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Romance › Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(op): 9:39pm On Jan 14, 2019

JONNYSPUTE:
.I never said so,I only want to know how many you ve for you to be encouraging it. Based on your support towards the article, you should have at least let us know how many concubines you have.What's the need of preaching about it if you can't practice it?

No pun intended but you are beginning to sound lame. I am a prolific writer and i do realistic stuffs so if you have nothing to contribute to the topic of discussion maybe you should let others do whilst you read comments. This is not about supporting or opposing anything but stating the reality.

Thanks

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Celebrities › Re: Lord Of Ajasa Hospitalized For Severe Peptic Ulcer, Seeks Help by Toks2008(m): 9:36pm On Jan 14, 2019

I wondr why they have to bring this to the public when they could have donated internally amongst the celebrities...Shioor!

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Romance › Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(op): 9:27pm On Jan 14, 2019

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Tell us nah. It will serve as a source of encouragement .

I don't write about my life...i write realistic articles that has no correlation with my lifestyle or persona.

Shall we say every movie producer makes films about their lives?

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Romance › Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(op): 9:19pm On Jan 14, 2019

JONNYSPUTE:
Before I say what's on my mind.Op,how many concubines do you have at present?

Ma bi mi ni jamb question...

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Romance › Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(op): 8:55pm On Jan 14, 2019*

faithfull18:
What

Wettin happen?

Hope you read well.

Polygamy IS PERMISSIBLE BY GOD even if it was not the original plan and the fact that i was permitted expunges it from a sinful act.

Polygamy or Bigamy though not the original plan is permitted by GOD and we saw many references in the bible. GOD even gave a guideline for men to handle polygamy very well. If polygamy or Bigamy was forbidden by GOD I'm certain it will be sated clearly and he will never give any form of guideline...and please don't give me that talks of...''its old testament'' The bible is one holistic scripture.

Exodus 21:10;If he takes another wife to himself, he shall not diminish her food, her clothing, or her marital rights.

Deuteronomy 21:15-17; “If a man has two wives, the one loved and the other unloved, and both the loved and the unloved have borne him children, and if the firstborn son belongs to the unloved, then on the day when he assigns his possessions as an inheritance to his sons, he may not treat the son of the loved as the firstborn in preference to the son of the unloved, who is the firstborn, but he shall acknowledge the firstborn, the son of the unloved, by giving him a double portion of all that he has, for he is the first fruits of his strength. The right of the firstborn is his.

What many Christians quote is just logic about GOD making one woman for Adam and as I wrote, polygamy was not the original plan but GOD permitted it because women were rendered single for long due to several factors and no woman deserves to be single.

Polygamy or bigamy though very complex and inadvisable does not translate to sin and it is the choice of every man to be either monogamous or polygamous.

The devil has destroyed many churches because of this erroneous doctrine of monogamy and its time someone preached the truth.

Monogamy was clearly God's intent Genesis 2:22-24, the picture blurs pretty quickly after Adam and Eve's Genesis 3 and expulsion from the Garden. By Genesis 4, you have Cain's son Lamech taking two wives.

The patriarchs Genesis 16:3and Genesis 29:16-30themselves had multiple wives and concubines. Technically, the practice was polygyny. In other words, men could have more than one wife, but not the other way around (polyandry).

Moses had two wives as well. The Mosaic Law likewise accommodated the practice of marrying more than one wife, including captured prisoners from foreign conquests (Deuteronomy 21:1-17).

It also made provisions for continuing the family line by marrying a brother's wife if he died without producing heirs (Deuteronomy 25:5-12).

And the stories keep coming: Gideon, one of Israel's champions, had many wives; Elkanah, a presumably godly man and the father of Samuel, had two wives.

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Romance › Re: #10YearsChallenge: Curvy Lady's 10 Years Throwback Vs Recent Photos by Toks2008(m): 8:00pm On Jan 14, 2019

#10yearschallenge

E don tey no be today. Thank GOD for the gift of life.

Romance › Re: We Only Have Time For Nigerian Guys – Kenyan Ladies Fight Kenyan Men by Toks2008(m): 6:25pm On Jan 14, 2019

They fear us yet find us irresistible.

They call us Yoruba demons but can't stop fantasizing about us.

The whites want us, the Latinos, carribeans, Caucasians...and the list goes on...even out owr fellow black girls don't want to give us up.

