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Kiakia:
This is because you did not subsccribe with the code.

9mobile does not use a code..just bundle at least 500naira Monty subs and you are on.

missbeckykisses:
my chewst, I mean my breaswst hahaha my ex can't even last up to 5mins sef and he has cum, ended the relationship cos dude almost had me pregnant

Iru awon omo wo ni o wa la ye ode oni?

Lalas247:
Quality

No comment.

dacblogger:
Funny enough,you both used each other.

She had fun,you had fun... So don't come here n be feeling like you won American Visa lottery.

You both got played.

Please stop reasoning this way.

Adaumunocha:
he a drag like Boy George.

All these names you are mentioning are strange to me..
How do you see this write up? be candid.

Adaumunocha:
A cross dresser cum drag queen.

Which one be drag queen again.

Adaumunocha:
Wanna pull a bobrisky on us?

Seen that name on Nland. .who is he or she?

Adaumunocha:
The op is such a romantic... I think.

Certainly.

Divay22:
Hmmm
Me like

Does it make sense a little?

ikp120:


I think say you na spirikoko.

Pastor wey dey wear wig?

Lol,I'm one hell of a lively fellow.

falconey:


LWKM.......... toks2008 with Bob Marley hairstyle.
So fucking_ gay!




meanwhile.....

lol! nah wig o...

7.If after doing all you can to be the best wife and he still cheats on you with impunity I advice you just face your life and that of your children rather than leave your marriage cos there is no guaranty that your next man will be better.And strangely,8 out of 10 ladies who leave their marriage because their husbands were unfaithful usually end up as intimacy gadgets in the hands of randy men,as a lonely single mum,and ironically,as a mistress to another married man so why leave your marriage in the first instance?

Be strong and let him know that it is his loss not yours but don't ever leave your marriage for a side dish to be the main dish....a side dish she is and a side dish she will remain.

This is very very vital

2.Ok you are now married and he is all over you so you just believe he is such a sweet romantic angel that have eyes for just you....

Well im so sorry to break your heart but expect him to cheat and be psychologically prepared for that regardless of how crazy he feels for you.

*Yes I know not all men cheat bla bla bla" just expect him to but if he doesn't. ...CONGRATS.

1.Dont just follow your heart but use your head and be with that man who truly cares for you and not the one you desire cos the guy you want may not want you so don't force it.

In marriage,your feelings count but what is more important is how that guy feels for you so once you are convinced that the guy truly wants you,stop wasting time trying to be too careful,do a due diligence on him and if he is clean,just take the risk and marry him if he proposes.

Each time I hear ladies talk about the need to be careful in choosing the man to marry and they use words like "it's better to marry late and be with the right guy rather than get married in a hurry and regret"....i just shake my head and wonder why our ladies just don't get it ....

You can never be too careful in choosing the right man and if you like wait a thousand years trying to be careful,it's never a sure proof that you will end up with the right guy.

Ladies must understand that marriage is a risk. There is no good or bad choice of man but what we have is "YOUR CHOICE" and what you make out of it so you must learn how to deal with it.

So in my opinion,I present to you 10 unusual steps you can follow if you truly want to experience marital happiness.

Let's get started.

ProfCyber:
@Net9ra

I smell YouTube (Google’s) hand in this.

Google is that you?


But I am definitely not complaining because it means that you
can watch more of my YouTube videos.


For those who are not aware, you can stream YouTube
videos for free from 1 am – 5 am on 9mobile and this is
applicable to all data plans.


Which is quite different from MTN’s YouTube streaming offer
because with MTN you have to choose between 2 hourly data
plans — the 1hour for N150 and the 3 hours for N400.

To
subscribe to any of these, all you need to do is to dial the
subscription code *131*8# and reply with the option of your
choice.


So, has anyone joined the free YouTube streaming train, yet?
Cc: lalasticlala

Yes on 9mobile but I keep calling their customer care cos it sometimes depletes my main data while it ought to be free.

Ishilove:
So who says men can't be goldiggers? I got this off very popular relationship counselor's Facebook wall. The stories are real so this is not a case of tales by moonlight.

