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McBeal10:
op she's an adult and she do whatever she wants with her life.

When the cookie crumbles that is when you will know that its not her life.

Airforce1:
the reason is because she brought her business online for people to see

LOBATAN!

realmindz:
Chisos!!! that was an error befr the religion of peace unleash terror on me. Praise be to Allah! praise be to Allah. Praise be to Muhammad

You are on your own..just be careful what you say offline make dem no carry your head give you for hand.

realmindz:
Allahu wakbar!!! praise be to mumumad, all infidels must bow

People like you spark off religious war..

There should be religion tolerance and understanding.

Tell me Jesus is mad and I will say Bless your soul but say Muhammed is a false prophet and you are as good as dead so why not keep mum rather than risk your life? simple wisdom.

This hideous act was not carried out by Muslims but by touts in the name of religion.

Even Prophet Muhammed(S.A.W ) will never support this.

Foolish touts giving Islam bad name.

ahnie:
You are xposing secrets naa.some peeps wee jex be imaginin things they aint suppose to hence starts looking for loopholes in their partners.

Haaa! you must be a culprit. No one deserves to be a victim, a love affair should be a win win situation. Many people have seen vital signs but they are not sensitive enough to get the message.

Insightful.

CrazyQuinn:
Who cares? Lover is lover

Better know where you belong to avoid stories that touch.

ahnie:
You are solely responsible for intending broken relationships!

Please explain

What is your place in the life of your partner? Are you the main lover,the fall back lover,the get back lover or pass time lover?
Yes we may see ourselves wanting another for a fling but may end up marrying each other but at any point in time in any relationship we find ourselves, we are either one of these options to our bae(Before anyone else) and it is very important to know your place and there is one simple way to know but before i let it out i would like to explain in brief what each one means.


1.The main lover: This needs no explanation..just as it sounds, you are the one and only person your partner desires most and would do whatever possible to prove that to you.

2.The fall back lover:This is not a nice one.You are the type your partner toys with his or her emotions.Your partner believes that he or she can leave you and reconcile with you at will because you are the type that will easily take such back because you are in love.

3.The get back lover:Many people unknowingly fall into this category.A get back lover is the one that is used to spite an ex or to fill the gap after a heartbreak and while the other party still loves the ex,you will gladly be led on believing you have found your heartthrob just for that person to reconcile with the ex and leaves your stranded.

4.The pass time lover:Just as the name suggests, this person is not really into you but due to the urge to be with someone for the sake of intimacy,financial needs or companion decides to go into an affair with you pending when he or she finds the desired person..Booty call partners are good example of pass time lovers.

ONE WAY TO KNOW WHICH ONE YOU ARE IN THE LIFE OF YOUR PARTNER

There is a simple way to know if you are the main lover or any other type of lover...just be sensitive to know this...
You don't have to force anyone to have affection for you and you don't have to fight for the attention of your partner..if its not given to you freely and effortlessly then that person is not worth the stress so If you ever see yourself fighting for the love, affection,attention of your partner then look no further, you are definitely not the main lover...Please work it out or quit

Hope this makes sense.

The way this pre-wedding photo craze is going...

Dajugba:
So true just like when a man do love he truely do. That's me. I'm not the double dating type, I believe in one man one woman. But it happened I fell in love with one pretty lady who promise me nothing in this world could seperate us. cha... When I discover she was cheating, due to the love I had for her, I really had to forgive always. I was not short of babes, but I saw reasons to always love her above her flaws. But what really broke my heart was when this lady kissed a guy, and told me her boy friend was her cousin, they kissed and embraced each other and uploaded it to facebook and wrote my boo, when I asked why such misconduct, she said; they were playing as cousins. That was when that spirit of naive, the veil in my eyes fell off because de devil is a liar... Jha. And she also used same pic on her whatsapp. I just had to do more finding and with much prove I showed her, she was vexing telling me she is managing me that she has many dude who wants her. Out of vexation I told her it over, but really do not mean it. We reconcile and three days to my birthday dec 14th 2014 she broke my heart with the news that she can't date me again. I cried for her, pleaded, sent her voice note of apology, told my elder brother to plead with her, ask two of my friends to help me beg her, but none worked. I felt like life was of no use, but I just have to thank my God, I've a lovely elder brother who always called me to comfort me with encouraging words then. But early this year she called me, talked normal,during de point of conversation she asked how is my babe. I told her am not in rush of relationship now, but I have someone I care about but I am taking a step soon to professe my love for her. That was the last time she called me.

