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siamia:
I just want to say this here and nobody shd take offence bcs am not pointing at anyone. As Papa Adeboye once said, iif u feel am talking abt u, then am talking abt u.
Pls I said it clearly, I ate my 40th birthday cake. I even ate after that. If ur nowhere near 40, do not mail me. Let's keep all talk here. Pls. Really, if ur 27 and ur chatting me up, how do u want me to see u? As a person with serious intentions? Everyone who says age is just a number shd try and marry a woman who is 12yrs ur senior. One day u'll wake up and accuse her of jazzing u. If u want an older woman, go for someone in ur age bracket, so that when people see u both in public, the age disparity will not look ridiculous.
So, how did everyone's day go?

You too get sense.

But how old are you really?.sorry for asking.

cbliss:
Nyc thread @op....lemme jst keep viewing 4rm the background while I keep hussling to get 2d stage where I can now man up *translation..look for a wife*....hehe
And yea I'm in the age bracket....mid thirties buffdae in 19days time *sigh*
Gurls hav no idea how hard it is this days to get a gurl that's wife material....been a long journey 4mi and the end still isn't in sight
Still on the matter anyways.....





Did I make any sense ....hope so

You make sense die.

I am so so responsible that i feel like fainting anytime i say I to a strange lady because i really hate that "who is this do i know you look" ladies give to strangers.

Have you been in a situation where you see a sweet chic walk by and courtesy demand you just don't follow her like an idioto or you see a sweet lady seated in a bus and you are so conscious of prying eyes in teh bus that you just summon courage to start a convo just for her to start acting up?

Or have you been in a situation where after your epistle the lady tells you she is engaged or married.

But right here you can hook up with a superlatively sweet chic that means business and not a try your luck type.

fairlyisabel:
I can upload my pix although I will not leave it there for long cos am a shy person and likes hiding. But are you the one on that DP? You look like a nigga. Mba nu!

You look pretty tho but me i am not really into faces but molds in the appropriate places.

By the way please dont tell me you are 30plus cos you look like a lady in her early 20s

Just got home and thank GOD i do not answer yes sir to anyone.

Hello gbogbogbo.

Please if anyone mails you fore a hook up be it a male or female just do due diligence on that person before taking the friendship up at all.

1.Ask for the person's twitter handle or facebook ID
2.Visit the person's facebook or twitter page and if it was just opened abeg run and if there are no personal pics please run.
3.Then come to nairaland and view the past posts of such a person from time memorial and from that person's post you will be able to decipher the person's personality to an extent.

Abeg be wise o.

midehi2:
choi, i don't believe this your 40 jor cos you don't look

lol! no one believes im 40 when they see me. They always say i look 33 or 32 and i guess thats because i lived a very sexually decent life as i do not poke about due to my affiliation to Christ and not for any other reason.

You are welcome to observe dear as you never reach 30 lol.

latters

Some people just wish they are 30 and above.Make una relax biko,agba bo wa ko yin.

Yes some people at 40 think like 20 but all the same it will be nice if only the age group of 30 and above are participants in this thread and any younger age group can be spectators and learn from our insightful discussions.

If you are a lady of 30 and above yet single please feel free to join the thread and express yourself very well.Those days they expect a lady to be married at 25 but now we all know there are many factors that can contribute to a lady being single even at 40something so no one should feel bad or look down on anyone for being single at certain age.

Many of us here actually entered "ONE CHANCE" affairs for years and here we are still single at very ripe age.

So as i wrote,with due respect,no 20something is allowed to comment but observe.

Thanks and catch you all latter in the day.

tonychristopher:
Your correct ...I am not single but I think your correct and I enjoy the calmness in this thread ...it shows that a lot of kids are on nairaland .one can't even make comment without been insulted and most time you get to know their age by writing style ...another matured thread is car section and real estate ...forget politics that place is whack

I think there should be section as in age in nairaland


Yes I hated seasame street but loved speed racer .. Just 36 with lively family

I don't believe in age notion. To be frank cos I have seen 43 yr old man reason like 21 yr old so I do not respect people based on age but on reasoning. I expect people to respect me bases on the same


The problem we seem to have in Africa is that we attach too much respect to age and that is what is drawing us back .


A child that is well traveled is wiser than an old man that stayed at home all his life ...igbo adage

I love this thread....I feel been single isn't a curse...ask us that have family ..at a point you just can't have your privacy ..your been marooned and dictated .today one in-law tomorrow tehy will say don't you know your married ...society expects you to behave certain way ...you have lost your privacy


Been single is been akin to a bird very free...you can have cookies and crunchies for dinner and you don't owe anybody explainatiob why you won't eat her food....and the women ..hmmm they will come


But happy independence

Quite hilarious,insightful and interesting.