We rock globally.

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Romance › Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 6:06pm On Jan 14, 2019

justmykel:
I guess it's because it's not a SNAKE thread, I learnt he loves SNAKES �

Lol! It's not easy honestly considering the number of times his moniker is mentioned in one hour on nairaland threads...

Romance › Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 5:37pm On Jan 14, 2019

Shezkid:
It's on FP na.. E don tey sef

Not this one...tbe quoted one.

Celebrities › Re: #10yearschallenge: Lasisi Elenu Share Throwback Photos by Toks2008(m): 5:35pm On Jan 14, 2019

My #10years challenge.

Romance › Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 5:19pm On Jan 14, 2019

justmykel:
Wow
That was enlightening I must say

I don mention lalasticlala tire to put am for front page.

Travel › Re: Tipper Kills Hawker And Her Child In Lagos (Disturbing Photo) by Toks2008(m): 4:58pm On Jan 14, 2019

I just had to retrain my tears.

This world is so unjust. Jehovah please grant her paradise so she can be with her child in joy in Jesus name..AMEN.

Innocent woman looking for daily bread.

Romance › Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 10:12am On Jan 14, 2019

krissconnect:
this doesn't even occur to me, the idea of quitting them overshadows every other thinking

Read this.

https://www.nairaland.com/3610005/before-fire-shots

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Romance › Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 10:10am On Jan 14, 2019

krissconnect:
this doesn't even occur to me, the idea of quitting them overshadows every other thinking

I was like you too until I trained myself to be very slow in making decisions cos things are not always the way they look.

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Romance › Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 10:03am On Jan 14, 2019

krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back. My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message. I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life. I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

@lalasticlala @mynd44 @tosyne2much @toks2008 dominique

Just learn to see the good sides of people and understand that you are not also perfect.

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Romance › Re: Why Do You Regret And Feel Ashamed After Sex? by Toks2008(m): 12:58am On Jan 14, 2019

The question is for people who indulge in illicit sex. I dont have any regrets after sex.

Romance › Re: The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(op): 10:49pm On Jan 13, 2019*

Many ladies in their teenage or adolescent years will never understand this..lol so let me prepare my shield against their rants and insults.

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Celebrities › Re: K1 De Ultimate Drinks Garri With Fish At A Party by Toks2008(m): 4:04pm On Jan 13, 2019

LuciferVirgin:
I refuse to say anything until MC Oluomo is certified dead.

Werey ni e..wishing death for another human.

Celebrities › Re: Veronica Adeleke: Davido’s Mother Committed Suicide – Kemi Olunloyo Says by Toks2008(m): 11:34am On Jan 13, 2019

Lemme watch the video first before I will k ow what to say cos there is sense in nonSENSE.

Celebrities › Re: Buku Abi, R. Kelly's Daughter Reacts To Sex Abuse Scandal, Calls Him ''Monster by Toks2008(m): 11:18pm On Jan 12, 2019

I won't comment about this cos if I do
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Romance › Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancee That I Am Tired Of Incessant Sex? by Toks2008(m): 11:03pm On Jan 12, 2019

Halo22:
Initially I was enjoying the pleasure of everyday sex, but now am getting fade up with the whole thing. My fiancee's sexual libido is becoming too much for me to bear. She wants it every now and then and as a man, it is making me to lose balance. Am sure if it is not well handled, we might have problem along the line. So I need advice from mature men and ladies on how to make her understand. I love her and won't want to lose her.

Nah food.

I know it is spontaneous but I prefer 2 to 3 times a week.

First and foremost both of you are commting the sin of fornication cos you are unmarried.

Now if you eventually marry just tell her to cut it down.

She can substitute sex for face sitting...and oral to ease off but penetrative sex can be tiring and boring if excessive.

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Romance › The legitimate concubine. by Toks2008(op): 10:58pm On Jan 12, 2019*

Titi, a young beautiful lady has vowed never to share her man with any lady and at 27,she got married to her prince charming who gave her all the love and faithfulness beyond her wildest dreams. But unfortunately at the age of 36,she lost her husband to a terrible accident and she was left as a widow who has to cater for her 2 kids but no serious single guy wants her except countless married men who want her as a legit concubine.

Caroline's case is an interesting one...she has been so unfortunate in the hands of single guys and at 38 and still single,every single guy she meets just want to have a taste of her pudding whilst the married men have promised to make her a concubine and take good care of her emotionally and materially.

