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Sparkles003:
Happy Sunday to everyone.

Another ghost mode entry...pleasse lets meet you.thanks

bimflash:
23

Maka why?

Sorry,try again in 3 years and if you are a guy,in 7years.

Shey una don see how threads surpppose be for nairaland? now its a great deal to be 30plus.

udysweet:
Hello everyone! Happy sunday to y'all. Still trying to read thru pages,wch by d way keeps increasing by d hour!(Cnt belive dis thread was created jus on d 1st!)
On my way back frm church(we hav to travel ni o,lol)
Was our covenant day of marital breakthru and trust me I prayed for everyone here(including myself) esp @siamia(hope I got dat rite) dat God will settle everyone and not jus anyhow person but one deserving of us.
Of late I'm getn more worried,more because dos arnd me are worried for me too. Its really nice u knw to wake up next to d pesn who means d world to u,and then smile and say"God thank You for this gift" not one who will mak u regret getn married and all.
So I pray we all find and marry our best friend. Can I get an Amen somebody!
PS: I know this my post may get me into trouble ,not today but maybe sometime in the future.
And by d way,pls check my signature for all ya beaded jewelries(mak una no vex o,man gast survive,winks)

well articulated

Welcome on board.

myztikal:
My thoughts exactly, and most of the advice clearly shows she's probably 25 and below...pls, don't hesitate to correct me if i'm wrong

She is only 20yrs but to her,the theory she read holds true for her when she is just starting her journey.

Experience remains the best teacher.

Davidbee:
Good morning, I actually thought she's 30years old.

It does not really matter if you are a 30yr old guy interested in a 20yr old as long as you are not ready to propose to her now and you really mean busines and not just interested in freestyling the lady.

In the case of the ladies i really have nothing to say when it comes to age disperity cos they dont even know wat they want at that age. A 20yr old lady will say a 35 yr old guy is too old for her but if she turns 30 and still single,a 45 yr old guy will be very ideal for her and thats when she will say age is nothing but a number.

Luckygurl:
That's why I said I'd be on the sidelines, a year less than 20.

Lol@ classical redeem member, something like that

I know them wen i see one.

Btw all of una 20yr old or a little above wey dey post one or two lines and having a luvly dp i dey wonder about una motive o.

We have many 30yr old guys anyways maybe they can consider you but honestly this thread is actually for ladiies and guys of marriageable ages so please if you are a lady below 25 dont even bother writing hello and if you are a lady above 25 just make your presence known stating your age and you are free to create a new account to protect your privacy.

most guys here are ready to settle down and very responsible too,the type you will hardly come across offline so take note and mingle freely ok.

tbaby123:
I how I love dis post, u must have experienced it all...I am actually in dissituation, though gradually tryin to fix me

All these ghost mode posters sef..abeg lets know you if you are a lady or man.

Luckygurl:
@ emboldened
Now, this is a matured way of handling such issues. Practising it right away.
Thanks for sharing this

*gets back to the sidelines* while observing with the intention of learning from matured minds.

which one be sideline?

If you are above 25 just stay and mingle and dars because you are a lady o...

So how old are you? by the way you look like a classical redeem member lol..nice calm beauty.

bimflash:
Following silently
I'm not up to 30 tho

I guess we should allow ladies of 26years and above join us while we leave the 30plus solely for guys.

A single lady at 26 is very ripe to start a family.The thread title may remain unaltered but the op should officially allow ladies above 25 join us because we have lots of 26 to 30 single ladies than we have in 30plus.

my opinion though

btw how old are you? its important that we know on this thread.

joebeckz:
I knew you were that cool, romantic and true person from the unset as your words exposed you.
No time to be rehearsing punch lines in the name of toasting a woman like de say, is she bread?
Good morning bro.

Good morning and how was your night as we dey ask for naija lol

Davidbee:
I have vested interest in you. We could work things out if you don not mind

Vested interest in a 20year old..ok o

These days sef i have recieved several friendship proposals from 20yr old ladies and i kept asking myself if anything good can come out from it but if you are 30 and she is 20 then it just might work out. At lst if you decide to marry at 35 she will be 25 and ripe enough for marriage...

Enoquin:
No sire, sorry

I know you are not up to 30 yet so i understand your decision not to give out your number,nevertheless im curious to know your age cos you have a deep intellectual prowess that is endearing..

You must also undderstand that the best investment you can have is in a human being.

Many ladies tend to make a collosal blunder when they react harshly to a guy just because a guy approaches them.

Every guy you meet in life is an asset but ladies dont know this. I make friends like kilode and no lady i have ever met on nairalandd can come out to say i have ever asked her out and i stand challenged but they will tell you how wonderful my friendship have been to them.

If the op bcomes the first lady tomorrow and i gain access to her,trust me she cant deny me and as a budding politician that i am,when i climb the saddle of authority in the nearest future,i can never deny knowing everyone i have ever known.

The best time to be friends with great people is when they are ordinary people.

If this guy you turned down happens to be a governor would you have said No? at least if not for romance no one dares refuse giving a governor his or her phone number.

