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Lalas247:
Don't blame me .... ask Jesus why he don't wanna let me go

Lol! but you are too hot to be single...

tosyne2much:
See as you brutalized Naija ladies

You know I have seen things so I know what I'm implying.

In most cases,If you see a Naija lady still all over you,it's most likely that she has not met another guy better than you financially or in other aspects of interest so you just continue to deceive yourself that she loves you but pray she never meets one else you are history.

The best you can do for yourself is to work hard and I mean really hard so that you can always have enough to provide and pray you find a lady who will be disciplined enough to be patient with you.

Nigerian economy has turned our ladies to a commodity for the highest bidder.

Lalas247:
In a serious RELATIONSHIP

You just broke my heart,I have informed my friends that I have found the one,curvy sweet looking opeke and I was getting prepared to carry my family to your family...but no wahala, make I continue my search.

tosyne2much:
Omo, there are so many single ladies on this thread sha. Food don come oooo

Cc
Toks2008

Not interested.

Single but clueless and lazy ladies who have nothing to offer except their ravaged bodies,ladies who pray for a GOD fearing and faithful man but would rather prefer to be the 10th wife of Dangote rather than work hard to become Mrs Alakija. .. they will not mind to be a baby mama of Davido rather than be the numero uno of a struggling artiste and would rather love a rich randy monkey rather than be with a progressive struggling calm and faithful guy.

Clueless ladies everywhere.

rizingmoney:
ok thank you

You are welcome beautiful one.

Humanistme:
I keep hearing Naija ladies are runs girls yet weddings keep happening every weekend. the pre wedding pics I see on nairaland does not show the guys are billionaires.

anyway I hope you find your spec

lol! not all naira girls dude buy finding that one that is unmaterialistic is as difficult as picking a diamond on the streets

God help us n do have a great weekend.

Humanistme:
no they don't. they learn from other people's experiences. Nigerian men have bad reputation abroad, not just men sha even women.
they don't even find it easy dating the ones already abroad on students visa not to talk of those still in Nigeria with backward naija mentality. that's the truth. anyway good luck in your search [quote author

My brother I no dey too search like that...if I see a naira lady wey also make sense why not? just that the economy for naija don turn most girls to subliminal runz girls even when they never want to accept

Do have a great weekend

rizingmoney:
lol.. Thank you sir. But we cant talk on phones because i dont want my parents to feel am disobeying them for that i have changed my mobile num many times now an i dont want to change this two, maybe we can talk when i go back to school but for now email me on that email address. By the way my name is Benita call me Beny. Whats yours sir?

Hmmm! I can see you are still under tutelage so please call me anytime you feel you need to share your worries OK. ..and remember to keep up your good manners.

Olatokunbo is the name.

Lalas247:
Yes it's nice when kept neat and groomed ..

It's really a hard task keeping beards you know...As beards is to you,same way good curve for me...

As long as a lady as a nice bustline and a good body frame,I'm in trouble and that is why I'm so picky cos if I ever end up marrying a lady who is not sexual appealing to me,I will have to live my marital life in perpetual fantasy of wishing she has those features.

GOD HELP US.

Humanistme:
yeah and it's only those that are desperate or far older than you that will keep showing interest that's the point.





yeah and it's only those that are desperate or far older than you that will keep showing interest that's the point.


no woman wants to leave where she has things in common to look for a husband countries away. it only happens only the other way round.

On the contrary they do and that is why they are on the dating site but the problem is that they are scared.

They always think a naija guy just wants to use them get a perm stay and I just marvel at their myopic reasoning.

If you are hot and confident of yourself,if you are lovable and have what it takes to make a man stay with you then why the fear?

If you are hot,confident and lovable, even if that man had bad intentions,he will most likely fall for you within that period before he gets a stay.

As I wrote,it's not a do or die thing but if I see a sweet looking foreign lady good enough to be with,I will marry her and grow old with her....every other thing is secondary and a simple resultant effect of marrying her.

