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hrm93:
Tag that nairalander whose post is always on point

Well I don't know if posts in this context means thread or comment but I would like to list those who I find there threads intriguing

1.Explorer: Very insightful though it's simple copy and paste that can be done easily.

2.Tosyn2much:Very creative and funny with a subliminal strong message.

3.Myself: Highly creative,down to earth mature,trafffic pulling and thought provoking threads targeted at mature minds but very hard to comprehend by the teenagers and adolescents that make up greater % of naira land members.

4.Lalasticlala: Just want to see his threads that easily makes front page due to his position as a mod.

It still baffles me why modt ladies jist stand by gheir cars and give that funny "please help me look" and funny enough there will most likely be one dude domewhere who will help her but let any guy tries it,he will sleep there...

Ladies and their inability to change tyres be like...

Originakalokalo:
1. We all do not practice Islam.
2. " Whether you practice Islam or not....it is inconsequential to God" .......Not true sir.
3. We do not serve the same God. Worship, prayer, time of prayer, belief, the God himself,etc......all these do not match what is obtainable in Islam.

All these points were explained in details in those threads I refer you to.

God will not contradict himself. The Almighty God will not tell you those things listed.

Don't just read a part of the Bible. Read the whole Bible.

Woe unto him that says God say when he has not spoken. This is in the Bible.

Let's be careful of the information we pass across.
Many may be mislead. Our God is a consuming fire.

God bless you.

Pray for maturity in the word of GOD..It's so amazing that you still dwell on religion..smh..

When you die go to the portal of heaven and hell and start screaming "I'M A CHRISTIAN" maybe that will give you automatic entry.

Have a great day.

WORDWORLD:
Oh boy! Stop the religionphobia. One cant go anywhere on the freaking internet without some 'ATHEIST' popping up........"OH SO YOU BELIEVE IN GOD?". Well let me tell you something about LOGIC! Yeah we know its REDICULOUS, some of us believe in an ark and take metaphors and allegories literally. BUT WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO? ARGUE RELIGION OUT OF EXISTENCE? THAT IS AS MUCH WASTING YOUR LIFE AS YOUR CLAIM OF PRAYING TO ABRAHAMIC DEITY.

With all these Grammer you are using to disturb me I just laugh at you.

People that are more athieste than you surrendered to GOD at the point of death and yours will not be different.

And incase you still want to continue in your unbelieve please go on but trust me,when you find yourself in hell (if you die an unbeliever,the devil will give you a VIP treatment and then you will speak all the Grammer in the world but it will be too late.

Good morning...*if know you will write another novel over this but make I run*

Originakalokalo:
See the reasons why I responded to the thread. These points are copied from there.
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,we all practise Islam and as long as we emulate the teachings of the prophets including Jesus(As the Quran clearly points this out,we are Christians which means a Muslim is inadvertently a christian and a christian who submits to GOD is automatically practising Islam so why the segregation?



Whether you claim to be a Christian or a Muslim, whether you convert from Islam to Christianity or visavs, it is inconsequential to GOD.

3.Whether you pray to God in a mosque or in a church,whether you celebrate eld fitir or easter or whether you celebrate Eld kibir or Christmas, it does not matter to GOD but only the salvation of your soul matters to him.




7.Christians and Muslims believe in one GOD and pray to one GOD but only call him different names..

These are not biblical. These cannot be Revelations from God.

Not Scriptural?

Please explain...

Was there anywhere in the scriptures that says unless anyone belong to a certain religion,he or she will never be saved?

The popular scriptural verse says for God so loved the world that he gave his.......THAT WHOSOEVER (be you a Muslim or christian)believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life.

Furthermore let me shock you...Remove Quran 4:157 from the Islamic doctrine and it will amaze you that good Muslims are more GOD loving,morally upright than many Christians

This is a revelation GOD gave me and many Muslims in far away Iran and Saudi Arabia have received salvation through it while they still practise islam (Act of submittion to ALLAH (JEHOVAH).

