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pocohantas:
No sane mature human would be happy when an EX talks about their sex life to the current. None at all!

Stop typing nonsense on NL.

When they tell ladies to maintain proper sexual decorum they fire back and very quick to put themselves on the same level with a guy saying decency is vital for men too but when it comes to exposure such as this they get offended....what if a lady write same about a guy, I guess it will end in praises so why the foolish comparison of a man and woman sexual decency?


I am not defending the foolish guy but this is a pointer to the fact that sexual decency is very sacrosanct for ladies.

Efejustoocute:
Just have sense.. I hope that's not too much to ask

Is this an outward feature?

Petyprincess:
So because i didn't choose a broke,short and ugly guy means i have to get enlightened?
You choose curvy girl with big ass did i tell you to get enlightened?thats your choice and i have no to right to get mad so why you think i need to get enlightened for having my preference?

Gbam! The heart wants what it wants... Everyone to his or her choice.

The only painful twist is that when a man sees his choice, HE GOES FOR HER, but when a lady sees her choice, in 9 out of 10cases, SHE HOPES HE COMES FOR HER.

Indeed I feel for many ladies who are not bold to show their desire for the man they like cos laslas they must pick from the available ones who come to them no matter how undesirable they may be.

Sometimes I wonder if day will turn to night if a lady walks up to a guy to show her desire for him... And dem go dey claim equal right and feminism upandan... Shioor!

Sixfeetbelle:
I love them tall and dark, not too muscular and not too lanky.



Sweet lord!

@Sweet lord

Omokomo, you are doing well.

XXXXTENTACION:
Will you ever be happy in heaven knowing fully well that your peers and loved ones are burning in hell

Their memory will be wiped out from your mind and you will only remember the ones you see in heaven.

Strange but true.

Vyzz:
Damn lips... U gotta have them lips...


Curves

Back and front and eyes


Then that Melanie

You love dark skin girls! Cool.

longetivity:
Nice nipples and juicy pussy

These are not outward. Olodo

This thread was created to accentuate the fact that everybody is good looking in different ways and no matter how insecure you feel about your outward appearance, it will shock you to know that you have a unique feature someone out there is looking for in a mate...you may think you are not pretty enough but there is a guy out there who is not interested in your face but will do anything to have you for your curves, a guy may think he is too short but there is a lady out there who cares less about your height but just love your body frame...

Amazingly, each one of us has that unique deal maker outwardly visible feature that attracts us to the opposite sex. The strange twist is that it is different for everyone and whilst some may sound normal, some may sound so out of place but that is the mystery of attraction.

For me I don't care about the face, skin color, or height of a lady... just have nice curves and molds in the right places and that is more than enough for me... So ladies and guys let us know that unique feature(s) that attracts you to the opposite sex no matter how odd it may sound.

Over to you all.

lefulefu:
to me any lady that is well endowed at the back is beautiful .just have a normal face with a round behind and u are my queen

Thank you o.

I don't know how some guys define outward beauty sef.

Wettin be fine girl for your face fit no reach average for another man face.

rawpadgin:
Okay, was having a drink with a friend of mine last night & he told me he no longer find his fiancée attractive. They got engaged a year ago & the babe is already pregnant for him. He is however still planning to wife her because the girl is a wife material & he will grow further financially with her by his side but believes he might be cheating on her after marriage.

According to him, the said girl has done a lot for him mostly during the pandemic period but believes he shouldn't be getting married to a girl simply because she has assisted him on many occasions. All my effort to convince him that the feelings will come after marriage proved abortive.

I'm sorry to say this.

This post lacks substance...full of stupidity and grave foolishness.

*Spits on thread and walks out*

doggedfighter:
please can you tell me where you got them in great quantity as at then and if I can still get them now? You can also tell me other places I can get them .

please help a sister.

FROM Benin Repulblic.

doggedfighter:
Toks2008, please do you still have access to snails? kindly reply.

No sorry.

donstan18:
Stop tarnishing other people's image because you disgraced yourself in the house.

We didn't see Nengi, Tricky and Ozor showering together, we only saw you fvckin live on National Tv with praise.

A married woman at that.

Spit!

As in.. I tire

Nothing wey Musa no go hear for this life...

Make i carry my Pen and paper add this one.

1.Entaglement
2.Situationship
3. Agrressive cuddling

Saintmary:
I wasn't talking about libido, Mr.
I can't start explaining stuff here when we are not on sexuality section.
You are matured naw

Sis. There are sexually timid ladies so your assertion does not hold for all women, some ladies don't like sexing under stress regardless of the serotonin they get after sex.

Saintmary:
That's old time mentality.
Update and upgrade Mr.
A woman whose love for you is untainted by resentment over your insensitivity will always be ready anytime.

