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fellis:
Toks I go follow you ooo!!
Singing: Anywhere you go I go follow! I go follo o! I go follo!!!
You go sabi say na me like argument pass for nairaland.

Sunglow:
They say he is divorced.

PatriotTemidayo:
Haba! My paddi You denying your own sistos?
Just on the humour side of things anyways...... They are wonderful. And I'll like to meet them, with your permission.
But to be frank, your write up, which exclusively is your opinion, are great and I know for certain that they carry deep lessons

PatriotTemidayo:
I didn't include "Kill" Na
But now that you have said it , can I??

PatriotTemidayo:
Can I point? Cuz am beginning to see vision o Lets follow each other.

sarahade:
This toks guy can rant nonsense. And you are trying to justify yourself because you are not man a enough.

I want a real man who will not cheat on me.
My happiness is solely based on it if i can't have that i will pack my bag and leave he can have another woman of low self worth.

If a man can't be faithful then what is his function ? P*SSY masagger i can get that from anyone.

A man is the leader in any relationship, so his wife is watching and learning from him. If he can't stay faithful then she should expect the same from his wife.

What do men take women for? You think we don't get tired of the boring sex and sleeping with the same man?
You will be surprised.

fellis:
Ohhh, when you write epistles of the apostles for others to read it is not wahala but when other people write it then its wahala abi?

Better read that post and learn. You go write nonsense come insult women on top then start crying victim when people call you out on your bullshit.

fellis:
1. Men can also be too careful with their choice of woman: this isn't a bad thing because marriage is a lifetime commitment you can't be careless with your choice so why is it n avenue to attack women again?

2. Men can also want women to love them for real and again I fail to see how this is such a terrible thing for women to do.

3. Men these days want a financially OK woman as a wife. Even millionaire men look for rich women to marry.

4. Same applies to men. Nobody in their right senses will put in effort to please a person that will not appreciate them and dump them in future.

5. Not all women want this old man. Maybe the ones you have been toasting that kept turning you Dow and making you so hateful of women.

6. You honestly think men don't go to church or mosque to 'confirm' their intended spouses? You really need to get your head out of your arse.

7. Same applies to men. Why enter a lifetime contract with someone you feel nothing for? How is this a bad thing?!??

8. Women don't believe marriage is a beautiful institution. We know what's up. We know the rubbish women have to put up with after marriage in the name of being humble and submissive.

9. Not true. We are well aware of men's inability to remain celibate or sexually faithful. We know what time it is. We don't expect you to remain loyal because your ain't shit asses cannot pull such a feat.

10. Everyone wants a good looking spouse old man. Nothing wrong with that.

I should probably start following you so that I can see your stupid_ posts immediately you write them and cut them down before they reach front page.

PatriotTemidayo:
My Brother and Friend, Plenty Thanks.
Wait a minute! are they your sisters truly?
Omo Your home is full of beautiful Damsels.
Well, am a man. Single........ However, I like to choose My poison myself.

Twaci:
Unless you use the processed and packaged powder and that does not taste same as the natively prepared ones do...

It's okay though

Twaci:
Yeah, true. But it's really not hard to prepare. The only part I run away from is the grating of the wateryam

One ends up with cuts and sores at the fingertips if not careful with the grater.

Twaci:
Ahh! My favorite native dish

With them dry fish and all

Hope you can prepare it

paulavon:
@Toks2008,thanks for a great post,it is normal for certain group of people to criticize the points you listed because they challenged certain of their warp thinking and fantasies. They are quick to claim you want them to settle for less or lower their standards.

Please create threads that will challenge men and make us better.

PatriotTemidayo:
A Jobless, Flairless or Visionless woman is a burden to a man, irrespective of the love between them. To be clear, Love becomes sweeter and bonds get tighter if a woman brings something to the table, other than her face, curves and what's between her legs.

The reason most men treat their wives like grandmas after one child or two children is because those "assets" they take as their selling point would have lost their first-hand values. At such point, Na Double wahala for the owner of them body.

Wise women know these things.
They know that a man has a special place for a hardworking and supportive wife, one who refused to be a hang-on in his journey of life.
And while many slug the phrase "Real Love is or is not" out, let me throw this pragmatic bomb in the middle:
"True Love exists, only as a condition"
The man that fell in love with you saw something.....he heard something.....or felt something. If not, why didn't he woo Shade instead of Laide.

I read a Lady's new year prayer that "God should frustrate men into marriage this year", and in Olamide's Voice "that kind prayer la fin Shey tissue".
That was the first prayer rejected in heaven this year believe.
Instead of her to pray that God Help them build marriageable Characters and Self-Control from all useless, senseless and unprofitable Flexing, she's asking for a frustrated man as a husband, Shioo!

