tire una sha

No worry, by the time $ gets to ₦2,000, una go leave useless English and tribalism elect sensible people for government

So who do you suggest?

It's not just about beer parlour talks but a progressive solution so tell us who else should be given the opportunity.

hustla:
Then he should freaking resign

He's just as useless as the rest of them

It is not as easy as we think.

He is very constrained... The only active VP that supports Economic restructuring... Trust me, the guy will do well as president

He is not just a professor but a very smart technocrat.

TheRareGem1:
Exactly what we need, we need leaders like Osinbajo, sentiment aside, there are challenges in the land, we can't afford looters as leaders anymore, we need leaders that can unify the country not those who will recruits thugs to be terrorising the people and causing unrest in the land

We the youths can make it happen... The power is in our hands.

If we start a movement

#Osinbajo/Kwankwaso2023... You will be amazed at how it will come to be

Ninobraw:
No need for a long story, I got married 2 yrs ago, during our friendship I mean courtship it was very sweet and lovely, we got married 2 yrs ago and I have 1 kid.

The problem I have is that, the girl's family come to greet almost every time and when they come they eat like elephant, anything eatable they eat it, they don't use eyes to see bread tea or butter in my room, they will finish it within a day, I will end up spending a lot during the time, when I noticed that it becomes offen i started telling my wife that I am broke, I don't have money. Although my wife is very nice she earns salary of 40k a month, and do funds and cook many times with her money.

Before now I was it okay, we are like a family, now i just realized that it is making me not think straight within a week oil and cooking things we bought will just finished the cartoon of indomitable that last the 2 of us before 1 month or month plus will just finish within 4 days of thier stay, some time 3 of her family will come once and another set will come again, my wife is the first daughter, the poor parents gave birth to 9 kids all in the name of looking for a boy, so she said although the 2 boys are number 7 and 9 position, her parents should be around man 60s and the woman 45yrs old. so now I am tired of the marriage, I don't know how to talk to my wife about it, that I don't like how thier family do come offend since we got married, my families has never come to sleep over in my place for a night talkless of spending holiday in my place my parents gave birth to only 3 of us 2 boys 1 girl.

Now i am just tired I can't be responsible for someone else burden why give birth to many kids and unable to train them, i plan to have only 2 or 3 kids only, and her family want to make me be like thier father sitting at home doing nothing depending on pension for survival, i have realized that I can't achieve what i should have achieved if i continue life this way.

Before our marriage, we agreed no family members is coming to stay with us, the issue now is they don't stay but come to eat and go, it's a big cheating to me I am tired for real, even if I say I don't have money and she use her own. The money should have be able to do other important thing . She spending is also affecting me a lot, we should have been able to buy land or car or live well, not feeding battalion. I am tired please I need advice on what to do.

You are naive to the mysteries of this world.

Have you asked yourself how GOD have been making it possible to continue feeding them?

E go shock you that the moment they stop, you may find it hard to feed the little family you have

Bro nah food dem dey chop so just look away and focus ON GOD who is able to bless you as you feed them so much that you will even be willing to feed more of them.

Life is a mystery... Aditu laye

I have been in situations where I was giving out money regularly to certain people every month end so much that I became worried that what if I can no longer sustain it but guess what? God has been making a way so much that if a source of income stops, God miraculously opens another means for me.. Even me I no undrstand... That is the mystery I'm talking about.

CzarChris:
And let me guess, you also find it difficult to sleep. Welcome to the club. .
It's not just a trait for introverts, but if you also find it difficult to sleep, then I hate to be a bearer of bad news, you have a very high IQ. This because our brains find it difficult to shutdown, it's always working.

Congratulations on being a member of the club of weirdos/nerds.

Have you been in a situation where you practically shut yourself up or stop yourself from making intelligent contribution to a topic SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT PEOPLE TO ATTACK YOU FOR YOUR INTELLIGENCE?

I have come to that point now cos I know do many things and this annoys many people who feel intimidated so I just keep mum and let things fly.

Palmerbarry:
I've always wanted to ask the above question. I am a very quiet person, an introvert, but in my head, I talk every seconds like a real talkative. From reasoning to prediction to past events, it keeps rotating.

Does this happen to you too, or its just me.
If it's just me, how bad is it to my health?

