LebenNG: No, There are many divorced women who gets married again even to better men than their husbands, except the lady is no linger interested in marriage and just wanna leave her life... its talks like this that make women settle for less for the fear of the unknown. The so called blind man in your post,should be more concerned in regaining his sight first so he can see who he wants to marry.
Sis or bro please believe what you want if that will make you sleep at night.
I have stated my candid opinion based on real life situations.
Ladies rant about contracting std as if they will never make love with another man without a condom who is not immune to sleeping with another lady without a condom hence stands the chance of infecting the same lady who ran out of her marriage cos her husband cheated on her.
You talked about ladies leaving their hubbies to be with a better person..
Please define your better person in the context of this discussion...
Ladies are the biggest hypocrites especially African ladies who will not mind to be a side dish or 10th wife of a billionaire yet will cry like a wailing banchee if their struggling or not well to do husband cheats on them.. Bunch of confused selfish shallow minded species.
Sis I am way above 4decades in life I don't know your age but it will be in your best interest to put your raging emotions in check and face reality...
ONLY A FOOLISH WOMAN LEAVES HER MARRIAGE COS HER HUSBAND CHEATS... I could interpret this in many languages if needs be.
The worst part is that these shameless ladies who wail cos their husband cheats on them had also dated a married man before or probably enjoyed a randy life as unmarried lady but they suddenly think they have the audacity to control a man's sexuality...
I don't blame them but the simpletons of men who cheat on their wives until she finds out and makes a big deal of it.
A real man will tell his wife he is getting another wife not because he does not live her but he wants to for the fun of it.
Let her pack out if she likes and starts looking for a guy that will covenant his dck to only her for the rest of his life.
Please let me just stop here. Continue fooling yourself until you realize too late.
don4real18: Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story. ______________________________________________ Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.
Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.
Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.
We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.
I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.
Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.
I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.
She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.
We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.
We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.
She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.
I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.
I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.
God bless us all.
Better go and do thanksgiving in your church for the miracle GOD performed in your life.
If you had married her you would have made a huge mistake.
sokera: you can talk to Osinbajo and Zulum to decamp to PDP and you can nominate them there as presidential candidates... but in APC its Tinubu 2023 ....
SexyBabe001: Bishop Oyedepo addresses issue of Living Faith Rural Churches Low Income:
NONSENSE ! OUR ONLY CRITERIA IS HOW MANY SOULS WON AND NOT HOW MUCH INCOME.
WHEN WE EMPLOYED 7000 PASTORS AT ONCE SOCIAL MEDIA WAS DEAD. WE HAVE MORE EMPLOYEES THAN MOST STATES IN NIGERIA AND WE HAVE NEVER OWED THEM OR TAKEN BANK OVERDRAFT ONCE.
THE PASTORS WERE ASKED TO GO BECAUSE THEY WERE UNFRUITFUL. MANY OF THE CHURCHES BUILT CAN NEVER PAY FOR THE CHURCH BUILDING IN 30 YEARS.
WE HAVE NO PATIENCE WITH FAILURE HERE.
-Bishop David Oyedepo at CHoP
*We have built more than 1,000 Churches in rural areas where in the next 30 years, they can never generate such fund, with each costing more than 14 Million Naira. *We are hunting after souls, not income.
People are confused about our Ministry. I learnt some fellows said, “you know, they are not bringing income, that is why they asked them to go.” We asked you to go because you are unfruitful.
Unfruitful! Blatant failure. Doing what there? We have no patience with failure here. When we employed 7,000 people at a time, Social Media was dead. We have more employees in this Organisation than most of the States. Church Gist. No one is owed a dime salary and we don’t borrow, we don’t beg. Ask our bank whether we take overdraft.
We are covenant bound, working in the light of God’ Word. Enjoying an open Heaven. We have fully delivered the first phase of 1,000 plus buildings to the rural Churches. None of those Churches can generate that fund in the next 30 years. No, we are hunting after souls.
Money: NONSENSE! We have never lacked it and yet we have never prayed for it, we are just simply obeying God and He is backing up what He is asking us to do. Awesome God.
Now the next set is about to be flagged off, just certifying the landed property issues, nothing else. We have no lack of anything. The world is confused.
Walking in the light of God’s Word. Please obey God to the full and watch out for His manifestations in your life. Well, you don’t need so much Mathematics to know a thousand buildings; that is not 1000 Naira each, that is not 10 Million (Naira) each, that is not 12 Million (Naira) each, that is not 14 Million (Naira) each.
Some are 35 Million (Naira). At a go! We have never seen it ourselves. We just watched God doing it. The only criteria: How many souls have they gotten there? Then, build for them. How many souls? Not once: “how much money do they have?” Apart from individuals now investing in promoting the Kingdom of God: building 5 Churches, some building 2, some building 3 Churches.
Just obey God. Church Gist. Obedience will turn you to a living wonder Have you ever seen raise a prayer point of “O God, send us money”? You have been here for some time, we pray every day. Now we pray 3 times a day: Covenant Hour of Prayer; Covenant Revival Prayer: Morning and Evening.
