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gratefulme40:
Just did....will be taking it down in 60 secs....lol. The time starts now...1....2....3

Aminat508:
Omo,dis baba is handsome ooo Sai Buhari

gratefulme40:
Well, I personally had to create this new handle to comment here because knowing what NL is, someone will go to another thread to make a jest of you as if being 30 and single is some form of curse or crime.

Yea, I am 30, single and have no regrets about it. I have achieved what every individual my age should achieve except the Mrs title and in all sincerity, we all have different reasons why we are single and for some of us, as much as we are up to 30, are still not desperate.

I am here to read, comment where necessary and make some good friends if possible.

siamia:
@everyone
I've been reading everyone's posts. Some are alarming and others are downright hilarious.
I go soon reply everyone. I just want to prepare stuff for church 2mro. Don't go to bed yet ooo.
Shout out to everyone: u are all great nairalanders. I move u from Azikiwe to Mama Charles. (For those who don't know...azikiwe is naira, and mama charles...queen elizabeth...is pound sterling)
Oya receive the anointing to begin to count mama charles in Jesus' name!!!

kaboninc:
Nope

Am not

onstelly:
Daughter ke abegi

kaboninc:
Tell me why you think so

kaboninc:
Lool

Tell us what you'd love to do on a cool Sunday evening... just after rain fall

tonychristopher:
Thank you brother for this

tonychristopher:
That's the problem ..the most annoying is after dating a lady you moved on to marry somebody they will start swearing

I used to tell any lady that it's not a must that a man that you date will marry you. So I think they should take dating what it is ...which is dating


He who doesn't expect much doesn't get disappointed

This is a matured firum and we are here to share ideas. I am an honest man otherwise I would have said I am single but at this age I just can't do such


Nice thread

Dosunmuoflagos:
@siamia... I AM OFFICIALY STATING MY INTREST IN oppy4God.. FEEL FREE TO ASK ME QUESTIONS, PULL UP MY FOREVER POST AND USE YOUR LASER BEAM....

tonychristopher:
Polygamy isn't my thing bro... Never experienced that in my life but why is it that once you straff a lady she starts thinking marriage

That's to me is desperation ..I am not saying infidelity is good Bro ..just trying to be me

PascalJ:
Siamia, brilliant work dear, a lady called ... on this thread sent me an email but I mistakenly dismiss it. Hw do I connect again with her?

tonychristopher:
I said I used to and my wife knows I am not a pastor and I think that is maturity. But that was then

I do t paint a picture of St Tony for her

But

Oppy4God:
u must be joking right ?poly what.have u ever witnessed or experience it, i dont thing so.y will a lady with her senses date married man let alone marry him.i hate it wen married man ask me out.in short i don dey vex.pls just stop it(ogba were 100%)

Oppy4God:
yes i have upload my pix but will remove it soon thanks

tonychristopher:
Don't tell me your a feminist


If I put the money in envelope that is bribing
If I put it on the table that is tipping
If I give you the money direct that is giving



I used to have this mistress that I dated then ..she is also 30s but always beg for money especially before sex ..do you know what I did to her ...after making love to her she will be lying nude..I will just throw the money on her ...saying honey this is the money . she will smile but never knew I have reduced her.


But my wife ...I either write her check or give her my ATM.. Maybe sometimes I do transfer

She is my wife ..but mistress whatever way I deem it fit i give her

tonychristopher:
Don't tell me your a feminist


If I put the money in envelope that is bribing
If I put it on the table that is tipping
If I give you the money direct that is giving



I used to have this mistress that I dated then ..she is also 30s but always beg for money especially before sex ..do you know what I did to her ...after making love to her she will be lying nude..I will just throw the money on her ...saying honey this is the money . she will smile but never knew I have reduced her.