Thanks for dropping by.

Got to sleep now guys.

Remember that life is not designed to be fair to anyone but it is our responsibility to grab the best out of it. Oda ro

siamia:
@toks
Ok ooo. Uve won my heart ooo. Am seriously blushing.
For those who asked for my pic to verify/authenticate/validate my 'realness' as OP (is that a word?) I have uploaded my pic in my profile.
Since am a little shy, I'll remove it in the morning.

You look calm and pretty but sorry to ask were you never married or probably divorced? you may feel uncomfortable with this question but its important to know so that we all can have a clue and learn something.

Dosunmuoflagos:
As in seriously, I have been on NL for a while, I had to go off for close to 3 yrs and get back again, its hard to know who is real and who just wanna have sex and go(trust me ladies also do that) cos most of the ladies you meet on the streets are just out on a revenge mission, and who bears the pain? Innocent men with genuine intentions, vice versa. Me am single and truly know what I want, how and when I want it.

This is why the thread is for 30plus so any lady of 30years and above who just wants to have sex with you is a confirmed LovePeddler and i will not advice you on what o do with a LovePeddler.

tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.
Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.

The choice is clear.

Pick the grammarian and let me have the school cert holder's phone number since na grammar you wan chop.

But on a serious note please sit the grammarian down and have a healthy conversation with her regarding those stuffs, who knows she just might do them even better than the other lady but if she refuses or puts up a difference then i will advice you let her go. Too much grammar dey make some ladies misbehave and i see her using those grammar to curse you one day but is you still prefer her please just follow the first advice i gave.I can manage the school cert holder because i really don't get freaked by any grammar cos me sef i be grammer.

Dosunmuoflagos:
At this age and stage in our lives we should be blunt and very outspoken, we seem to have seen it all, done it al, been there and back, its a lot more than just sex or companionship..its more about LIVING and enjoying it.. So quote me anywhere..LET'S HOOK UP.. Likes attracts likes, so if you are get hooked to a fake, then how real are you?

Very true


All these forming and hypocrisy dey always vex me where you see people always try to paint a superlative picture of themselves.

Igboro o rerin and many ladies you see out there don't know what they want but trust me, if a lady hooks up with you online for a date you can be more certain that she means business especially if she is 30 or above.

You will hardly see decent ladies out there except maybe in theire work place where you cant disturb them and another place is in their homes where you cant barge into.

The other option is online where they can be in their bedroom and hook up with you. It will amaze you the quality of friends i have on nairaland both male and female and i don't think i have ever met such friends offline.Decent and responsible set of ladies that any man will be proud of.

Trust me, it can be frustrating wooing a lady offline because you dont even know the one that is married,engaged or not even searching but online you are most likely to get a decent single and searching lady just at a click.

Look at the creator of this thread and observe her personality and tell me if she does not seem very responsible yet you will hardly even think of walking up to her one on one due to prejudice.

Dosunmuoflagos:
Single mother of 1 would be a great idea, a script editor in the yoruba movie industry.

I honestly do not mind single mother of one at most no matter how young but she must be very hot o.

I created a thread for unmarried unmarried single mothers and it will be nice for them to read it https://www.nairaland.com/2532999/8-words-advice-unmarried-single

siamia:
@everyone.
Pls feel free to make friends, network, socialise, or hook up (to quote roland). If ur for real, fake people no go see u jam ooo. If ur fake, well....

There are rules to follow if you ever hook up online and one of such is that for the first date never go visit a guy at home and you two must meet in a very centralized and open location.

You must also inform one or two people whenever you are going on a date with such at least for the first 3 dates and many more due diligence should be carried out before ever hooking up physically with anyone you meet online be it a man or woman. AYE LE

Dosunmuoflagos:
Single mother of 1 would be a great idea, a script editor in the yoruba movie industry.

WOW!

I was once an actor

i acted in teh soap Palace in those days along side oga Jide kosoko Genevivie nnaji,Funsho adeolu and many more talking about 1998 but i got fed up cos teh pay in those days was so poor though Mr lanre Balogun adviced me to persevere that i just have to pay the price but i was just fed up.

Maybe if i had endured as he peromised i would have been a big shot by now

Lisaflex:
...dt moment wen every advance is like a stale song

And that moment when a guy believes all ladies are the same lol!

chomytex:
Cldnt read all,bt the few lines i read made a whole lot of sense...nice one op....btw wats the meaning of 'op'?

Lol! it means original poster i guess.

I urge moderators not to shift this to meet up or dating zone because its more than dating or meet up but a place where mature minds discuss relationship things.

onstelly:
Lol am just 14 oh lmao

Haaaa! my daughter how are you?

