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awelekiti:
Would our ladies stop dating g-guys? The manner in which they die like fowls these days calls for worry. Last year September, I saw a pretty girl drop from a black Toyota prado suv early in the morning on my way to work and the suv zoomed. All of a sudden, I noticed the lady started acting funny. She started by removing her shoes and throwing it away. Followed by her Jean trouser and her blouse. She then removed her bra, revealing her huge tits and people in traffic shouted haaaaa. Suddenly , she removed her panties and started sweeping the roadside with a stick she picked up from the ground. It was like a movie that morning. Ladies please, take it easy ok. Not all that litters is gold

Are you sure?

MhizzAJ:
There is no need
What is the function of pant? A piece of material worn around the waist to inconvenience someone??

You will need it at that time of the month.

lalasticlala i leave this to you.

At first i thought it was a frenzy that is unfounded but day by day we read of how men were nabbed with different pants for ritual purposes.

It is therefore very sacrosanct for ladies to guard against this barbaric practice.In my opinion i believe these 5 measures will go a long way to guard their pants.

1.Ladies should stop wearing pants to visit their men.

2.If you are in that time of the month don't visit any man.

3.Reduce the number of your pants to the number you can remember and if you must dispose any please Burn them.

4.If you wash your pant, monitor it keenly or use drier if you have one to make it dry fast and buy pants with fast dry fabrics.

5.Do a due diligence daily on your pants by counting them every night. If you find any missing and can't find it just look for anointing oil and anoint your .... while you make BACK TO SENDER prayer with one day dry fasting.

6.Don't trust anyone with your pants..even your female friends.

7.This is not endemic to Nigeria alone so ladies should guard their pants regardless of the country you reside.

8.Make sure you know the root source of your man's income and avoid dating fraudulent men.


Please add yours to help our ladies against these mad predators.

Barbieperry:
nice actually

Thanks

I don't get it...was he the same guy who talked about his mum's death as a result of the rape allegation?

Wawu! Which one come be suicide.

Barbieperry:
Tyler Perry brother

Everyone says I look like him especially in these pics..

Lalasticlala I guess you should meticulously go through this and beam it for the world to see.

The Devil has destroyed and still destroying many marriages today cos of the lies many women believe today.

I'm not promoting polygamy but someone must drum out the truth to the world.

goldman777:
My only question here is that how do you legalize a concubine for Christ sakes

You only legalize an illegality.

The act of a man having concubines was never at anytime seen as an illegal act.

No where in the bible that outrightly condemns it but pastors don't preach it because they don't want to lose their female members.

MissJoy29:
@Op, if I get you right, your idea of a LEGITIMATE CONCUBINE(which is btw, an oxymoron) is a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc wife to a married man, correct?

Do you know the meaning of oxymoron?

There is no figure of speech or any contradictory case here.

A wife and a legit concubine are both married to the man legitimately but the second,third...women do not have the same right as the wife.

lefulefu:
thanks my GEE
take am

Lefu so today is your born day. Happy born day bro.

nikkypearl:
Hmm

Wow! See black beauty with that feature I love so much.

If he likes let him travel all over the world...Atiku is hopelessly corrupt and not an option...

 “a leopard never changes its spots”

If he likes let him travel all over the world...Atiku is hopelessly corrupt and not an option...

 “a leopard never changes its spots”

Greenvaiper:
I

I hope Toks2008/ toks2008, Nairaland's oldest bachelor is reading this. ....

Who told you I'm still single?

thornapple:
Cc: lefulefu, pointless

Might eventually take it down specially if anyone laughs.

Lefulefu come and see freshness.

thornapple:
Have tried finding one but failed. All I could lay my hands on was a very bad one. Looked so awful with my trimed hair and all that thoughts of uploading it alone was nightmarish.

No shame..the past does not matter,it is how you look now tat is important.

WORDWORLD:
Na true you are not addressing your post to saffi toks baba # bolded nko?! Na to Sunita u dey address am too ni

All of you are trouble makers..

[quote author=goldman777 post=74857930][/quote]Yes.

truthsayer009:
Well, I do not know about keeping Mistresses. The 10 commandment Rule of fornication clearly goes against that. So I rather just stick to one Woman and never keep concubines since the Law of God doesn't support according to evidence. Sleeping with a Woman who is not your Wife is a Sin according to the commandments.

What I am worried about is how Solomon kept concubines without honouring those rules. Or did God just waive it for him unto say na him be King?

You keep getting it twisted. A concubine you marry becomes a legit one so to speak becomes your wife even if she won't have the same status as your principal wife.

Also understand the fact that I'm not encouraging or discouraging any man as regards monogamy or polygamy but I'm just keeping it real. Even if you want to stay unmarried it is allowed.

Lastly, I'm not addressing my post to saffi or anyone neither do we fit in anyway...i am a sapiosexual and she does not strike me like an intelligent lady cos of her choice of words. I'm only attracted to intelligent ladies.

SEONaijaExpert:
The money in agberorism can influence anyone to pick application form.

The qualification is just a deep voice and some bragging.

And having lots of charms.

truthsayer009:
I am a Bible believing holy ghost filled heaven bound believer in Christ --- Errrr not quite sure sir, we cannot trust you on this

Anyway on a more serious note, everything you said is True & Women usually see a post like this as trying to attack their Gender instead of calling a spade what it is. Women usually see a third party coming to take their place hence Polygamy is a problem for Women, not really Men.