Sorry dude..

The funniest part is that most ladies who are good girls are usually the ones who break guys heart because she will be so good in your eyes that you would have made up your mind to stick to her alone.

If not for GOD and my faith in Christ I should be sleeping with a different lady daily not because I'm pained but I kept asking myself if ladies are worth the stress of faithfulness...

If you are a lady reading this..please when next you see a player just blame your fellow ladies cos 9 out of every 10 Casanovas were once faithful lovers...nevertheless no man has any excuse to live a sinful life.

If I ever remain faithful to one lady in my life again then it will be for Christ sake and nothing to do with that 4 letter scam called love.

Signing out guys..have a great week ahead and remember to use your heads when you go into any affair with a lady cos most of them are blessed with short memories and can turn their back on you in a moment forgetting all the time and emotion you have invested in the union.

AfroKnight:
Ah! Still like this at 34? Her case is peculiar. Maybe she has made up her mind to remain single.

In fact she uses words like..must a lady be with a man..I'm happy as I am..bla bla bla

Nna abeg make I run..I still young small..may God help her.

sadly:
kai... I wanted to respond to that guy with something like this but refrained from it. I had to after seeing this.

Like you said some girls are jinxed.

I have this 32 year old lady I like. She has good manners, well bred BUT she does not seem to know what is good for her in terms of guys she choose to date because they do not value her.

We served together where she dated a guy younger than her. He never treated her right but she stayed put. Post NYSC I approached her and she still tell me she has someone else at 32? I feel pity for her but just want to give her till next year. Anything after that, she should have herself to blame.

You might feel why wait but truth is that the girl is good, a perfect wife material BUT her choice of piking guys is her greatest undoing and she is the type that does not leave a relationship even if it's not favouring her. Pathetic.

This thread is really making guys reveal deep stuffs that we would ordinarily keep to ourselves.

Guys go tru shits but becos we don't talk mu h abt it no one seems to know.

How can you describe a case when you met a sweet 19yr old lady while you were just 27 and being her first guy you loved her so well like kilode.

After 6yrs you had intro and legal wedding then she suggested you both wait for some reasons before doing the trad wedding then both of you started stayn tgthr as man and wife then suddenly after 11yrs of sweet union and at 30 she started saying stuffs like..she feels caged..she has spent all her life with you...she did not enjoy her freedom...

Omo when she started saying this I knew it was time to let go and I painfully did cos I knew she wanted to see what the outside has in store.

People begged her family begged but for where? This lady is what you will call a super perfect wife material but the sudden madness no get part two.
..in fact she said we were never married because I have not paid her bride price that the legal wedding was mere charade and I said LOBATAN!

They say if you love something let it go..if its yours it will always come back so she did come back by herself around may this year..unremorseful and when I realized she is still unstable I asked her why she came back just for her to say she is not really back yet but just want to observe things and that was when I got scared that she must be possessed or how do I explain a 34 yr old lady who seem to be blessed with good virtues but acting so weird...abeg if there is one person to be observed should that not be her?I had to tell her to leave.

Trust me dude, things dey happen for this life o and some things are better left to imagination.

People tell you go and marry and you just shake your head at their ignorance...there is madness everywhere..may God help us.

shurlermoz:
eyah, den don do OP strong thing. don't worry, you will get over it.
e nearly happen to me once but as the girl start to dey misbehave me sef just jejely hold my side, e pain me o but it wld have been disastrous if she actually say those words.

