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Godwin978:
fear EDO people

mhizcassidy001:
i hate guys that think they are SMART.
i dislike short man
i dislike talkative
if you are not humorous and get angry easily ion like ya
i dislike good for nothing jobless guy
i dislike guy that SNOR hell no i wont take that
POT BELLE GUYS HELL no way
the SLUGGISH ONE rara o
i dislike guys that think all ladies are BICTH forgotten he has a mother
still thinking tho if i remember the remaining list i will gladly post.
thank you for ya time

farano:
So yesterday I was going to Mile 2, fight burst inside the bus I boarded. A man and a woman fought dirty inside the moving bus, the woman complained that the guy/man was stylishly rubbing her boobs Omo d babe be like warri girl, come see blows the babe dey give the guy I laff tire lol. Pls men should always keep their arms or so in place in public transport.

Daboomb:
it is true!
This is "olosho-gone-exposed".

May she rot in hell.

She has been doing this for a long time.
Bringing three children that does not belong to her husband, into the home!!
There is nothing like blackmail here.

She has been dating different men while married and living under her husband and the poor man will think he has a wife.

She committed suicide because she realized that her game was up, with the DNA test exposing her 'Olosho' lifestyle.

I have her picture sef and that of the poor husband. It is all over Social media

Chigold101:
first of all, I don't understand what is fulgal...

Secondly, the first 4 pragraghs of your write-up destroyed what ever point that came after because those ones actually sound like after thought.

That why I responded the way I did and talking about difficulty in doing what God says is "normal" it doesn't happen only in marriage. It has never been easy for anyone to do God's will.

So I didn't consider it something to respond to.

Now look at what those those that has been responding is writing. Check how many of them that doesn't Base thier response on the hypocrisy side of your write up.

The point is this... Your opening paragraphs betrayed what you have in mind...

Thanks

JONNYSPUTE:
Hmmm. Something very serious must have caused her actions.

eezeribe:
Such a tragedy...
Some people will come and say it is the will of their god.. What a wicked deity they serve.
May their souls rest in peace through the mercy of God, Amen.

Chigold101:
thank you for reading and understanding mine... I am glad you considered me important to give me a mention.
Thanks

M0ron:
What God does is equip you with wisdom to make the right decision, but He never picks for you. Picking your spouse make Him soley responsible for your actions. It’s like God asking Adam to name animals and Adam praying to God to show him names to name the animals. How much sense does that make?

Solomon prayed for Wisdom to make decisions

1 Kings 3:9 (KJV)
Give therefore thy servant an understanding heart to judge thy people, that I may discern between good and bad: for who is able to judge this thy so great a people?

Whenever God shows people spouses, He is not picking spouses for them,He is simply showing them their future decisions. This is quite rare,so exceptional. Otherwise God has equipped the body of Christ with enough tools to make the right decision. The tools include scriptures,teachings, Holy Spirit,Wisdom of men, etc

Chigold101:
sorry to ask oh...
Did you have any idea of whom God is?
Or what the work of the Holy Spirit is?

If Jesus Christ says that the Holy Spirit will direct us in all things is marriage not one of the all things?

First of all if you are sold out to God your choice becomes nothing.
If God is really your Lord you have no choice of your own any more.

Well I don't know about my Pastor said in marriage but I know about God said.

I don't know if you are married but I am married and I married my wife based on God's direction. One thing you should understand is that if you have not been close to God beforehand He won't start to just direct you when it comes to marriage. there must have been a total closeness and He must have been directing you in other issues long even before marriage comes up.

Sir i started praying about my marriage at about when I was 14. I wasn't praying for God to give me a wife then but that whenever I would be ready that He should guide me to the right woman. I am grateful to Him because He did guide me. I can't stop thanking God for making me to obey Him and marry the woman He sent to me. Right now I am already praying for my children that whenever their time come, that God should help them just as He has helped myself and my wife and I also pray for all their relationships.

