₦airaland Forum

Viking007:
How sure are you that there's a "paradise" somewhere?

Auntytityy:
They are wasting their time

Ladycewhy:
In your words "men are naturally polygamous". Noted

Ladycewhy:
That marriage would have been null and void in the eyes of the law. Las las na im second wife and kids go suffer am if e die.

Ladycewhy:
And look how that turned out . Did the wedding still hold?

Ladycewhy:
Why not divorce first? Some men can so so foolish.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

Burstscam:
that's the problem. From the moment she started wooing me, the attraction vanished with the speed of light.
I have another experience. This one was my sexmate (I actually define my relationship with everyone and make it clear). After sometimes she started talking about feelings and how, although she understands my stand in the relationship, she wants more. From there onward, I started losing interest in her. Right now she doesn't even cross my mind anymore.

Meanwhile I'm fighting tooth and nail to have a girl that doesn't even give a fvck about my existence. Too bad!

Burstscam:
If you asked this question few years a go, I would have said yes. I used to brag that any woman that will have the courage to woo me will become my wife. But my experience two years ago changed everything.

During NYSC, I met this lovely girl and we became friends. Along the line, she was so much into me that she started wooing me. I felt very sorry for her. First, her innocence was out of this world; I saw pure love in her eyes, but accepting her proposal would only amount to me using her to satisfy my sexual urge and then move on. I didn't feel the same way she felt towards me.

My initial plan when I met her was to get her closer and bed her, but seeing the purity of her heart, I wouldn't forgive myself if I ever used her. So I took out time to explain to her that we would be better off as just friends. It was very difficult. I won't lie, at times I made out with her, but I exercised great constraints...

Till date she still tells me that she misses me

friezerna:
Please help!! how do I genuinely give my life to Christ. I know the truth.
please help me

Ehiscotch:
Still finding it very hard to understand how she defied her father's stance. All these sensationalism no dey help anybody.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnn this Endsars campaign has recieved a wide coverage because it is a campaign to save innocent lives...


Nna mehnnnnn Endsars now because sars have left criminals and are now brutalising innocent citizens.



Nna mehnnnnnn *in other news* Do you know that women are powerful? ONE WOMAN CAN SERVE 100 MEN WITH 1 POT OF SOUP AND 2 MEATS

rhynoemmie:
they don't answer this kind of questions... somebody is heading for the wall with full speed and the guy in question is not ready to settle, hence, the thread.

if you know, you know

IntersexSherry:
I wish he was a good person. Am a good person and i know the consequences of being evil and that's why i always avoid evil and people who do evil because i know they don't know what they are doing.. Can't waste my time with such people. I warned him many times to stop.

jagaban002:
And some people will still vote this Tinubu as president ,
We are the one doing ourself in this contry

pocohantas:
A nagging woman is most times a woman who is talking and not being listened to. How do you tell a man something today, he claims he will change and the next day he is doing same thing? Talk one and they’ll slam you the nag charge. Forgetting their tactical gaslighting. Women should learn to talk less. Let’s all be silent, we can all be silent.

CosmicPhoenix:

op,unless you are not in a relationship,it's impossible to avoid the nagging of a woman,women and nagging is like dogs and barking.

karnap:
what of the girl?

Innobee99:
But this babe suppose still dey secondary school na

maak400:
What about when a guy gives his fiancée money occasionally to support her. What’s your opinion on that?

bjsany4luv:
This post made my day and it was exactly my experience...but i refuse to fall for the trap called satisfy your babe, at least not until marriage.

Impressing a woman financially, without a quality or proper assessment of that woman is a shortcut to loosing one's sanity...Men wise up.

Maven..

UyaiIncomparabl:
The topic is self-explainatory I assume.

I will be clocking 35 years old next month, on the 21st, so time isn't on my side any longer. I'm so tired as to the threats friends and my parents have been dishing out to me recently. I really think I need to settle down. I'm a very fair skinned beautiful young woman, age is just but a number, you should know that. I'm petite and a bit bulky at my bossom region, not so bulky though (smirks). I'm highly intelligent and in dire need of someone who's highly intelligent than I am. I'm very Sapiosexual.

For starters, I'd appreciate if you're dark skinned, but if you're a little on the light side, I might consider you but I'll appreciate better that you will not be as light skinned as I am. You must be very rich, please. If your parents are also rich, then that's an added advantage to your CV. You mustn't be ugly. You must be very neat. No short men please. 6ft and above, but not too tall either.

Ages 31-37. You must be based in Canada or the USA, having a citizenship of either countries is a very sacrosanct advantage. You know how Nigeria is these days. I'm tired of the stress it gives me, I really don't like stress. I'm too soft.

I admire charismatic men, so if you think you fit my profile, do not hesitate to hit me up.

I repeat, only if you fit my profile. I don't want kids sending me mails. I'll be irate if this happens, and hell usually let loose when I'm very irate.

Nairalanders, I'm tensed please. Make this easy for me, and you too of course. Let's be positive.

Amuocha, I believe you can call on your master to take this to the front page, thanks.

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Blackmiserable:
Strong wine. I respect your opinion honestly.

But why do you think nature has domesticated women? Just some heads up, by nature I could also mean God.

Now, why do you think women have, in a sense, being domesticated? They are not as strong and resilient as men. I mean, the chore of providing basic necessities from antiquity had to do with strength, agility, and swiftness?

Imagine a world of women. Not a single man. Not one. Do you think they'd be better off technologically, scientifically, and even material-wise? Hell no. But why or put differently, why would they be worse off?

Now, look at it from a biological pov. Let me chip in for a moment about how reproductive anatomy favours men. Back in time and even now, the average woman is worried about quite a number of things that has to do with biology.

If you know the number of women who have stayed back at home because of painful periods, heavy period, irregular period, or even period leaks, you would be shocked.

This kills productivity for no fault of theirs.

I am not in anyway encouraging laziness but God who created women from men has made it such that most women would have to depend on a man for basic necessities. Seems like one of the curses though. It is not sexist but the truth.

nerd004:
Please if you are in a serious relationship with a lady who is not working but currently learning a trade,,,,is it proper for her man to assist her monthly,hope this won't breed her into entitlement mentality...

please help a brother with mature & sensible advice

nnemekaemmanuel:
God Bless You for Creating this Thread Sir.