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tomyka81:
I guess I am just not the kind to wait around and see whether a man brings me a death sentence home.

This is why i always say no one is free from stds..ok if you run is there a guaranty that the next man wont give you.

I think every wife should just warn her hubby and also beg him to use protection for his side dishes if he must eat out.

tomyka81:
If a man cheats there is neither love, intelligence or respect. There is AIDS, clamidia, syphillis, ghonorrea, herpes, hepatitis ABCE. Not worth having a man if you have to worry about him coming home with these

I agree totally but it does not change the aforementioned fact.

[quote author= post=39467497]Made lots of sense... I've learnt a whole lot from this post. Bravo @Toks God bless ya[/quote]AMEN sis.

This is not about loving front page but I may have to point Lalasticlala or ishilove to also check ths thread cos i think ladies should learn from this so if you guys dim it fit you can put this on fpage.

Thanks

Dotng:
This makes a lot of sense. In the same vein I must commend women who look beyond themselves to be someone who makes their husband to believe in himself no matter what the circumstances may be. When he has no hope or direction they help him create one. These are the ones that change the world.

Unfortunately, such is rare.

friends4ever:
Some condoms can fail too, during the act, it slips off the stick and lost in the ocean and after nine months you will have a child with hat or rubber on his head
It's better to stay away from fornication. Get married and stick to your spouse instead of sleeping around using your joy stick causing nuisance around the oceans.

That is the message.

Rukkydelta:
thank you, some of your threads are good but others i can't say

Good..though you look sweet but im more drawn to your decorum cos unlike many nairaland ladies who would have lashed out,you just comported yourself respectfully which shows your level of discipline.keep it up.

friends4ever:
God bless speaking the truth just like Fayose of our time. Wao... you're gifted. I know some players wouldn't like this message.

Thanks but how come many ladies are attacking me over this while more of guys are ensync with it?

Obviously ladies are more sexually loosed.

Jolllyjoy:
And you think the girl child would be sincere with her response?


Heck no!!

Ask me such question and i will so impressed you with a response you never imagined.

At least the message would have been passed to her subconcious mind.

Rukkydelta:
Yes some of your topics touches me by getting me angry cos you see female's as objects

Lol then you have been reading my threads wrongly..next time ask questions and i will clarify..my threads will do you great good if you comprehend very well.

Sunshinelady:
. Are u sure u r not suffering from inferiority complex? Ladies that speak well are arrogant? Ha! This one is new! Okay so are we to assume u r an arrogant guy since u speak well? (presumably). Dont you know that its even a confident, well grounded person (be you girl or boy) that is more likely to treat you wit respect (there are some exceptions though), because some people with self image problems as a result of inability to express themselves (or what have you) can be very difficult to cope with . Unless maybe the only communication u want with her is se.x

More of superiority complex cos there is no grammer any lady can speak that will trip me and i guess thats why i care less if i have a lady who cant speak so well .

And do people always mistake many or most to mean all?

Anyways my standview remains unchanged...i will choose a sexy lady who cant say jack in english over an atutu poyoyo that speaks the queens english.

Vikky014:
dnt tell me u will beat her if she ws ur wife bsides y will u quote sme1 dt insulted herslf

How i wish i could raise my hand to beat a lady cos some ladies can turn some angelic guys to monsters with their atitude.

Rukkydelta:
I don't know why ? I just don't like reading the op's topics because they always get me annoyed. Please let the female gender be

I can show you the way to the lagos lagoon.

You dont like my threads yet you keep visiting them.

What is my own with ladies?im only stating the obvious and i sense its touching somewhere in you.

Genea:
dere is more to think of wen having a lady dan her shape

Na u know that one..if a lady does not appeal to me sexually i cant marry her even if she has the best nature in the world.

bqlekan:
How I want to tich me englisse ehn?

I am not gay,i extended my invitation to only ladies

pelij18:
And why must a lady who claims she doesn't poo, wouldn't know how to speak a very nice and clean english?