The Bible never really condemned polygamy outrightly, I don't know what motives were taking into consideration that made most Men in the Old Testament marry a lot of Women, but your explanations are not far from the truth. Christianity was brought in by the missionaries in 18th century & was only established in 1842 in Badagry by Henry Townsend. So we just accepted everything they told us, even though the Bible did not specifically say those things. Usually when a Preachers talk about married couples, they quote Adam & Eve, as Eve was created from Adams Ribs to be his helper, So a Man should/must marry one Wife but they now leave the rest of the old testaments which sounds funny to me. A lot of assumptions here & there about what God said & did.

I always try to ignore saying this in public, not to get attacked by people or perhaps Female folks as I always try not to offend anyone. Men are polygamous by nature, that is why a Man needs a lot of discipline NOT to actually cheat on his Spouse because the Natural mind wants to cheat at all cost & a lot of Women become very furious when you make statements like this. Cheating doesn't Mean the Woman is doing something wrong, Men want to Cheat because they always feel like it. Period.

However polygamy might be a way out, but history has proven that Polygamous homes usually crumble & Wives / Children fight themselves.

I rather have a peaceful home with one Wife than the luxury of many wives without peace & long life, so in the end. I stick to Monogamy.

Nice submittion.

Well it is not about what I hate or like but it is about speaking the truth against all odds not minding been the most hated by immature ladies on nairaland.

Many men prefer monogamous marriage but will gladly keep mistresses.

Nevertheless you can also have ONE WIFE and concubine/s cos a concubine does not take the place of a wife,they are not same status but are both married to the man legitimately.

Ladies who threaten brimstone over their hubby's decision to have a concubine usually end up as another man's concubine after they leave their marriage so it's high time somebody preached the truth and I'm willing to do that.

The most annoying hypocritical twist is that many ladies who will wail on this thread are either dating a married man right now or has at a time done so..

goldman777:
My only question here is that how do you legalize a concubine for Christ sakes

By having a legit marriage..Simple..rather than have mistresses upandan that is not only sinful but very unhealthy,money gulping and totally irresponsible.

baliyubla:
Shame catch me for Nigerians when heard the Lifeless say it. No wonder Trump never wanna meet that Lifeless thing again.

Was in Lokoja and forgot to talk about Ajaokuta, GYB even had to tap the dullard to remind him in his usual 2 minutes statement.

S he is no longer Jubril from Sudan.

Bunch of confused people.

Saffi:
So I mean, what exactly is the point of this stupid thread? What is the moral of the story? Because my brain can’t decipher the bullshit you wrote.

I will ignore those pepper seller terms you used and just hope you grow up mentally but let me just reiterate once more.

I am a Bible believing holy ghost filled heaven bound believer in Christ.

At my age i have seen many things and have gathered enough experience to write on this topic. The Devil has succeeded in deceiving the world by twisting the issue of monogamy and polygamy.

I have seen many pastors fall and great ministries destroyed because of sexual sins,In the west i have experienced first hand situations where women are so depressed and virtually begging men to be with them and these are women who once were married but left their husbands BECAUSE OF ANOTHER WOMAN.

I dont know your age but at the same time age and maturity sometimes can be independent yet the more you grow in age the more you understand some deep things about romance.

Polygamy is not for everyone and monogamy is a choice and not a status quo that MUST be followed by any man. My aim is to discourage men from sexual sins by sleeping around indiscriminately rather they should simply get a legitimate concubine.

Most ladies only wail and cry but they have no viable argument against polygamy and only a foolish woman will leave her husband because of another woman cos such woman will most likely end up as a concubine whilst the concubine she leaves her marriage for will become the wife.

In the west,men readily divorce their wives to be with a new lady and i wonder why this must be so..

I am only trying hard to make you reason but you can believe what you want but trust me,there are million of women out there today on the mountain praying and fasting to see a single man to marry them..even the ones in their late 30s/40s and whilst the answer to their prayer can be met by married men,they kept wasting away looking for a man that will become a widower or divorce his wife to marry them..''Apparently most guys in their late 30s and 40s are married.

I will stop here and hope you see reason in this but pray you dont find your self in a situation where you will remember this thread and as i wrote before,never say it can never happen to you cos life has a way of proving us wrong.

hotspec:
he nearly fell . very symbolic. Anything to retire him back to Daura is highly welcome

So it's now Buhari and no more Jubril.

lefulefu:
chai!
nna men
seee fweshness
cc luminouz,dumininu01,Toks2008

In Lasisi Elenu's voice...''I am angry right now,why do ladies just want to make a Godly man commit the sin of fornication and me that i like b..bs''

captainking:
Thanks a lot bro...

You are most welcome...

Oya romancelanders... keep it coming..its not about show off but it's about celebrating life. Many are gone.

lefulefu:
i manage to get my 2008 pix but d quality no too clear sha
upper pix is me in 2008
lower pix is me now
cc thornapple,Toks2008,MariaLavina ,twoclans,oyindidi
dont laugh on my 2008 pix oo

Cute man.

skywalker240:
Toks baba, i can see what you trying to pass, most ladies are just pure victims of cercumstance (this applies to both the 19 and the 40 something years old). a part of me agree.

but my question here is,

dont you think the wife, concubine, adultery thingny blending together (you qouted them from the scriptures) is sort of Hypocritical?

I will say it is purely non hypocritical but the plain undiluted truth. Except im proved wrong.

tayo60:
Op, you don old o. I no no say you be old man like this, even in your ten years before, you look as if you don born pikin finish. With all what you dey post at times, I think sey na small boy u be o. U look cute in ur ten years after! Twale baba!

im so amazed too that my throwback pics looks older than my recent pics lol!

captainking:
2008 as a final year student and November 2018 as a finance specialist.. God has been so Good..

So cute.. im straight though..