Please I need answers

Introverts talk in their heads all the time.

That is why they are introverts. They enjoy their own company.

NobleAngell:
Why does it look like oga is hiding his face? We don't want to hear stories o.

She go marry lagbaja

Legalcriminal:
Unfortunately the government are deaf and won’t understand this letter.

I keep laughing out loud anytime i remember that Seun has a zero tolerance to cryptocurrency which makes me believe that he is still a bush boy.

Seun if you are reading this i no dey abuse you o im just stating the obvious. YOU BE BUSH BOY.

Continue to bann bitcoin and crypto on your site ...by the time you realize, the bus has left you behind....

But wait o, Seun collects money to advertise bitcoin yet bans it on his site... If you like bann this account for 1000years, ko kan aye...you know i speak out my mind against all odds.

TheFreeOne:
The Governor with ballz.

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The current political structure coupled with the fraudulent constitution is not working and can never work to the benefit of the masses.

Restructuring or dissolution are the only 2 options ...no middle ground.

No middle ground at all but the demonic leaders are not listening.

Igwe9:
Nigeria Government can't win this, all they can do is to report any tweet that is offensive to them. You can't deny people the opportunity to express themselves.
If social media is bad, what then are they doing on indian website?
What happens when people criticize them there? Would they ban that one too and run to another one?
Alright!

Do I blame you?

I just pity many people whose business have been seriously affected by the action of a mad man cos only a mad man will ban the source of legit income of citizens In a democratic setting.

Shame on Buhari.

His cluelessness and act of illiteracy has rubbed on his appointees.

May GOD not let me or anyone I know end up like Buhari...

The worst president ever and I can imagine how his children will face the world knowing fully well how dumb their dad is.

mightyhaze:
You don't force,cajole or threaten somebody to marry the other. Even though davido deceived chioma and made her a baby mama against her values..

She should have been wiser and reckon with the worst case scenario. That's what wise ppl do. She should never have given birth for a person that hasn't taken her to the altar. A person notorious for making multiple ladies babymamas.

Chioma no try. But then again nobody is above mistakes

Me I have learnt to stay clear from meddling into relationship issues cos there is always an underlying reasons for any action.

But lemme ask..

What if it is true that Chioma slept with Perruzi and kept it from Davido?

Cos as a guy, I know for sure that Davido loves Chioma but somethings are just hard to cope with.

omonla10:
wait till u get better moni. Then u see the real u coming all out

Which better money?

Unsad:
Super sad. How couldn't he see his demise coming ?

Prophets usually don't see their own demise... It is a mystery.

MajorOvakporaye:
LIAR! YOU WEY DEY SMOKE GBANA

Lol

No be only gbana nah gum.

donbachi:
Dis Guy and his ipob counterpart....has made bubu to forget how to speak him language.

I swear.

Buhari knows too well that if he touches Igboho, Nigeria will boil so he is very careful.

Osebanjo:
Ondo/Ekiti no dey joke. Want out is want out. If the rest SW say dem no go, Ondo/Ekiti no mind to go out alone. The spirit.

The stubbornness of Ekiti/Ondo people is even scary to the devil.

Those people are as stubborn as Hell.

Kylekent59:


I just want to be sincere here: when the president of a country ban social media and one of her citizens is found making use of the medium or made use of the banned media. That means the presidential order has been disobeyed.

Before you blast me, let us assume you banned your child from making use of her phone. She when ahead and made use of her friend's phone. Does that mean your child has disobeyed you?

Should I call that a debate? Someone should reason in my direction and let's see if we can justify that.

When a directive is faulty, then it makes no sense and once it makes no sense, nobody is bound to Obey.

Buhari banned twitter and not Nigerians from using twitter... Understand the difference.

OsusTroller:
Abokey fucktardz will be pained.

Whether they like it or not, this country MUST SPLIT!

It's not by force to continue sharing the same country with you useless parasites.

Exactly my point.

I am a patriot to the core but the greatest unpatriotism is when a government willingly turn a deaf ear to the PEACEFUL AGITATIONS of those who elected them.

Restructure the country economically they refused.

OK let people have a referendum to decide if they want to still be a part of the failed state called Nigeria they also refused.

So please who is looking for trouble?