Take heart bro, you can cry if you feel like it but let this be the last time any woman will do this to you.

lol! not really dude in fact I believe that no lady can dump me because I'm too real for that.

The first lady who broke my heart about 16yrs ago came begging just after 3months and even the last break up I had about 4years ago, the lady still came back but I had moved on in the first instance but I gave the recent one another chance but I realized she is still wavering so I had to tell her to give me space.

Once it happens once to you, it will likely never happen again.

Nevertheless I have realized my faults and that is going for naive ladies who always want to explore latter..this time I want an experienced lady who have realized that there is nothing out there.

If you like pamper a naive lady with love, money, care and everything...she will always bliv their is something better out there not until she tries it out to know she was fooling herself.

Monikween:
I once dated a guy who cried over me when we broke up but he was crying because he was obsessed with me maybe not in love. he hit me because he tot I was sleeping around. he'll make up stories in his head and imagine how my day went where I went why is my hair not in place y do I look like I wasn't coming from home y is there a sweater in my bag? y did u take pictures with that guy y dis y DAT...whenever I'm asleep checks my messages he was too possessive.. I really loved him but it was too much to bear...the few months we were together was hell..He's an athlete so he's well toned and muscular but this made him more aggressive cos am petite and helpless compared to him...I wish he was gentler
but an abusive person will forever be abusive
when we broke up he started hurting himself with objects and crying and everyone was begging me but I couldn't go back to that hell...*heaves* remembering all dis just made me sad

Eyaah

I always tell non abusive ladies that if a man hits you the first time, assume it was a mistake but if he does it the second time please take a walk far far away from him but if you feel the love is strong then report him to the police and make him sign an undertaken and hope he stops the act.

Akeem1759:
Seriously this is my current situation, a girl that I love so much suddenly broke up with me with an excuse that she's still in love with her Ex that broke up with her 6years ago.. the crazy thing is the Ex is now a married man and he's far away in Europe, had it been she's a bad girl I could have had said probably she's seeing someone else.. Her mama don curse her tire that she's in lust and not love but this girl no gree ooo, she insist if the guy refuse to come back to her, she won't get married.. I can't just stop crying since last week men, she told me straight face that I'm a good man and if she eventually get married to me, she won't be a good wife 'Gbam'.. I just free her now ni oo

I say some ladies are possessed with ogbanje spirit.

Your married ex abeg what is she thinking? maybe she lied to you cos this is hard to believe ...

AfroKnight:
Exactly bro. I now try avoid these young babes cos most of them are quite unstable. Although I would set the age limit at 26 or (lowest) 25.

These young ladies think the world revolves around them in their early twenties. They want to experience all of their fantasies; feel the thrills of double dating; live out the life of a movie character; they want to eat their cake and have it. They are more likely to give drama.

They want a stable guy who would remain stolid but also give them space to run wild without voicing his reservations. Also, they feel he must be ready, waiting to embrace them after their frequent prodigal voyages.

Older ladies seem to realize that the wild and free lives as seen in media and soceity are just scripted for the purpose of income or endorsement. Life is really a mellow affair when you strip it to it's core. Some mature ones are wild too, but you are more likely to find a more stable ladies in this older group. I'm sticking to the mature ones now. Drama queens don show me pepper.

You nailed it bro but ironically my recent ex who will be 34 in few months displays all you wrote...infact I practically asked her to give me breathing space..some ladies are either confused or jinxed.

beautiful232:
My EX cried his cheat Ass out

some of this guys go lie say them never cry

So you are feeling cool abi?

You just lost a gem.

Welcomme:
Bros, abeg go marry! Na beg we dey beg

Who marriage epp?

misspicy:
Its just a meme with a message I want to pass across


you too like woman grandpa

Any man wey no like woman na pako

Vikky014:
lol...our cake will b better than dis one. i will design it myslf

lol

Icon79:
Bro, take it from someone who knows, masturbation is sin.....a big one. First of all, let's ask ourselves this question: why do people masturbate? They do it because they want to have sex. In other words, they are substituting it for sex. Does God wants us to have a sex substitute? No, I don't think so.