Ma bi mi ni jamb question,

bqlekan:
oo nid lati so yen.. no study e die ni mo shey ni no fe meet e.. you look different to me

Vernacular mode activated.

I am extending a hand of friendship to any super sexy hot nairalander even if you no sabi say come for English,i will get a teacher for you. Even if you no sabi write ABC no wahala,na love matter no be grammer.

Genea:
do u want your wife to end up like PEJ mocked by the whole country wen she speaks??

lol! her case was pure arrogance becauyse she could as well speak in her native language and someone wil interprete.

I always tell ladies..if you cant speak and you find yourself in a public setting please declare the fact "sory i am not good in english" then say the one you can,trust me,people will respect you but when you want to form wole shoyinka and you are worse than k.mwan then you are on your own.

For mwe, im too visual to look away from a hot chich because she can't speak english...i ask again, shey na english i go dey hold for bed?

misspicy:
lol,why do you think so?


well,eshe gan,yes ke,else meet me,ale ma so Yoruba ko so problem sugbon showo wa?

I have a strong feeling that this particular lady can't speak good English. Oya start what you know how to do best.

butanep:
This thread remind me of how I need a fair, sexy naturally beauty queen from akwa ibom state. So friendly & hospitable.

The first day I meet her, I started with a high profile English but during the course of our conversation, I discovered she always respond with good & pidgin English mixed together. We exchange contact...

I called her two days after, she responded in normal pidgin English so I decided to flow with her in that tone. I found out she feel somehow when I always speak high profile English to her so I decided to step to her level.

So we communicate in pidgin English most times. She is sexy and hot but not good in good English but good in bed English.

I have promised to teach her. Not everybody have the means to acquire good education.

Good one.

I have met many sexy as in super sexy ladies that have ran away from me because of the grammar and i have made up my mind to always caution myself.

Asides this, i have realized that these ladies who have grammar challenges are naturally humble and more wifey than many ladies that can speak grammar like kilode and i have also arrived at a possible school of thought that ladies who speak so well are mostly arrogant and proud and can abuse you so mildly in grammar and when you interpret that to vernacular you will feel the gravity of the insult.

tonyx4x44:



chai!! faced a similar situation in NYSC camp. After trying as much as I could to cope, I had to give up!


I started conversing with her in good English at first, along the line I noticed she and all her friends spoke pidgin English; the eastern kind.
When I initiated chatting on WhatsApp, she would ignore my messages or give me monosyllabic replies. on day while on the parade ground I was behind her in a line and had the opportunity of spying on her chat. Omo see rugged broken

as I enter broken that night see instant response! long ones self!


I had to let her go eventually sha... Bimbos are a turn off jare. Beta Fine Girl fa!

O.M.G

But why is it that these babes in this category are usually so hot and sexy?

Jolllyjoy:
u are sad


am happy the way i am

LOL! if i were you i wont respond.

Guys view lady's beauty differently. To some guys they look at the face but mature guys look at the body first so from what i can see so far babe,you are hot.

EgunMogaji:
Once life has given you some opportunities to learn and you've developed then you'll realize that command of a foreign language is down on the list of ingredients for a suitable partner.

I like this

Richiy:
The OP is just more interested in knacking her which is not good at all. Except you have plans for her future, let her go abeg.

Knacking what?lol

Trust me, if i see a chich wey set die i will rush her even if she cant say Hi or oouch...trust me i will teach her and if i see that her case is a rather hopeless one i will just beg her to announce in public that she is not good in ghrammer before she starts any conversation to save us from embarrassment.

Maybe i should ask lalasticlala to tell us which one he will choose between a blac chyna/amber rose/tools/kim k/omotola look alike that can not speak a sentence in english or a lepa with no sex appealling features who can speak more than the Wole shoyinkas of this world.

gratefulme40:
Hahaha.....na so you exalt me reach. Me? In Uncle Toks2008 house.....who am i na? My own don better.

