₦airaland Forum

Caseywilliams:
nawa ooh bad market for some people daughter as men go done see where dem go troop dey go kolet list sharp sharp

Benue ladies over igbo ladies any day.

Don't get it twisted, there are sweet, sexually decent well cultured igbo ladies and I know many but when it comes to comparing igbo ladies with Benue ladies I will give it to Benue babes cos most of them are hard working, unassuming, submissive and very loyal.

Many Benue ladies do maids job because of that humble lifestyle they have which ofcourse is a vantage factor in choosing a wife and talking about curves, Benue ladies are very curvaceous and naturally beautiful.

I know this cos I have employed some of them before.

mariahAngel:
What do you know about the ladies from Benin republic and their culture?

Leave that to me.

loveth360:
Why would Igbo men leave beauty with brain,God fearing and home makers like Igbo ladies,and go for dirty,loose unfaithful things.

It is a common thing to see a yoruba woman with three kids from different Fathers.


We love the way our men monitor us and care for us it shows they value us.

Our culture is not like your culture where the man cheats and the woman cheat.both knowing the other is cheating.CHEAT YOUR OWN
MAKE I CHEAT MY OWN IS YOUR CULTURE.

Consolatory comment...

Did you not see the thread where an igbo slay queen was wailing that their men are not looking at them but instead are going for Yoruba ladies and ladies of other tribes...

See I'm too mature to get involved in tribal banters but on this matter please I beg you to just calm down and say no more.

Does it even make sense to you if a man pays huge bride price on a lady who has no sexual value, a lady that her interior dimension can be clearly described by Paul, Chidi, Chuks, Lekan and even Musa... A lady who is a public liability asset even when we all know that the bible does not even subscribe to paying bride price on non virgins howbeit the one that has laid with men...

So please don't compare OK! Leave the Yoruba ladies for us at least we know their family don't sell them like an item.

I come in peace o.

FuckThaMod:
You'll still die on top their matter

Never... I'm not a simpleton.

I would rather go to Benin repulblic to bring a young unassuming lady with curves to die for rather than pay crazy bride price on a lady whose mileage can never be reset.

mariahAngel:
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Senseless comment!

My sister make e no pain you o..
Nah fact. If you are one of the exception then good for you.

IamD18:
Bride price is bride price regardless of how much you spent. The fact remains that you paid something.

You people should allow Igbos with their traditions. Face yours.

You don't expect Igbos to behave like a particular tribe that accepts 2 cups of red oil and Cameroon pepper of 230 Naira as bride price.

You don't expect Igbos to behave like some tribes where the man will have to take 100+ strokes of cane as bride price.

There are levels to qualities and standard in everything. Igbo women are standard, that's why people leave their tribes where you can marry with just pepper and oil, come down to Igbo land to spend more than half of a million for bride price.

Adaeze and Achalugo nwanyi oma is different from Nwanyi ofe mmanu! The quality is the difference and the difference is the quality.

Unfortunately MOST(meaning not all) igbo brides are overused as in countless body counts that deserve to be given out to a man free of charge.

I come in peace.

Zzor:
coming from an unrepentant cheat and chronic womanizer smh

You go just develop high BP

SandraJane:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/im-obsessed-with-my-wife-bolanle-ninalowo/%3famp=1

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Same here.

Kobojunkiee:
Not according to Jesus Christ, he is not.

A "Tongue" as spoken of by Jesus Christ refers to an actual language known - a human language. Those who instead speak-in-gibberish do not speak a language but instead the repeat the gibberish syllables fed to them by the spirit they succeed in invoking.
The Spirit of God is not a spirit to be invoked.

Bro I no get strength to argue this matter OK.

I'm filled with the holy spirit and it was not invoked...the disciples were filled as they waited expectantly on pentecost so enough of your narrative.

Have a great night rest.

Kobojunkiee:
There are many spirits out there, be careful that you are not channelling them as so many so-called Christians are already known to.

