OcVoice: Had a similar case. Everything was going well till I lost my job. She couldn't adjust cos she was used to enjoyment. We were going for our marriage course, I had done introduction sef. She just woke up one morning and decided to break ties with me. She aborted the pregnancy.
I had since moved on though.
I don't know what happened to the girls of our time. Our moms suffered well with our dads without complain. Love was REAL and TRUE then. It was beyond money.
God will help our generation!
Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Aborted a pregnancy! Are you freeaakkiinnngg serious?
Fussion1000: Not at all, but the wife caused it upon herself, before doing anything most especially on social media, you need to think critically. You did not blame Amara for once, you put all blames on Osaze, if Osaze plays along he might bleep Amara nah.
If Amarah valued her marriage dearly, she wouldn't embark on request which will put her marriage in jeopardy
More worse for Biden Negroes as Trump team file out evidence of voter fraud to electoral college
Read and weep
1. Late on election night, with Trump comfortably ahead, many swing states stopped counting ballots. In most cases, observers were removed from the counting facilities. Counting generally continued without the observers
2. Statistically abnormal vote counts were the new normal when counting resumed. They were unusually large in size (hundreds of thousands) and had an unusually high (90 percent and above) Biden-to-Trump ratio
3. Late arriving ballots were counted. In Pennsylvania, 23,000 absentee ballots have impossible postal return dates and another 86,000 have such extraordinary return dates they raise serious questions
4. The failure to match signatures on mail-in ballots. The destruction of mail in ballot envelopes, which must contain signatures
5. Historically low absentee ballot rejection rates despite the massive expansion of mail voting. Such is Biden’s narrow margin that, as political analyst Robert Barnes observes, ‘If the states simply imposed the same absentee ballot rejection rate as recent cycles, then Trump wins the election’
6. Missing votes. In Delaware County, Pennsylvania, 50,000 votes held on 47 USB cards are missing
7. Non-resident voters. Matt Braynard’s Voter Integrity Project estimates that 20,312 people who no longer met residency requirements cast ballots in Georgia. Biden’s margin is 12,670 votes
8. Serious ‘chain of custody’ breakdowns. Invalid residential addresses. Record numbers of dead people voting. Ballots in pristine condition without creases, that is, they had not been mailed in envelopes as required by law
9. Statistical anomalies. In Georgia, Biden overtook Trump with 89 percent of the votes counted. For the next 53 batches of votes counted, Biden led Trump by the same exact 50.05 to 49.95 percent margin in every single batch. It is particularly perplexing that all statistical anomalies and tabulation abnormalities were in Biden’s favor. Clearly something peculiar happened.
You go just die of high BP.
Arizona just certified their election result this morning... Sealing the deal for Biden.
Better use your time to do more productive things...
etrouble: Sorry. I did not know that I have been arguing with Agbero. I shouldn’t bring myself to your level. You can take on the Northern Almajaris, they are your mates and social class
I actually made the same mistake arguing with an unfortunate educated fellow who probably got frustrated due to unemployment to join the criminal outfit.
So sad a case.. I quite understand his situation..
If you have anything to share about the crime they commited, the illegal activities their are engaged in or any court that indicted or jailed them for any crime, please share it with us because if not, they are just regular law abiding Nigerians engaged in legitimate and fully legal private enterprise and even the last time I checked, freedom of association and moventis is part of our constitution.
It's ok to hate other people for whatever silly reason you desire, but that doesn't make you better than them or make them...........................
If you have anything to share about the crime they commited, the illegal activities their are engaged in or any court that indicted or jailed them for any crime, please share it with us because if not, they are just regular law abiding Nigerians engaged in legitimate and fully legal private enterprise and even the last time I checked, freedom of association and moventis is part of our constitution.
It's ok to hate other people for whatever silly reason you desire, but that doesn't make you better than them or make them...........................
etrouble: Sorry. I did not know that I have been arguing with Agbero. I shouldn’t bring myself to your level. You can take on the Northern Almajaris, they are your mates and social class
Don't mind that bofoon who keeps attacking everyone here thinking it is everybody that has sold his soul to touts cis of the crumbs they give him from their criminal proceeds.
If you have anything to share about the crime they commited, the illegal activities their are engaged in or any court that indicted or jailed them for any crime, please share it with us because if not, they are just regular law abiding Nigerians engaged in legitimate and fully legal private enterprise and even the last time I checked, freedom of association and moventis is part of our constitution.
It's ok to hate other people for whatever silly reason you desire, but that doesn't make you better than them or make them.
Sorry I guess you missed that part where I asked you to list just 3 economic benefits of the Touts in the name of National union of road Bla Bla bla Asides bringing together a group of criminals that extort money from law abiding drivers...
Maybe if you can list 3 then I may start to have a rethink else you may as well go and jump into the lagoon.
