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Why 16 year old girl?

Papiajaxy:
did it actually work?

Can't remember cos this was 24years ago

buttlover:
I use spirit only. early this January I started with spirit, just 2weeks later my beard started growing. it might reach timaya's level before June.

I have been there but now im even tired of it.

Maybe she don catch the man with another lady... Women fooling themselves with me and my husband alone mentality since the start of the 21st century.

Omoluabi16:
see ehn, some girls or most people will do anything for pecuniary gains. They were brawling not because they love your landlord, but because of what they benefit.They will gladly be drilled front and back because of money. These concubines will leave at the first sight of a richer person. Love no dey their dictionary..unlike the normal marriage where the deep commitment is. No woman likes to be shared, for whatever reason. I've even seen Muslim women cause hell because their husband wanted a 2nd wife.
king Solomon had many women because of his power and wealth, and can you vouch all those women were faithful? Na small aristo take better pass concubine.

lol! unfortunately it can also be called love.

Look at the last instance i gave on the thread...a young lady in her early 20s could decide to be with a man in his 50s basically for financial support and the parents of the lady will even encourage her to be the man's concubine as long as he does the normal rites for brides. Who wan suffer?

Bros abeg leave matter,nah something dey make man love woman and visavis..no one can just love another person for a blank reason.


This is why i laugh at many hypocrites here on this thread. Even ladies that have been mistresses to married men will come here to start wailing.

Very strong buttocks....total turn off.

hireet:
I have seen and heard so many.what somepple portray in social media is the exact opposite of what their life look like.they come here and form saint while in the world they are something else.if u av all u wish for dont condemn others.a lot of pple are living a life they never bargained for and it does not mean they are useless

And how does this comment of yours correlate with the topic on ground?

What has sainthood got to do with the matter?

I really don't know how to remedy the low intelligent quotient of many ladies....so appalling.

Valerie47:
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is to be a widow at a young age, that's why I keep praying to God to give me a husband that won't die young, that's why any man that leave my life, I assume maybe he is meant to die young, which is why God removed him from my life .

I'm glad you are getting the message and I pray that Your husband lives long and also has eyes for only you but just in case at any time in his life he chose to have a concubine please never leave your marriage cos many wives who leave their husband because of concubines usually end up as concubines of other men.

This is the message I'm passing with this write up but I guess even lalasticlala finds it hard to decipher.

Eberechi24:
Nke ahu gbasaru gi ebe ahu

a onye nwere a ziri ezi iko abụghị otu dị ka a onye na-ehi ụra banyere.

Eberechi24:
I have closed my eyes and imagine myself in that situation and comes up a solution.

Hunt for my alternatives. whatever theory you come up with that isnt balanced on any angle is rubbish. What are the feeling of wives whose husbands sleep outside? Very happy and supportive I guess.
And pls stop shoving the your misogynist theory of men are polygamous in nature with your bible backup down my throat.

When Bible command men to love their wives just as Christ loved the church, he didn't include emotional blackmail but support.

Christ loves the church with everything in his strength, Christ gave church everything withholding any thing. He is faithful to the church.

Stop twisting the bible for your gains.

A n wi iru o n wi ru...

lefulefu:
i get u but maybe Toks might be a polygamous man and there are ladies who have already resigned themselves to fate that the man who they will marry will cheat on them. there are ladies who dont mind if their husband sleeps around as long as the man is rich and she is living in luxury. anyway not all men cheat and if u lucky to end up with a faithful man who adores u biko hold am tight o.

Leave the talks of toks might be polygamous....we men are and you inclusive just that many of us love to fool ourselves.

You say if you get your spec you won't cheat innit? How many men get their specs?

Lefu get this clear...my write up is as factual as day and night...

No lady ever wishes to be a concubine from the early days of their lives but unpredictable circumstances of life made them one and it is one married man that will marry them.

There was a young beautiful northern lady with 2kids who escaped from boko haram after her husband was killed.

He kept meeting different men who just used her after promising her n the children shelter until she met one igbo trader who is happily married and this guy rented a place for her and after a while the lady fell in love with him and that was it.

This widow would have vowed at a time that no woman will ever share her husband but alas she is the one now sharing another woman's husband.

My threads are for immature people to read and learn but if they choose to rant endlessly they are free to.

The act of a man having concubines is not about a man wanting many ladies but it is about every woman having a man. No woman deserves to be single for life.

One day many of them will reference my write ups.

Eberechi24:
women need some respect in their matrimonial home. Telling me to live with consciousness that my husband will deliberately move around with different women is unbearable unless I will made up my mind to switch to my alternative(s)

All these men-are-polygamous-in-nature tale is a thing of the mind. A Man can chose to stay with one woman all his life and still be fine. It's all about discipline

Men need shape their mind and accept to live and be faithful to their wives just like wives have shaped theirs.

Can you for a minute close your eyes and imagine yourself in any of the situation I listed in my write up? DON'T GIVE ME THAT FOOLISH TALK THAT IT CAN NEVER HAPPEN TO YOU...

Continue to rant if that will make you sleep well at night. You are obviously naive.

AryEmber:
What kind of christian is Op? Concubine? You're an old testament christian.

Old testament Christian...these people won't kill me.

Permutation and combination..."Buhari will lose but may win if....."