The majority of so-called born-agains today exhibit what is called "glossolalia" when they claim to speak in tongues, and this is no different from the kind of "speaking in tongues" or what I like to call "speaking in gibberish" found among pagans and witches. If you want confirmation of the spirit of the antichrist, then go right ahead and continue trying to force yourself to "invoke" a spirit your way. Be sure that any spirit you are able to invoke of your will is not of God.. certainly not the spirit of God.

For according to Jesus Christ, He only comes to those who have done what is commanded of them by Him. The Spirit is not a servant of yours but instead is a proxy for the one who is master over you and so, He does not obey you but you are meant to follow His lead by submitting complete control over your life and self to Him.

ok thanks but if he does what i asked him to do and he is truly born again, the right spirit will come upon him.

Hotonions:
I need your advice on how to go about with this. I am born again and I have been baptized for years now and yet I don't feel like I posses the holy spirit it's something I want really badly and yet I don't see myself receiving it.
Note: this is not as a result of lack of belief because I very much believe in the holy spirit and his works.
I also know that with the Holy Spirit to navigate you, the race becomes easier to run

Very easy..

If you speak in tongues already then it means you are already baptized with the Holy spirit but if you don't speak in tongues yet then do this...

This night just go into your room, go on your knees and start worshipping GOD, as you worship him, the Holy spirit will come upon you and you will start to speak in tongues.

The tongues will come when you free yourself and start speaking it out when it comes, the devil will tell you to shut up that you are mumbling rubbish but don't give in, just speak out and there you are.

You are baptized with the Holy spirit and when the Holy spirit comes upon you, it will be a whole new experience..

Ishilove:
Stop excusing lack of self control and indiscipline

OK ma. No vex.

SilverNorGold:
Liar! I know Asa Asika very well! Initially, he wanted to propose to DJ Cuppy, but eventually dumped her after he found out she wasn't a virgin..

Which kain small pickin talk be this?

Who dey find virgin

Ishilove:
Whatever he is, what is undeniable is he has a roving penis that refuses to be tamed.

Make no mistake sis, no woman and I repeat, no woman can tame any man's penis and most guys are too randy to tame their sexual exploits so any guy who chooses to be randy must be alpha enough to face the consequence... Not this show of Shame.

Ishilove:
If Hilary can forgive Bill, Sukanmi can forgive 9ice, oloko generous

On a more serious note, I don't understand men. The girl whose breasts he was squeezing like bitterleaf is a public toilet, Animashaun. Molue pussy- Anyone can enter. She is not as beautiful as his wife, so what does this girl have that his wife doesn't have? It seems like promiscuity is deeply engrained in his DNA so he will always sleep around like a randy he-goat no matter who he is with.

The guy is either a Simp or a scrub who leeches on women else he won't come out this way after he was caught.

A Guy who wants to be with another lady should be confident enough to face the consequence.

Simp.

adekolaelect:
Nigerians should focus on what you do which is how to award NDDC and other agencies contract to yourselves? OK continue it is not your fault but the product of society we are !!! But when your time reach it will more than the previous ones .95℅ of Nigerians are not happy with you all .

When your time reach when your time reach abeg which time e go be?

We are too tolerant in Nigeria abeg and that is why they will continue to ride on us forever.

HOVER206:
Nice comments here but unfortunately he will remain as president till 2024, Obama and Co might be imprisoned

Sheeple spotted.

This guy has lost it. I just hope e doesn't commit suicide.

inoki247:
okay mak dem dey chop dere fuel pending the time wey e go dey useless...

When Fuel finally dey useless nd we can't export to sell anymore maybe we go dey bath with am, dem no gri diversify mak dem still dey find fuel up nd down...

It is already useless.

In 10 years from now U.K WILL ban cars using petrol and diesel.

This goes to show how backward Nigeria is... If there was resource control all these years shebbi many states would have used their oil to better their lot.

Let them start drinking the oil or perhaps, produce other products that is still relevant from Oil.

Akinpresident:
Hello guys

There's this girl that I love.
I believe I love her because she's respectful, well reserved, intelligent and hard-working.

We just got talking and trying to get along.

But she's much younger than me.
She's 16, I'm 26.

She likes me but not with any emotional attachment.

I haven't asked her out yet but I know she'll agree if I do.

I am established running my own business and would love to settle down anytime soon.

