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Martinez19:
Why the f^ck you lying?

Martinez19:
. The tissues of your brain are weak.SMH

Manweysabi:
He wrote and produced the song

Divay22:
Producer

PrecisionFx:
U are the only one saying A. U are the one begging money out of ur laziness n stupidity. U should have long urged ur self to close ur mouth n stop justifying ur online begging.

PrecisionFx:
Oga goan find something doing to make ur money n stop begging to live.

madjune:
I really don't know how this babe got to this level with all her beauty.

I'm not judging tho but she ought have settled long time ago

dabraham10:
Pls my htc touch 2 screen calibration is no more functioning. Hlp me out pls

PrecisionFx:
Plenty of dem are here on nairaland.

Monday200:
Hello Nairalanders. Plz pardon my errors. Moderators please help with advice from pple

I'm a 27 while my boyfriend is 34,we've only dated for 7 months and he proposed to me last week. But the problem is that we are 2 different people,what he want is different from what I want.

He is from a rich family that likes flashing things, he always tell me to use make up when I say make up it not just foundation and lipstick every time am going out which I don't like at all I prefer using powder and lipstick and I use to tell him that I don't know how to do make ups yet he said he will get me a make ups artist. I don't know how am going to cope with that. Anytime we are going to see his family member or friends, he will always want me to over dress like it's a wedding day.

He likes going party a lot and anytime he ask me I will make up some excuse not to go and I don't know how long I will continue giving him excuse cos am an indoor person i don't like going out at all I only go out whenever am an having important things, there was a time he discovered and accused me of been ashamed of him that why I hate going out with him and its not like that.
He likes people prying into our privacy anytime we had a misunderstanding he will ask one of his friends to beg me on his behalf and I hate this.

He always want me to wear clothes that fit his standard like wearing heavy jewelries expensive one ,high heels,(he use to buy them for me cos his a rich dude ) he want a luxurious life while I only want a simple life. He can do anything to mk me look good and classy, he is always ready to spend for that.


My problem is do you think I can adapt to his lifestyle when we get married as I like being simple. Am scared.

zicoraads:
Why do guys think it normal to 'reward' ladies who dated them when they were not rich? I don't get it, was she doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you?

It has become commonplace to read about rewards, car gifts especially, purchased by guys as rewards for ladies who they were in a relationship with when they were poor. I think in constantly doing that, guys are making it look abnormal, the idea, that a lady is supposed to stick with her man, come rain or shine.

She wasn't doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you. No one is doing you a favour by being in one with you now. Whether it ended or not, you owe her nothing for that period the both of you were dating.

Guys should stop making it seem like dating a particular lady is a privilege they don't deserve.

Greatzeus:
Personally,i think cheating is a concept accurately applicable to the Married Couples and those Engaged only.why? because you are bound to him or her by a legal or religious oath.Unlike Bf/Gf relationships,So why keep a promise you never made by being faithful?
Now i am not here to encourage cheating please but to discourage it

Now to the Married and Engaged,have you ever being tempted to cheat on your partner? Probably yes, it goes beyond the actual act of sex most times, to include mesmerizing about a "hot" colleague or neighbor,sending obscene pictures of yourself to another person,to sex chatting,viewing pornography content without your spouse etc.

My question to the Married and Engaged is, is it worth it cheating on your spouse? to those who have one time or another cheated before,is it worth it,really? be sincere with yourself,would you go back to correct your mistake if you can? It takes the grace of God yes,but we should also have checks and balances in our lives that makes it easier for us to overcome certain things.
Whenever you are tempted to cheat on your spouse,in your matrimonial home, at your work place, while on a journey far from the comfort and caress of your wife or while on a business trip outside the country,just try as much to think about the following:

1. Think about the day you proposed to her,the desperation you had and all you went through to make her say yes. Its a golden memory, dont throw it down the mud by cheating.

2. Think about the Oath you took in the presence of God on your wedding day,either in church/Mosque or Court to stay faithful to her alone

3. Think about disappointing those who spent their time and money( transport and gifts) just to attend your wedding,when they hear your marriage has crashed because you cheated.

4. Think about your kids,who will grow up with the sad knowledge that their parents divorced because their dad or mum cheated.

5. Think about the guilt that will permeate your whole being after cheating on your spouse( for those who still have conscience

6. Think about the fact that your attraction to your wife decreased,not because she is no longer beautiful,but because of familiarity. And your attraction to the new lady is due to initial infatuation.

7. Think about the minutes you will spend having sex,like is it really worth throwing everything you have(Happy home) away for?

Danny225:
Hello nairalanders, please pardon my
English ooo. Let me go straight to the point.
My name is sunny and am in my 20's. I am
been into production of food and Beverages
since 2010 and am well experienced in my field. I
know how to make different drinks like:
Softdrinks (Cola, orange, lemon, apple flavours
etc)

Flavoured drinks (Non carbonated)
Yoghurt (sachets and bottle yoghurt).

To write is just a few of what I can produce but
none around to help me with all this different
drinks formulation that I possessed

I have
different recipe for all the above mentioned
drinks. I can even produce one of the best Cola
raw concentrate but here I am with no one to
help me to actualize my dream. I have photos of
what I have produced in the past for few people
that have consulted me.

I know within me that someone somewhere on
nairaland will connect me with right person that
will bring out the best is me. I have been jobless
all this while despite the fact of huge potential in
me that's untapped.

Please nairalanders, help your fellow bro.
You can reach me on 08128106231.
God bless you all.

Khd95:
awon grand patron of small girls big god

this proves that women,irrespective of their views or opinion ,feminist or not,stubborn or not,rich or not,na preeq go still humble them

OfficialAPCNig:
Don't deceive yourself dude. The arabic name of God is Ilah.

Al ilah (Al'lah) means The god. That is the ancient arabic Chief god.

Allat was the consort. Muhammed destroyed the other 359 gods/goddesses and adopted Allah as the true god because he was the most reverend. (Fact)

Note: I am not a terrorist and I don't believe in any al'lah.

marttol:
I don't believe in Allah and will never believe in it... I believe in JESUS AND HIM ALONE FOREVER...

AND TO THE TOPIC

LOL... LOL... LOL... CAN'T STOP LAUGHING

wunmi590:
Thank you so much for this word of encouragement.

I am your big fan, and to even think that we are both microbiologist

wunmi590:
Good one from president trump.


Made first to comment on explorers thread, this is a sign of good thing and a good job coming my way soon.


Mean while, the people of nairaland, I was just relieved of my position last week Tuesday, the company I worked for downsized alot of people even people that was given both double promotion, were not left out in the tsunami.

My people I have experience as an admin, front desk, assistant HR, and call centre agent.

Please if you have any job for me those areas, both Lagos and Abeokuta, nothing is too small, to keep body and soul together.

My contact detail is 08060988682.

Thank you

Nawtybro:
What do you want us to do?

Marriage is "for better for worse ". Enjoy the worse part of it and wait for the better tomorrow. But remember to tell us when it gets Rosy.

opl1:
y are you taking panado for another grandpa head now??

1Sharon:
Peckham no be england