Didov1:
..is it that same thread writen by toks2008,...u made a mistake somewhere...he NEVER said muslim dnt av 2 bliv in christ..infact dats what he preached about...he explained at d first page of his thread that sofar a muslim believe that christ died 4 him and take him as his personal LORD AND SAVIOUR,he can still make heaven without converting to christianity(duo i'm nt fully in support of his ideaology)he explained further that most of them never found christ bcox d idea of converting to christianity scares them away....i think thats d main purpose of that thread......nice writeup

May the holy spirit continue to guide you and strengthen you with more wisdom and knowledge in Christian Jesus.

You just summarized that thread. GOD BLESS YOU.

IBpaul:
Ok

Modified::
This ones do they have children at all, money or sex to pass them, who will now teach your own children, abi you go lecturer forever.

Nigeria is completely finished

Ironically some ladies lure lecturers into sex for grades.

emmanuelpopson:
hahaaa...comment and leave the gal alone nah..so you know whether nah Virgin or not by been a nerd...this comment of yours no be am at all...a good and brainy gal i not your assertion to know her sexuality...

I know wettin I dey yarn.

Humanistme:
who be lady ese? ta no be dis olosho wey dem don suck her brezz finish 4big brother naija. it is only oloshos that don't mind when their husbands or boyfriends are fucking around because there are chances that she is doing the same.
she is already used to man sharing and fucking people's husband so it's nothing to her.
the only ladies that don't mind cheating partners are oloshos and those married to Yahoo yahoo or very rich big boys which is understandable cos money makes the world go round

Coming from a lady. ..Lalasticlala can you now see that I'm vindicated with respect to this thread...

https://www.nairaland.com/4043799/deserves-faithful-man

TINALETC3:
Nobody shud take my own oooo, no vacancy

I will soon be taken by a foreign lady..you all should be forming.

Evaberry:
....

Wow

so you mean that girl above is just 21!!!

She looks 32 already, she should devote a little time to change her looks and learn how to dress better.


You can be smart and beautiful na.

If she is not the way she is how easy do you think it will be for her to make that record?

Nearly all geeks are like that and I won't be surprised if she is still a virgin cos her brain no go get space for any other thing.

Divay22:
Wow..
And the both of them still looks good

Thank GOD the woman was smart and reasonable to discern his true intentions unlike many clueless western ladies who are quick to conclude that every Nigerian guy who shows interest in them is only looking for a green card.

Sweet couple...me sef no go mind one sweet looking akata to start my life with.

cococandy:
Mumu.
Long post no sense.

All men cheat but you don't right? Say no further. The men who don't see the obvious shade you're throwing at them by pretending you're better than them are bigger fools than you.

@bold, try your hands at comedy.

I know how difficult it is trying to straighten a folded dry fish but please can you just try and turn a new leaf.

Meticulously strive to communicate without the use of vulgar or abusive words cos it belittles you socially,mentally and even physically.

Have a great day.

Immatex:
Matthew 19:4-6,9 answers: In reply he said: “Have you not read that the one who created them from the beginning made them male and female and said: ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh’? So that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”
I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of sexual immorality, and marries another commits adultery.”

You sure need some theological lecture but that will be another day.

Polygamy is not a sin in anyway and that verse you quoted does not make polygamy a sin.

Leave them..dem full here for naira land. ..always picking quarrels and acting like emeres.

This is why I don't send PMs to any lady..

cococandy et al

Magnifik18:
A decent, principled lady kicked your stupid broke ass off her life cos ur a disgusting born cheat and you call her an "impatient fowl"? Such nerve

Can you wear a soiled pant that's being passed around

You are a #%@×%&$@!*&=/%#%^&( no words small enough to quantify you).

And I'm sure you were both an emotional nd financial drain on her. She had to let you go cos you were & still useless to her.

Move on; your ex doesn't give a Bleep about you..

& listen Son!!!! don't quote me cos I've run out of bleeps to give to u.

Stinking piece of

Cheating is bad and I don't encourage it but then do you really think it is easy getting a faithful man out there?

Oh yes it just might be easy to see a smarter guy who is so skillfull in perfectly his philandering acts so well that you can never catch him....

Oh please don't get the wrong message,most guys will claim they are faithful but just a little tilt in the emotional balance,you will find these same guys in the arms of another lady and they just put the blame on the lady.