Humanistme:
Alpha male indeed

alpha male that is looking for foreign maga to live off her sweat or use her to get visa /citizenship. story!

I pity the ones that will take you seriously and fall mugu.

Strangely you are so right but very wrong about this..."alpha male that is looking for foreign maga to live off her sweat"

I'm not a lay about in Nigeria and I have a good business that fetches me good money monthly.

I'm simply tired of Naija based ladies cos of their materialistic nature.
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I'm sorry I'm not blowing my trumpet but I get wooed by rich ladies WHO I CAN EASILY LIVE OFF THEIR SWEAT but as I wrote....I'm an alpha male who enjoys taking care of my woman 200% even if she makes £1b a month.

Talking about using a lady to get a stay I guess you are also missing out something so calm down and get this now...

There is absolutely nothing bad if a Truly SINGLE guy decides to marry a foreigner for greener pasture as long as he is not marrying her SOLELY for greener pasture.

Do you even know how many foreign ladies are interested in marrying me? I joined a dating site AFRO INTRODUCTIONS so i could mingle with foreign based single ladies but I got fed up cos most of these ladies contacting me are way too old for me but because I'm not just desperate about getting a permanent stay,I chose to ignore.

So yes I am very much interested in marrying a foreign lady because that is my choice even when it's not a do or die thing. But I will never ever marry just any foreign lady which is tantamount to desperation.

Yes I want to be free to live and work in a country where hard work pays,a country where the Healthcare system is superb,a country where many ladies will love you regardless of your financial status and a country where as an IT consultant, I will be able to maximize my potential.

The good news is that if I do find that foreign lady,I will marry her first and foremost because I truly desire her and would want to spend my life with her...getting a permanent stay is only sacrosanct and a resultant effect of being with her and that will make me work so so hard so that I can take care of our family and not to live off her.

Please change this your archaic and demeaning mindset...we are not all the same. If a Nigerian lady can choose to marry a rich guy in order to have financial security for herself and family (which is perfectly reasonable) then why can't I also choose to marry a foreign lady so I can raise my family in a country where things work? is that a crime?

I have a bad feeling about the igbos in the north and I will advice them to come home first and observe cos if there is a retaliation, it will be carried out by the miscreants in the north and even some of these hypocrites wearing Igbo attires might even gang up against the Igbo.

Lalas247:
That's the main sauce
But couldn't find a pic .. had to settle for that one up there

I never knew many ladies love bearded guys..I left mine the day a lady I barely knew walked up to me and practically "asked" me to leave mine and I was like "so this annoying facial hair is admired" since then I try to leave it but I'm not a fan of beards.

rizingmoney:
smiles... Well just like someone so dear to me (dad) would say obey before complain, am sorry dear i don't whatsapp for now for some classified reasons. Device another means ok

WOW! No wattsup! strange I must say...OK just call me so that I can have your contact. You are indeed very humble, disciplined and well mannered

bendike:
Bros we love una die! forget story. Me no fit speak one ward of ibo. but hear afonja language. my mama na afonja. my wife too.. my son name na Asiwaju mayowa ezenwa followed my my omo ibo name. Watin wan dey again naaa? lolz

Igbos and yorubas are much more closer than Igbos to Igbos. ..don't know why but this is very true...

I have more igbo friends than yoruba friends.

columbus007:
A round of applause to him,but he's a divorced king anyways

Meaning?

NevetsIbot:
extroverted much. sha thread well Baba. awon omo wobe po nita

Won ma ba mi niwaju.

Lalas247:
Ok when I sort my wts app out I'll add u
Hope u not a Virgin lol

Hmmm! I will be blunt,but for christ,I would have died long ago on top that thing but I'm a crazily faithful and sexually decent man which is why I don't compromise my choice of woman and when I get her,I'm going to do all the crazy things I mentioned on this my thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/3372650/how-satisfy-spouse-mind-blowing

NevetsIbot:
toks Baba.

