₦airaland Forum

Hassasin:
I Think a woman should be 'WOMAN' enough to go for what she wants. This timidity transfers into the marriage in most cases. She can't initiate sex, she can't openly communicate her sexual preferences e.t.c.



If women will take the sense of challenge they bring to there careers into the relationship arena, relationships will be more fun and marriage will last longer.


African women don't just take the INITIATIVE when it comes to relationships. Everything is left for the men: men woo, men spend,men disvirgin e.t.c.

Haba!

Neatboy:
Op you are on point! In my church I was crushing on a lady. She's cool and pretty but has this hard to get mentality. I wooed her and her answer was NO. I decided to press harder to no avail, so I just decided to make her my ordinary friend yet still hoping that one day she will realize how much I care for her. But suddenly another lady that is even more prettier and 100% classier than she is showed me a green light. My people, in fact, I didn't hesitate and I had to restrategise and restructure my mind. I wooed her and she accepted sharperly! I never new I was just wasting my time with the former lady. We're in a healthy relationship now and I'm looking forward to seeing her parent early next year. Shikina! I guess the former lady had noticed us and she's now wearing a hard and long face whenever she sees me. No time for timeless people o. I can't be crushing on a girl for eternity na.

Genea:
ohk good....lemme tone down my ego and tell seun dah i am inlv with him:-):-D

CaptainJune:
Well, without any form of pride, I can say I have seen paradise 3 times through the grace of God. Once in a dream and 2 times in visions. And yes, there is chocolate in heaven, LadyF. I saw it, I ate it. It was so abundant in the Chocolate Room I found myself that I went out to call others to join me. This is just one of my visits to heaven. Heaven, there is nothing worth missing it. I am blessed to have been granted a peek into heaven. That peek alone is enough for me to do everything possible and impossible (both through Christ) never to miss that place. Trust me, nothing on earth is worth missing heaven.

CaptainJune:
Well, without any form of pride, I can say I have seen paradise 3 times through the grace of God. Once in a dream and 2 times in visions. And yes, there is chocolate in heaven, LadyF. I saw it, I ate it. It was so abundant in the Chocolate Room I found myself that I went out to call others to join me. This is just one of my visits to heaven. Heaven, there is nothing worth missing it. I am blessed to have been granted a peek into heaven. That peek alone is enough for me to do everything possible and impossible (both through Christ) never to miss that place. Trust me, nothing on earth is worth missing heaven.

just2endowed:
Op u on point. But don't expect a lady to toast u oh.

menxer:
I have read very good write ups that never made front page, it's not about the writer or posters passion or lack of it...

...the mods have their way of deciding what gets to front page or not; after all I have seen a write up posted in 2013 that made front page in 2015.

How do you explain some whacked one sentence post that made FP?
Abi na by personal recognition?

menxer:
Na mehn, I have been doing research on the secret of making front page, I can't seem to find any info whatsoever.

Lexusgs430:
Speak to Toks2008, he would show you to formula. He seems to have his threads hitting front page anyhow!!!

Bennysmart1:
de fact is dat out Of 10 guys in a woman's life dat she might try 2 woo,9 wil definitely turn her dwn,feelin 2 important,because is nt a woman's tin,

Eillyeillz:
Nice Piece! Op, I can relate to what the ladies are saying! truth is you'd most value what you put in work for! Rather that which comes without you breaking a sweat! Take for example Money worked for, and Money given to you on a free. there's a 99.9% chance you'd spend the one gotten on a free Carelessly, when I say carelessly I don't necessarily mean you giving it away or Blowing it all on drinks,But there's a likelihood you Buy without a second guessing. while Money worked for! well if you A 9 to 5er that has to wait till months end to get paid, correct me if i'm wrong don't you already have you plans mapped out already, on what and what you'd spend it on. or say you a business man. you can't tell me after tolling all day to make sales you'd walk straight into a Bar and blow it all away, same logic applies to women, she makes the move at you! there's a 99.9% chance you'd under value her! work hard to get her! When you Remember all the work you put in, you will treat differently. and then there's The other Issue of Some guys Robbing it in the ladies face, every time there's a little misunderstanding. So yes Ladies Are Right wanting to wait for The move been made on them! And i'm Old fashioned prefer working to get what than sit around and pray it comes my way. My Thought Tho!

