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Cutehector:Read the main write up again and you will see the only love i wrote as true. |
Cutehector:It is a second name for trash |
Over the years i have realized that LOVE is the most wrongly used word in the dictionary. Do you know that when your bae says "I LOVE YOU",more often than not,that person is only stating his her feelings based on what he or she is benefiting from the union at that point in time?Take away the benefit(s) and see if such person will still profess an undying love for you. I have seen many people who professed love to each other suddenly make a 360 degree turn and then i tend to wonder if they ever understood that word love. I have heard of a situation where a man or woman found it so easy to walk away from the spouse and children after many years just to conclude that what they felt all through the years was probably pity and not love. It has become the norm for us to now see a million dollar wedding crashing down even before it began and then these same people who were all smiles and curdled up on the wedding day, exchanging vows will turn against each other with so much hatred. Husbands kill same woman they made a vow to love and wives do same to their hubbies even when they have borne the same man children. How many husbands can still tell their wives "i love you" even if she denies him sex? how many husbands will still love their wives if she refuses to do her duties as a wife in the house? and how many women will still love their husbands even if he fails to live up to his status? Judging from all these happenings i have decided to stop using that word love and any one who uses such word to describe his or her feelings for the partner must really take a chill pill and think deep before uttering such. If from the real life situation i see, i think it will be reasonable for anyone to wait for at least 20years of being with your partner before you can truly say those words "I LOVE YOU" even if we all know that even after 30years people can still turn against each other but at least 20years is good enough to pass that assertion. I have come to believe that LOVE can only exist between GOD and man and what humans feel is just a temporary feeling of desire which can be in form of initial gragra(Adrenaline love), infatuation(Unreasoning love),Lust or maybe a superficial love as a result of what you are getting from that person and in the absence of such will diminish. Yes maybe i am over-flogging it,maybe we still have true love between very rare partners but the truth is that i would rather seek for a true friendship, a true bonding which i have found to be more realistic than that facade called True love. My advice is that anyone in any affair should not put too much expectation but should just flow with the tide because that person who is all over you today can make a u-turn tomorrow and you will wonder if that is the same person you ever knew... I hope this makes sense. |
FreeGlobe:I tot Imo is part of igbo land. |
yeanka007:Some will soon come and say broke niggas... Sometimes riches can be a bondage. |
misspresident:God gave man only 70years and any added year is injury time. Psalm 90 vs 10 Our days may come to seventy years, or eighty, if our strength endures; yet the best of them are but trouble and sorrow, for they quickly pass, and we fly away. |
Jehovah the GOD of last minute. |
Thank you Jesus for saving me. |
tochimas:Yes but that is the second wife tho...just read the clear gist. |
Demmocrats:Im equally confused. |
firstking01:Honestly i am not bothered.As a social freak, human interaction is the opium of my passion but one thing i pride myself of is good conduct and that is why i always dared anyone to quote me if they ever believe i cursed them at one point or the orther throughout my years of membership on nland. You see firstkings,i am too cultured to curse anyone.From 2008 till this moment,my conduct on nairaland was cool back to back,from my comments to responses to threads.That is why i wrote this for good conduct to take over . . . . .But if anyone wants to curse me,they can come and show their color. Egbon lalasticlala |
firstking01:lol! The two ladies who have come here to accuse me are known for their unruly ways of cursing people and i got on their nerves by putting them right. it will take me less than 5 minutes to quote not less than 5 vulgar comments each from these two made to different people on this forum so i am so surprised they even have the dexterity to come her to risk being fully exposed. |
ladycomfort:lol dem don come o... Sis honestly if i were you i will help your ministry by quoting that comment here... And it seems many ladies are overly sensitive to differentiate factual words from vulgar words. I remember a post where i used the word autocratic to describe someone and the person got angry but that is not an abusive word in anyway. See im the last specie of guys who still find it expedient to respond to ladies cos most guys usually ignore and that is not a good one for ladies. Some have accused me of bringing down the females yet these threads are locked for people to read. Now you started by getting abusive and now i ask you to quote that comment here where i abused you.If you fail to do that then i will be forced to agree with these men who believe that most women if not all are worth ignoring. So im waiting. |
ShakurM:Honestly this is not about getting pained over e-jabs or curses...nah infact as an aspiring political leader i will be fooling myself if i dont start getting used to e-curses cos that is exactly what it is...cos many people who curse you online dares not do same to your face. Am i as influential as Buhari or Jonathan? yet i shiver when i read how some people use vulgar words on these elder statesmen. The truth is what it is and whether we get pained or not,it does not change the fact of who they are. As per responding,sometimes i ignore and sometimes i respond not by cursing back but by hammering into their heads some home made truths even if they ignore...even my ninle says in Proverbs:26 vs 5 "Be sure to answer the foolish arguments of fools, or they will become wise in their own estimation.? |
agarawu23:lol..u no well |
bobolizim:Nice..what a man can do i guess a woman can do better but what i hate to hear is people blaming their action or inaction on someone else...cos nobody can make you do what you dont have the innate ability to do. Ride on and face any consequence that comes with it..its a free world. |
agarawu23:Interesting |
GoodSamaritan:Im humbled. |
misspicy:I just asked you to land by quoting where i insulted you on that thread.. Misspicy i am damn too matured to start visiting dead issues just as you did. It wont take me 5 minutes to quote not less than 5 comments where you cursed not only me but several others so writing stuffs like you say things as they are is very hypocritical cos i just dared you to quote where i cursed you. I am very glad you saw this thread and i hope you will make amendments. Please let this rest ok..have a great weekend. |
I think there is always a peculiar measure to a peculiar situation in a peculiar country. |
