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WORDWORLD:
She can't answer it without showing how she has been running in circles all over your thread.

Bro this is my biggest problem with some nairalanders..no one knows it all and i will believe i am a woman and not a man if you can prove to me.

I dont understand why many people will come to a thread and start masturb*ting all over it. They will start asking me foolish questions without discussing the subject matter.

Henceforth i will start ignoring any lame comment.

ImaIma1:
You seem to be the one fussing?

Aunty please dont pass go anywhere..answer wordworld question. no one is attacking anyone,we are all here to learn.

ImaIma1:
Adultery in the Bible and universally is when a married person has sex with someone that is not their spouse. Except you are mixing up the Qur'an with the Bible. Get it right.

Wait o wht is the basis for your argument if i may ask? did you read the write up at all? when i wrote legitimate concubine im talking about a lady a man marries legitimately which makes her his spouse so what is the fuss about?

truthsayer009:
I have their wedding pics on my WhatsApp, should I share it with you?

Then this thread is not a true representation of their present status.. should read husband not lover...My opinion though.

dainformant:
A young lady has got herself and her man trending online and here's why. Exactly a year ago, the lady took a big step of faith by sending a private message to a guy she came across online and it worked out well for her. 

The lady reached out to her crush and complimented him on his cuteness as she gave him the 'green light. . 

The young man responded to the message and gave his number to the lady. The rest is now history.

The lady shared pictures of herself and her lover on Twitter and wrote; A year ago today I shot my shot, and it worked out pretty well if I do say so myself .

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/01/lady-sends-dm-to-a-cute-guy-she-met-online-now-dating-him-1-year-after.html

See mumu girl. I actually came to see their wedding pics.

lefulefu:
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lol! Lefu stop that..so that many can post theirs biko...

lefulefu:
there is one pix wey i snap in 2008 wen if u see am laugh go kee u .i come wear one oversize jeans den tuck in my polo shirt inside d jeans.pain me i no fit see d soft copy again.this is d best i can do sha. first pix is me in 2015 and second pix is me now

Wow! So cute...

They show off vanities but they wont come out to help their fellow celebrity in dare need. Rubbish show off.

ImaIma1:
If you want to be polygamous and adulterous or to have a"legal concubine" due to lack of self control or extreme love for pleasure, don't try to drag everyone along by enforcing your own version of "truth". Don't try to get validation. Believe in your truth and live with it.

LOL! you are getting emotional. There is nothing like my version of truth. Amazingly you have not argued your point with facts but you are only being emotional.

Adulery by biblical definition is when a man has illicit intercourse with a married or a betrothed woman.or visavis. So there is nothing like my definition.

As long as a man marries a lady there is nothing like adultery even if he marries a million women and no mater how emotional any lady gets,it wont change the truth that having legitimate concubines is very scriptural and very PERMISSIBLE by GOD.

The hypocrisy in the world today is so crazy that though the world is quick to bark at anyone like me who writes the truth but will prefer to practice the same act in secret.

Akposb:
One of the biggest crap I have read of recent.
You twisted the scripture just to prove a silly point. The Bible is explicitly clear on a man and a wife from the beginning especially from the creation of Adam and Eve and then Abraham and Sarah until he deviated.
Christ was of the opinion that man should marry only one wife while some may not marry at all.
I understand that there may be some ambiguity in the Bible especially to those who can't discern its spiritual meaning but passing off some weird opinion as wise sounds like blasphemy.

Yes it sounds like blasphemy because we want to believe what we want to.

The interesting twist is that people prefer to use man's ideology to explain the bible.

It was clear that GOD permitted polygamy to the extent that he even gave laws to avoid issues in a polygamous settings and I quote...
Exodus 21:10
"If he takes another wife, he must not reduce the food, clothing, or marital rights of his first wife"

Regardless of this verse referring to a slave being given away as a wife,it does not remove the fact that it was permitted in the days of old and great men of GOD had concubines..infact the wisest and richest man to ever live had 700wives and 300 concubines.

Bro I'm not interested in feeding the world with heresy...i. a holy ghost filled heaven bound believer in christ....i believe strongly that GOD permitted polygamy for a reason and I explained that in my write up.

Having legitimate concubines is safer than having mistresses or commuting sexual sins of indiscriminate sex.

The most astonishing twist is that today many ladies who will condemn tbis write up are having illicit affair with married men so why the hypocrisy?

ImaIma1:
Having a concubine whether legal or illegal is adultery still... from whichever side it is viewed from

This legal concubine idea is flawed because most men that cannot stick to one wife will not stick to one concubine. If they can have one, why not two or three? So they end up having 5 "legal" concubines.

I think the days are already here where people develop their own truth based on what appeals to them and how they choose to view life. However I don't think impressionable and susceptible minds should be exposed to such unvalidated ideas

This is an insightful contribution.

Now we need to draw a line between marrying more wives and the act of adultery.