NGpatriot: Your mates are progressing, establishing businesses and creating jobs, but you are on the internet letting us know how bitter and upset you are.
There's got to be more to your life as a human being than petty hatred, jealousy and bitterness.
Loser with no future ambition.
Those reading your posts will be laughing real hard at your ignorance... If you know me a little you will retract your ignorant comments but then what do I expect from someone on the payroll of Touts.
Cry me a river for all I care, if oluomo is your dad, tell him he has no relevance to the nation and their days are numbered...
I have really dignified you by responding to you cos ordinarily I don't engage Touts.
You think flaunting money or property is a proof of integrity... You must be a joker.
Don't get me wrong dude, I'm not hating at all.. I'm equally blessed but not by extorting innocent hustlers, not by leveraging on the vulnerability of helpless okada riders, danfo drivers and keke napep users.. I don't benefit from the evil activities of the corrupt government..
All these are the attributes of the so called useless, counter productive criminal organization called nurtw.
If you have problem with these facts then you are one of the problems we have in this country...
Now to shut you up finally, please list 3 benefits of the activities of these Touts.
NGpatriot: The fact that you look down on them and call them touts doesn't make them touts or whatever demeaning names you call them because touts don't engage in or invest in legitimate business and create jobs for Nigerians, touts don't raise decent and successful and academically smart children than you.
Don't saddle other people with your own failure and frustration in life.
Eyaah! Let me guess... You must be their secretary..
Even armed robbers create employment. Militants create employment but does that make them legit?
No matter the wealth they amass, they will forever be touts and there is no other way you can sugar coat their nefarious activities.
AceM12: Just because of 60k someone is already here asking a silly question. Tufiakwa!!! Poverty is a disease
That is the biggest mistake many ladies make and this is why many guys don't sacrifice for ladies..
Do you know that the 60k you casually called Is very huge for the guy and Infact the guy is sacrificing so much more than a billionaire who gives the lady N1M but people don't appreciate monatary gift based on the sacrifice made by the giver but wil rather appreciate based on the amount recieved.
Firstandonly: My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.
Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.
Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
Go ahead and invest in her. Be confident as a guy but just take it as if you are helping her destiny... She will never forget you even if she leaves you.
LegendHero: Money don’t care whether you have PhD or not. Everyone deserve the right to good living whether educated or illiterate.
Nigerians have been wired with this bullshit that the educated alone deserve good living while the uneducated should be confined to the wretched part of the society.
If just looking at the surface, this guy is a member of the NURTW, a government recognized union body, so you don’t need to say the country is upside down because of him building a hotel.
Yes, we can talk about corruption and question the cost of this hotel in comparison to his take home pay, if you suspect a foul play then you can attack him alone instead of the class he belongs to.
What is this one saying?
In a sane country will these touts even have any place in the government to the point of gaining recognition.
You are not only wise but very informed and experienced on this matter.
This is the most insightful and factual thread i have ever come across on Nairaland. If every lady understands all the point you listed, they will never ever have marital issues. Every point is spot on.
Macsjebs: Lol, so she is a nairalander? Badmos, pls don't mind them o, just see the thread on my signature to get yourself unique breathtaking fragrances
She needs not be a nairalander, she can simply read as a guest.
Badmus I know you are reading this thread... Please ignore these body shaming comments you see here cos it may blow your mind to realize that these people making lame comments are very immature and will view every lady with teenage eyes.
You look fabulous and I must commend your tenacity in achieving this beautiful figure, please keep it up.
When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.
Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.
This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.
My question: The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance. Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician) Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.
Thank you, your advise is needed
Your sexual desire has nothing to do with the abuse yu experienced at 8 up to 15.
Neverthekess, I think you should not see any big deal in self service except it is controlling your life.
Make no mistake, but for the economy of Nigeria, nothing bad in a guy marrying at 18 as it is in many western countries.
So get yourself busy with other things and condition your mind to ease off maybe once or twice a week talking about self servicing which is perfectly OK and not a sin in anyway but avoid getting addicted to it so much that it stars affecting your life.
As your girlfriend you have no franchise over her so you are in no position to do anything really but to walk away... Any other thing is foolishness.
But if you are married, just do this if you really love the lady...
Don't drive her out cos you will only make things easy for her but just act like you have forgiving her (if she asks for forgiveness) and driving her out will just make her go with the other guy and the guy will cool down use her well and this time no inhibition...
So act like you are cool, switch her to booty call... Do her the way you have never done before as in even she will know that the way you handle her is worse than any man will handle a LovePeddler...
Then calm down to look for another wife whilst she is still with you...
When you get a new lady she will know and at that time she will be dieing inside cos she can't confront you and she will be in a serious state of mental turture and may pack out by herself whilst you just bring in your new lady...
And if she stays, she will continue to suffer psychologically.
That is how to treat an adulterous wife.
But if you are the type that can forgive and revert to how things use to be, why not? After all nobody is perfect.