misspicy:Kai! Must you do this to yourself? Honestly i never even remembered how you insulted me in the first instance without any reason so apparently you feel a great guilt and you hurriedly come here to even make another false accusation. I have not met you but i was beginning to have some form of respect for you despite your actions but with this sorry misspicy,im so appalled. Please can you post that quote here where i called you a LovePeddler else i will even loathe you more than i do right now. If i quote some comments of yours for nairalanders to see i guess it will dawn on you how you have goofed by coming to write this..let me just assume i did not see this comment., |
Cybertext:lmao! sometimes its good to put lash back in a very matureed way. |
Cybertext:LOL! This is not even about me but what i have observed on nairaland especially. |
Lalasticlala i guess more viewers should read this.Thanks |
As they say,one of the best places you can know the true nature of an individual is on a faceless online social interactive platform. If there is one thing that will always baffle me on nairaland or other online social media platform,it is the way some people curse and abuse others with such recklessness not because they were abused by that person but because the person was simply stating an opinionated view. In any social interaction,everyone has the right to express his or her opinion no matter how lame or awkward and no one has the justifiable reason to curse or slander such but should rather respond by expressing a contrary notion if needs be in an intellectual and responsible manner without any form of insults or jabs. While many people ignore this set of people,some believe this is part of the norm of online social interactive media but this does not change the fact that it is a repulsive and odoriferous act that is done by people of questionable intellect. I have come to a conclusion that anyone who abuses, bullies, deliberately insults/provokes, fights, or wishes harm to any other person whether on or off-line just because such expressed an opinion is not only unstable mentally but such is also of a very low intelligent quotient(IQ) and a potential danger physically and emotionally to people around him or her Such person whether male or female is not worth co-existing with any human but should take a home with the animals in the jungle. |
naijainfogalery:This is what amazes me. I think many people who come online are fake. Anytime you see jabs where any user brags about his or status or brings down another just believe such person is an empty barrel. As a politician i purposely imbibed an open book policy and every nairalander with good memory will recognize me offline.Why the secrecy?why the facelessness? I believe that if you are plain and have nothing to hide,you have no reason to be so secretive. I have made conclusions a long time ago..anyone who abuses or curses people simply because they are expressing their opinion is indeed mentally abnormal and should go for a mental evaluation asap. |
xtervaganza:If you tag my response an insult then something is wrong somewhere. Please let this rest. |
missingrib:Sure i agree with you but then the harder part is always tilted to the lady's side. Some ladies are so obsessed with a prototype that they just can't imagine themselves not marrying such but then this would have been an easy task if ladies are allowed to woo guys cos most times when she finally sees such guy.all she does is hope he comes to woo her so what is the use. I know some ladies get lucky finding a hot dude who will also love and cherish them like kilode but i always tell ladies to rather pray to have a man that truly desires them...Tall and cute no be love and you wil even desire to be with a poor guy if a rich guy treats you like trash. I would like to read more views from ladies. lalasticlala |
fatbims:If you think because this is a faceless forum you can throw jabs and curses that are unwarranted please check my profile and you will see that i am not faceless..If you dont stop showcasing your recalcitrance or the failure of your parents in instilling discipline in you trust me,you will receive an e-curse that will plague you for the rest of your life. |
GoodSamaritan:Wthout sounding hypocritical or bias i will say i understand this guy 200%. For guys who have passed through a crazy love ordeal guess such a guy would have lost hope in several other ladies who by his standard may not have any love for him but a face value love yet needs a lady figure to do the needful as regards domestic stuffs as well as to have a lady to relate with. Secondly,a bachelor in his late 30s or early 40s is never interested in girlfriends..."quote me anywhere" except he is a hopeless philanderer. A GOD fearing bachelor of very ripe age is only interested in one thing permanent companion/child/family hence he is never ok with the type of affairs where he only sees the lady once a week or the type of romance he has no guaranty of getting the company of the lady when he wants..this type of affair is for the boys where chatting,calls are teh order of the day..this is why i try my best to be close to any lady i desire cos to me, long distance affair is a big NO but if i see myself wanting a lady that stays very far,i will do all i can to get close. Lastly,a beautiful hardworking maid is a delight to 80% matured bachelors "quote me in sambisa" why? Maids are not second class humans and infact just as we have bankers, we also have ladies who chose to be maids by preofesion or by circumstance. 1.Unlike the contemporary ladies, most maids will do domestic chores without grumbling,complaints without thinking they are doing you a favour. 2.Most maids will go out of their way to make sure she pleases him (not sexually)and will not put up funny arguments. 3.A maid will not make incessant financial demands even when she is doing more than she is paid for unlike the usual ladies who will hardly do anything reasonable but will demand for this and that. 4.The humility of a maid is unequivocal 5.A beautiful homely hardworking maid is a potential wife any man will love and enjoy without hassles and she will be void of all the baseless modern day sophistication which is the rsom many matured ladies are unmarried The bottom-line is that just as Jesus said until we become as innocent little children, we may find it difficult to enter GOD's kingdom so in like manner,no matter how educated and clasy you are as a lady,until you become as lowly and meek as a maid,you may never make a dream wife for any man. |
If it is true that etisalat leveraged on that unruly,uncultured and odoriferous utterances of that glorified area boy on stage then something must be fundamentally wrong with the psyche of etisalat marketting department. Why did they not add iyalaya yi...trash talks from a rude guy. Pls i dont hate olamide but his utterances was dirty and should not be hyped in anyway. |
mobi18:I totally agree with you on this... But you need to understand the point..there are very good private schools with reasonable tuition while we have some with crazy fees not because they are really more standard but maybe due to the name but it will surprise you that some ladies would rather prefer that very expensive ones and even fight their hubbies over it. |
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have you forgotten how you insulted me when I refuse to share the same view with you on one topic.