Polygamy and adultery are very parallel. Adultery is when a single person sleeps with a married person, when a married person sleeps with another person's spouse. If a married man decides to marry a single lady it is not adultery and we need not go into whether or not the man sleeps with her before marrying her.

Now a man may decide to marry 2,5,10 concubine...its his choice.

Monogamy and polygamy is a choice and everyman to his choice.

So as you wrote, the truth is relative to different people...and we must accept what everyone feels but this does not overshadow the universal truth.

Kobicove:
We need to face reality...there is an urgent need to legalize polygamy so that the multitude of single ladies around will be able to find husband's!

Bro monogamy is a western psychology that has no foundation either from the bible or even in Islam.

The Devil has destroyed many marriages because of the twisted mindset of our women.

The worst part is that these western countries suffer the hit the most...

Walk on the streets of England and America and randomly pick 10 women with kids and you can be sure that at least 6 out of every 10 is either divorced, or never married single mum's.

Ask them why they broke up with their ex and you are almost certain to hear same reason..."HE CHEATED ON ME"

Have you ever come across any story in the bible where a lady leaves her husband cos he got another concubine? In fact it was these wives that were encouraging their husbands to take concubines.

I pity this generation of ladies who have already destroyed their mindset with the lies the missionaries brought with religion.

My duty is to continue to write from the realistic point of view...anyone who has issues should counter it with facts rather than make a mockery of him or herself by trolling.

mrblessed:
Truly, "realistic articles" should have (not has) no correlation to your lifestyle and persona.

Before you entered nursery school I have cleared my waec and I had A1 in English. Your silly innuendo about a flimsy typo errir which I had no time to correct after posting does not mean you are of a sound mind.

Apparently you have no meaningful input to make here so please stop digressing and allow intelligent minds make comments ok! Mr gramme r.

Paxie55:
You nobi small boy by age but you keep writing trashy threads

Dont worry, a time will come when you will rush back to read my threads or remember them.Mark my word.

Valerie47:
Here

WoW..looking so natural..cool.

ShenTeh:
Self and Wifey

2006 Vs 2018

Wow i love this.

SillyeRabbit:
Op, pictures, Lol... People are opposite of who they portray themselves to be online. Don't expect pictures.

im beginning to believe that and more so many people have very dark sides which is why they dont dare post their pics online.

If you ever see anyone posting his/her pics freely online,you can be 80% certain that the person is pure.

Valerie47:
Here to read comments.

Sorry no comments to read here. Enter the challenge.

lefulefu:
i be wan even ask u how u take manage preserve d pics sef. ten yrs ago in naija we no too dey use fone snap.na camera we dey mostly use and we get it in hard copies.few ppl convert their hard copies to soft copies.me i did save some of my hard copies to soft copies but i no remember the yahoo mail wey i save them. hm ur older pix no be say u look old oo but its jus dat in ur newer pix u look way younger. hm see ur fresh bear bear(beards)

You are alright though.. I took the pics of the hard copy years after with my camera phone.

lefulefu:
mehn my very old pics na hard copies oo and d few i saved in my old emails back then i no see dem again.would have gladly posted my ten yrs ago pixs if to say i still get dem.

lol..even this one nah luck i take see am and i look even old in it..

It can be hard to be very realistic but someone must come out with the truth. Most married ladies who get angry with this should pray never to be in a situation that will make them accept this stark reality.

Zaheertyler:
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Why post your pics and that of your child Nah?

Admin401:
You look very old when you were young. You might have Benjamin Buttons disease.

Lol! In that case I ought to look very old 10years after but I'm looking even younger.

Lefulefu,thornapple et al...oya

dingbang:
https://www.nairaland.com/4960638/nairaland-10yearschallenge-upload-throwback-pictures

Some of us are not comfortable uploading on the front page thread so let's make it a romancelanders affair.

Ok guys and ladies in the romance section, let's thank GOD for his protection. And celebrate life with our throwback pictures.

It's all about the celebrating life and thanking GOD for the gift of life.

And for the very troublesome romancelanders who can't reveal the face behind their monikers, they can create a new one.

Let the challenge begin.

[quote author=lefulefu post=74768033][/quote]Abi nah

ifyan:
Mr Toks2008 this your right up is wrong and please stop twisting the Bible for your own gain.

Remember the Bible is divided into two parts. Old and New testaments and as a Christian which you claim you are ( Christ like) follow his teaching dully.

Though l .....

And by your reckoning you just made sense abi... So the bible is now 2...i pity you.

elyna:
as annoying as this sounds,.... I totally agree with the op.

Are you male or female?

Rubbiish:
people don't help...
I believe they might have tried that before bringing it public, response was low. Human beings do not help easily i tell u the truth.

you are right though but it is so strange that these celebrities flaunt so much wealth.

funmisticqueen:
some ladydumped you right?

I give up....How does this question correlate?...May GOD grant you wisdom..

elyna:
as annoying as this sounds,.... I totally agree with the op.

Exactly,it sounds so ridiculous but it is an age long truth that has stood strong through ages.