You can visit here but just read you hear?pele dear.

Dosunmuoflagos:
Am Roland, in my late 30s and single dad, what's the true motive for this thread if I may ask? Is it to hook up or just relate on neutral grounds with no strings inteded? Abeg no vex say I ask that question o...

All of the above

Now as you have introduced yourself im sure you wont mind hooking up with a single mum lol! just kiding/

You can also tell us what you do and who knows you just might get business deals.

drmikeadams:
;DI'm forty though I look younger,,,but I don't understand the head or tail of this thread.....what's happening here?

One big reason why i love this thread is because for the first time mature minds and age are having a thread that will be geared towards networking and socializing because honestly im fed up with mixed threads where teenagers and adolescents just relate with you as though you are mates with them and a boy of 20 will be cursing a 40year old as though they are mates..

It may interest many to know that the best place to hook up(not date) is online and when i create a thread explaining why then you all will agree with me.

The quality of ladies i have hooked up with as friends online have surpassed the trial and error offl;ine friends and i believe with a thread like this,people can find true friendship and taking it to the next level will be a discretionary.

onstelly:
Meaning not Yoruba dear

google it lol!


It means How old are you

ngozianu:
at thirty she is still playing hard to get now see https://www.nairaland.com/2245417/how-play-hard-get-when

No no you are wrong.

i just read that post and from what she wrote she does not want to appear cheap.

Been 30 does not translate to been cheap not at all. Nevertheless i do not encourage a lady to say No when she is interested but she can tell the guy to maintain a platonic affair with her whle she studies the guy.

If i woo a lady and she tells me No walahi thats the end not because of pride but before i woo a lady,i must have really weighed the deciision and a No from her to me is a No.

sihom:
Lol, you clearly missed the post where I said I turned 33 this August.

oh i see
Are you a leo or virgo lady?

sihom:
We may be a few years apart in age but I grew up on most of the programmes and activities Siamia (the OP) mentioned.

I remember Soul Train with Don Connelly the black dude with Jerry curled hair, I played ten ten, leke-leke give me one finger.

Whooaa but good music has always been my pleasure. Who remembers Johnny Kemp's Just got paid, Earth, Wind & Fire, Duran Duran. Bonnie Tyler's - total eclipse of the heart. Billy Ocean's - Carribean queen, Chaka Khan's - Ain't no body.

Then the classic movies like Dynasty, Dallas, Return to Eden. The John Wayne cowboy movies. Michael Douglass's Romancing the stone.

I am having a great time just reminiscing on my childhood and growing up days.

You must be in your 40s or very late 30s

siamia:
@onstelly
Ur not yet 30 We go wait patiently for u to get to 33 abeg. No vex. (Lol)
@toks2008
If I make it 30 plus, 27yr old guys will hijack the thread and start posting snide remarks. Then the whole purpose will be defeated.
And...am not a dcness ooo. Just someone that loves God.

lol

even if you make it 50plus you cant help but cope with some younger set that will comment so that is not a deterrent.

Makiing it 30plus will go a long way to fufilling great purpose.

onstelly:
I must join oh, not yet upto 30 but I wanna be here oh

omo odun melo ni e

siamia:
@sihom
Happy birthday, beloved. Long life and prosperity, and the good health to enjoy it in Jesus name.
May this 33rd year of ur life be unforgettable in many good ways! The number 3 is one of God's favourite numbers. As u mark it in double digits, na so God go do am for u double double iJN.

You must be a deaconess or prayer warrior in church lol.

Please change the thread title to 30plus

sihom:
I was going to take offence at this thread because OP said it was open to singles @ 37 and above only until I saw your post.

Well now I'm glad. By way of introduction I'm female and I turned 33 this August.

I even prefer 30 and above cos a 30plus guy or lady no be sere sere.

@op abeg change the title to 30 and above.

And please lets stop any for of hypocrisy.Any poster on this thread is believed to be single hence there could be a possibiliity of hook up so please take note of that.

McCarlito:
Ask the elders in ur village... Cos one man's food is another man's poison...
It might be welcomed in some traditions; and considered a taboo in other traditions

www.thats all

seunny4lif:
The moment you remember that you miss to Bleep that girl in your neighborhood Na dying moment be dat

OYO lo wa

graciousolo:
Bros I no blame u, my post self sounded like that of an adolescent.

So, if I no be 40 I don be adolescent?

Abeg never vex o,i was just making an innocous remark.

If you are 30 and above and single you can rent a room here.

ngozianu:
at thirty you are overdue for marriage

Why not woo her?
she iss hot and single else she wont be on the thread