Faith is a never married single mum who have given up on single guys because most of them just don't want to be with a single mum and the more she tries to look away from married men,the more difficult it is for her to get a serious minded single guy.

Ngozi with her two children were thrown out of her matrimonial home by her husband because she was accused of bringing bad luck to him and at the young age of 30,she kept her hope alive that she will find love again and have made up her mind to do away with married men but now at 40,she has not found any decent single guy but Alhaji Danladi has promised to take good care of her and her kids if only she will agree to be his concubine.

And what about Regina,a very beautiful 19year old girl with a bright future but from a not so rich background...luckily for her,she meets a married man old enough to be her father who is ready to sponsor her academic career, change her life and that of her entire family only she will agree to be his legitimate concubine.

All these aforementioned situations have forced many ladies to seek solace in the hands of married men and as you read this,there are several single ladies having a swell time with married men but many young ladies will never agree to this until they find themselves in any of these situations before the reality dawns on them and as i always tell people..."Never say it can never happen to me cos life has a way of proving people wrong"

What does the word legitimate concubine mean?
A Legitimate Concubine is a woman who is also married to the man(Secondary wife),has rights as a wife but of a lower status to the Principal spouse so the position of the main spouse and her child(ren) is never replaced which means a man can have Just one Main wife and can also decide to have a legitimate concubine or concubines IF HE DESIRES.

Below are some facts i want everyone to understand

I.A married man having concubines is an age long practice even in the biblical days “I have never seen anywhere in the Bible where prophets and preachers prayed for single ladies to get married. The Bible men had several legitimate concubines and every lady had a husband,” Yes it may not be the Original plan of GOD but he permitted it. The Bible has only come out strongly to condemn adultery, which is taking another man’s wife or a married person sleeping with someone he/she is not married to. Which means if the man marries another lady the proper way,she becomes a legitimate spouse and there will be no case of adultery.

2.Better than a man keeping mistresses or a lady becoming a mere mistress of a married man;
In my opinion,no lady should stoop so low to be a mere mistress to a married man that will be used and tossed aside like a piece of pad but it is very ok if he decides to make her his legitimate concubine..GOD is not against it and as far as the Bible is concerned, the number of wives or concubines that one has does not matter and is not a standard for righteousness.

3.Pastors and general overseers can have concubines if they so desire:
Many pastors and General overseers have been destroyed because they got involved in adultery. This never ending menace is bringing so much ridicule to the Christendom and many ignorant people are always fast to call Christianity a scam. Whilst i totally agree that adultery is a sin,i will blame these ignorant pastors or general overseers for their own downfall because they try to box themselves in the heresy of ''POLYGAMY IS A SIN'' whilst they continuously get involved in sexual acts with another woman secretly.

1 Timothy 3:2 states ''An overseer must have a good reputation and be faithful in marriage. They must be self-controlled, sensible, well-behaved, friendly to strangers, and able to teach''....some translations use the phrase(Husband of one wife) and many people take this to mean it is a sin for a pastor or G.O to have more than one wife but many Theologians have agreed that this Bible portion was simply instructing Pastors and G.O to avoid adultery and a man marrying more than one wife is clearly not adultery...it is sleeping with another woman you are not married to that constitutes the act of adultery.

Shall we say it is ok for a man who has more than one wife to divorce extra wives because he wants to be a pastor or General overseer? will this not be a sin in itself? or should I turn down the call of GOD to be a pastor or G.O because I have more than one wife?

4.It is the viable hope of many ladies in need of a man in their lives:
There are some women whose answers to a life partner rests on becoming a concubine rather than for them to be used as intimacy tool in the hands of randy men or never married single men.

5.It is not for every man:
Not all men are cut out for this cos of its a complicated way of life and it is advisable that men should stick with their principal spouse and only have concubines if they are financially,psychologically and and emotionally ready for it.

6.It helps stabilize the marital institution:
We have seen situations where man dumps his wife because she is opposed to his decision to get a concubine and at the end of the day,the wife packs out just to be the concubine of another married man. In the western world,divorce is on the rise because the western ideology does not accept this age long viable practice which has turned many women in the western world to depressed divorcees and single mothers.