But my wife ...I either write her check or give her my ATM.. Maybe sometimes I do transfer

She is my wife ..but mistress whatever way I deem it fit i give her

kaboninc:
Maybe you should become less choosy and picky too but still maintain those virtues you look out for in a lady.

udysweet:
Well said! That's true. Am more of an indoor pesn o,I find It difficulut mignling wit pple,weda na shyness dey cause am,lool! But trust me I've made good friends online more than I've ever made in my life,friends who hav impacted on my life. And yes I've also met terribles ones,who hav no gud intentions abt u(evn on dis forum) so I can be indoors an be able to be in uk,a and d rest of d world,jus wit a click of my phone button.
PS: nice thread,tho I'm on page 4(ran out of steam)lemme go bak and continue,loool. If I faint mak una send e-lucozade or e-glucose for me o

DrMuzoic:
Well done everyone. Hope you are all having a wonderful weekend.

What is the impact of age difference in a relationship

damiloladuke:
This is showing that you are a real adult and a matured one for that matter. There is a reason for everything I will say and everyone knows where the shoe hurts them. But God knows best I must say

I hereby retrieve those writings. Thank God this is the social media, the words were not uttered. But am sorry for my rude attitude and I must say have learnt a great deal fron this little e-altercation. It will not repeat itself

and what is even the big deal in Marrying a woman older than me *****winks

Artistree:
Please tell them o! Thank you once again for making out time for this, seriously you made me start looking back at my singleness again.
In 2007, lady I know got married at 47 and you know what, her husband dotes over her, till date! God bless you Siamia, He loves you and I do too!

uchezzz:
Thanks for the compliment. I just hit the big 30 four months ago

engrelvis:
ok.am digressin here.alot of people wud hv been helpin their fellowmen or women on dis NL but alot of people here r fake.everbdy cannt b rich so people shud stop dis big boy or big girl front.b real because u cannt say where yr help is comin from.if any person cannt accept u d way u r den is nt worth being yr frd or bein in relationship wit.i really applaud dis thread.

siamia:
I miss those days when e cudnt go to sch until our right hand cud reach our left ear! Lol
I remember when we went to school, lined up & d headmistress & teachers inspect our nails & uniform, then we march to our classrooms. U Remember now??• D days of Nasco Biscuit, Okin biscuit, Trebor, Iced Coloured water tied in nylon- we called it "lolly"• D days of Goody-Goody & Pako biscuit. D days of Dandy & Bazooka chewing gum, days of Tree-Top sachets, Baba-dudu & Ekanna Gowon sweets, Obi-Edun fruit, Awin, Agbalumo, Ireke-Obo roots, yeye fruit, Bongo coffee, Tate/Lye & St Loius cube sugar, Pambolabola, Majidun rainbow coloured pant with string, Ewekoro pant. D days of Ali & Simbi, Mr Salami & Mrs Salami, Agbo lives in Calabar, Eze goes to school, The Adventure of Sousa, An African Night Entertainment, Kyauta, The Directors, The flying doctor in Lesotho, Ogboju Ode ninu Igbo Irunmole, Igbo Eledumare, Alibaba and the Angels. Mr Giwa is a trader.
I remember those days when one naira was money, even stronger than the dolla. I remember when groundnut was 5kobo & chocomilo sweet was 5 kobo• Days of messing game, who is in d garden, police and thief• D days of mama & papa play• Days when we used to build houses with sand, play suwe game, tinco tinco, change Ur style, ten ten, skipping• Those days when we used to fly kite on streets, those days when rubber band was stock exchange• D days of limca soft drinks & choco milo adverts on black & white TV, Sunday rendezvous by 1:30pm. Days of Elopee dance, Soul Train, Disco '79 & Disco '80, Cock Crows at Dawn. The Old Village Headmaster, Awada-Kerikeri(Baba-Mero Theater), 'Ajimajashan Theater, Baba-Sala, Jacob & Papa-Lolo, Ishiekwu, The Bala-Miller Show, The Art Alade Show, The Harbour's Band, The Soul Train, The Bar-Beach Show, Ere abalaiye, Feyikogbon, The Oyin Adejobi Theater, Ishola Ogunshola (I-Show Pepper), The Osumare Theater, The Omidina Theater, Diran Ajijedidun news cast, Walter Oyatogun reporting, Mirror in the sun, Winds Against my Soul, Second Chance , Madam Kofo, Amebo, Sisi Clara, Zebrudaya, Mrs Ovularia Nwobo alias 4;30, Giringory, Gorimapa, Chief Eleyinmi, Chief Kokonsari, Omo Akara-Ogun, Chief Dagbolu, Chief Faderin, Mr Garuba, Hawaii-5-0, The Famous-five, Combat(Jam Locker, Michael London, Vic Moroe, Pennar Roberts & Long Green) Frank Spencer. When we say 'leke leke give me white finger'• Those days when Bic biro was d best• D days when we used to drink water from d tap, even suck out d water if it's not coming out• The days when NTA will show rainbow sign for 30 mins then national anthem be4 program starts @ 4pm• The days when basket sandals, simbi, Learneds' & Cortina sandals by Bata shoes were d best• Days when we all sing sandalili sandalili songs, Dstv has come, no more old fun! I'm really proud to have experienced all these. If u are not smiling it means u were not born in my generation. Which means u are d INDOMIE generation lol! Abeg share make others laugh too. ROTFL.