Going out every day on the streets. You want to see what we see, go and do what we do. But if you are not saved, there is nothing you do that matters. There is nothing you do that matters.
Note: The Church has spent over 2 Billion naira to built over 1000 church auditoria in the first phase.
I was waiting for this before I make any comment and now I can see that indeed it was because of low income and not soul winning... Let's say it as it is...
Soul winning is a process.. You don't preempt it and what Oyedepo tagged soul winning is actually low membership which is not the same.
So the pastor and Bishop were right just that Bishop tried to paint it. ... They were sacked as a result of unfruitfullness (Low membership hence low income to function independently as a branch)
Ah! You came back online. Kindly respond to this when you have the time:
First off, I'd like you to kindly let me know what MT4 broker you're using for your crypto trading and technical analysis in the video?
Second, yeah, in May 2021 an analyst even said the drop could reach below 10k before correction.
I had to quickly inform my younger bruv (who lives in Manchester with his spouse and kids) to convert the B.TC he has held for a few years now to U.SDT in his wallet when the price fell below 50k from 63k (due to Elon Musk's comments and the Chinese policy on cryptos).
My younger brother doesn't trade cryptos, or know anything about technical analysis of charts and would have lost more of the value of his B.TC if I hadn't informed him of the drop in price on time.
Your videos have given more insights to get ready for the 14k to 15k or so reversal levels because I've also stayed off cryptos trading and only believe in HODL... and then the comments made by some experts about the lack of "fundamentals" backing B.TC unlike the stocks and fx markets for instance.
Thanks again for the great feedback.
Cool.
ICMarkets is the broker. Very good broker... Withdrawal and deposit so apt. And I use their no spread mt4
Righteousness2: Last days Prophecies are Raining on us...
JESUS Christ warned us about these times and the False Prophets that will be unleashed to confuse people to Hell. 1Timothy 4::1-2 "Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron"
The Sin of Fornication is a serious sin that GOD frowns against.
1Corithians 6:18-19 "Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?"
False Prophets/pastors and teachers are unleashed to Rope you into evil and Destruction using the Bible.
Beware of who you listen to! Your Soul is worth more than all these Nonsense that is all over the place in the Name of Preachings. Heaven is Real! Hell Fire is Real!
I respect your posts but I stopped taking you seriously ever since I noticed that you select threads to jump on.
You are simply hypocritical. I called you out on. Certain thread but you just ignored.
stancydg: Nice and objective thing to do but I can bet you won't get any response because the bishop only reads the Bible. He isn't aware of such fake news as always, let alone respond to it.
Sometimes silence is not the best option.
The Pastor who made this video sounds very genuine but I have learnt to always wait to hear the other side of a story before drawing any conclusion.
Calitoscassius: Exactly! That is because Oledepo knows that there is no such thing called heaven, heaven doesn't exist.. all that crap about rewards in heaven are lies and he knows it. The only fools who doesn't know are his gullible worshippers.
If I were you I will believe in heaven and hell, give my life to christ and if I die and find out there is no heaven, hell, GOD or Jesus then I have nothing to lose but if indeed these exist then I have everything to gain.
TooMuchStuff: Very true. Was a member of the Havens. It's all about the Moola....for Church and Pastors. If ya business collapses or u get sacked from work, you are immediately considered a failure. Except u have a huge savings to still float in the Havens
CodeTemplar: Money matter is a very complex matter. Everybody don't have same perspective about money and don't possess same level of generosity. In a situation as yours, there should be some form of help and even prayer.
Exactly my point.
They came around, prayed with me and that was it.
Common sense depicts thst they should do more than that for an active member who has suddenly become paralysed due to spine injury.
Someone quoted me asking me to push my case as in start doing babiala.
Krismas: I do not claim to know the running arrangements in Christ Embassy as I have only attended their meetings for brief periods. Equally, I can’t gauge the wide of ur story beyond wot I see in ur post. What lackest u yet? It seems to me u did not make spirited effort to reach out to ur group. U assumed they were in the know already, which shud be sufficient to motivate and mobilize them to reach out to u. Most times no be so. U have to ensure their active mobilization. U have to push ur case. Its d way it works. Its for the same reason d church does not assume the gro shud know what is lacking next. They call a meeting and brief them and secure their commitment
Oh I need to push my case and beg them for money right!
Were they not aware I had a spine injury? Did they not visit me to pray and just stopped at that?
Did the pastor push his case or asked them for a car when they chose to buy him a car?
Mekudi: During the preparation of Shiloh 2020, my winners chapel resident pastor organised a meeting between we matured men and women to discuss the Shiloh 2020 , pastor said Winners didn't make provision for how each church will participate , from sound Engine, to TVs used to display the Shiloh, fueling , mobility, banners ,posters ,handbill e.t.c we had to raise funds among ourselves. Not even a dime from headquarters to support local branches
I wrote here some years back of how things play out in Christ Embassy where i was a member of the HAven, a PCF segment of the churcjh.
Haven is made up of rich professionals who love to finance the gospel in the church. Anytime there is any huge project, the burden is on this group to cough out the finance.