7.The fact that the missionaries, who mostly came from Rome, began to preach against the act does not mean that this is what the Bible teaches. “It is unfortunate for the Church that today, when our dear brothers and sisters attend theological schools, they are fed with so much gentile-tilted theology that upon graduation, they are well equipped to vigorously convince the world to buy into the Roman immigration of Christianity that suggests that it is a sin for man to marry more than one woman.

8.This practice is not about men needing many wives: but it’s about women needing husbands and to save a generation of women who are ageing without husbands...No woman deserves to be without a husband”

9.It reduces immorality: Many ladies and men are psychologically boxed to think it is a sin to marry more than one woman or for a woman to marry an already married man but nevertheless,adultery thrives but if every man in need of another wife tows the path of having a legitimate concubine and every woman who wants to be with a married man becomes his legitimate concubine,the immoral act of adultery will be reduced. If pastors also tow this path,there will be less cases of pastors getting caught in the act of adultery and ministries collapsing as a result of this avoidable act.

This thread is not about promoting polygamy but a realistic one aimed at bringing sanity into the 21st century matrimony...for women who are always quick to run out of their marriages because their husbands have eyes for another woman.Monogamy is not a must and polygamy is not for every man but a choice. If you leave your marriage because of a concubine then you must be ready in most cases to be an intimacy gadget in the hands of randy men or become the concubine of another married man.

I hope this makes sense

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Business › Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 19 by Toks2008(m): 10:03pm On Jan 12, 2019

Hardvance:
Thanks boss,how do I hit you up?

Don't worry about contacting me for now.i will create a thread and give log in details for traders to see the trades real time.

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Business › Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 19 by Toks2008(m): 2:09pm On Jan 12, 2019

Hardvance:
Honestly, 10-15 dollars daily wouldn't be bad,yet to fund though. I've been practicing with a demo account,but the closest I've got to the real thing was using FBS bonus 50. I think I got 200 plus within 2weeks or so,but greed kicked in,rest is history. Started with 0.03 lot size,placed the trades twice.

15% daily profit.

It means you will have to do intraday trading and could lose same in a day if the trade goes against you. Meaning consecutive loses could get your capital bleeding.

This is the greatest challenge of many traders...the greed factor...alwats wanting to make so much with so little.

Nevertheless it is not impossible if you have a killer strategy.

I will likely give a log in to a live account next month where you can use the entry point of the system to scalp 5 to 10pips and it will be free to access.

All the best.

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Business › Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 19 by Toks2008(m): 2:37am On Jan 12, 2019

Hardvance:
Bosses, please an account of 50-100 dollars, what lot size would be great to start with?

The ideal lot will be difficult for you to adhere to as a result of greed.

So before I help you calculate your lot size I would love to ask you and I need honest answer.

How much do you wish to make on a daily basis with 100usd capital?

Romance › Re: ....... by Toks2008(m): 1:36am On Jan 12, 2019

ghettochild:
His name is Agunbiade Babatope Kolapo on fb.. He's in USA on a student visa n rather than work he chose to take advantage of women in California...
Here's the story.. In 2015 I got married to a Californian lady who came down to Nigeria n we had our wedding.. She returned back to Cali after two weeks... Four month later we started having issue cos she was always monitoring me online...
Long story cut short she wanted out I began pleading with her... Then this guy who happened to be a fellow babcockite based in Santa Clarita.. I contacted to help me talk to her... Atleast if a fellow Nigerian talked to her she would be patient pending when we start d filing process of the form i130.
All the advice this snitch could give me was to leave her alone... That he doesn't deal with white folks bla bla bla...
Well he preyed on d fact I told him she did send me $3500..
Fast forward June 2016.. He's started dating her...
Whether he jazzed her or not... I choose not believe dos crap I heard tho I felt it happened because God wants it to happen...
I did warn my wife about him.. She said I was jealous cos she found someone better n that he loves her.....and I should be happy for her..
I had known they wouldn't last beyond 2yrs..
I moved out of naija to S.A. cos I needed that change of environment so bad.
Well she did bought him a car...
He tore my was wedding pic telling she doesn't need that anymore that she's got him.
While they Dated he never introduced her to any family member even when his mum visited.. He told her his mum wouldnt like d fact he's dating someone older n bla bla bla.. She stupidly accept..
As her eye opened n she stopped giving him money they started having fights....
And he told her he no longer wants her....
Now she says she will never Date naija guys that we all are Yoruba demons( ko kan aiye) I warned her... Na she mumu.
She even told me he doesn't go to work n only wear his Uniform n pretend to go work.
Here is d main reason I posted this..
Guys like kolapo are d reasons many of the Nigerian youth will never get a visa to US.. Cos a whole lot of this women have been used n dumped or duped and have made reports to the FBI n other agency.
Be careful who u trust.. No b everybody wey dey America dey aiit ooo. They might envy what u have.
And am calling him out so as to know what he's doing in America...
Ur brother or friends wife maybe his next victim..