Nonsense

Toks2008:
Whether she is for me alone or not is not my business especially when I can have legit young sumptuous concubines to make myself happy.

Lalasticlala come and see these learners.

krissconnect:
When a hear a guy say "she's my woman alone", I get amazed and laugh out so loud at some guys ignorance. This might be long but it's worth reading. This happened on Monday, earlier this week.
There's this girl I met last yr at my work place and boom, we started off. Tbh, she initiated the so called relationship cos she sent me the text message immediately I gave her my number. This girl acted so innocent, claimed I was her all in all, claimed she never had sex since 2015 she broke up with her last bf, claimed she had no other guy in our work place, bla bla bla bla bla... Came to my house severally and we went down severally, always played the victim card that I don't love her whenever I don't call or send her text. Mehn, I felt like I was the bad guy then treating a good girl wrong. But fast forward Monday this week, my guy queried me on why am always seeing his gf, I asked him who, and he said my so called gf, I laughed. Then I realised this girl was and is dating my guy before she came to me. My guy nearly fainted when I told him everything that went on between us.
Then he also realised that the girl used same message she used to toast him on me. Almost all the text she sent him, she sent to me. My guy went sick immediately. I chilled him out and apologised that I didn't know.

So I want to advise you fellow guys out there claiming she's your woman alone, it's a lie. Nothing like that ever exists. She's never your woman alone until you marry her, even after marriage, there's a 100percent chance she's still sleeping around, so wise up guys, wise up. This is why some guys commit suicide when similar thing happens to them, don't kill yourself cos of a woman. Just don't let a woman make you sad, it's very inappropriate.

@lalasticlala @tosyne2much @toks2008 @mynd44

Whether she is for me alone or not is not my business especially when I can have legit young sumptuous concubines to make myself happy.

priceaction:
Anyone noticed how jubrin saga went down after budget presentation? People are so gullible in this part of the world and they say they are well educated? That's why politicians with zero qualifications control educated mumus without looking back. they will soon say the first pics is different from the second now.

Some yeebos you mean...

It's so unfortunate that the Cownu guy is only followed by illetrate Igbos.

You will hardly find one real educated igbo with him.

Her choice and everyone must respect that.

Daeylar:
What were you trying to say? Read it again. It made no sense.



Nope.
The crime here is raping a 16 year old.
No matter how you guys try to pretty what happened up so you diminish the crime.
Facts are facts.

Believe what you want if it will make you sleep well at night.

Daeylar:
Why should they do that?

They should ban the word rape because of your misogyny.

A 16 year old was raped and all that can fall out of your mouth is that they should ban the word rape?

The nonsense some of you post here sometimes.

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I hope you are not arguing the fact that this is no rape case but very consensual.

The only crime is making out with a minor PERIOD.

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Lalasticlala this is very important for ladies to see and be prepared IF AND ONLY IF they find themselves married to aman who wants a concubine cos not every man desires it.

OLUWABIG:
... can't remember when I took the old picture actually

Cute.

Jephyard:
Jeez, this is crazy. You can't get rich by using any piece of clothes for rituals. What is wrong with us as people. We have voodoo practitioners around, go figure and you will get a definite answer. Just like physic or engineering there are laws or principles to this things. Not wishful thinking. Must we be so daft all the time from Buhari being a clone, to eating human faeces with bread for rmoney ritual, using salt to bath against Ebola, not answering strange calls cos you might get hypnotize and be use for money ritual and so many. Why are we this stupid. We virtually lack everything, this is not just poverty any longer we are sick people.

I laugh to your ignorance.

Yes if you answer calls and foolishly listen to the incarnations of the caller you can be spell bound.

Only if you are strong with Christ can you be immune to these things.

Stop writing in ignorance...as long as there are evil forces in this world they can use anything that has close contact with the person to harm such.

Your cloths, hair, pictures, sperm...please stop displaying your ignorance.

joepepsy:
Please I beg in name of what ever you worship don't believe this stuff, many Africa countries mock Nigerians here in swiss cos they believe we are too backward.

No wonder...because you are in Switzerland you all of a sudden forgot the black magic in Africa. I dey U.K but I'm still not foolish to discard the existence of voodoo and witchcraft.

Keep fooling yourself Mr Swiss.

obembet:
Is there anything wrong with a wife buying a property in her name?

To me, I think many of we ladies and married women misbehaves whenever we are privilege to have some properties. So I think it's better to let our husband aware of any steps we want to take.. Some men will even approved and support it.

Guys let's hear your opinion, let others learn from your views.

This is the 21st century. There is nothing wrong and you don't even need to take permission from your hubby.

Look at how they edited the video.

If the church is on the states then the f word is not new.

I have heard Americans Say.."Jesus fckn christ".

joepepsy:
With all due respect are educated?

No I'm a stark illetrate.

Big back side is the birth right of South African babes especially the blacks but they rarely have nice boobs.

Successdude:
baba Toks thank God I found you. Would like to chat you up about something

Olakoredey@gmail.com

Successdude:
oga Toks, I quoted you in one of the threads about 5 days ago but no response. The thing is I need to talk to you on something. Perhaps WhatsApp would be okay if u don't mind.

Sorry I have no clue. Which thread please?

joepepsy:
You guys should stop all this! Backward animals, how can you believe in this age and time that pant can make you rich? Am so ashamed mehn!!

Shame kee you there. How naive.