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vickydevoka:
I swear especially nyash. I will advise men not to marry any gal with big nyash. So inconvenient n strenuous while on duty

I dislike Big ass with strong passion.

I just shake my head whenever I see ladies flaunting big ass upandan... In their mind they are every man's dream.

Sentimental opinion.

Probably he would have had a contrary opinion if his dad was not helped by Kyarri.

Babzrockman:
God forbid Buhari as president... Here we are today 6 years +plus Buhari is d president and we are suffering seriously.
I'm sure u didn't vote in d last 2 general elections that produced Buhari.

Stop being a supporter or antagonist on social media...
We need to wake up to our civil responsibility. So that we can elect by ourselves n not selection by d old rogue

As of votes count... SMH!

Annie is a wise woman unlike many naive toddlers on Nairaland who know nada about romance but rant and wail online.

She is indeed very reasonable

Soro Niyen?

She must have a very poor mindset.

Is it about the money in the bank or asset? And is she unaware of the fact that being broke or rich can be relative and subject to change?

At 26 i was a millionaire then i had an accident and i became poor after spending so much to get back to my feet.

Senselessness.

Omihanifa:
This can lead to multiple car accident o

Very very dangerous. On third ma inland bridge for that matter

damilola4162:
More: Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique

Death is a debt we all must pay.

Please no matter what you do, don't ever be caught dead without accepting christ as saviour.

Lalas gbogbo wa la ma ku at one time or the other so secure your soul in christ so whenever and however it happens, your soul is secured forever.

A word a enough for the wise.

May their soul R. I. P

AchalugoNwa:
this man will definitely go down.
he's now a wanted man in dubai and US
if at all he survives this, his reputation has been torn to shreds.
him being a top cop makes things worse.

I expect him to be sacked from IRT or resign and open himself up for investigation.

Even though I never trusted those IRT guys due to their lifestyle and ways
yes those guys spend money like yahoo boys
they even dress like yahoo Boys

but never knew this man was this dirty

well like my boy Monogamy will say
his goat don drink pap
one thing about the feds is that their fvck up no dey sour.
once you're wanted no matter how many years it takes you must answer for your crimes and I'm sure these guys have enough evidence against him.
hushpuppi will spill all beans because he has nothing to loose again
he'll definitely get a bit lighter sentence and after that he'll live a quiet life in the US as ex convict or anywhere he chooses without any fear of arrest again

E go shock you how many prominent Nigerians are linked to hushpuppy cartel.

Hush has made a plea bargain for reduction in jail term provided he sings and his song has just started and he is going to sing a full album. And make una no forget the saying "show me your friend and I will tell you who you are"

Did someone just say kyarri is Cubana friend and he even attended his mum's burial?... Abeg stop it, they are just friends and nothing more...

It's about to go down.

oly8999:
the way fingers point to husbands is alarming but what is more alarming is everybody seems to careless about the fact that women cheat more, especially this generation

And when they decide to cheat, they will have justifiable reasons.

One thing I know is that 90% of ladies will not mind to be a side dish or a baby mama to a billionaire but these same ladies will want to box a struggling guy into the facade of me and my husband alone.

As I wrote earlier, Women are very very hypocritical and crafty. Most of the ladies ranting about me and my husband has lost count of guys who have slept with them and many of them have dated married men before and worse still many will prefer to date a married man but will turn the same man down if he decides to marry them.

Only a simpleton lives his life by the dictates of a lady.

Hathor5:
It would be better if many of us were not in existence today. It is obvious the Nigerian society has too many people from dysfunctional homes where men were taught that it is ok to betray and hurt your wife and the mother of your kids like you do.




Oh the irony!

Tell your brothers that there is more to life than being a fvckboy too.

Also tell your daughters that it is ok if their husbands hurt them emotionally and infect them with STDs because they should not expect better from Nigerian men.

If you have been following this thread as you should you will agree that your last paragraph is lame.

You are never immune from std as long as you will ever sleep with another man without protection.

Now let me ask you?

Why get high BP over a cheating man when Polygamy is not a sin and a man can decide to marry as many ladies as he wishes? Can't you see that you are fighting a lost battle?

On this note I will drop my mic. I wish you all the best

This thread has impacted so many ladies on nairaland and i have received countless number of Mails thanking me for this.

If it is possible for a thread to make front-page twice this is one thread that should achieve that.