Brother let this thing sink deep into your head. Marriage is 75% spiritual, 10% phisical and 15% financial.
If you win the spiritual side the rest would naturally fall into place. This is why in the olden days our forefathers use powerful charms time hold their families together. Some where polygamous but with the help strong charms they make the women to obey each other and there would be no friction. The man would be called "Odogwu."
I myself as a Born again Christian hold my family with prayers and also liveout what I teach my family members for them to see.
Those that married either for financial or phisical have little or no peace.

Having said all this: I am not saying that everyone that says God told them were really told by God. Some people intimidate others by saying God said. I didn't tell my wife God said anything to me until we were preparing for our traditional marriage, that was when I told her my experience and she also told me what she did at that time which was a confirmation of a prayer prayed.
If I am a woman and you approach me with God said I will not give you face and I might never prayed about it. Approach a woman like you never heard from God and allow God show her signs. That was what I did.

So Sir before you go online to set confusion in people's mind please and please again think.

I don't even know if you are even s Christian.
If you are not a Bible practicing Christian you won't understand anything.
Christianity is beyond going to church

SirBrightoc:
My brother I love your post, but you generalised it and used "GOD SAID" inappropriately.

I am a living example of God's grace and directive in marriage. Note that my case is not to be used to generalise too, because not all will receive such grace.

For mention, I am in my 6th year in marriage and can tell you that there is no better marriage than mine. �

When I first planned to propose to a girl whom I thought I loved, an Angel of God visited me in a vision and clearly warned me not too. He told me to ask Him when I become ready for it (clearly I was not, it was a peer influence) and that he will come to show me. Eh! �

About two years later, I prayed to God earnestly and He sent him to me again. He came and showed me my wife sitting with her mother standing behind her. I objected in the vision and he asked me why. I quickly told him that I loved fair ladies. �
He laughed at my ignorance and told me "that is what you want, but not what you need". He further told me many things about the lady he was showing me. � Thank you Jesus.

Can't write half my encounter here, but just a few more lines. I initiated the relationship after over a year or more. I soon ran out without a reasonable issue. Within the following year, I never called her on phone for once and never spoke with her. Fully determined not to go back to her. But, God is merciful.

I tried initiating other relationships, each of which he warned me not to try. He even visited people (who entirely knew nothing about what I was passing through) in revelations and sent them to come and warn me about the intending relationships. Note that I never even entered any other one. Just intentions of heart, still within me.

When I prayed and asked Him to reveal the right person to some people who knew nothing about us, He did. A colleague at work (he didn't know I was battling a choice issue) came and told me a revelation and how he was shown a lady who was supposed to be my wife. He described her without mincing words. (My wife wears no make-up. She is dark. She was wearing a low-cut until our wedding) She had unique features with which she can be described. When I brought pictures, he pointed at the person he saw. An old woman (my mother's elder sister who visited her) got exactly the same and described her to my mom. Wow! Not an imagination. I had several convincing interactions with God.

Today, I am enjoying my marriage. I couldn't have asked for anything better. My marriage can inspire you, if you see us. But, you know what? Till date, we have not had a child and we are leaving gloriously in harmony. We have passed through many hurdles and are soaring higher. Day by day we experience grace unspeakable. We will have our own children and bring them up in the fear of God, but that will be at God's own time too.

I narrated this little to tell you that God still directs marriages. But not all will receive such grace. I don't subscribe to my pastor said. That is closer to hell, these days. But, if a man has Christ and the Holy Spirit, he will know the leading of God and the voice of the Holy Spirit. Nothing can be better than following God's leading. I am a witness.

ibietela2:
A lady told me God didn't give her reason to accept me.

webady:
Your write up doesn't make sense, ask Samson that married whom God did not choose for him, he will educate you better.

In everything in life you need Gods direction, either by going to God by ones self or seeking spiritual advice. A Pastor or Prophet with genuine calling will not mislead you. if you fail to involve God, you will definitely regret it.

We are human beings, we are not perfect, so it is very possible to choose wrongly. We need God direction 100%.

leofab:
yoi mean the type He found for Chris Oyakilome?

izzou:
There is absolutely nothing wrong if any man decides to ask God to decide for him in any aspect of his life. Absolutely nothing wrong

I used to have this friend back then when I was in school(he had graduated though). He got a job that was going to pay him six figures back then. He turned it down, telling everyone that God told him not to take it. How God told him, nobody knew

Two years down the line, bros was still jobless. We all blamed him for refusing a juicy offer but oga still insisted that God told him not to take it.

