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MissJoy29:
This is risky. Very risky. What if I don't get to love the person?

You will..its a mystery but you will with time and such feeling is usually stronger.

Lirqur:
Oya now, how do we know?

Read again.

Magnumproperty:
I know him but I don't even know u. Bad belle is allowed. For Kunle Afolayan to feature him in October 1st shows that he is talented.

Bad belle ke..wettin concern me if he wins an Oscar? Have you ever come across the word 'Personal opinion'? you can google it.

Have a nice sunday.

Omotaday:
I swear, this guy is the best i have seen in Nigeria.

Your opinion...to me he is not even close cos he over acts.

I was in Nollywood in the late 90s so I know what it means to be a good actor.

prettysassygirl:
I hope u are married now

Nairalanders will not kill me with marriage matter...lol!

I enjoy the mystery behind my marital status so lemme not answer.

Whether I'm single or married does not change the fact that Seun created nairaland.

Just enjoy my write ups.

Lalasticlala happy New month and happy sunday.

MISEDUCATIONS:
so much hate from this one

i just dey look am..i may report her to the mod and they will not only hide this thread but also permanently ban this mischievous account she just created and even her ISP.

She is overdoing it.

No need responding to your mannerless comment.

CaptJeffry:
I think I'll rather go with love who I marry than marry who I love.
Marriage is a different ball game, quite different from love affair besides a man can love two women at the same time but conventionally can not be married to the two at a time.

Nice submittion.

Hedonisst:
So a random guy can't get his dick up, and you as an unrelated money bag 'humanitarian' would spend good money to help him get a surgery so that he can Bleep well well?
I can understand helping a disabled child or woman needing a a surgery, but wetin concern one rich stranger with one random man with congenital erectile dysfunction?

Have you gone around any government hospital in any city in Nigeria to see the uncountable poor people with life threatening problems who REALLY need help wallowing away in misery?

Let's get serious and face priorities abeg.

You must be a very heartless person.

babyfaceafrica:
you have a point though, however its is not entirely feasible. how can I marry someone I don't love?.. are you telling people to take a gamble?.. marriage itself is black market..why should we now enter a black market with dark shades?....,the definition of love itself has grey areas... some is looks,behaviour, money e..t.c....love overtime has change its form.. so you can't actually say it is this or that...my advise do what works for you... most of us know what is good for us but choose to ignore it for selfish reasons.you know that guy is a player..but you hope he will change in the future....you know shade sleeps around but you think with age she will stop..............marry people with their deficiency (all of us get am) not hoping they will change.

Insightful.

Hedonisst:
Ridiculous. Is he disabled?

The so called "humanitarian" must be very unserious.

The world is seriously doing you.

So is his case normal?

Merryglad:
A friend once told me that loving who you marry is far better than marring who you love. So i think you are right(my opinion though)

Thanks for this post...i just realize i can form a better title with this.

yeyerolling:
Nigger is over 40 not married but forming relationship expert

The world is doing you.

izzou:
Toks, pardon me, but I haven't understood you clearly

You are saying we should first come together(marry) and then grow in love instead of first falling in love, and then getting married?

Unfortunately, those things that make us fall in love are the things married couples do so in most cases after you experience It, you get tired and break up just to start same circle with someone else.

So why not just marry the person and grow in love with such.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Oga Toks needs love.

Lol! We all do.

ShobayoEmma:
And what crime will you be committing if you first fall in love before 'growing' in love? Well i think marriage is not a necessity but a preventive measure against fornication.

The phrase falling in love does not make any logical sense but it makes mor sense to grow in love which has a stronger effect.

lalasticlala

In those days, our parents usually come together, they barely knew each other and they grew in love as a couple and in most cases, grew old together because they chose to love who they married.

They lay little emphasis on feelings, chemistry or even dating/courtship yet had a wonderful long lasting union but today, we want to be sure the feeling is real, we want to fall in love first, we want to be sure we are compatible and we meticulously pay attention to inconsequential matters and looking for faults and even many who tend to believe they got it right still end up breaking up after they eventually get married and i keep wandering what exactly are we getting wrong.

After a thorough research from GOD's words i found out that the ideal mode of marriage laid down by GOD have been abandoned and we have now come up with our own pattern...

Until we go back to the plan of GOD regarding marriage and understand that staying married is not about feelings or compatibility, neither is it about body chemistry or how romantic he or she is because all these aforementioned can never sustain a marriage but it is about growing in love and having a meticulous determination to love who you marry and stay married against all odds.

GOD's plan for marriage is for two people to come together and grow in love not for them to first fall in love before coming together.Genesis 2:22-24

I hope this makes sense.

kaylegend7:
All of them had heart related problems. Exercising the body affects the heart, but not when the heart has problem

I see...so they have heart problem and they were still allowed to play rigorously.

post=68944189:
Watch that your mouth and fingers withered soon with the trash you type.

Jesus is just so merciful and lenient sha!

If he had used the prophet M I guess by now the internet social media will be on fire.

wink2015:
The man is equally guilty for soliciting sex from a student.

Go and get married man and live a peaceful married life instead of using your joystick to trouble young girls.

Prostitute you mean...

Olalan:
Hmmmm, if she truly has up to 300k in her account maybe she needs more interrogation as to why she did it.
BTW the guy got served for not being able to keep his eyes off sex with a call girl

I have never and will never get involved in "how much you go pay"

Somebody should please wake me up...

Lol..reminiscing.

Timewilltell2:
This not a thread about foreign women you stupid

Why the use of offensive words? Everyone can not agree with you so deal with that calmly Ok!

Timewilltell2:
Apart from the ones from horn of Africa . Nigeria has more lighter skin people than kenyans ,ghananians and South Africans. We have more beautiful bodies and can put on nice make up. Is that why the women from these countries try so much to be like us ? . Kenyans look too thin , dark and can't afford good weaves. Ghananians are too dark ,masculine and wear ugly weaves and make up . South Africans are too dark , ugly with no make up and can't afford even the ugliest weaves. Now you understand where all the jealousy comes from .

I wrote a thread about this...

https://www.nairaland.com/3089812/why-nigerian-ladies-worlds-finest

Nigerian ladies are the finest in the world simply because of their heterogeneous outward beauty.

See frosh ladies...somali ladies fine die.

There is nothing as sweet as a legitimate 3some. I'm sure Solomon had a tensome sef as long as it is within the confines of marriage I see no big deal.

No one should quote me abeg.

post=68945084:
THEY WILL NEVER LEARN!!

As someone rightly wrote...hunger is a terrible situation...it will drain all your senses and even make you renounce yourself...Ask Esau and he will explain better.

May GOD help us.

CANDYDADDY:




Hunger in the land

I wooed a babe one day, surprisingly she even follow me home that same day, and she told me for her to allow me she only needs #800.

A lady who sleeps with you without asking for a dime is far more valuable than the one who puts a price tag whether big or small.

Why do I think she is also seeking attention from guys..as in forming decent..just thinking.

Funny enough I never get time watch the the clip.

You guys think football game is easy...

The day I watched a clip of the players who died on the field of play was the day I stopped envying them.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9KHQm0sYbM