I'm talking about this ..https://www.nairaland.com/4065809/10-realistic-steps-lady-should

Hathor5:
Obviously you are proof that there are God fearing and sexually decent men out there so don't tell ladies to lower their expectations. I would much rather divorce and remarry five times or stay single for life than share my bed with a cheater. And I will tell my daughters to do the same. You can sell this nonsense to some low self-esteem females and expect them to open their legs to a public property chlamydia infested dyck who doesn't know how to protect his family.

If our mothers moved out of their matrimonial homes cos their husbands cheat then many of us won't be in existence today

As I wrote, your choice remains your choice...

For me I will rather refer my daughters to this thread I created sometime ago if they truly want a happy marital life.
https://www.nairaland.com/4065809/10-realistic-steps-lady-should

There is more to life than jumping from one dk to another in the name of searching for a faithful man.

Cheers.

Hathor5:
Are you distancing yourself from what you have been propagating here?

It does not reflect your attitude and how you approach marriage?

There is nothing to distant from cos it is just an opinion. Anybody who wants to make contribution should focus on the subject matter and not the writer... That is what sound minds do.

Was I not the same person who also wrote "Before you divorce your adulterous wife"... https://www.nairaland.com/2560505/before-divorce-adulterous-wife

Shall we say I'm also a female writing about my personal life?

I'm a freelance writer and I write realistic stuffs that has no correlation with my life or who I am and whatever belief I have does not change reality.

I'm so GOD fearing and sexually decent so much that I am totally against adultery but does that mean married men don't commit adultery at will? Does that mean I will now start preaching to men not to do it? When despite all the sermons and scriptures against it men still do it.

So rather than start wasting my energy writing against it, I prefer to be realistic about it and this is the problem with many ladies... They refuse to embrace reality but have chosen to wallow in self deceit... They always want to hear what they love to hear, they enmesh themselves in the deciet of me and my husband alone... The foolishness of leaving an adulterous hubby thinking there is one faithful man out there for them...

LebenNG:
Lol sir, go and repair your home. Am done with your engaging.

Don't you think it is very lame attributing my write up to my personal life?

Where in the write up did I ever write about me having issues with my home or any woman?

Incase you don't know, it is a sign of low IQ for anyone to juxtapose a writeup to the life of the writer except the writer specifically state that he or she is writing about a personal life... More like attributing a movie to the life of the scriptwriter...

Please grow up.

LebenNG:
You are the one pained and emotional with long senseless epistle...your type cry foul when your white counterpart discriminate against you, calling them racist because they have more access to better life than you. I dont care if you are 100 decades old ok...everybody have their mates everywhere, it does not still mean you made sense and you do not know my age as well. Go and better your life. In better prospective projects that can help humanity your type is very scanty or non existent but become PhD holders on top woman body. Pained old man.

You sound depressed. What is going on with you? Why the baseless attack?

Pained as how? I should go better my life? are you sure you don't have a mental illness? i think i will have to stop responding to you at this point cos your response is suggestive of someone battling with depression. Your incoherence is worrisome. We are discussing one thing you are spewing something totally different. Please go get help fast.

Cheers.

yuping:
That's where the problem comes from, instead of getting married to them legally they prefer to jumP from one woman to another, put your self in a woman shoe, imaging sitting at home innocently and someone infects you with STD because he cheats, how would you feel?
I don't have problem with polygamy but me I will not involve myself in it.

I have heard this shallow line countless times.

Guy see nobody is immune to STD but we can only be careful.

I have asked this question many times...IF A LADY LEAVES HER HUSBAND COS HE CHEATS AND SHE IS SCARED OF GETTING NFECTED WITH STD..WILL SHE NOT MAKE LOVE TO ANOTHER MAN EVER AGAIN WITHOUT A CONDOM?

What is the guaranty that the man she eventually sleeps with without a condom wont stray and bring home the same STD she ran away from?

So i always advice ladies...once you have the thought that your husband is cheating just beg him to use condom for whoever he wants to be with or you simply start using protection to avoid stories that touch but just forget that line about a lady leaving her hubby cos of fear of infection.

It does not make any sense except she will never ever have unprotected sex with any other man again.

LebenNG:
You don't tell a woman how to live her life, while men are allowed to go wild. You religion permits four wives and background concubines if you may. So you see we don't share the same view, you don't impose ur ideologies on others. There's more to a woman than just being a wife, not to talk of a wife to a philanderer. Good evening.