So please make this an habbit and give every man who ask for your contact a means of contact. It may not be your direct call line,you could have a fbook ID,twitter handle or linkedin account...trust me,even that tout you turned down harshly might be one of the armedrobbers that will prevent his gang from robbing you in future.

My advice to any other lady reading this is that they must understand that no matter how hot or classy they may be,that truck pusher has a right to approach them and they also have the right to turn him down but if they must do so,it must be done with proper decorum as it becomes totally immature to talk down on any man no matter his status simply because he approached you.

Im just trying to make common sense and i hope you got the drift.

Sermon for the day.
Enjoy reading this awesome message.
www.nairaland.com/2579060/8-false-teachings-churches-biblical#38648343

Melish:
The things I say apply to every woman from any race and of any age... I

I'm 20

lol.

Dearie they do not apply to every age. for instance where you wrote..that he should reach out to you more is so childish..mature ladies dont think that way and where you also wrote that she should remain mysterious and keep stuffs about her away..lol..honestly only imature minds will take the past of a lady or her past mistakes to juddge her..anyway all good.

Now back to the matter about age disperity..a 20yr old on this thread..hmmmm...so if i woo you now how will you see me considering that if i got a lady pregnant 20yrs ago i could have your mate as a child?

Wont you call me a useless man? yes age is nothing but a number but be sincere if i propose marriage to you right now would you be ready to start a family?

So you see why this thread is for 30plus?

I love your intellect and its well appreciated but i implore you to take the bench and learn. *hugs*

Toks2008:
Quite revealing i guess.

Many pastors have led many to hell with their false teachings.

I know many ladies that refused to be born again because they said they can not do without earings or troussers and many guys also refuse to give their life to christ because they cant do without a bottle of alcohol a day.

Please feel free to state it if you have a contrary opinion but must back it up with biblical references so that we all can learn more.

Thanks

Melish:
Again for the ladies there are some things we do in r/ships that actually delays and breaks the deal instead of sealing it.. Eg

Don't turn to a man's maid in the name of a r/ship.. Don't cook and clean for him, don't do his laundry and dishes.. Don't sleep with him.... When you do these things he doesn't see a need to propose cause you're already doing the wifely duties for him..

Let him reach out for you more often than you reach out to him(calls, texts, whatsapp, but.. Etc)

Remain mysterious intelligent and feminine.... Don't start telling him abouts all your mistakes and your problems and all that... He might console you but he'll leave..

. But Very importantly respect the man.... Respect is what a man needs most in a relationship not even love .... When you respect a man in a any situation you grab his heart.....

So many more to say but let me stop here for now.....


Have a victorious lifes#

Madam relish i must confess that you have words of wisdom but this face im seing on this dp should certainly be far less than a 30year old or even 25yr old lady..please be sincere..how old are you?

Your advice though sounds nice but in the world of matured individuals,those are not applicable.

Melish:
Women behave that way because they should be chased not the other way around...
Guys get tired of the readily available lady and keeps chasing the one that hardly give them attention...

It's also wise to make the basis of a r/ship known to a lady and not just rallying her around and telling her you have no deep interest in her later on after wasting her time...

Ladies too don't overspend time on a r/ship with any man.. If nothing is coming out from a r ship after 6 months to one year leave and move on

Nice

Good mornng my great friends and wish you all a great sunday.

Less forget please i urge ladies who are no where near 30 to desist from commentng on this thread.

Of what use is it if i add a lady to my watsup because i met her here just to realize she is 20years and i begin to wonder...

Please this is a thread strictly for 30plus and even if a younger lady should show face at all at lst she should be like e yr or 3 short of 30.

Please this is a responsible thread with responsible guys..if i want to date young ladiies iin their early twenties trust me they are all over the place wiith their hormones running wild but guys here are interested in purposeful friendship with grown ladies.

Please i beg you once again,do not comment here and dont even say hi to anyone if you are a lady less than 30 or 28 if that will be fair enough.

Happy sunday once again

mfonnn:
do have bbm. you never responded to my whatsapp message

Oh i will dear. I dont have a bb

gratefulme40:
Chai....oga i am not a brother oo. I am 100% sister

oh sowy

gratefulme40:
Okay....sleep calleth, gotta go.
Op, Toks, Joe and others, I enjoyed my evening here.

Thanks to you guys for keeping it real.

G nite bro

mfonnn:
added you on whatsapp. my name is mfon

Cool, i really love your dexterity for business.

joebeckz:
If you wait for me or any other dude, u go get third leg, u never marry o. Lol.
Not saying we wouldn't but if you like someone, express am. For me, I like to be friends for a while and let things happen naturally n it might shock u to know that I never have verbally asked a lady out, actions always replaced words and sealed with a golden kiss. My style fit no be your way. So gear up bro.

lol! we are one of a kind.

I have never asked any lady out but it usually flows from friendship to the real thing and that is because i love to take my time.