And ironically, 8 out of every 10 ladies who leave their husbands or boyfriends because he cheated(not with impunity) usually ends up being used as intimate y gadget by Bleep boys or worse still starts sleeping with another woman's husband and at the end,they are forced to accept the bitter truth that men will forever be men but at that point,the other woman who knew her man was with her but still had the affair with him just to displace her,would have become the madam of the house and she will be left in regrets.

I don't know how this will sound by I keep telling ladies...NEVER EVER LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND OR THE MAN THAT LOVES YOU because another lady wants you out.

That side chic knows your man is with you and her main mission is to unseat you from your matrimonial home...please to let her.

For the unmarried lady,if that guy truly loves you,he will never cheat on you with impunity and if you ever catch him despite his smartness,understand that leaving him is no guaranty that your next man won't be worse.

What matters is a guy that truly wants you...stop looking for a faithful man upandan. ...use your head.

For the randy guys,if you must please respect that lady and carry your silly acts far away and PLEASE USE PROTECTION TO SAVE YOUR MORTAL LIFE AND THAT OF YOUR WIFE AND UNBORN CHILDREN.

I will stop here.

cococandy:
@toks2008

This is coming from your fellow man. Maybe you can borrow some sense from him instead of using an obviously foolish girl as an example for me.

Lack of common sense

Hmmmm! apparently I can see that you keep getting something wrong.

Lemme shock you...YOU WILL GO ON YOUR KNEELS TO THANK GOD EVERYDAY IF YOU ARE EVER FORTUNATE TO HAVE A MAN LIKE ME.

You seem to get carried away by the deceit or make believe comments many guys post online...wolves in sheep's clothing posing to be decent men online but are worse than demons in real life...Kontinue

The toks online is a down to earth, non hypocritical,unbiased realist who presents issues realistically and not from the way i believe things should be. .

All my life I have only really being with one lady who I loved faithfully until we parted and till date she still respects me and she came running back after she realized her mistakes but it was rather too complicated for me to reconcile. For me,I don't even know how to double date let alone cheat on my lady and that is why I will never settle for a lady that is not my taste cos if I do, I will most likely cheat on her.

But of what good will it be if I come online to start preaching about moral chastity when I know for a fact that the world has gone crazy and all the sermons forced down the throat of randy guys have had no effect.

So rather than continue to lead ladies on preaching the idea of sexual faithfulness, I believe it makes more sense to prepare them for a possible negative outcome so that they won't be caught off guard.

You ladies have called me names here and even nairaland guys who are hopeless philanderers will also come online to act saintly but day by day,threads such as this makes the front page vindicating my non hypocritical stand view.

If you like continue to curse and rant..your headache..one fact you can never run away from isthat a randy guy will be a randy guy and any lady who is not prepared for "THE POSSSIBILITY(not certainty)" of sharing her husband with another lady should not bother getting married.

One man one woman is a facade,a chase after the wind. As a lady,if you are fortunate to see a faithful guy,kudos but if not,carry your cross because as the OP said,leaving a guy that cheats on you is the dumbest thing any lady can do but if the guy rubs it on your face,take a walk cos such a guy does not respect you hence not worthy of you...

Wilgrea7:
i don't think you get the whole point of Islam.. its not about what Islam means.. its about what Islam is.. what it entails.. what the beliefs and rules are.. you can't cover that up by just saying what Islam means.. the meaning of the name “islam" is irrelevant to the discussion.. the Quran doesn't believe in Holy spirit or holy spirit insemination.. the Quran strictly forbids worshipping or believing any body other than Allah.. so believing in Christ is a big crime in Islam.. so no.. you cannot be a Muslim and believe in Christ...


this is a biased statement.. i can also say in heaven there are no churches or mosques.. just followers of Mohammed.. belief in Christ is to Christianity as following Mohammed is to Islam



Christians share the same God with muslims as much as they share the same God with sihks.. its not about the claim of an all supreme creator.. when there are different aspects or belief of the creator, then it's as good as having different entities.. but that's a story for another day


islam forbids you accept Jesus as your lord and saviour



please refer to my points above

also.. you've not shown me how the belief in Christ is outside Christianity

Believe whatever you want bro.Whatever rocks your boat.

selflessposhheart:
Hmmmmmm well I'm single and I careless

Just take it easy....it's a small world...don't end up having your fiance bestie as an ex.

tosyne2much:
This one pass my knowledge ooo
Cc Toks2008

I help am do am? make e face im parol.

