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They say love is a beautiful thing and I totally agree and yes falling in love is something many people can not control but the truth is that one must learn to think deep and weigh the options before you allow yourself to fall in love for whatever reasons.

Before you allow yourself to glide into that deep path please use your head and ask yourself some very vital questions cos love and reality are two different aspects of life yet they are intertwined.Love can fail but reality will always be there.

As a man or woman,ask yourself if that person is OK for you regardless of all the razzmatazz and the initial gragra and don't just gamble with your life.

A jobless lady should either work hard first before ever thinking of falling for a jobless guy and a broke guy should think twice before falling for a hustling lady.

There is always a timeline between the time you meet someone and the time you find yourself deeply attached to that person so use that period to ask yourself very vital questions because if you ever allow yourself to fall deep,you may never want to consider the vitals anymore and you just might regret it and eventually leave that union after wasting your time.

Why should a reasonable lady fall in love with a violent guy, a dubious guy,a chain smoker or a drunkard and a guy who lacks the drive to succeed?

Why should a guy fall for a gold picker,a slutty lady,an abusive woman or one that lacks the essential qualities you want in a lady?

Do serious due diligence and dont just believe whatever he or she tells you.Check your genotype compatibility,ask questions about your sexuality,the lady must know the size of the man down there as well as the condition(You need not sleep with him before you know these) so that she can know what to expect...YES shits happen in life and we must be prepared for such but don't just fall in love blindly.

Let's learn to use our heads and not just allow our hearts to dictate to us.

Understand that falling in love can play a huge part in where your life will go and who you fall in love with can either make or break you so be extremely careful to meticulously look beyond the superficial qualitues of that person.Cuteness does not translate to sweetness of character or a purposeful life.

Think deep and be wise to make the right decision before you ever fall in love with the wrong person

Don't know if this makes sense.

OliveCynosure:
OmG!!!
May I never meet this kinda person IJN

That's why I believe in due diligence over courtship cos pretense is bound to happen.

I have always believed this courtship thing is a facade....just another time wasting venture.

A real man and woman know what they want and once they find it,no wasting time.

If you like court for a million years...it's never a sure proof of a great union.
.Quote me in Tokyo.

Ok so this one don chop im own commot mouth shey!

Useless life style being showcased on social media...continue to showcase your boyfriends as they come into your life and as they leave.....the world is watching and counting...latter you will say all guys are heartless and are Heartbreakers.

Some ladies and foolishness are like...

No not impressed...*walks outta thread*

Why should any guy squeeze a female boobs?
Just handle it gently and let her enjoy it.

#Atiku/Peter obi

Let me think about it.

raymondFirstborn:
Do you know that humans have look alikes.

You might even have a look alike somewhere.
With plastic surgery , your parents would never be able to differentiate.

I agree but the world is a small place and if indeed there is a look alike of Buhari,the media would have hinted about it.

If indeed there is a Buhari look alike,we would have heard of it long before now.

No place like home expecially if you have the money to enjoy it.

madgoat:
I am yet to see what makes this guy handsome. He is just a regular dude out there. Nothing spectacular about his looks

My tots exactly.

At his age,I was far cuter.

Veeeerrrrryyyyy vvvveeéerrrrryyyy trrrruuuueeee.

Happy new month friends.

I decree that no harm shall befall anyone of us in this remaining 4 months in 2017 and we shall all shout happy new year on the 1st of January 2018 in Jesus name...AMEN!

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Lalas247:
Lala don't waste your time Biko

Divay22:
Hmmm Me like

Sure?

Divay22:
Hmmm Me like

Sure?

Divay22:
Hmmm Me like

Sure?

casa101:
Please can anyone connect me to a Priest/Pastor in fact anyone that can help me with Deliverance that is not fake.

I am 29 yrs old Medical Doctor. I stay in Lagos and work in a hospital(name withheld). My story started yrs ago wen I was very small that is in pri. Sch. Then I used to have sex in my dreams but never discussed it with any1 bc I don't know what to call it. But the sex in my dreams continued till date.

Again at a time I got worried but i bluffed it saying it was just a dream that it meant nothing. But now it seems it meant something after all.

During all those years till now I always have issues with relationships. Once I sleep or starts sleeping with any girlfriend of mine within 1wk the friendship ends especially if it is someone I planned dating.

