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tiffanyfan:
Am a 200l student, I met this guy here on NL, though when we started I didn't tell him am 18, I told him am 24, I cooked up different lies for him, so that he won't see me as a teenager, but with time, I felt deeply in love with him and I think he felt the same way, though we have never slept together.

I decided to confess all my lies to him....which I did on Saturday, though he was angry initially but he later calm down and said I should come to his place today so that we can talk about the issue....av never been to his place b4, we only meet at public places. The problem now is he is threatening to call it quit if I did come to his house today, though I really love him but am not ready to go his house now. PLEASE NO INSULT

As long as you are 18 and above you have the right to fall in love with any man you desire regardless of his age as long as he is also 18 years and above.

I always recommend that teenagers avoid peer relationships so the age gap is very ok but many young ladies usually make the mistake of dating guys with very close age gap which in most cases end in heart break.

As long as you are pleasing to my eyes,can cook well,makes your own money and loves GOD to stupor,ask me out and I'm forever yours...

I'm even tired of wooing ladies. ..too old for that now.

Peace2love:
Okay oooh their T-shirt said it all "DON'T HATE THE PLAYER, HATE THE GAME"

I hope this guy is not a player.

But still they should not forget that 'He that made them, made them male and female, not male and females'

See quote...

hayfay:
I ve been crushing on u 4 a longtym nw,but dnt knw aw u wud react was y I kept it to myself,but I I can't hold it in anymore ( I luv u) do u feel d same .

I appreciate your boldness but sorry I don't feel the same way.

lalasticlala do you agree?

With these endowments sef the guy go be one hell of chronic philanderer to cheat on her at least not for the next 20 years after marriage even if he go still cheat

Its either I marry a hot babe or make I remain single.

cococandy:
I deserve a faithful man.
How I lived as a single person is irrelevant.
If I slept with 100 men and it all happened before I got married, the husband has no right no cheat based on that.

Infact it is archaic to think a woman's worth is centered on the state of her vagina. But I'm not suprised this is coming from you. You're known to court and support the most condescending and misogynistic views of women.

If two people took vows to be faithful to each other whatever happened before then is irrelevant.

Do you agree that if a man who used to be a playboy gets married and stays faithful to his wife, he doesn't deserve faithfulness from her? I guess not. Which once again exposes your deplorable point of view.

I don't know why I bother

It's amazing that you show so much dexterity in your arguments yet in my opinion,they are bizarre.

Unfortunately,how you live your life as a single lady goes a long way to determining your marital value.

Maybe in the region you live it does not matter but this is Africa where men place little or no marital value on a lady with numerous body counts...Yes they can stay married to you but your marital value will be nothing to write home about.

cococandy:
Do you deserve a faithful woman?

Oh yes I do for two reasons

1.I'm a very rare faithful man who will hardly ever cheat on my wife and who had managed to live a sexually decent life style( even when we know I don't need these to deserve a faithful lady)

2.A sexually faithful lady is the pride of any man

So I ask again..Do you deserve a faithful man? how have you lived as a sexually active lady before marriage? how many men can describe your interior dimensions? these are vital criteria for any lady to demand faithfulness from a man cos a hoe should target be glad she is even married let alone clamouring for a faithful man.

cococandy:
of course you're enjoying them
What
You should do is find a woman who thinks like this to settle down with. So that you can do whatever you please and she will stay

Why trying so hard to convince people like me? When my brain is still functioning?

Do you deserve a faithful man?

Rexsul:
Enjoy ur trip my President.

Wailers right now..

Lmao and rotf! chair! the attached pics cracked me up big time.

abelprice:
Let's hope it last.. maybe d guy and d gal don't know d meaning of love.. ... as soon as dey know.. they will split like the gulf of Mexico and misisipi river.... ..

As long as they are good close friends,they may never break up.

Evablizin:
My Lawd nah she be dis?

Well i will take you serious when you are married with kids,some ladies will say so many things in order to get married.

Lalasticlala kudos to you...I dey enjoy these front page materials.

Cococandy here is another one..come and start cursing me again.

Silvertrinity:
made a little sense though

Made a little sense cos its coming from a lady but if it was toks that wrote this he will be called mysoginist and other funny names.

lalasticlala has stopped putting such threads on fpage just because of naira land toddlers who still fool themselves with stupid romeo and Juliet love mentality.

cc:cococandy oyah come and abuse me as usual....nah your work.

lI really pity this girl cos the stigma will forever remain.

Rexsul:
Enjoy ur trip my President.