noblenasri:
nice one OP...nairaland go better if na ur likes full ground

babafirst:
I totally agree with you.Showing a guy the green light for a relationship does not mean he will get the green light for sex.Infact ladies that have toasted me or given me the green light have been the most difficult to have sex with while those that did initial gra gra ended up being the easiest to ball.

LaurelP:
Well I've dated like 7 girls all my life and I never walked up to any of them to start the usual "toasting"! Usually we just become friends and from there, things take off!

My advice to ladies is they should tone down their egos and attitude a bit. Men are very simple creatures, we are easy to manipulate if I can use that word. All a lady needs is to be different and be friendly and you see guys dying to have you.
If you keep acting hard to get you attract players who would want to prove that they can and will get you at all cost.


My 2 cents.

skoagmola:
Good post dis are mistakes our girls are doing is better u get married to ur desire.so when u see a guy u luv nd u wish he be ur hubby pls woo him or show him a green light

politicalpastor:
Who ever wrote this is a wonderful thinker and a writer.
That is exactly what is happening here in america.

symbian03:
Toks2008

Did you write this your self bro?

salisy:
The article talks about women crushing on men, and that they need to start making d first move as against waiting and hoping for the guy to act first. It is not like a guy liking a lady and can't approach

Officialkenshin:
Hey bro, are yu fluent with speaking Yoruba? Waz looking for someone to just help me do my music in Yoruba, just few lines thiu..

makzeze:
OP, you think you can deceive us? as if it is your article. plagiarism at its best.

tomyka81:
Ummm where are you getting this from? Not ALL men cheat. Real men have self control and aren't guided by their temporary feelings and emotions. But yes, I am very much STD free. Every woman should make her worth known to her boyfriend before he becomes a husband and say if you cheat, I am gone. No man is worth your life. There are some diseases money can't sure and love won't heal.

menxer:
You can't judge heaven by 3D beauty of earth.

Besides the standard we use here to describe beauty may not apply outside this earth dimension.

"Heaven" is a beautiful place but not by earthly standard.

herald9:
What a mouthwatering list... A perfect place for the poor, lazy and greedy.

That no. 5 caught me

If we eat all those foods, do we have to excrete?
I mean are there toilets?

Where will it flow to?

So we might have gigantic waste-treatment
plants, toilet paper warehouses, supermarkets and stores
selling equally enormous packages of toilet-paper rolls.
.
.
.
And every Christian who has
ever died, is up there evacuating their bowels and bladders
and, …   hey, … maybe that’s where all this global
pollution is really coming from...

menxer:
So the foundations of heaven are made from materials found on earth?

Then such a heaven is just a [b]glorified [/b]earth.

juliuscapps:
God bless you for this... How inspiring to know how much God loves us to be part of this Kingdom. I pray He strengthens us the more and make Heaven our very home at last. Thank you Jesus

wristbangle:
Wonderful write up egbon. Thanks for this eye opener article. We will never miss heaven in Jesus name.

dada01:
PRAISE THE LORD..

But my fear and question is; God never planned for this chaos and evil, or destroying the earth and reconstructing a new one, in his initial plan (in the begining).
Just hoping nothing goes wrong again when we get to heaven.
Stories of new rebelion by another angel or the new occupants (man), no go funny o. Cause this will lead to another cycle of sacrifice and repentance (that is if Christ would volunteer again). But untill then.....

AMEN....
amen!!!!

wrongnumber:

MrsPhyno:
End time list, my children.
Only one thing needs to be on this list: 1. You must be married

Abbykem:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.


2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand: Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.


3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.