Honestly you don't need al these. Let the guy be and nemesis will catch up on him.

His life his hustles and all these won't stop these ladies from falling for him.

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Romance › Re: Why We Can’t Propose To Men – Abuja Women by Toks2008(m): 12:57am On Jan 12, 2019

faithfull18:
In the normal order, it should be the man proposing not the other way. A man finds a wife not the wife finding the husband.

To those shouting feminism and gender equality below, this is what it means and is about as spelt out in the SDGs:

Providing women and girls with equal access to education, health care, decent work, and representation in political and economic decision-making processes will fuel sustainable economies and benefit societies and humanity at large. Implementing new legal frameworks regarding female equality in the workplace and the eradication of harmful practices targeted at women is crucial to ending the gender-based discrimination prevalent in many countries around the world.

It has nothing to do with who should propose or not.

See your life? Now gender equality is not about a woman also proposing abi.

Confusion kee you there.

Travel › Re: Tanker Explosion In Odukpani, Cross River Kills Many, Injures Others (Graphic) by Toks2008(m): 10:53pm On Jan 11, 2019*

Scoop fuel after several warnings against the act.

To me this is pure act of suicide.

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Business › Re: Jeff Bezos And Lauren Sanchez Sex Chat Leaked, Led To His Crashed Marriage by Toks2008(m): 6:20pm On Jan 11, 2019

herzernIsHere:
I swear you are seriously mad!

No comment on NL so far has had me laugh recklessly as this. WTF were you thinking!?

My brother life is too short...i like woman I dey straight forward but I will never keep a mistress outside my marriage...NEVER...That is adultery and grave sin.

I see guys who do such as irresponsible and cowards.

If I ever feel like having a second lady I will simply go to a good village..sit somewhere and look out for a super hot nice brested curvacious small sumptous fresh girl that is beautifully and wonderfully made... go to her parents and ask her hand for marriage change her career for good..i fit marry two set put them for somewhere go dey refresh myself whenever I want. As long as the money is there the parents of the girl will even do thanksgiving for church over their daughter meeting someone like you.

The former CBN governor just married an 18 year old girl day no turn night.

You only live once abeg.

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Business › Re: Jeff Bezos And Lauren Sanchez Sex Chat Leaked, Led To His Crashed Marriage by Toks2008(m): 2:42pm On Jan 11, 2019

ferhyntorlah:
Easier said than done. If he tries that, he will lose EVERYTHING HE HAS EVER WORKED FOR. Amazon's board of directors will VOTE HIM OUT and he will go to prison for trying to undermine the law. This is America and not lawless Nigeria.

I guess he didn't learn from Trump. Same thing that happened to Trump with his first wife Ivana is what's happening to Jeff Bezos.

The guilty party here is Mr Jeff Bezos. This is infidelity, pure and simple. American society doesn't tolerate infidelity in marriage - Tiger Woods comes to mind.

Whether he likes it or not, he will part with 50% of his asset because the state they both reside - Washington state practices Communal Property Law.

The main reason he released the divorce statement on Twitter was because he couldn't control the situation. Releasing it ahead was a form of damage control.

Crazy society where they dont condole infidelity but after divorce the woman sleeps around like a dog,many go into depression and end up with mental illness.

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Business › Re: Jeff Bezos And Lauren Sanchez Sex Chat Leaked, Led To His Crashed Marriage by Toks2008(m): 2:38pm On Jan 11, 2019

chai| married mistress..Arrant rubbish.

if i wan do and i get better money nah to go calabar,akwa ibom or better place for east go collect two fresh small girls marry them keep somewhere dey enjoy legitimate 3some without fear or guilt of sin. Why will i cheat with a married woman when we have super sumptuous succulent sexy small girls everywhere ready to mingle ? Foolish man.

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Romance › Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 8:23am On Jan 11, 2019

Rozaytee:
are u sure u have sense like dis

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