But I observed something too then any girl that is just a friend but just sleeps with me in terms of mutual/friends with benefits without any luv or r/ship thing attached to the end used to last.

So when I noticed it I started keeping girls as just friends or mutual one. Luckily I got plenty for mutual friends but what baffled me most was that one that i used to sleep with in my 100l to 200l said one day "nawaoo why can't I get pregnant for you upon we have been sleeping together for over a yr without condom and yet she never take in. I became worried and decided to go for sperm analysis test. It came out fine but when another girl said the same thing again last 3yrs. I decided to find 3 runs girls that I paid to be having sex with me during their window periods to see if they will take in and willing to abort. From the day I started sleeping with them none ever took in. They said Oga you have a problem, go and get help". Note that we carried test on the 3 of them and it showed they are fertile and fit to get pregnant. But I never looked for an answer till date.

But then on Friday I went out with a friend that i planed dating but yet to sleep with her but that night it happened.

Hell broke loose yesterday when she called me yesterday and was so angry with me saying.. In her words "why did u not tell me you have a marine wife "?.. I was like what?.. She then continued saying that have I ever asked myself why can't i get into a serious r/ships , my episodes of sex in my dreams and getting someone pregnant. Don't you know the person you are sleeping with in your dreams?".. I was shocked bc of how she knew?

I asked her who told her and how come she knew about this problem?.. When I knew that I have never discussed it with her or anyone. She now said she met with my spiritual wife and that I should forget getting r/ship, married or having kids without her permission. I should seek for her(spiritual wife). Then as for her I should never talk to her about love and r/ship unless I want to just be having sex with her which she permitted her to give me. Besides she is an Ogbanje so I should not be surprised as she knew..

Now I seriously need a deliverance bc it is now giving me worries.. I will appreciate any help pls. Thank you

Fast for 3 full days(72hours) eating only fruits every 6hours interval.

Every 12am pray against any ties to a spiritual wife and that is all.

gentlegenius:
I think I get your message now, but no matter how easy making heaven might seem to you, the truth is that majority in this world will not still make it.
God knows too well that living a sinless life is not easy for us that's why he gave us laws. Even though the death of Jesus has nullify certain laws like rituals and sacrifices to clear our sins, yet the Ultimate Law of God to mankind (The ten commandments) is still valid and very important for us to keep. Breaking them constantly and getting forgiveness doesn't work. If you fornicate every day and ask God to forgive you, he might forgive but if you commit adultery every day you can't be forgiven just like that. Though it's not easy but it is possible to live a perfect and Holy life in this world. People we heard in the Bible did that in this world. So don't make it look like it's not possible. Don't discourage those who tries to live a Holy life. God himself wants us to be Holy.

With the help of the Holy spirit,you can live a holy life.

Oyindidi:
I keep on telling people, God won't send someone to hell cos of trouser, hair extension and make ups. That's my own understanding of the word of God. Tell them about the love of God, also remind them about heaven and hell too. Don't scare people away with hell

Exactly.

Oyindidi:
Ladies, let's talk about our kitchen skills as we prepare ourselves for marriage.

On the 19th of August was Mildred's marriage introduction, as expected everyone was happy knowing she's the slayqueen of the family and the first to bring a man home to her parents. Her in-laws were all smiles to have her as their future DIL.
The mother of the bride to be is not happy, Mildred can't cook even indomie.it will be shameful to allow her marry without some cooking lessons. She enrolled her already in a catering school.
I was shock to see a woman that cooks very well but her daughters can't cook.

My aim of creating this thread is to advice young ladies to also slay in the kitchen. Don't be shy, you can still learn now that you're still with mama. The way to a Man's heart is through food not sex

Oh you can cook..hmmmm! maybe I should learn a thing or two from you.

Akinkunmhi:
this is very true; but I don't think it
is possible to abuse grace when you have the Spirit of God in you; I make mistakes sometimes though but my conscience(by the help of the holyspirit) will not give me peace until I settle it with God in place of prayer; ....this has been my experience ; I don't think a Christian with the Holy Spirit can be comfortable in Sin; there is no point preaching to scare them with all this holier than thou preaching....what makes us righteousness is not our work but faith in the righteousness in Christ Jesus

Bravo.

I have never seen a true holy spirit filled believer feeling comfy in sins...

ProphetAmos:
God bless you Bro...

God bless you.

IForgotMyLoginD:
I used to smoke. I tried to quit, e no happen. I always went back... Born again and all o. But still dey smoke cigga.

