₦airaland Forum

Mynd44:
We as a people have to stop body shamming. Itsis just silly.

Just because someone is not appealing to us does not give us the right to bully the person.

This is why sapio-sexualism is the truth. No time for nonsense headaches

I respect you for your apt intelligent contributions on nairaland. You are one very outspoken and opinionated nairaland mod that wows me...keep it up.

If the boobs have breastfed at least a child or two then they are perfectly OK.

No firm boobs forever.

Humanistme:
toks2008 this nigga here says woman is the head of the house in Yoruba land do you agree?

A woman is unofficially the head of the house if she knows how to use her influence.

By being very submissive to the husband, the woman will subliminally become the head.

Lalas247:
Wait wait wait

So because u have one small beard means I must date u are you ok no seriously are u ok
How many ladies are out there millions ....... Maybe u need to check ur personality .... it’s really off .. u seem way too needy no chic wants that only a dumb chic .. ... nothing about shaKara. Beard get grade

Lol! so you also don't have any sense of humour...wow! biko calm down your raging hormones...I was only kidding OK.
Getting a lady is the least of my worries.

And a word of advice sis. ..please try to calm down real good and be humble cos humility is a rare virtue every lady needs.
Try to be very friendly cos you neva know the role anyone can play in your life.

I have not wooed you and you are already announcing to the world about not wanting to date me and ranting about my persona which you know nothing about habba! ...

I have met with hotter and far prettier nairalanders online and I gave them more admiration but none of them had ever come online to be this immature even after joking about it online.

I put a premium on the people I meet cos the greatest investment in life are the people you meet or relate with.

And just as you wrote,there are other far prettier,sexier and calmer ladies out there so you should know there is no way in the world that I will be all over you.

No pun intended but please for your own good..change.

gypsey:
Absolutely! %1000000 correct! besides nigerian police kill innocent nigerians in nigeria every day! maybe nigerians should complain about their own police brutalities first. South Africa is 10 million times saver than nigeria!

Violence is everywhere..U.S,U.K,Nigeria,S.A and other countries....even U.S has the highest rate of deaths of citizens caused by their own fellow citizens but people still want to troop there.

Many clean Nigerians are living in S.A and doing very well but when we hear of cases like this we usually ignore the fact that the naija guys involved in MOST CASES are not legit in their ways....we even heard of a massacre in Nigeria as a reprisal attack that happened in S.A and orchestrated by a certain Nigerian drug lord. But if we hear today that a certain Nigerian is murdered in S.A we Wil start ranting.

In most cases,"Eni to ba je gbi ni o ma ku gbi" and this is a fact of life.

cristianisraeli:
wetin concern me and beautiful..i say i no go SA na by force.i would father go to malawi or zimbabwe,am after freedom and peace and not beauty

Stop judging from afar..that's my point.

Lalas247:
The list is long

Tall dark handsome with a beard
If he can cook ewa agoyin , egusi or efo
Confident guys with the above trait
Also Ambition Kai na dat one go make me remove pant .... power couple goals
If he can sing lol song wey I fit twerk to.... o pari

And when you eventually saw one what did you do?

Pushed him away with unwarranted shakara. ..SMH!

cristianisraeli:
if they give me free visa to south africa.i would never go.i would rather go to zimbabwe

SA is a beautiful country and if they remain stagnant for 500 years,Nigeria can never catch up with them.

The fact that we hear these sad news does not mean thousands of Nigerians are not making it and living peacefully there.

In most cases,it is the bad Nigerians staying there that face all these problems.

generationz:
Whats so special about it that differentiates it from others?

Do you think it's an easy thing bowing down every few minutes for over 7 times in a service?

Kneeling down for minutes reading psalms and reverencing Jehovah is no child's play...there is a kind of victory that comes with that.

Psalm 95:6
Come, let us bow down in worship, let us kneel before the LORD our Maker;

generationz:
Mimo

Their mode of worship is second to none.

I joined in 83 and left in 92. Being to Redeem,latter rain,Christembassy,several gospel churches and came back to celestial church fully this year.

There is just something different about celestial church and for me,I'm back to stay...their worship is second to none.

generationz:
Are you celestian?

