₦airaland Forum

Akhirastriver:
I thought ure reasonable ,Neva knew u were this dumb ,zakir naik has finished those who are knowledgeable than u ,so wtf are u saying ,don't mention me again please ,the fact that quote Quran dosent mean I can't curse tho its not good .
Thank u

I have dignified you by responding to you. Even a kindegarten will see through you that you have failed so woefully in trying to discredit all i quoted. If i were you i will delete all the post you made cos i have never seen someone make so much caricature of his intellectual capabilities. And talking about cursing please abeg dont make me laugh out loud cos its night here.You are so hilarious

I rest my case bro.

Have a splendid week ahead.

This Trump guy is pushing his luck and just like a Gemini that he is, they appear optimistic even when facing serious changes.

You all will be surprised to know that he is still as sick as hell yet he just put all his security personnel at high risk. .

Juliearth:
You are right about a woman's heart being intrinsic. Most times, what we desire are men who are sensitive to our emotions and not our material needs. All women in relationships are melancholics and by that, I mean, you can cross the red sea for her, climb the highest mountains...but fail to call her or tell her you love her and she is not pleased. The little things that you is all that matters.

Also, women are moved by words and not sight,so do not fail to reassure her of your feelings, but dont overdo it because that way, it would lose its value.

The narrative among the other gender is that to please a woman, one would have to read an encyclopedia... Funny enough, its far from that.


Quite often than not, I read narratives here, where the OPs and even those in the comment section are crying foul that their love interests are not taking them serious after spending so much on them. The truth of the matter is that no woman would take a man who spends carelessly on her in the early stages of a relationship serious. The early stage should be invested in knowing the other person than trying to impress her. Men need to learn that also. Impress your lady with your worth (not financial) and not your pockets..




Its nice to hear from you again, op.

Insightful.

Akhirastriver:
First of all stop misquoting the Quran please

Did you read what you posted? That he only worked miracle as a result of Allah's permission abeg whose pemission would it had been if not for GOD? So you se why i wrote that you just try so hard to be rebellous against Christ for no freaking reason and this bothers me a lot.

As i wrote my brother, you cant win this battle, it is either you accept Christ as saviour or risk not seeing Jannah. it remains your choice.

I am waiting for you to discredit other verses i quoted.

Akhirastriver:
Jesus only worked miracles with only by Allah's power ,always quote Quran verses correctly thank u.
Thats the verse, and the second verse u quoted where u said Jesus is a miracle worker ,the verse doesn't correspond with wat ure saying. I mean Quran 5 verse 113 u quoted

out of all i quoted im happy you struggle so hard to discredit two which unfortunately you were unable to.

Bro it is your decision at the end of the day.

Cheers

virtuouswoman77:
Pls how do I handle this problem of hubby that does not have self control when it comes to alcohol?

He drinks too much and sometimes messes the bed up with urine.

I have talked to him still no change pls I need practice solutions that will make him stop because he is the type that doesn't take things serious unless it gets to him and this his behavior is making me regret my marriage to him.

Pray and fast. it works

yungchop:
I just had a break up today... Excuse being "honestly i have nothing to say". So money is not a guarantee

Money is never a guaranty

Zzor:
your statement in the second paragraph confirms everything in my post

Since you don't understand and you are too proud to ask for clarity let me help you out.

When a lady is there with a guy she is just a spectator and a leech still cos all she did was spend the little the guy had with him, drink the little Garri the guy managed to buy and she was only there hoping the guy will make it without any material support and in most cases, such ladies only remained cos they did not see a better guy to woo them.

But the lady who was there for the guy went out of her way to help the guy with the little she had and she was there for him hook n sinker supporting the guy in every way possible and she shunned several advances from rich men.

The latter has no premium whilst the latter is the real deal... The latter was just a leech waiting for a time line for the guy to make it....

Is Lalasticlala still a a Mod on nairaland ?

Zzor:
Most Nigerian men have this mentality that a good woman should not like money, she should be ready to suffer with them (they will maltreat her after the money comes), she should also not see anything wrong with cheating as long as they are providing for the family.

Why must a woman undergo all these before she can be tagged a good woman? Is she your mother?

You spoilt the whole thing with you stating that naija men maltreat the ladies who stood by them when they had nothing.. That is a lie from the pits of hell.

The problem is that ladies who suffer with their men usually feel that the man must not be with any other lady when the money comes and once the guy tries another lady they just see it as maltreatment which is not so.

No naija guy will ever ever neglect a lady who stood by him When he had nothing.

Furthermore, there is a huge difference between a lady who was there for a guy and a lady who was there with a guy when he was suffering.

BigDick70inch:
Okay..
I'm somehow a broke guy right now..but then am caring..
Loving..
Have a big dick..
And finally so down to earth..
I really wanna start somethin serious with u..
I guess u liking already??

Ekabo Mr oloko nla

Zzor:
No sir

But igbo lady for sure.

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

You must be from Imo state

jeph19:
Lazi set of people. Always making demand that their parents cannot even make.
2weeks into "friendship" she called that she needed money for bag and high heels; that they've resume school...
Me: What happened to your savings?
She: it won't be enough...
Me: OK, i don't have
She: Mtcheew, a whole big boy like u?
Me: shey i tell u say i be big boy...
I just deleted the number 2sec

Lol!

virginprincess:
Op this your story de two sided, anyway you are right in a way, a man money can and will never move me.

All of you saying a man's money can't move you.. Issokay

Iyoocartel:
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These set of people belongs to the streets. Just login and logout and pass own the liability to the next unlucky guys on the queue

JESU! Savagery of unequivocal measure.

baralatie:
ehen!

I said it!


I knew it!


awon onigirama ati encyclopedia won n be ni nairaland!