But when i had a terrible accident in 2001 that made me totally incapacitated, there was not even one of these group members who gave me a dime pending when i get back on my feet.
Months after i was able to walk again i resumed worshipping at the church and guess what...just a month after i got back to church, we had a meeting to raise money to buy a car for the pastor of that branch at Alakija. I just shook my head and left the church for good.
I hope they have changed. Many churches are all about the money they can get from members and they don't really care about the welfare of same members or even care so much about the primary purpose of soul winning.
This is why i say salvation is a personal thing... Don't look at the churches but focus on Christ Jesus, accept him as lord and saviour and relate with him directly and not through any mortal man like yourself.
AmandaTalks: A pastor at Winners Chapel has cried out after he was sacked for not generating enough money in his branch.
According to the pastor, mr Peter Godwin, he was invited by the state pastor and getting there he met other pastors about 40 and they were all sacked over low income in their branches.
Watch the video below from 2.44 minutes as a Living Faith Church Pastor reveals how he was sacked
WebSurfer: These types of news and priorities are examples of the problems of Nigeria.. i still cannot phantom the trend about this so called funeral that Nigerians (poverty stricken citizens) including the mods and blogs will not let us rest, want to trend like their lives depend on it.
I honestly do not understand what is so special about it yet..
swiz123: Enough stupidity was displayed at this funeral. I saw nothing but men trying to outdo each other. Even nollywood actors that can't be classified as wealthy were rubbing shoulders with wealthy businessmen...
Well everything was just for the camera sha.... Even Zuby was spraying 200 naira notes... His bodyguard kept supplying him bundles in a if you wan mad mad finish manner..... Zubby had to yell at him to calm down ...
Foolishness to going broke trying to appear rich... Don't compete with those that are bigger than you when spending.... You will end up hurting yourself
I am the least impressed.
I don't believe in unexplained riches... Bash me I care less... I am not poor and I am a millionaire in a legit way and when I get to the Billionaire stage, ask me and I will explain my riches to you.
Unfortunately we live in a crazy society where people celebrate riches without asking questions... "Money must be made I know but of what use is making money in a way that the source brings sorrow to you or other people.
If these guys are legit I pray they get richer but if they have questionable source then I leave Karma to do its job.
AdemolaA2: Haaaah ... I was just gonna say it isn’t a naija girl before reading your last sentence . Lol!!!
Same happened to me in turkey ...we went to a restaurant in Istanbul and she insisted we split the bill while I was forming big man .. looked embarrassing to me at first though cos where I came from ... na taboo for my naija babes ..
Hmmm! I know a very beautiful naija lady with all these virtues and even more.
She does not demand money from her man, when her man traveled out she insisted that the man should not send her a dime until he is fully settled.
To think that she is from a very poor background yet not materialistic at all.
jaelz: I have always been a player and hardly ever really believed in love as I felt it was just a parable, but being with this my current girlfriend really opened my eyes to so many things with one being the day she truly proved her love for me.
That was the day we went out on a date and we got stopped by police men at a certain junction in Jabi, Abuja, the men started harassing me unnecessarily and when I couldn't take it any more me maself start dey change am for them o, it was at this junction one threatened to shoot me and corked his gun, omo if you see the way my girlfriend ran out of the car that day and stood in the front of me to shield me from the bullet by taking the bullet for me using herself as a shield, asin she was ready to die for me.
That was the day I realized that this girl was for real and nah her I go carry go see my mama.
So guys how did you find out that your woman truly loved you and was for real?
Nice question. But the problem is that people do change
GlorifiedTunde: Is this an assumption or based on experience?
Either way you're wrong.
Ladies who kept their virginity till marriage are mostly "reserved" sexually. They do not welcome the "fantasies" their counterparts permit.
If you know men who are married to one ask them questions.
Guy I'm talking from experience OK!
The pressure to test other waters is always so much on them... It starts like a fantasy then they look for silly excuse to jump on another dk and usually when they stray, they hardly retrace their steps.
They may appear reserved as you wrote but inside them they yearn for adventures.
alaribe1992: Just packed in new to a location in Owerri, was going out to buy something one day and saw this curvaceous 18 year old damsel , I stopped her and talked with her, next two days she came around and we spent romantic time but I no enter. Just today babe don Dey catch feelings wey I never even tell her anything
18year olds are freaking adventurous so please be careful.
Family › Re: Before you divorce your Adulterous hubby by Toks2008(op): 1:25pm On Jul 25, 2021
I do not claim to know the running arrangements in Christ Embassy as I have only attended their meetings for brief periods. Equally, I can’t gauge the wide of ur story beyond wot I see in ur post. What lackest u yet? It seems to me u did not make spirited effort to reach out to ur group. U assumed they were in the know already, which shud be sufficient to motivate and mobilize them to reach out to u. Most times no be so. U have to ensure their active mobilization. U have to push ur case. Its d way it works. Its for the same reason d church does not assume the gro shud know what is lacking next. They call a meeting and brief them and secure their commitment
.. kanye still dey play away..