I dont understand the reason for this emotional outburst. What i wrote is my opinion based on real life situations and what i have seen happened first hand. Let me also reiterate that i am not old nor young but i have lived over 40years on earth and whatever i write regarding romance on nairaland is golden by my reckoning but it remains an opinion which is non binding on anyone meaning you could just ignore it.

Many ladies on nairaland have PMed me to thank me for my no holds bar pragmatic stands on matters regarding romance. It is your choice to read and comprehend objectively or continue to allow your emotions run wild but no matter how hard you try to counter this, it is a reality .

yuping:
The same apply to the man who his wife cheats.. If all woman leaves their husband cus of cheating trust me, men will respect themselves.

Soro Niyen?

More like giving the guy freedom . That a man desires many ladies is not a sign of irresponsibility. Just do things the right way by marrying them and not keeping them as side chics thereby committing adultery.

Only a simpleton allows his sexuality to be boxed by any lady. There are too many single ladies and every marriageable lady deserves to be with a husband even if she sees him once a week.

pocohantas:
She was too calculated for a 9yrs old child.

Is she related to chuckie?

Watched the video again, she didn’t turn on the gas cooker, rather she lighted an inflammable object above the cooker.

As far as I'm concerned, the management of the shop must be held accountable for lack of proactive action.

I watched the video and someone actually saw the fire at a very early stage.

If they were swift the fire would have been quenched at least to a certain degree.

As for the little witch, unfortunately she is a minor so she may not really be severely punished.

But all in all I believe there is more to it than meets the eyes...

DonTattaglia:
30 years is still considered young abeg..I know several ladies in their 30's that are still burden to guys. From 45+ is ideal, they are more matured, sweeter, more caring and homely.

Any older lady that makes financial demands is a leech.

They hardly demand except you give them.

binarymachine:
Source:
https://flipmemes.com/2021/06/17/the-attraction-and-troubles-of-dating-an-older-woman/

My advise to every man out there.

If you are not ready to get hooked please stay away from older women cos they will give you so much love and attention that will make you look at yourself in the mirror and ask if "no be juju be dat"?

They will treat you so special that you will start seeing the younger ladies as below standard.

And if you ever date and leave them, they will linger in your memory as long as you live.

I'm writing from experience

NADFOR:
Why are you responding to his stupidity?

If you see a potential JAMBITE talking, you should be able to recognize one and ignore.

Tomorrow he'll come to Nairaland and ask if he can study Medicine at UNILAG with 125 Jamb scores.

I've stopped responding to some stupid comments on this platform after realizing we have a lot of rukies and kids

Walahi you are not alone in this boat.

How I wish there is a way to filter ages into sections or perhaps have a questionnaire to ascertain the IQ of people before they join Nairaland.

I'm so fed up relating with people who are unapologetically immature mentally cos they will drain you mentally.

udemzyudex:
He should go ahead and stop making noise about it,did he make noise like this in the first one?

Don't dare Bakare... He is very radical.

quentin06:
Pastor, didn't you support him in 2015? Said he was the Messiah?
Why you change mouth now? Change no dey reach you again?
What a disgrace to Christianity, enjoy your change.

What is this one saying?

Did you read the write up at all?

Orionews:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/bakare-lampoons-unnamed-official-says-change-of-baton-imminent/%3famp

I love this man so much for his non pertisan lifestyle... Down to earth and upfront.

Hathor5:
Yada yada yada ...

Ori e ti gbale.

Hathor5:
A simple yes or no would suffice but I get why you would avoid this question.

Because I enjoy the secrecy and the Cluelessness of pumalistic nairalanders.

Sometimes I even make some posts to confuse them more.

crackhaus:
For the bold texts in particular as well as the entire post in general, take this...

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/shia.gif

The problem with Nairaland is that we have more of toddlers, teenagers who are so naive and still enmeshed in baseless fantasies so It is worthless discussing matters such as this with them.

My happiness is that Nairaland will still be here and this thread will linger until they are old enough to learn the hard fact and will remember this thread.

LilMissFavvy:
It was in one of his threads that someone exposed him as a divorcee, I can't remember the exact thread. The person said his wife divorced him. He dosent seem to learn. He probably will continue to marry, and divorce because he has decided to trade his family/marital happiness, to skirts outside. His type do not respect marital vows.

@Exposed lmao!

I so much enjoy the comedy on Nairaland as regards my marital status

Hathor5:
Are you married?

You dey find husband?

Cos I no understand the basis for the question...

mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

Continue until she stabs you in your sleep.

If there is a way she can be helped then explore the option or run for your life