Kolababe:
Ese Eriata who is known to be an "i-don't-care" personality has chastised fellow women who complain about men cheating nature and use that as an excuse to walk out of relationship. According to Eriata who became more famous when she was brought in as a fake housemate during the recently concluded Big Brother Naija reality show,believes that it is ok for men to cheat on their women as long as they don't rub it on their spouses face.


http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/if-you-dump-a-man-because-he-cheats-your-brain-is-leaking-bbnaijas-ese-eriata

Coming from.a lady...cc:cococandy over to you.

Immatex:
Infidelity is a sin not a sport

Proverbs 10:23 says: To the stupid one the carrying on of loose conduct is like sport, but wisdom is for the man of discernment.

There's no wisdom in cheating against a spouse and it's not funny remaining in an unfaithful relationship.

What if he decides to marry another lady?

Xiadnat:
Smashing post toks. Shocking and even heresy to some 'religious' spirits. But this posts veracity is scriptural.


My sentiments exactly when it comes to all these religious squabbles that have plagued mankind for ages.

I can worship God in any place: mosque, synagogue, shrine etc...

I can celebrate any holiday I want: christmass, easter, hanukar, yon kippur, kwanza, eid fatir, new moon etc...

I can read any religious book I want: bible, book of mormon, the JW tower or something rather, koran, the sans scripts etc...

......at end of day: I am grounded on whom I serve in my heart. And it won't change a thing of my belief in the great I AM.

The G-d who is a spirit and can only recognize spirit G-d to spirit Man. Not religion, not building, no creed, no scripts.

Anyways....

Two thumps up. 5 stars out 5.

Remain blessed my brother. Thank you.

selflessposhheart:
I won't keep it I'm real I'll let him know from the start not later he starts to find out I'm not perfect I'm not flawless I made mistakes wen I was young and naive now I'm grown and wiser I need a mentally and emotionally matured guy to understand this not babies who feels its only sex I came to offer him

Call me a baby or even a tata I care less but I have given you my 50cents...some things are best kept secret and hope he does not find out

Let us guess but don't tell us else you will just use your mouth cause wahala for yourself

Most guys no matter how mature they may claim are always curious about the body count of the lady they want to marry regardless so it's up to the lady to be smart about this...trust me,no guy wants a lady that have tested too many kobokos.

Wilgrea7:
please explain how.. cuz last time i checked, the muslim religion forbids worshipping christ or professing him as co-equal with God or believing in him for salvation.. so please tell me how someone can believe in Jesus and still be a Muslim.. thanks

This the mystery of salvation.

Islam means to submit to Allah (God)
The Quran believes in Jesus except that aspect of crucifixion.

In heaven there are no Christians or Muslims, no church or mosque, just believers in christ.

Christians and Muslims pray to one GOD and both believe in Jesus except the fact that sone Muslims don't believe in the crucifixion which unfortunately is the DE facto for the salvation of their soul (though they don't believe this)

So you can be a muslim and accept Jesus as your saviour (by accepting that he died for you) without leaving islam (the act of submition to GOD).

It is the erroneous mindset that a Muslim must be a Christian to believe in The redemptive mission of christ that have made many Muslims reject salvation cos to them they can't just imagine giving up a religion they were born into.

If as many Muslims as possible can understand this revelation that they can accept salvation while still practising islam,millions will be saved without causing any problem associated with converting to Christianity which is inconsequential when it comes to salvation of our souls.

So go ahead,pray 5 times a day,observe your festivals,go to hajj as many times as you want BUT ACCEPT THE FACT THAT JESUS DIED FOR YOU and believe in that sacrifice he made on the cross to save you AND YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY SAVED...without going to any church or crusade...you can do that in the comfort of your room.

This is the mystery I hope lalasticlala will let GOD use him to beam to the world so that through this medium,many Muslims can have salvation.

I pray GOD opens the eyes and minds of as many Muslims that reads this.

One God Allah/Jehovah
One sacrifice(Jesus christ)
Two religions pointing to one GOD.

I have done my part and I leave the holy spirit to do his part.