Wailers right now..

Lmao and rotf! chair! the attached pics cracked me up big time.

Thisnut:
take the grammar to the bank and cash it out

Awww! was expecting a gentle man response...something like "thanks for the correction" but then its alright. Do have a great week ahead.

Thisnut:
lame!

So you have to work harder because you're unsecured?

It's only when your game is weak AF you got to feel this unsecured and get worried where your lady is when you're not with her.

I agree, most naija babes are lazy and they invest more on makeup instead of their brains but if your game is up, you got nothing to fear.

It's insecure and not unsecured. ..furthermore you seem to be missing the point cos what i wrote is not about me but the facton ground....i have no problems with insecurity but what I wrote is the reality on ground. Not every guy has time for deceit. .. anyways....all man with his own.

Adebowale89:
engaged but matured female friends ain't bad to have

To do wettin with them? fry beans?

Macgreat:
There are only two kinds of relationship;
1. Single
2. Married
All those other ones don't exist

Correct.

ollydee:
single and searching single and searching

Nah song?

Well you can't be searching but just be available...nah man dey search.

angelanto8:
whatever

Una go dey claim single yet if man woo you nah serious forming.

If you think sey na lie oya make I woo you...*coughs and clears throat*..."nne you too fine ....biko wete yah namber...

angelanto8:
Single and not searching..at least not here on nairaland

Yinmu!

thesuave10:
You lack self esteem bro

What has self esteem got to do with facts...abeg park well.

What I wrote has nothing to do with me but the reality on ground so stop being myopic and face reality.

Lalas247:
Hmmm I feel your pain ..

E no pain me at all...my own is to avoid the bad ones...I can not go and cone and die.

Humility017:
I tell you it is disheartening I don't even know what to say... many ladies have turned relationship into a paid job.... and some guys also as an avenue to get cheap sex

lalas247 shebbi you see....
Most naija babes no get chill.

Arthurwinner:
Well I'm not that super rich but I'm buoyant enough as God may have it...
To be very precise ....
I started dating this lady not too far from now and it have been moving nicely buh, lately i noticed some change in her attitude since she became very sure that I really love her...

For the past month we discussed about marriage and I told her that I'm going to marry her and truly I want to cos it feels like I CAN'T stay without her.....

But the problem is that since then whenever she's around I don't feel like coming back to my house after work cos all she does is to collect money for this or for that and when I try to tell ha that I don't have she always threatening to break up with me, every time I give her money to buy something that is when everything in the market becomes costly, sometimes I look at her and inmy mind I be lik'e "shey Dis gal no know say I sabi d price of all d things she dy lie abwt''
but I keep cool for the sake of peace...

Abeg can you imagine that a brown powder (Zara) she told she bought for 9k I checked it out and its sold for 3k... since night I haven't talked to her but as usual she's packing her bag now....I know in her mind she's waiting for me to beg her or she leave ......

What do I do FAM .....I truly love her

Shebbi I talk am! materialistic ladies everywhere....

GOD GIVE ME A CONTENTED LADY.

Lalasticlala I think this is very interactive.

tosyne2much:
It doesn't make sense shey?

At all.

Nellychinma20:
That brings us to the end of my story




Reality dawns ................ Am still single

Wow! so hilarious and catchy...

lalasticlala must be flogged for bringing this to Fpage...

Lalas247:
Lol who hot epp

For me it is very vital...I want a lady that will give me an erection just by glancing at her...

As I wrote, a lady with a nice tits and good body curves make me grow weak and that is my spec...can't settle for less.

Lalas247:
Well he needs a good shag ... I'm sure it wasn't in reverse cowgirl
I don kuku tell am to stop playing with chewing gum girls he won't listen

Lmao!

See lalas it will shock you to know that I can afford to shag every day with different ladies FREE OF CHARGE but the holy spirit has changed me totally and sometimes I ask myself if I'm OK.

Don't get it twisted,I love sex and I know how to do it real good and in fact I think about sex more than I think about the Bible but I can't take the grace of GOD for granted and continue to enjoy sin.

I practically flee from fornication cos if I go near a hot lady wuth crazy curves and she plays along,I will definitely cross that line so I just avoid any lady I know can make me fall but if you are not my taste,nothing will make me touch you even if you go naked.

So yes I need good shagging in every imaginable way but I would prefer I get a wife to shag rather than risk my life shagging Nkechi,titi,Caro.....

It pays to be disciplined and any man who can not control his sexual urge is less a man.