Love is a beautiful thing.
My opinion.

Twaci:
Sorry, wanted to ask, is Ikpankwukwo same as Wateryam dumplings aka Oto (for igbos)?

HarveySpecter1:
Hey,

I understand you need to kiss ass for a living. I have nothing against her. She is one of the reasonable women here but her post sounded like it was directed at someone. You know women trying to bitxch themselves.

She wasn't realistic in her post so I just told her some damn truth. I don't have to sugar coat it. It's the same way I would tell my sister if she goes so childish like amelian.

Pray to God to make your marriage a happy one. His height,handsome, little cash isnt a guarantee to happiness in your marriage. Seek for God's favor in your marriage.

Amelian:
You are the immature one..
Am more than real, dude..
Keep your version of marriage reality to yourself.. We don't need it!
If it's not working for u, does. Not. Mean it won't work for another.

Amelian:
My dear

I know all these stages.

Our foundation is strong.. We are not tales by moonlight, neither are we telemundo.


So don't worry..
We are in good hands with each other.


Marriage is hard work we know, and we are already in the process...

No need painting it as if it's bad luck or ugly.

Nah it's not.. Kolewerk!

Amelian:
You go soon know who I be!
Don't bother your head about my identity.


And thanks for the well wishes ..and definitely I will come back after 5 years with our lovely kids and their handsome father.. Waxing stronger.. Cause we don't believe in divorce but we believe more in communication, respect and listening to one another.

Amelian:
Op I totally and completely disagree with you on number 1,23,4,7,8 and 9.

My dear I can never marry a man I don't have feeling for.. God forbid

Yes I will be very careful on whom I decide to say *yes *to..
I have no apologises for that..

And yes! I want a man to love me for real.. I don't need fake love.. If your love is fake and I realise? Just scram and get the fucvk off! Am no maga

Am financially ok! So. My man must be likewise.. I don't need a leech! Neither does he!

Honestly I cannot suffer with a broke assss man! The true nature of. Man is known when he is comfortable.. And that's fact!

My boo and intending husband truly loves me and we both know we won't cheat on each other. Simple

And he's a cute tall, financially comfortable guy with a hot Mexican look to die for , kind of old fashioned like moi
What more can a lady like me ask for?

And definitely our marriage coming up soon, wil be very beautiful and peaceful, fillied with laughter ,joy and understanding .

We are simply two peas in a pod


I love you boo boo


So op hate all u like.. Women like me do not fcvking care..

Am happy with my choice

chayoski:
Abeg people saying all sorts of things about this post should try to save their mb and not comment. Yes it is recycled then please don't read,,, you'll should know that it is very difficult to come up with a write up,,, the bible speaks about love and forgiveness in different ways so why can't the op speak about relationships in different ways also,,, besides you read similar post in 2015 does not stop another eye from seeing and reading it in 2017... All you've mentioned op is very true. Also people should understand that there re 2 ways to things it may not be totally true but with statistics the true side wins so abeg biko ejo in any language you understand please stop tryna frustrate the effort to talented beings. thanks!

legalwealth:
whizqueen and LadyF ... Come and see rules oooo

egbabiekperemo1:
U self, when r u getting married? At 40 something u neve marry? Mr marriage counselor wannabe

prettyesther20:
All these guys shouting pounded yam




biko who is going to pound it

dangotesmummy:
I read EVERYTHING. From the beginning to the end and the lesson I learnt from your post is that no woman has a right to have standards or desires on what she wants in a man

She has to settle for less or just take whatever baggage just to earn the almighty Mrs title

Of course I know your type too[b].btw are you Even married yourself? What gives you the moral right or justification to be giving women advise on what to do to earn a Mrs title[/b]

Your case is like someone still writing waec and giving undergraduates advise on how to graduate when he hasn't Even entered the school first to see how it is

carmag:
sexual appealing is the first consideration for every man when proposing to a lady love start existing when you find both of you compatible


if you are a man can you propose to a lady who is not sexual appealing to you

How would you develop the feelings and love when when she not sexually appealing

dangotesmummy:
Toks2008 the retarded wannabe chauvinist. What do you have to say.please shock me with something reasonable

dangotesmummy:
Toks2008 the thrash talker.always typing lorry loads of b.s

MizzD:
This guy's wife and daughters are in trouble.. Day in day out na so so rules and regulation.

Let women choose and deal with their choices .

Estharfabian:

Oh, really?


Same way there's a special taste[Pun intended] that comes when your man cooks one of those sumptuous delicacies. like I could literally worship the dude.