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Factfinder1:
I'm talking about unmarried girls who follow married men understand the post before you comment

Factfinder1:
if all married men focus on their wives all these small girls with big God will die of hunger

THIS POST IS ACTUALLY REMINDING MEN TO STICK TO THEIR WIVES, AND TELLING GIRLS TO STOP MOCKING GOD,,, COS DATS WAT MOST GIRLS DO,, GIRLS WILL GO AROUND FORNICATING WITH MARRIED MEN AND BE GIVEN MONEY AND GIFTS AND THEN COME TO FACEBOOK AND other social and START FLAUNTING IT SAYING SMALL GIRL WITH A BIG GOD,,, DEY ARE MOCKING GOD, COS GOD NEVER GAVE DEM those THINGS,,, DEY NEVER GOT THEM THE RIGHT WAY,,,

welcome

LibertyRep:
It appears that there's always an element of truth in every rumor.

Could it be that a transaction has gone awry or there's a new Sheriff at the boarders

amnwa:
She's just trying to stay in the spotlight
Knowing older guys already know her well and won't send her.

When a lady just has no shame at all

janejive:
Stupid news, not worth reporting, imagine the amount of people viewing his topic

post=69079962:
According to the report, some area boys revealed that the girl's boyfriend had met them to help him with what to do because his girlfriend was laughing at him that he doesn't know how to service her well and last long in bed and that her ex-boyfriend was better. 
The young man was directed to meet somebody who mixed a concoction for him to drink and be "empowered".
After drinking the concoction, he went into action with his girlfriend and almost wrecked havoc before she landed in the hospital.




LORD HAVE MERCY.
Kids of nowadays no get anything to think again apart from S3X.

davidsthe:
This post may be misleading! The thing to do is HIV test from a trained counselor tester which can be couple testing or individual but there should be mutual disclosure.

ChiefAzubuike:
So many benefits of being a cultist. You get respect, you are feared, people don't talk to you out anyhow, even soldiers and police fear you. You get to divert different girls to your bed every night and they must do the do else they'll be on the losing side. As a female cultist, your initiations is what many girls can only dream of. Multiple mindblowing órgasms from different frat members pounding you at the same time. (For the other category of cultist people)

Forget about death, everybody will die one day.

The sweetest part is being a patron/matron. The way those boys will take care of you and those girls will keep your company no be here. I've been a patron for more than 35 years so I know what I'm saying. Oh did I forget about how politicians spoil us with gifts and cash during elections? 2015 alone I made more than 40 million naira.

Mind you, there's cultist and theres cultist. When I say cultist I don't mean those thugs and lowlifers repping eiye ,aiye , , vikings etc. We are talking of Nigerian cultists who are cooperate people like bankers, doctors, accountants and lawyers. At the same time we bring out the thug in us when necessary.

zicoraads:
I sincerely hope you don't find yourself in his shoes. Only then will you truly realize the gravity of what he did.

Lizilicious:
It was cos of the extra money...
Stop telling us it's just abt the storyline..
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Nevertheless, u still Fyn sha

Blonchilli:
Toks2008
Marriage itself is a gamble. I think you make sense. Liking the scenario to a mother who gives birth to a child. Now that mother never had a child to love, so she must watch the child grow and learn to love him/her as changes appear in the child, by character and appearance. If we use the method we use in raising a child and loving him/her I don't think there would be issues of divorce or misunderstanding because you will come to realize that people change .
I also believe the heart can love more than a woman at a time because love is moved by emotion and what we want not necessarily what we need

adodofemi:
How I wish I know or I know someone that knows you. People just need to be careful for someone like you. No single iota of humanity in you at all. So if the yeye boss was also part of the inferno, (which could have also been me) in Lagos few days ago, would he have being ranting in the grave too? One thing I've learnt over the years is simple, humanity before anything, not even money. When I had my twins few years ago with little issues, I never wanted to be off work at all but my reasonable boss told me to go off and put myself together. She wished me well without any string attached. If it were to be people like you, a day off is enough for you to show me the exit door. Who works perfectly when his or her child is in the line?

victorian:
Yes I don't pretend to be a saint or virgin but at this same time, am not saying I can sleep with any guy. That's not what am saying. Am saying its better to be in a relationship than to be single and celibate for years. Me I can't be celibate for years. How long have u been celibate til date Toks2008?

Lilimax:
You took a bold step young day! A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. Needless of marrying someone you do not love? More like living in hell!

victorian:
My dear Toks, as long as she's no longer a virgin. She would want to have sexx and feel all the mushy mushy that comes with a relationship. It's better shes with a guy in a relationship, than pretending to be celibate and be doing flings and one night stands upandan.
It's not a bad thing. And as it didn't end towards the alter, it's not a do or die affair.
As we speaking like this, another guy might be straffing her lasan. And she will feel high tonigt. So nothing there my brother as long as she's not a who're .

It's allowed to straff.. It's highly recommended but be safe when doing it

Inbetween, I tried being celibate one time. I almost died. Lol.
It's not easy o.

victorian:
Better pikin.

Don't let people push u into a miserable marriage, cos they will still mock u at the end, if he either kills you with rage for not loving him, the way he wants or beat u blue black, then sorry will your name.
Same people castigating u will say, she married him cos of money, now her eyes don clear.
You no marry, people must talk. You marry, same thing. Then fail at it, they will all crucify u, as if theirs is better.
Babe! Follow yur mind.

Oyindidi:
Better than divorce

adecz:
She was in the relationship just for
the banging & wadding!!!

Oyindidi:
Hmmmmmm... She's right

IamEmem:
Toks, nice piece. Marriage is a choice, you choose whom to marry.
I think this question is a double edged sword, you need both to travel the path of marriage.
In my opinion, the first step is to be attracted to whom you intend to marry. (there should be some atom of love).
And then determine to remain and grow in Love with whom you have choosen to marry.
Falling in love does not sustain marriage, rather the determination to remain and grow in love does.

MissJoy29:
All the bolded are true. Recently, I was faced with a tough decision about marriage. I used to think that it's easy to be with a good man who you are sure of his character (by God's Grace). Hopefully, you will grow to love him. A lot of things are easier said than done. I understood that statement perfectly when I was faced with living with a good man who I don't have any form of romantic affection for. I suddenly realised that this is a lifelong commitment. It's too risky for such a costly gamble. My thoughts were, "what if I never get to love this person? He's a good man but if I don't get to love him, I will be miserable and make him same too.

I refuse to believe that love is just a "passing feeling" that fades easily. So I know that love is important in marriage. How else will I be tolerant, affectionate & overlook some things he does?

Maybe I'm getting things all wrong & I'm seriously open to corrections.

NightHound:
Two people must first come together in love before they can grow in love. It is a substance that grows. A seed grows into a plant; and if that seed is not there, there will be no growth of anything; it doesn't matter how hard you water the ground . Not every coming together of two people has the potential of growing into a loving marriage. Compatibility is important. That's why the Bible talk about the dangers of being unequally yoked.