Its like you think every lady has high libido.

Cheers.

Saintmary:
Ehn, bros, no even near that side.
One or two orgasms after a productive day's work is bae to women o.
Do you even talk to married women?
The problem is sex without orgasm!

Not when she is too tired. I know what im implying.

Mcslize:
I have warned guys to stay away from slay queens when planning to settle down. Any girl that is fond of clubbing and slaying on Instagram posting pictures up and down is a slay queen.

Any lady that always look for attention and validation on Facebook by posting pictures for likes on Facebook is a slay queen. Girls that seek attentions on social media platforms are slay queens.

Any guy who is wise should watch out for such girls and stay away from such type of girls when planning to settle down.

Slay queens are the worst set of girls to take as wives.

I agree with you.

lefulefu:
if we change our marriage laws to oyibo own ladies for naija will also act like d oyibo ladies.instead of just marrying the old man and remaining with him na just marry am for a short time den get pickin then sue for divorce .like u divorce six men u will be getting child support from six men and maybe money will be coming from the baby daddy section as well.unfortunately nigeria"s marriage laws are quite different from the marriage laws in the west.but again the laws about marriage in the west makes a man who is irresponsible to be responsible by force .Imagine a baby daddy that refuses to send money to his kids the courts will force him to send money and if he refuses he gets thrown into jail.

Very true.

Bikochi:
This is the example of a SIMP- ready to end his career because of a woman. Spits!

Lesson to guys that feel money will make a woman loyal. Biggest lie!

Sad thing is when they divorce, the Lady will still take a huge sum of his money as divorce settlement. We need better laws for guys !


Lastly, someone should please slap sense into the guy, let him play good football for us. UEFA isn't something to toss aside just like that.

Money can make naija babe loyal.

This one nah fact.

lefulefu:
money can never make a woman loyal
if u like have zillion dollars..
if she wants to cheat she will cheat
Just divorce her and marry another slayqueen or just have a sidechic
good thing u have proof she commited adultry
at least with that proof in court u wont pay dat much in divorce settlements

Anyone who thinks money can make a lady faithful never date Oyinbo woman.

It is in naija that ladies marry money but not the same in foreign lands.

placeofallure:
Reversal of roles, this is also possible if the man is comfortable with it.

Life is so twisted.

Some marriages are so destined to be this way and no matter what the man does, he just meets a brick wall and the wife just keeps progressing.

Life is deep.

ImaIma1:
I can really relate.

The mindset here doesn't reflect the real world. It's mostly teenagers and young guys who make those ignorant comments

Very True. 80% of nairalanders are tenagers.

ImaIma1:
Wow!! I thought it was the men that want their wives to do this liposuction and boob jobs.

Well I guess some men don't know what they want. Today they want a traditional wife with natural beauty; one that uses ori or adiagbon as cream. Tomorrow, they cheat on her with a sophisticated lady with false lashes and big wigs.

Everyone should just try to be real with themselves

Ladies and this cheating talks. Cheating has nothing to do with what a man wants so get that clear lady.

How many men will ask their wives to do Ass job? maybe few will want boobs firming job and that will be after childbearing.

Kokaine:
imagine. There will be peace. I won't opress them. I will help them rise to any level they possibly can. We will all be happy at last. Watin I wan come use my wife certificate do if na problem e go bring me. I am not equal to a woman whether she likes it or not. Just as a lion is not equal to a lioness. I have beards, muscles and penis. Why should I be equal? My responsibility is to protect and care for them while defending the territories. If I wanted an equal wife, then I will be looking for a rich soldier girl of my age mate, but because I want someone I can feel easy with, I prefer to get the one who God has placed me above so I can care for her. Let all these gender equal girls go and find and marry their own men of their mates. But no! They want a tall guy, richer, stronger, older but equal to them

Personally, i don't find most of these modern educated ladies attractive and that is because of the too much sophistication they put in their lives, the way they dress, the artificial impossible hair they do and their oversabi attitude and i always joke that when a lady speaks too much grammer and she does not see anyone to speak to, nah her husband head go suffer am ''don't be silly, you are pissing me off, do you know you are harassing me right now, your stupidity is epic...'' and so on but a lady wey no too go school go humble(not all though)

Then come to the beauty of these so-called uneducated ladies, they hardly use crazy creams,make ups thereby keeping their skin so naturally and their pheromones intact, they hardly care about liposuction, Ass job,boobs job and so on...honestly sophistication has become the bane of these socalled modern ladies with only few of them still good to be with. As far as i am concerned, men don't get attracted to grammer or wigs but a man is aroused by natural beauty which many sophisticated ladies have traded away.

dasparrow:
Now I am convinced that there are many illiterates on this site who don't read before posting their comments.