As for you misbronze, i know you still cuddling in halexito's kingsize bed in your hot red lingerie....

dont ask who told me. My spiritual eyes is super

Good morning to you too my love.....good to know you woke up happy this morning

I will be tuning to your radio station every morning....you never know, he might propose on air, i need to be tuned in to hear it.


Morning to us all
Siamia
Halexito
Magneto
udysweet
Toks2008
Ilaje44 (a warm welcome to you)
Viviciousvivi(doubt if i got the spelling, will copy and paste next time)
Others whose name i cant remember just now

Lol who i be?

Abeg o,i am as lowly as you can ever imagine infact very vulnurable..but ladies usually think guys are strong headed..infact most bachelors of 35 and above as as vulnurable as you can imagine..infact i will be priviledged to have someone like you.

firstking01:
sure....it made whole lotsa sense, esp dat ur second paragraph....truth of d matter is, we were built by God in the same way, but to succeed in divers ways, many people just wanna be lyk d other person...dat i study mech engine, and u too, studied same course doesn't mean we'd gonna work in oil coys, many people lack dis mindset toksi 've people who studied mason who r musicians, e.g, doctor sid, i 've also seen people who studied engrin on pulpits, i mean full tym pastors, even sm dat read mason, its all abt vision...dats just d summary of d second paragraph...toks been creating threads dat made sense sinx d tym....complete am

Very true.

dkdigits:
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OP your assertion is not only wrong, but also irresponsible and dangerous. Obviously you have a thing against condoms, luckily for you, you have kept to one partner and hopefuLly ur faithfulness is reciprocated. Its dangerous tho to presume that this will be the case in other premarital relationships...hence the danger in your post. Let me state categorically that not all guyz reason like you do, you could use a condom with ur tru love, it doesn't mean you see her as a slut. Its simply a means of protection. A lot of men use condoms with their wives when the wives are not on safe periods. It doesn't make the women sluts. Condoms are used because of their advantages. They safe guard against unwanted pregnancies and std's. Simple

Some people just like to comment without meticulously comprehending.

My write up is predominantly on premarital use of condom and as i wrote there was never a time i used "all" but most and there is a wide difference between the two.

And what has your comment got to do with what you quoted?

Joy1706:
Thank God I'm not the only one that noticed it. That Toks2008 is just a mumu

LOL! Just saw this and i have nothing to say except that i am beginning to see why some ladies get beaten up by their hubbies.

It is easy for men to say they will never beat up a woman but i have alweays asked them to pray that they don't find themselves with a woman that will make them wife beaters.

When you come on-line to openly display ill-mannerism it goes to show that there is something fundamentally wrong with the way you were brought up...I wil stop here.

IamDanto7:
[b][/b]Best thing I have ever read on Nairaland

I am humbled bro

Konjour:
Get your facts right por favor. By the standards of living in their times, one of the greatest sailors of all times and one of the most influential and charismatic prime ministers Britain had ever produced were no paupers by the slightest definition of the term. If anything, they lived their lives in relative comfort, affluence and yes...wealth.

Can you just look away from that list and look at the message? Apparently i did some research on these names and if 2 or 3 out of 11 names were erroneously added that should not be a crime.

Asides this, it is imperative to understand that in most cases.when a man follows his passion,making money is definitely sacrosanct but the problem is that the level of riches may not be as good as envisaged by some standards.

Orikinla:
OP, good advice. But relax to write in correct grammar.

Thanks but i would have preferred you point out the errors so i can know exactly which place the mistake(s) was made.

doveda:
Another one again

missspicy,

[s]Pray tell, how many Nigerian guys do not wish to be the richest man in earth?[/s]

Scratch that

How many Nigerian guys are you aware of that has other visions that is unrelated to money or family?

In other words, our men define us

Taught provoking.

Vikky014:
dnt mind some ladies. they r only pretending nt to know d bad fruit their lifestyle yields

1million likes for u jare

Well thanks for that.

I was actually expectly a backlash from guys but surprisingly it is the ladies that are wailing over this..na wa.