Weldone sah

My broda no mind me jarr...I'm a down to earth social bird who loves to make lots of friends and I don't do kurukere moves...if I feel like knowing you more,I tell you publicly...ko Kan aye.

Lalas247:
You for talk all this time
So were is the pic ? And how soon can you fly out .. you get visa already abi ?
Pre wedding pics in Dubai abi

Lol! which pics?

Honestly jokes apart,I do want to settle down but most Nigerian ladies "here" in naija are way too materialistic and uncaring so I have been thinking about the possibility(Not a must)of marrying a foreign based lady (Could be a naija girl) who I believe will not have that parasitic mentality.

I'm an Alpha male though (Love to take care of my lady 100%) but just let her be financially independent.

Let's chat on wattsup o8o23146o46 if you don't mind.

Sabrina18:
Marry anything for the green card.

This thread comes to mind....

Titled Green card marriage
https://www.nairaland.com/3939067/green-card-marriage

Maybe lalasticlala should take a look at it...very insightful.

Lalas247:
My house abi my papa house Wetin u dey find reach my house Toks what do u really want

Lol! just kidding don't mind me...
As per what I want...
A sweet looking financially independent wife material. Nothing more.

Lalas247:

Just go and pay bride price ... shioor

Oya send me your house address make I pay am sharp sharp lol!

rizingmoney:
yes. But why did say that?

Just curious cos many ladies use another pics as theirs so I was wondering...

Furthermore I must commend you for your proper decorum cos most ladies would have lashed back but your response shocked me and not just that....you actually removed it and I must say kudos...Your parents did a good work on you.

I don't send PMs to ladies but I would like to know you further so if you dont mind,here is my wattsup contact...
o8otwo3146o46.

perdollar:
who cares if aboki die!!!! mtchew.

This is why I have resolved never to respond to some crazy posts on nairaland anymore cos there are many psycopaths online.

Just imagine this insanity.

R.I.P boy...such a talent.

Narldon:





HELL hath no fury like a Woman starved of sex!


Neither Have I seen anyone as Humble and Polite like a Man that comes to Borrow Money..


HE will even greet your DOG "Oga GuuMorn Saa"

You will make a good comedian.

rizingmoney:
Thank you

Was that really you?

rizingmoney:
Smile I prefer them well carved not unkept tho

Remove that Dp

Lalas247:
Yes very handsome
Na my weakness seff

Interesting...so you will grow so weak with me huh!

And Amazingly curvy chics are also my spec....

yasmina85:
My BF and I have been together fo years (6+). We both have good jobs, we're both well in our 30s, I think we love each other (I sure do) and we get along fine.

3 years ago, he wanted me to move in but I said no, not before marriage.
Since then, it's been the status quo. We spend time together either at his place or mine.
When I bring up going to my father he deflects with something like "don't worry, it's coming"; "I'll go when I'm ready, be patient"...

Last year, I got mad and sort of gave him an ultimatum.He said he would but was still draging his feet.
I became bitter, he felt over pressured and we started fighting and arguing for everything.
We eventually broke up and spent almost a year appart. He came back 6 months ago and things are like when we first met

The problem is, I feel like for him, it's a whole new relationship and we have to let it mature like any new RS.
For me, we just took up where we left so we've been dating long enough. He either commit or leave me alone.

I don't want to lose him but I can't do this anymore. I really don't know why he can't bring himself to at least do the door knocking.

Please what can I do ??

Tell him you are ready for a low key wedding...he just might be scared of elaborate wedding ceremony.

I love Nigerian girls and I believe there are very reasonable ones who know their Worth and will tell you NO whether you are living in Ajegunle slum or in the white house but it's just so sad that the bad ones have smeared the good ones.

Since I broke up with my ex,i just developed a phobia for Nigerian ladies expecially the ones residing in Nigeria...most of them are hopelessly materialistic.