Positive

SAMBARRY:


Take 5 this time.around

Are you sure your nl account has not been hacked abi is it not the same toks again?wonders

Did you not see my thread on front page sometime ago titled "why marriage is a scam"?

Check my profile page.

SAMBARRY:
see this one again

Always barking endlessly

Who love epp? Those couple that are divorced today wasn't there a time they both claimed in.private and in public that they both love each other?
Shebi once upon a time tonto was always claiming on social media that Churchill was her everything her love,her this and that
Once upon a time iniedo said the same thing etc
So what gives you the impression that love is the primary reason for being in a relationship.It's a mutual benefit thing.they're in it for what they both stand to gain so if I see there's nothing to gain from you what is your usefulness in my life?

It's like friendship if you think the friend you're rolling with has nothing to offer you disfriend the person.that's how marriage is and should be.It's a shareholding company where pros and cons are being weighed whether it's worth it or not

We are on the same page.

But many ladies are still very naive and they are still looking for unconditional love upandan...they say they want a guy who can love them for real bla bla bla rather than developing something a man should really love them for.

DJperdurabo:
She stayed because she saw his " economic" potential as opposed to just staying for "love", now, tell me what is to be celebrated there. She was just a wise investor!

Again, she said " she worked for it"...!? Don't understand, worked for what? Putting up with his "empty" apartment or what?

Sigh...

Any lady that claims she's not materialistic due to the fact that she stuck with a guy she saw "potential" in should just hush it already as she's no better than the one that wants her own now now...the difference between both is that one has no time to waste while the other is more strategic in her plans (the latter enjoys more btw as the chap is hoodwinked into thinking he's a got a lady that would stick by him through thick and thin courtesy of her being by him while he had "nothing".

If only he knew the projections she'd done in a bid to remain in the so called " loving" relationship.

You deserve a hernessy for this.

I call it scam marriage but then 99.99% of marriages today are scams cos there is always a reason more important than "love" for choosing a spouse but for whatever reason, let them just remain married...shikenah.

ChangeIsCostant:
A Nigerian lady identified as Ochia Chukwudi Onyinye, has shared her story to inspire other ladies about choosing their life partners. According to the lady who recently celebrated 2 years marriage anniversary with husband, when she got to his (husband) house for the first time, she was shocked to see an absolute empty apartment but she still got married to him because she saw a brighter future in him.

Now, it appears their situation has turned around for good.

Below is what the excited lady shared on Facebook;

When I got to his house for the first time, I was shocked. There was nothing in it. Yes , absolutely empty. But I saw a brighter future in him. We got married .

We went through thick and thin. There were ups and down. But we stuck together and finally Finally Finally, God changed our story. He(God) put a new song in our mouth.

From grass to grace, From story to glory. So, if you see me flaunting my blessings, I beg no vex, I worked for it.

Join me thank God. Its two years of Grace. Two years in marriage...

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/10/lady-reveals-how-she-married-her-husband-despite-having-nothing.html

Asides thanking God for a change of status,I don't see any sense in this post...absolute nonsense. ...thus is why I have a phobia for many naija ladies cos of this warped mindset that when you choose to be with a broke or poor guy,you are doing him a favor and not that you also want to be with him.
And as a rich guy,you never can tell if the lady with you really want to be with you or just for the money.

Naija ladies should please change this foolish mindset...be with a man cos you want to be with him regardless and don't expect him to pay you back with faithfulness or marriage. ...every affair is a risk which you may either fail or succeed.

emmybernard:
@Op why you tagged the topic as cele woman?

Don't mind them...as if every other lady out there dating a married man are not from other churches. ...stupid title. And lalasticlala just push am fiam to fpage. .. all because of traffic.

Is HIV still a threat these days?

NwaChibuzor2:
why should a girl's pussy be worth just 1k? I pity the unfortunate man wey go marry am put for house.

It simply means her worth is beyond N100000. Simple logic

Reference:
So you can see another proof that facial and body enhancements can only attract but cannot retain relationships. How many times will the womenfolk be told that what matters is in the head not on the head and in the chest not on the chest.

No woman can keep any man from cheating regardless of her beauty or character but she can only try to make the man desire her above any other.

A man who Wan cheat go cheat and there is nothing any lady can do about that...Quote me in france

letusbepieces:
Women deserve respect as much as men do. That is all, i am going to say here.