And please i want every lady on this thread to understand that no forming for here o.We are all matured people and trust me, in this present day world where the bad girls are getting the good guys i will advice sweet responsible ladies to loosen up so that calm and responsible guys can take them to mama.Trust me most responsible guys don't have time running after any lady in the name of proving hard to get and the fact that a guy wooed you for a year is no guaranty that he wont dump you after having his way.

Hope you all got my drift?A lady can be very free with a guy without preoving hard to get yet maintain her dignity.

joebeckz:
person no go fit play with you again? See as u don preach pass papa adeboye in few seconds. I belong to Jesus bro. Thanks for concern, I don de like you. No homo o abeg. Before the gal wet de eye me go say, gosh, he is gay. Lol

great...its good to see dudes in christ camp. Keep it up bro

joebeckz:
Hiaaaaaaaaan... Me Married before keh,
I never wear black suit with pple gathered in ashebi for my ceremony before but I wish too. I can imagine already. Mr Toks2008 present at the venue with dark glass and walking stick.
Not old age walking stick o. Chieftancy title walking stick I mean. Hahaha

ok o no problem

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joebeckz:
Guy I go get problems with you ooooh.
Can you see what you have caused?
The woman wey I de eye now don ask me whether I don sell my self give christ plus at what age?
Say no be my age mate don de sell sell since 12years so?
Hahaha. Na joke o.


The thread is no doubt a serious one and I, you and sia have been posting serious comments and big big Grammar na him this evening I decide come for jovial nature o. Plus them win chelseafc.
I like soccer

lol abeg bro e never late to accept christ o..

e get one kain peace wey you go get once you accept am. Infact you sef no go fit explain am.

And make i tell u one fact,e no go good make you carry this cute face jam satan for hell because e go be serious waste.

See nothing different for these babes body but na same hole but different casing so if you want casing of your choice then pick your choice and commot eye and if you say u wan marry more na your choice be that as long as you get money to take care of them and also ready to face the wahala wey dey nside polygamy but trust me you can not screw evry babe wey catch your fancy except man wan die sara.

The bottom line is that life is too short to live it without christ.Just go for the woman with the sexual features that turn you on and re?ain faithful for the sake of your life and christ. So pls accept him today and now because no one knows when that trumpet of his life will blow as people leave this world wen they least expect.

Fine broda abeg carry your fine face dash Jesus n you wont regret it. *winks*

mfonnn:
add me on bbm 557EB212. Mfon

If you hve watsup lets socialize so add me on 08023146046

you seem to be business minded but you also have a passion that holds the key to your true wealth.

im talking like a prohet abi? lol

joebeckz:
what's kini? What's the something? Sorry I don't understand, am an adult who knows very little. Lolzzzzzzzz. No mind me bro. I get to meet them always but it stopped when I relocated to pH. LAGOS WAS MEHNNNN.... You go see as man with strong face, that type wey get veins de wink at me de link lips like dog wey see fresh bone. Man wey de like man na evil mind jor

Lol...

But on a serious note were you once married or never married cos though you are cute but also look too matured to be a nver married man.

just curious

siamia:
@everyone
Someone emailed me and suggested this, and I think its a good idea.
I noticed a few serious folk are trying to hook up with ladies. But being an open platform, the ladies are hesitant.
This thread officially has a group whatsapp chat: 08180632132.
So text me ur number if ur single and ready to hook up (serious matters only), and I'll add u.
On this more private forum, u can whatsapp each other.
Pls sisters, I encourage u to be here. Don't do private chat until ur sure ooo. So, send me a text and I'll add u to the group chat.
Thanks and remain safe.
Remember, its 30plus and single.

i think its berrer we keep things here so that this thread will be kept alive.

These ladies can open a new ID to allow them privacy. creating a watsup group will derail the thread and may die the thread as many may swtch to watsup.

my opinion

gratefulme40:
Lol....absolutely necessary to clarify things so one is not misunderstood.

Well, given the fact that you write like one with a mind thats been properly renewed....i wouldnt mistake you for one.

Its really refreshing to see young men who are not ashamed to declare their love for Christ

i have been sold out to christ since i was 13 and now at 40 i dont even know the way back into the world.

I will never be ashamed of christ and while i was growing up i hve been called many names like okobo,bolo,wasted all because i refuse to chase babes about.

Of wat use is your good looks if you end up disfigured in hell.I do not get carried away by beauty of a woman so you will nver see me hop from one woman to another so im so focused on wat i want in a lady nd wait patiently to get what i want because infidelity is a big NO for me.

For the records im not wriiting all these to get endered to any lady..this iis who i am and m proud of it.

#sold-out-to-christ

joebeckz:
gay no fit near you sef cos you look responsible. Thanks for your compliment bro..

You are welcome.

Ive had some funny encounters with gay guys o and i was like..wettin dey worry this one?

Where better molds dey everywhere i go kon dey put my kini inside bone oloun maje.

joebeckz:
ogbeni, you too fine.

Thanks but over fine worry you too.chai see fine man..aneg o naa comment i dey make o,i no be gay o..lol