GLORY HONOUR POWER AND MAJESTY BE UNTO JEHOVAH(ALLAH) FOREVER MORE AMEN!

Empiree:
?.

Here lies another problem, according to bible quotes u there, shows he was born to be sacrificed, correct?. If that's so, why cried on the cross?. Does that mean he did not want to sacrifice himself?.

I have answered this. Check page 2 or 3

selflessposhheart:
Seriously cos of 8 exes you gonna b mad we av over 3billion dudes in the world you gonna be mad I dated just 8?
Glad u ain't my man

I Don warn you o...keep it a secret cosmos guys won't be cool with that...habba! nah jankara market? and dome ladies go Don do 20sef
.Oga o

selflessposhheart:
I'm not a virgin over 8exes but faithful to the core I still deserve a faithful guy op I no care about being sexually active or not na trick guys kuku trick me to get the honey pot with fake love and care.

I need DAT "one" to be faithful and loving I deserve it cos my sexual life doesn't define my moral life

As I wrote,the discussion is an open one. I gave my opinion and if I'm your man,it's better I don't know this cos it baffles me how a lady will be opening her legs anyhow for 8 exes...Habba!

Just keep it a secret from me...wettin come remain for your body?

And ofcourse your Sexual life determines your normal life cos if you make love to some people,your normal life can turn abnormal and it will take lots of deliverance section to bring it to default settings.

Empiree:
Now, kindly answer this question you were asked. Wh was killed or crucified on the cross,Jesus(man) or God or mangod?. Which one?

The Bible Answered this very clearly without leaving any reason for guessing or misinterpretations in John 19:16-18

"16 Then delivered he him therefore unto them to be crucified. And they took Jesus, and led him away.
17 And he bearing his cross went forth into a place called the place of a skull, which is called in the Hebrew Golgotha:
18 Where they crucified him, and two other with him, on either side one, and Jesus in the midst."

Please stop asking this funny question cos there is no confusion whatsoever in the Bible.

The muslims who believed he was not crucified should be the ones to tell the world who was crucified? failure to answer that is an acceptance of false presentation of the actual crucifixion story.

WrathOfHadez:
Another thread form Toks bothering on sheer foolishness.
What's a lady's past got to do with the fidelity of her husband of he's faithful and loyal to her current relationship?
Must you post silly threads just to be relevant?

The true test of a sound IQ is the ability to discuss issues without getting fussy even if other discussants have very foolish opinions.

So please at least try and grow up...this is an interactive thread where people give opinions without acting up so give your response and be at peace....no one is fighting anyone here.

Empiree:
Sir, do you have problem with comprehension?. The revelation in its PLAIN & CLEAR arabic text NEVER said anything about substitution. What it said is Jesus(as) was NEITHER KILLED NOR CRUCIFIED. That's clear unless you have problem understanding text. This is english sir.




You are making up your own theory right. Actually the idea of "theory of substitution" sprang from christianity itself not islamism. Below is a short article written about stuff found in christian manuscripts that Judas was substituted for christ. This is excerpt from the article.


A shocking claim could “collapse Christianity” as it puts one of the key claims of the religion under scrutiny.

A so-called “lost gospel” which has been kept in Turkey claims that it was not Jesus who was crucified, but rather the traitor Judas.

This is according to information allegedly written by Barnabas, one of the messiah’s disciples.


http://www.express.co.uk/news/science/795396/BIBLE-CLAIM-Judas-Jesus-not-crucified

Concerning the lost (fake gospel)thank GOD its called lost gospel (Apparently that is where the lies stemmed from)

I'm also happy you have agreed in clear terms that the original Quran texts never added the lies the interpreters added.

Now do you know that many Muslims were actually misled by that false interpretation of someone taking the face of Jesus? how sad.

Anyways since you still want to take that verse in isolation,I will leave you to your option.

As far as I'm concerned...and in my opinion,only the ignorant will refute the fact that Jesus was crucified and A DENIAL OF THIS IS AN AUTOMATIC DENIAL OF PARADISE (JANNAH)

Call me names I care less but you have two options.

1.Believe now and be saved or
2.Be Adorun MO o to (Know the truth after you die) and suffer the consequence of eternal separation from God and you will be reminded of the chance you lost.

Your life your choice ....nuff said.