Bottom line, people practice masturbation in an attempt to have sex. It is lust. Please tell me, how can we justify a sexual act between one person that only takes place when you dig up lustful (sometimes perverted) thoughts into your mind? Masturbation always involves impure thoughts. You CANNOT masturbate while thinking about praises and worship for instance or while in spirit of prayer. It is LUST and controlled by the spirit of perversion. People who are in such bondage need to pray it out of their lives.

Furthermore, a book called "The Ministry of Healing pg 142 revealed that demons work the organs of man during masturbation. Here is a quote: "Satanic agencies took possession of men. The bodies of human beings, made for the dwelling place of God, became the habitation of demons. The senses, the nerves, the organs of men were worked by supernatural agencies in the indulgence of the vilest lust ..."

It is not natural for a man or woman to be aroused by themselves. God did not instill this originally in man. It came from the degeneration of sin. When one participates in masturbation, they have also made demons their partner. You may think you're by yourself but demons are there with you working your body, arousing your body and causing your mind to go places where God never intended.

Quick question: If you are fully aware that the Lord Jesus Christ is right there with you in the room, would you masturbate?
That's a food for thought.

Meanwhile, try and get hold of the book I recommended above. It would open your eyes regarding most of the perverted sex acts we have in this day and age.

O pari

You are just blabbing

Please quote a scripture to buttress your loooong story.

[quote author=misspicy post=48683498][/quote]Who be dat for that Dp of yours?

If only the glamour of a one day event can translate to marital happiness...nice cake tho

cococandy:
What's the difference between what you're saying and what he is saying?

After prolonging the life (maybe a few more months), won't the person still die?

A day lease of life is worth it o...but may her soul R.I.P

Olatokunbo Akorede

jaybee3:
I'm probably more authoritative in terms of health statistics than you. Heck, i analyse this shyte using hospital episodes statistics everyday so stop yarning dust

A close friend of mine recently had some of her organs removed because of this same ovarian cancer that has started spreading.

Stage 4 means it has spread to vital organs hence why it's termed terminal

No point going back and forth with you on this one

No need warring...the Lady is gone

Nigeria is the wrongest country for adequate healthcare..

abbey621:
I think you are both saying the samething but from different perspectives, check the survival rate of ovarian cancer at stage 4 and you'll reach the conclusion that majority turns out to be terminal. The ones that survive are rare and requires more money than the little that was raised for her surgery.

To die is gain when it comes to painful existence...R.I.P Mayowa

jaybee3:
Cancer at stage 4 can't be contained. It simply means it has spread beyond control and otherwise Terminal

The delay had absolutely nothing to do with the eventual outcome!!!

If you are ignorant about something you don't make conclusions.

She had ovarian cancer and YES IT CAN BE CURTAILED IF NOT TOTALLY CURED.

Currently, the standard treatment for Stage IV ovarian cancer consists of both surgery and chemotherapy. Unfortunately, less than 10% of patients experience long-term survival following standard treatment. This is because Stage IV ovarian cancer is difficult to completely remove with surgery and the currently available chemotherapy is unable to eradiate all of the remaining cancer but can prolong the patients life and improve overall survival.

joedams:
Na now real fight go start. The sharing formula for the N100m.

RIP Mayowa. You fought the good fight.

100m and 100kusd

jaybee3:
Why rain curses on Linda?

The girl had stage 4 cancer for crying out loud.
The case was beyond miracles and they should have focused on palliative end of life care.

RIP to the girl

No one is blaming anyone but if this news is true then the delay as well as the emotional trauma caused by the scam news has a lot to do with it.

Cancer at any can still be curtailed a bit and a timely intervention would have prolonged her life.