Honestly I see no gold digging here.

Until we all realize that there is less emphasis on love these days but what there is to gain,we will always see situations like this as gold digging.

9 out of 10 people marry these days for other reasons asides love so if the guy will fall in love with her cos her parent is rich so be it.(As long as he remains married to her and makes her happy)

It only becomes a wicked act if the guy maltreats her or leaves her after getting so much from her.

I could be wrong but this is my take on the matter.

beautiful232:
tnx dear

Why do most hot ladies lack good virtues?

Ishilove:
Define 'obesity' and briefly explain it characteristics, because I don't see an obese woman here. Quite the opposite.

Obviously your idea of 'fit' women are the skeletal and anorexic.

That's unhealthy, man.

You may not believe this but I get so turned on when I read your comments....that sapiosexual part of me keeps drooling over you...this is not flattery but a statement of fact.

Indeed you are very intelligent.

ReneeNuttall:
Do u really have to insult me just to drive ur points?God bless u anyways.

Me...insult you? why should I?

"Stop fooling yourself" was my text and how is this an insult.

If you are offended biko e ma binu o.

ReneeNuttall:
.

Stop fooling yourself....@your attached image...YOU CAN WAIT LONG AND STILL MARRY WRONG.

It's about taking risk.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

You better calm down before you go bunkers and the girl in question will not even remember you ever existed.

Get a grip of yourself and move on with your life. If you can forgive her please do but if you can't just move on and avoid poking into her private chats cos you will most likely see what you don't wanna see.

Always have an open mind towards any lady you are involved with and I mean..."expect her to cheat" and be prepared.

You asked "where will you start from" and I laugh in swahili..

I understand how you feel having spent many years with her but you just have to move on and stop wailing cos that won't help.

Best bet. ..forgive her and hope she stops cos letting go might just be a free meal for the other guy and even if the guy won't marry her,he will leverage on her vulnerability and have his fill of her.

Most ladies cheat but only the careless get caught.

TinaAnita:
Most married men are guilty of running back to their favourite exes each time they have marital issues.. Instead of resolving whatever issues they have with their wives they would start looking for a soft-landing and a shoulder to lean on.

Some married couples must learn to bear the brunt of their wrong choice of partners. Imagine the idiot dumped his ex over the issue of stubbornness without considering how she made him happy? I can relate with this story.

oh so you got dumped cos of a funny reason abi! don't worry,he will regret it.

OrdercityWeb:
In as much everything he said about his wife is wrong.
I find it very disturbing that someone could share private chat, to the extent of screenshotting pples conversation. I mean where is our humanity? Where is confidentiality for goodness sake?
I'm really disappointed. Personally anyone who shares his/her private chat with the public is very STUPID. He didn't threaten your life did he?
Why share his secret out? WHAT IS WRONG WITH NIGERIAN WOMEN AND THE CRAVE FOR ATTENTION ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
This is why i will drop dead the day i DM a lady on social media..

Now i have a message for idiots called guys who still DM/PM ladies. You idiots are the problem, you make this cretins feel on top of the world. This is why i always say every guy should become an ALPHAMALE. All this nonsense will stop. There are too much asslickers called guys that make ladies feel ultra-special.

Everyone knows ladies want attention, they crave it. That's what an Alphamale knows and uses to his advantage. Starve them of attention,
Like the way you give a dog food in the morning then wait for it to be very hungry before giving another meal. This way its the dog that will be calling for you. WHICH MAKES YOU IN CONTROL. Imagine if every Nigerian guy can do this, you would see that Nigerian ladies will borrow sense quickly but NO we still have some idiots called guys who still lick asses.
There is no lady living or dead who can try rubbish like this with me. I starve them of attention. I only give them bits.
FOR GOODNESS SAKE YOU DUMBOS SHLD STOP MAKING LADIES FEEL SPECIAL!!

And why you dey Para? and how are you sure they need your attention.

Abeg calm down jare.

TINALETC3:
dis is super storyyyyyyyyyyyytyyyyyyyyyy

Signature : As an introvert, punching my keyboard is d best way I cn express myself.

Spot on.