WORDWORLD:
FIRSTLY, TO BELIEVE AT THE POINT OF DEATH IS NOT AN ACCEPTABLE BELIEVE AS FAR AS ISLAM IS CONCERN AND IT IS NO MORE THAN A MOCKERY OF GOD TO BECOME A BELIEVER AT THE POINT OF DEATH. HENCE UNACCEPTABLE EVEN BY COMMON SENSE!!!

If your perception about spirituality is all about HEAVEN and HELL then you are not even worshiping God but Heaven and Hell and that is the NARROW MINDEDNESS you and too many have been so programmed to function dysfunctionally.

Truth be told . If not for HEAVEN or HELL, almost 99% of people going to Church and Mosque will not give a DAMN about GOD. You are DEFINATELY one of the 99% with your mentality about HEAVEN and HELL as if that is the whole essence of spirituality. People have been so programmed around HEAVEN and HELL that they mostly are not doing good deeds because it is good to do good which infact it is to their own BENEFIT to doing good. Neither do they worship GOD because He deserves to be worshiped. In essence its all about HEAVEN or HELL. If GOD should one day say "No more heaven or hell as reward or punishement. Hence, no consequences yet worship Me". YOU WILL HARDLY FIND A SINGLE SOUL IN THE MOSQUE OR CHURCH WHO WILL KEEP GOING CONSISTENTLY JUST TO WORSHIP GOD AS AN ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF BEING WORTHY TO BE WORSHIPPED ALONE OUT OF LOVE AND REVERENCE AS DESERVED BEING THE CREATOR AND CHERISHER. A WORSHIP AS SHOW OF GRATITUDE AND NOTHING MORE. WHILE IN ISLAM WORSHIP IS A TOTAL WAY OF LIFE EVEN DURING LOVE MAKING WITH YOUR WIFE. INFACT EVEN WHILE YOU ARE IN THE TOILET FOR EVERY HUMAN ACTIVITY IS WELL SPELT OUT IN ISLAM.

But you are definately one of this ungrateful souls who all that matters is Heaven or Hell and cant see beyond.

If your theory is anything TRUTHFUL demonstrate it by stop going to Church. Get a local Mosque around your area. Pray five times a day like the Muslims do. Fast in the Month of Ramadan........do everything that Islam commands since all doesnt matter except to believe that Christ died for the sins of all. And when people ask you "are you now a Muslim" Tell them "it is the same thing as long as i believe Christ died for my sins". PROOF YOUR THEORY WITH PRACTICE...............YOU DOING THAT DOESNT AS WELL MEAN YOU HAVE CONVERTED ACCORDING TO YOU!!!



Most of the subscribers on this platform, you as an example are not here to GROW in knowledge by reading as to comprehend, study to understand. No they choose to remain DWARFED by ignorance and their arrogance fuels their empty vessels with noise . Very pathetic in an age with all the facilities to unite mankind for common good the very opposite is the case courtesy of people not willing to grow.

Hence, there are two stations. The COMMON PEOPLE and PEOPLE OF DISTINCTION. The purpose of COMMON PEOPLE is Heaven and fear of Hell. PEOPLE OF DISTINCTION seek that which is most PROFOUND, to feel the nearness and presence of the LORD OF THE WORLDS. There have infact removed the barrier between thislife and afterlife and made it as a single journey. These are the MUQARABUM those who are FOREMOST in adoring their Lord out of LOVE. Not that they dont fear Allah's wrath, they are always seeking His Love and Allah is most please with them as they are with Him.

udatso, empiree "NAY HEED HIM NOT BUT BOW DOWN IN ADORATION AND BRING THYSELF THE CLOSER (to God)" Quran 96: 19

May Allah make us live and die as SINCERE MUSLIMS most pleasing to Him.

All this sermon on top wettin?

Does simple logic not tell you that Heaven or hell are simply the reward for our earthly activities?

Even before the foundations of the earth,there have been rewards and consequences so you are not making any sense at all.

Take away heaven and he'll and man will simply be man but as long as there are rewards and consequences,there will forever be a choice to make.