myztikal:
I'm forced to come out of my shell now. its only in naija that getting married is the ultimate achievement, and used as a measure of responsibility. we must realise that some people just ain't into marriage, its their choice. i'm 37 and single, i wanna get married...i yearn for it, i'm not PROUD i'm still single, when you are this old and yearn for a life partner, then know its because of that one relationship that couldv'e been IT, but either of you botched it, its always hard to come back from that. i'd rather not bring my unpalatable baggage into any one's life...but i will appreciate a friend

engrelvis:
this is my second time of contributin on NL.dis is because while some comments r mature most r immature.so i really appreciate dis thread.am in my forties n a civil engineer by profession.kudos to op

Melish:
Marriage is not an uphill task... And no one is overdue for marriage....

Anyway if you've gotten ready for marriage for a long time now and nothing is happening... It's either spiritual issues or the fault is yours.... It's not that you've not met enough people.

First you need to cast that burden on God.... Let God come in and help you with it... How? Accepting him as Lord and saviour and serving him with your life and resources Faithfully... If you've tried again and again and failed why don't you trust God.

Finally there are some existing principles that govern r/ships and when you go against them you keep failing at r/ships......

With that said... I recommend dominion city church.... A very powerful Christian force..... Teachings from there have totally changed my life and things that seemed so far fetched have become closer than my shadow.....


Have a victorious life#

playtheblues:
Akwa Ibom Civil Servants Employed Since Nov/Dec 2014 Have Not Been Paid A Dime by playtheblues: 9:00pm On Oct 02
It is with deep sorrow that I write this.
We Akwaibomites are usually very peaceful and are not the types to complain easily. This is the reason why Udom Emmanuel thinks he can do anything to us and get away with it.
While Udom is busy building mansions in his village and who-knows-elsewhere we the latest employed staff of Akwa Ibom Civil Service (employed since Nov/Dec 2014) have not received even a kobo of our salaries from the Government and we are expected to come to work daily.
Most of us have been borrowing money from people and our sponsors are now tired of supporting us.
It is going to a year since we were employed, yet our salaries have been withheld all in the name of countless biometrics.
Udom has fixed our money in the bank to attract interests for him.
Everyday we are asked to sign one paper or the other in the name of bank verification yet we have not seen any salary.
Some of us who are posted to far places spend a lot of money on transportation to and from work yet Udom does not care.
My lawyer cousin who was also employed with me told me that they sponsor themselves to courts, prisons and police stations daily without any salary. They also sponsored themselves to Bar Conference in Abuja in August 2015 without even a single penny support from Udom/the Government.
The engineers are not left out as they are sent out to the field in a scorching sun with empty stomachs.
Human Rights activists in Nigeria please intervene in this matter. The masses should please join us into talking sense into our obviously selfish Governor into paying us our accumulated salaries.
I am a married man with a family to support. Udom please don't make us think of commiting suicide like that civil servant in Bayelsa who committed suicide due to unpaid 13-month salaries. Don't reduce us to beggars/chronic borrowers either.
We are tired of this hardship! We are grieving.
#seun
#lalasiclala
#ishilove
#introvert
#chocolateme
#ladyf
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joebeckz:
what if she likes you and has maturity by default? What if she was d woman I saw in my dreams who got married to you? Lol