I totally agree with you. Infact I'm so unhappy with the imbalance but it's just so unfortunate that we live in a man's world. I have lost count of many ladies who left thier marriages as a result of infidelity from the guy just to end up as intimacy gadgets for fck boys or as a mistress of another married man thereby commiting same adultery so I Always wonder if their leaving was worth it.

Stupid move...ode.
So after this divorce what next?
1.Remain celibate 2.Become a intimacy gadget for fck boys. 3.Remarry a single guy that will not cheat. 4.Probably still end up as another wife to an already married man 5.Remain frustrated.
Ladies are their own problems...

ladycomfort:
stop being angry

crayon sized dick

may be that was why your wife left you

Lmao! in fact it is mosquito size...weres

Iroyin o to afojuba. For the records I'm 6.3inches tall so there is no way I can ever have anything less than 7inches down there.

My point is that a great marriage i's never about dck size and the measure of a man's worth is never about the size of his dick. Only foolish ladies use dick size as a criterion for the type of man they want.

And lastly please for petes sake grow up and stop this lowlife attitude of bringing irrelevant issues in trying to make a point..its a very foolish thing to do. E are talking about an issue here and the next thing is bringing wife matter.Indeed some lafies are hopelessly dumb...biko grow up.Nuff said.

generationz:
Seriously, how many nigerian men wouldn't accuse a lady of being a hoe if she asks him to go naked
Besides, that a guys thing can rise when aroused doesn't mean it won't fall after one minute of sex.

If a lady is practicing abstinence she should just pray to be lucky

At least the thing rise and you go know the size....better than being left in the dark.

ladycomfort:
financially stable and big dick

Oya start looking for big dock upandan... ..Iranu...as if all that matters in marriage is big dick.

demsid:
hmm cos the guy na dummy abi. After checking then he receives kiss and hug just listen to yourself sir

Why not rape her then? see mentality.

majekdom2:
Oga, it's about d not personality now. She will prefer an average to big D, caring guy to an average to big d violent guy. Each to his own. Wanting to big D is no sin or perversion. Just as many men want beautiful and submissive wives

Let her answer,

ladycomfort:
it matters a lot

big dick are sweeter than the crayon sized dick

So lemme ask; would you prefer a caring romantic financially stable small dck guy or a violent unromantic equally financially stable big dck guy?

Pavarottii:
My guy u should be smart enough to read in between the lines. She already has another man else that's she is seeing. All these are just cover up stories .

It may surprise you to know that the husband may not have a small penis but it just might be her cravings for extra big dck as a result of her past affairs.

A lady who have dated a guy with 9inches long and say 6 inches girth can never be satisfied with a 6inchlong and 4inch girth dck. Shall we say a 6inch dck no try?

If she was a virgin when she married the guy and she remains faithful I guess she won't have this problem.

This is why a lady usually cheats on her husband cos she will always run back to an ex that does wonders with her in bed.

Ladies are mysterious set of people...always wanting to get the best of everything and will not mind getting married to one man for financial comfort and sleeping with another for sexual satisfaction.

My prayer for this lady is that a crazy violent guy with big banana should fall on her so that as she enjoys the big banana,she will also enjoy several punches then she will pray for a caring guy with mosquito thing.

This is I always tell ladies to check the size and condition of that guy before saying I do and it's not about sleeping with him.

Let him go naked before you and just a simple hug or kiss from you should kick start the thing and give you an idea of the size and functionality.

Adaumunocha:
Sometimes love could b a rational decision.

Exactly. ..without trying to judge anyone...I can relate to the Ooni of ife marital issue, these issues arising as reasons for the breakup has always been there but the Ooni allowed himself to fall so deeply in love and he just overlooked the vitals.

Sometimes if we can just learn to have a grip of ourselves and ask the right questions,we will save ourselves affordable heartbreak.

shinarlaura:
I don't think u plan when to fall in love. This thing just happen

This is why we must be careful to do the needful before it takes us unaware.

sunshineG:
I don't love with my heart these days, I love with my head

The first I do is to ask questions,

* find out if the person I am in love with have similar ideology about live
* find out the aspirations of the person


I may do it by by joking or in a very serious manner

But my love is definitely not blind

Good