I thought I was the only one o

GLYCOLYSISS:
The mystique statue is another femi-centric ideology promoted by the society and generally, women, to uphold women in high standard.
There's absolutely nothing mysterious about women, their dual mating strategy, hypergamous nature, innate solipsism, nature and idea of love, just to list a few are the core of women mystique promoted in the society.
Once you understand these concepts, your perception of women will change forever !
A rude awakening, and there's no going back .
Sad and depressing reality.

Abeg you please break am down... The grammer too much for me to comprehend.

Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course

You are not impressed with money and you like fat pockets...

Wettin Lalasticlala no go see for nairaland.

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

Nah so.... If only men understand that mystery about ladies.

Dear men,

Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money, or buying her gifts or taking her on expensive trips cos a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man and trust me on this, if a lady truly wants you, she will need no monetary influence to be with you.

Men must also understand that except there is an established relationship between them and a lady or an agreement with a lady before they spend on her, she is not obliged to give anything in return regardless of how big you spend on her.... You made that choice.

So what is the point?

if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford and not the type of money that will drive you crazy if you get nothing back in return because ''MOST'' ladies are naturally wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men.

Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth.

This is why during a heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there"

So guys please, no go dey do pass yourself..

DaddyRochie1642:
Girls Like this Disgust Me with Passion.


** Spits In Disgust **

Let me tell you about a typical Naija lady.

They are bunch of ungrateful hopeless souls and even if you give them your whole life savings, at any slightest provocation they will ask you how much sef?, are your mates not giving their ladies more?

Bunch of hopeless leeches with entitlement mentality.

And come to think of it...who spends 26k on food for two? The guy must be Apa.

Almunjid:
They shortchanged Laycon 0oo. They made about 30 billion naira from 900 million votes. And out of all the billions made, they gave him total prize worth 85 million but 30 million in cash.
As long as we continue to celebrate immorality and mediocrity, they'll continue to cheat us in this country.



peace!

The money from voting is usually shared among many stake holders and it may surprise you that maybe only N5 from the N30 per SMS gets to BBrother and I learnt some votes are free if done online.

Racoon:
https://www.legit.ng/amp/1370243-3-nigerian-pastors-divorced-wives.html?__twitter_impression=true

Get your facts right,

Pastor chris did not divorve his wife but it was his wife that divorced him. These are two very different things.

Angelfrost:
Thank you!!! You have said it all!

This toning culture among Nigerians has got to go... It is unAfrican and very stupid!!! Talk about Fraud on another level.

Most of these naija babes who bleach or use strong toning creams are usually ignorant of the fact that they are removing the natural skin flora responsible for that strong sex pheromones that attracts guys to them expecially when you wake up on the same bed with a lady, there is this natural body smell that is so sexually appealling but unfortunately, the toning or bleaching cream usually gets rid of the beautiful natural body fragrance and they start to smell like a factory rubber.

Openbusiness:
Lol, true. But Nigeria get fine girls too, even more than Ghana sef but unfortunately, they have a bleaching obsession. If they don't bleach, they will tone. Only very few retain their natural skin. Many of them are into bleaching, and if they are not outrightly bleaching, they use all kinds of toning soaps, creams and lotions, some even use tablets to show you how bad it is. Today they are dark, tomorrow, brown, next tomorrow fair, later almost albino . Many of them, if you know them personally or see their pictures when young, compared to the way they are now, they have changed through bleaching / toning. Some guys do it too, and it's really shocking. If not for my personal ethics, I will have delved into the cosmetics business. Check out those beauty stores selling toning and bleaching products, they are selling fast like hot akara, smiling to the bank, the way our women rush bleaching and toning products, you will be amazed, it's almost the same way they rush wigs and attachment hairs. Many of our women are mostly not proud of being black or dark. They are not happy with their natural dark or brown color. They see it as a disadvantage or ugliness. They think anything fair = beautiful. I don't know where they picked up that lie from, and sadly it has become a norm culture in society, and some parents are not even helping and will encourage their children to be toning / bleaching, or see them doing it and don't stop it. Nawa. I wish they could see the beauty in their natural skins. Your dark or brown skin is beautiful just the way it is, no need for toning or bleaching, just be fresh.

I agree THAT naija ladies are indeed amazingly beautiful outwardly expecialy with their heterogenous kind of beaauty.

However, most of these Ghana ladies have this characteristic small waist with nice curves where it matters and their simplicity is amazing.and most of them are usually content with whatever you give them.

And less i forget abeg Openbusiness try to paragraph your lengthy post next time for ease of reading.Thnks for your input.

Openbusiness:
As in ehnn, very fine girl, natural chocolate. That's one good thing about Ghanaians, they don't have this bleaching or toning culture that is very common among Nigerian girls. Many Ghanaian girls retain their original dark colors and are proud of it. They love being black.

I may get one beautiful young Ghanaian lady as concubine. Their ladies dey set die.

NobleAngell:
But does it mean they are really an item? Isn't he married?

And what stops him even if he is already married?

Dem dey forbid extra wife or concubine?

OSUWAKEABAM:
what is wrong if he decides to watch? nothing wrong. what is wrong is that Kogi State is made up of people like him, people who patronize Big Brother Nigeria. Kogi state is a is a big brother state.

The only part I ever watched in the show was the last eviction show and I did because I had nothing meaningful to do at that moment and also out of curiosity for the lekan noise even when I'm grossly opposed to the show.

Ugaboy:
Some of this politicians did have nothing before they got to where there are.

So celebrating an ICON of same nature...who is just grace from grass is a testimony and a review of how they all started

The man should enjoy himself, no be say u old mean say make u no support the youth

Bello is not old. He is in his mid 40s just just Ooni of IFE.

These guys are still very young cos 40s s the new 30s.