The article clearly stated that there are CCTV cameras that showed Emmanuel Adeniji entering into the woman's room constantly. Secondly, Ireland is not like that backward morally depraved nation called Nigeria where you have no DNA testing to solve rape crimes. The idiot Adeniji left his semen on the woman so police investigators took his DNA and it was a match on what was found on the rape victim.

Listen carefully to what I am about to say. I sincerely hope that you people fix Nigeria for your own good because with all the crime Nigerian-bred men commit abroad which includes but is not limited to online scamming, drug trafficking and selling, raping women and children, etc, a time is going to come when no country will be willing to grant you people visa.

There was a big scandal some few years back involving Nigerian men who were employed to teach at the University in the foreign country I reside in which is outside the African Continent if I may add.

These Nigerian men who are married by the way began asking female students for sex in exchange for grades. These Nigerian men thought that they are in Nigeria where anything goes and where they can get away with all their depraved atrocities.

However, they were gravely mistaken. The students provided evidence beyond unreasonable doubt of what these Nigerian men who are supposed to be teaching them were doing. It was all over the news and was a big scandal. That University as well as others in the country I reside in will never consider a Nigerian man for a teaching position ever again be it at an elementary school, High School or College/University.

This is what I suspect is the reason why the only jobs I see most Nigerian men do in the country I reside in is taxi driver and being "Pastor" to Nigerian churches. They can't get teaching jobs, they can't get office jobs. Yet I know of Nigerian women here in the country I reside in who were born and raised in Nigeria but they hold government and private sector jobs and jobs in the healthcare sector.

Each time I visit the travel section of Nairaland, I see threads upon threads of Nigerian men looking to 'japa.' However, I am hear to tell you that in this age of technology and the internet, news spreads fast. The world is taking note of all the atrocities Nigerian-bred men are committing both at home and abroad and citizens of other countries are taking note.

Nigerians have a rape culture. Your men rape women and children and make excuses for rape. No sane country wants foreigners with high rape tendencies migrating to their countries. America and Saudi Arabia has already barred Nigerians from either migrating or coming to their countries. Expect more nations to follow suit even if you intend coming on a student visa.

Most Nigerians are trouble everywhere they go hence even on the African Continent, Nigerians are not really liked. All these countries cannot be wrong about you. Check yourselves!! I blatantly refuse to mingle with Nigerians here were I live. I avoid Nigerians like the plague and rightfully so. Most of you are morally depraved and I mean that with all honesty.

I understand you but you write as though there are no Nigerian men making great impact all over the world.

Record still shows that whites commit more crimes than blacks regardless of the decent.

Abeg calm down biko.

Kokaine:
its almost as if I shouldn't marry a graduate. Let me marry a drop out and have peace of mind with this gender equality thing.

LOL! True though, many graduate ladies too like to dey prove levels.


But drop outs or even a total illiterate wey no go school will practically worship you... At least in most cases.

zynzyn:
So, are there not many single mothers that are cooks and nannies and house keepers and errand deliverers??

Once you have kids, you will play these roles if you want to be a responsible parent! The presence of a husband is not necessary!

Having kids is A CHOICE for both genders!!

At least she won't have the man on her to do list and that alone is a big burden off her neck.

You have no idea how sex drains ladies after a hectic day...

WILLuKPquiet:
You dey mind am. Na such men go mumu pass when they get married. Forming women advocate upandan.
If a man doesnt take care of his family they call them deadbeat dad. But when a woman refuses to do her duty what do you call that?

Must I go out to make money and still come back home to end up in the kitchen.

Is anything wrong in helping ones wife with house chores?
No!
But is it right for house chores to be shared between a man and his wive as if its his duty?

No!

Every good husband knows it is good to help his wife out sometimes if truly he loves her, but it must be known also that it is not the duty of man to do house chores.

it is not compulsory.

WILLuKPquiet

Fourwinds:
the summary of what you wrote is simply help your wife in house chores... That is not a problem for me...

LOL! Good to know.

placeofallure:
The arrangement is fair enough if:

1. I won't have to lift a finger and earn any income for the family, and I will have enough to spend to meet all of my "reasonable" needs. Then,
2. If he will go out there and work his ass out to earn every penny that we will need to live in comfort.

But No! Nigerian men, you want slaves in the house who run double shifts. Domestic duties and Breadwinning duties. I've seen on many threads here how guys bash ladies who don't work and depend on men. You can't have your cake and eat it, it's either we're your house slaves and you're the sole breadwinners or we both win bread and slave it out. The truth is always bitter.

Or the lady becomes the breadwinner whilst the guy takes care of the homefront

hashtagged:
If it was common it would be known, nothing stays hidden, that means it rarely happens

You have no idea.