Until one day, I invited Jesus to help me. Just like that, this is over 10months now without cigarette. I didn't even have any withdrawal symptoms for one day.

God is real. His Spirit is real.

This is exactly the message...You invited the Holy spirit (Still Jesus)...do you know that many people would have given up their salvation at that point you were still struggling with it?

I decree that the holy spirit will energize you more to abstain from not just nicotine but from every other sins that easily beseech you and me in Jesus name...AMEN.

gentlegenius:
Common sense should remind you about the natural Law that "Nothing good comes easy".
If heaven is a good place, then even a non believer who has never read the Bible should know that it won't be easy to get there.
And you that reads the Bible should know this: "Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many.
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For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few" (Matthew 7:13-14).

Lol!..on the contrary,making heaven is ridiculously easy if only you catch the revelation.

Now understand this...in the past before Jesus paid the price by sacrificing his life as atonement for the sins of the world (once and for all)..God commands that people sacrifice bulls,lambs each year to clear their sins and he will remember them no more...

Does common sense not tell us that GOD knew man can not live a totally sinless life?

Believe it or not,no true believer takes GOD for granted...I know if I fornicate everyday and ask GOD for forgiveness he will...but I will only be taking him for granted (which of course no true believer will do).

Young believers face serious challenges as they still struggle with some sins in their lives and most of them at that fragile stage give up on themselves and totally embrace sins thereby getting lost forever ....this piece is for them.

If you truly have the spirit of GOD YOU WILL STRUGGLE TO SIN.....YES you read right....the spirit of GOD in me makes it hard for me to sin and I did not get to this stage overnight, I have had times when I felt like giving up but today the spirit of GOD in me has taken me to a level of confidence in christ Jesus.

But despite all,I still fall into sins even when I don't like it,I do not crave for sins, I don't sin with impunity neither do I enjoy it..

The sermon of doom and gloom has sent many to hell and this must stop.

Once you are born again,invite the holy spirit of God to perfect your salvation but don't ever give up on yourself till death cos God will never give up on you.

This is the simple message behind this write up.

Ericsunday619:
will Muslims go to hell fire?

Read the thread on my signature

sircrabo:
I enjoyed reading your piece. Even though most christians will argue some issues in the post, I picked some points. Most churches spend time preaching the damnation of hell and not the beauty of heaven. They both point in same direction ; Salvation. But how you approach it matters a lot. That's the reason we have very toxic christians today. People who live in fear and always think someone is after them and everyone a suspect. Its as a result of the messages they hear everysunday. The church shld preach salvation from the stand point of the beauty of heaven.

Christians have ben thought to condemn themselves outrightly the moment they sin and that why the accuser of brethren accuses them when then come to God in prayer.

God forgives, his mercies abound. Even though its not right to abuse Grace. Apostle Paul said " shall we continue in sin that grace may abound ? God forbid " don't abuse grace but if you ever fall for any sin, go to the father for forgiveness

Making heaven has been taught to be one heculian task and people have given up thinking they will never make it. Some have already condemned themselves even before judgement day because of the mindset their church has instilled in them. Heaven is for you and I. God did not have us in mind when he made the pit of hell but Satan and his agents

This is brilliant. GOD BLESS YOU.

adepeter2027:
That is the question, before the advent of Christianity, there have been other religions.

Those before Christianity, do you mean to tell me that will rot in hell?

God has a way of going about that.

adepeter2027:
Now what about the Buddhists, Hindus, Muslims, etc?
You mean they would end up in hell too?
IF yes, who created these set of people?

The power of choice comes with its consequences.

I chose to accept Jesus as my lord and saviour while another chose not to...it all boils down to the choice we make regardless of our creator.

BiyiBabs17:
Bless God for this topic. It is true we have a high priest in heaven interceding for us with God to forgive our sins but we must not feel comfortable with our sins has God can not be mocked.
It is true that he who is born of God does not sin. But that is when the work of salvation have been completed in a man. Apostle Paul said this about his new converts or born-again 'my children in whom I travail in birth until Christ be formed in you' meaning that there's a process in formation of being a full child of God.
My point is Christians should not quickly put anyone away because he or she is caught in sin, or judge them or start shouting u are not suppose to sin!. But we should go on our knees and stand in the gap for such persons. So that Holy Ghost will perfect their salvation.

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