Is it a good idea to date her and allow her to come up with age and marry her or should I keep our relationship platonic?

Honestly I wouldn't want to lose her.

It's not as if I don't know what I want.
But the truth is that, I'd love to learn from the wisdom of you all about my situation.

Kindly advice me.

Wait till she is 18....there is nothing wrong in 10 years gap.

helinues:
Cos they can never engage in senseless protest...

Ordinary i don't respond to clout chasers like you but I pray that the fate of those who lost their lives in the protest befall you or someone close to you so that you will have sense by force.


Ode.

Callie:
My brother, its not deliverance you need.
Its obvious you never had a strong male figure while growing up. Physically, you are a male, but you really don't know how to be a man.
The foundation of the family is the man and not the woman, please don't go into the family front with this type of mindset, cause your children will grow to have twisted mindsets too. Your daughters will think it's okay to dominate a man and your sons will think a woman ought to lead him.

A man learn better from other men. Get a male mentor. Surround yourself with good and focused male friends. People who know what they want from life and how to get it.
You don't need deliverance, cause I don't think you are possessed, your only problem is twisted mindset, which through great association can be untwisted.

But guy!, Where is your father for goodness sake?

My sister that guy is in deep shit. I can relate with his situation. He will need serious psychological resetting.

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

I perfectly understand your situation.

It is a form of psychological abuse that you are already used to and it will take the grace of GOD for you to overcome it.

I also get so attracted to ladies who approach men first and those who dominate men in the bedroom and this is because I am a victim of sexual abuse at a young age...maybe due to my attractive look, ladies usually wooed me and made sure they had their way with me and I kinda enjoyed it. This happened several times so I took it as a norm to the point that I don't ever give any lady a second thought if she tries to form hard to get when I woo her simply because I'm not used to wooing ladies but some ladies felt it was pride. And I think most attractive guys are in this same shoe so I was not surprised when I read that it was the beautiful lady who made move on that cute Guy that got married recently talking about the former child actor Uche Uchemba.

Thank Goodness my Mrs did not prove hard to get else I won't be with her.

So when i say I understand you I know exactly what I mean...

Nukilia:
But the guy should have taken her to the hospital instead of looking for attention on social media...

My thoughts exactly but you can't blame the guy.

Nigeria is not a place to act good samaritan to a strangers cos you may get implicated. But if it is a country where things work, it will be easy to call an ambulance and within minutes she will be taken care of.

NGpatriot:
Don't you mean as she shares her lies and fake news?

Just imagine, she's going everywhere with her lies and fake rubbish, bet she won't go to the judiciary panel with her story, obviously, she
s dodging hard question under oath.

Why is it that most of the people peddling these fake rumors are ipobs.?


Nigeria is bigger than you lying bigots and enemies of Nigeria.


God Bless Nigeria

You be mumu man.

Clout chaser.

engrchykae:
These morons will sit in their country and tag any of themselves world best as if the world starts and ends in the West.
Did they come to Lagos,Abuja, owerri, Calabar, Brazil, India,etc?

I wonder o... Even me sef sexy pass all of them yet I no shout... Shioor

Whobedatte:
This would definitely deal a great blemish on Oladele's ministry .
This man to me seem to be the only shinning light in the celestial church as of today .
So sad if true

honestly.

Why?

I'm so shocked

Modified:

My sis just called him and he refuted the news saying it is fake news.

Let's see how it plays out.

Zzor:
I would rather remain single than send dm or approach any guy in this life.

Ladies far better than you approach guys and are well respected.

So it's your loss and since you can't make a pass at the guy you desire you must be OK with the ones that come your way else you go le nle.

Adefemi504:
But how many 9ja trained ladies can muster the courage to be the first to message a guy and ask about friendship?

I just weak.

Most of them are like that despite the fact that they lack substance yet they will be feeling too important.


There was a time I met a Black lady who is an Army officer in the U.K.

I was blown away by her simplicity. Very beautiful lady for that matter and she practically made it clear she desires me and till tomorrow we are still close friends yet I know some naija ladies in same U.K who feel too important to even allow simple friendship without crazy drama.