The third year, he got another one that was almost double the salary. Not only that, after six months, oga was shipped to Germany for training and they retained him there till this day.

If he had actually relied on his feelings back then, well,
I can't say.....

God is still in the business of deciding for people no matter how good the situation looks, if only you let him

Ikio:
Put GOD out of it, read ur bible GOD STOPPED giving man a wife after the case of adam and eve daht ur job but u must ask 4 GOD'S DIRECTION

Boyooosa:
Yep, u r right.
But really, I'm not in the right frame of mind t o contribute anything tangible tonight.
Nevertheless, my observation is, you didn't plot the piece very well (unlike you). Specifically, the motive behind the piece was not adequately reflected, then, a kind of contradiction making ref to 2 bible scriptures that connote that God urged some people to take woman or specific woman, that's not true. There are a lot of other references that depict this (I'm too lazy tonight tho).
And moreover, since there is reference to it once or twice or more, why don't you just agree that it is normal to seek God's guidance first, before making any important decision in life? There are a lot of ways you can do that anyway (still lazy tonight).
Well, I will write my input explicitly 2moro peobably, by His grace.
Cheers bro!

Boyooosa:
Not fully.
Toks, I guess you are quickly running out of idea. You need a lot of more research, steadfastness and right frame of mind next time u r writing.
This is an incomplete piece! with all humility bro.

izzou:
He actually wrote God, together with pastors and Alfas, until someone called his attention and he removed it

That to me, is ignorance

izzou:
Another funny one

When you ask God for directions, what exactly are you asking God? Directions to the lady's house? Or her place or work?

When you are asking for directions, you are simply asking to be led to the specific place. Why are you guys always digging up different meanings out of something?

These were his words



Does that look like someone looking for directions from God to you?

God will never force us to do his will. Never. You can choose whatever girl you want, whatever course you want to study, whatever job you want. It's up to you.

But you can still sit down, ask God and wait till you hear from him. People do it and it still happens.

I hope you understand me and don't quote back just to argue. I'm here to learn

Adios

austyn0:
Oga what are you implying?

His point is,, we should rather ask God for direction other than asking God to make the plans for us...The Bible says we should make plans while God directs our actions.....

The Bible is a double edge sword....Now, on the issue of what op posted, sometimes you've gotta be realistic with life...Pray to God to help you find a good partner is more naturally solid than waiting on God to bring or show you your partner through some acclaimed men and women of God.

izzou:
Those are your words. Aren't they?

Now read the verse again and see if you'll understand. Try to take a glass of milk while reading. I heard it helps

It's because I am an ardent reader of your thread, if not, I wouldn't have bothered typing. God still speaks, reveals, and gives people their right spouses to marry. You don't believe in it doesn't mean it's not happening.

Just like you advised,i need to sleep Monday traffic can drain one's strength

izzou:
Proverbs 3:5-6 New International Version (NIV)

5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.

You should take more time to study the Bible. Know more about the God you serve before creating threads just to make the front-page or get irrelevant likes

Tomorrow is Monday. Work calls. Read that verse up there. Read different translations and ask yourself.

Why did that part advise me not to lean on my own understanding?

Be wise bro. Have a great week ahead

JupiterGeekVII:
You shouldn't have placed God in the same category as pastors. There're many false pastors who mislead people into the wrong marriage. I'm definitely an advocate of not asking pastors for confirmation or letting them decide for you.

But I don't see anything wrong with asking God. While He has given us the freewill; who we marry isn't pre-determined, we choose. At the same time, we can see His face and guidance to determine whether we're making the right decision or not, and unlike pastors, He will not mislead. You just have to make sure you listen well because God has different ways of answering prayers.



Instinct/intuition can be God's way of speaking. But one has to be discerning because it might not be of God.

izzou:


For the first time, I am absolutely disappointed that you actually wrote something trashy like this



I haven't read a write up loaded with so much ignorance in a while

Happy Sunday though

HeWrites:


You sha wan let your post reach Frontpage.. No Wahala