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greatness22:
Somebody with good brain shuld pls tell us the moral of the story.

Melish:
Hmm... I'm still learning o.. Never said I don learn finish...

GOD Bless you all

halexito:
Melish! You are a darling!! Wow!!!

fairlyisabel:
toks please stop this. This is double standard. I saw the post where you out listed what you want in a woman so why wouldn't a woman outline what she wants in a man too? Stop nah

fairlyisabel:
@toks sweetheart am so sorry for what happened to you but I don't think it was rape anymore cos you enjoyed it for that was why you ejaculated. So stop telling people you were raped cos you weren't sweetheart.

Toks2008:
The question now is what if you see a serious guy who for some reason is not buoyant enough to get that tuxedo suit or that imagined wedding gown,can you say yes and still marry him in the most simplistic way imagined while you plan for a bigger one when the funds are available?

udysweet:
Hello people! Hope the day is going well? Just popped in to say hi. Every time I check in,thread has increased by 4pages,lol! So keeping up will be a hardous task. I'll come in soon to look at faces of my friends here,some my egbos and some my aburos. And like sm1 rightly said,come next year som of us shall be visiting d odas for omugwo things o. Marriage is still very possible dis year. Long courtship wen u meet ur missing rib,can be dangersom jo,lol. Trust me I'm talking from experience. So mak una begin shop for dos nice suits abi na tuxedos and dos lovely wedding gowns(by d way I've pictured d one I'll be in to flatter dis my slimmy or lepa figure ,lol) down o b4 the tin cost.
Make una no mind me with my many talk,letme rush out. *kisses*

marcusagrippa:
Good afternoon, house. I clocked 32 in September. I qualify na.

stephnie44:
Nice one op

Spaxon:
its my birthday
so nairalanders over to you
I need 80000 likes

kunlexbaba45:
Toks!!!!!!!!!hmmmm......
I reserve my comment

ddshow:
Some very interesting conversations so far.

I have couple of opinions one of which is the issue of principle and a line of order in relatiinships.

We should always understand that on record, no two relationships or marriages has ever been the same. There are no predetermined conditions which governs a relationship except the one you establish personally which should be based on your own convictions, intuition and the personality of the individual you are dealing with.

The mistake most ladies make is going into a relationship with a document in their head which has been prepared either by their pastors or certain authors outlining the way and manner they should run the relationship.

My own personal advice is that we should first learn to love ourselves, determine our ideals, explore friendship, be charismatic and we should always allow God's processes take its own course.

EggovinMma:


THE RATE AT WHICH SMALL SMALL GURLS/KIDS GET RAPED THESE DAYS IS ALARMING! !! OLOSHOS DON FINISH BASTARDS PARADING AS MEN.

fairlyisabel:
ohhhh my God, your last paragraph....... Am so sorry about what happened to you but if I may ask, did you by any chance ejaculated when the act took place? Hope am not prying!

Melish:
I wanna marry at the age of 25 and I can't marry someone I met online... I wanna achieve some things first

DIVFAVOR:
At Toks2008, same question I was about asking her, If she is married, see any woman that knows the sound of my stomach gets me knocking on her door always and I give her 50% of my wants in a lady. I need a woman who has the magic of bringing home whenever am outside. be it work, outing with friends, or anything.

rofemiguwa:
Nah, u will be invited . Nov 14th save d date.details later

Melish:
Twenty year olds marry every day all over the world so no be tory...


I'm here cause I'm really passionate about this matter..many a time ladies are pulling things the wrong way expecting things to turn out right.... I'm here to tell ladies where they're missing it so as to readjust and get to the promised land ... I've had little experience myself but have learned extensively in this area both from people's experiences and from other materials .. So that I won't waste my time in relationships and end up devastated at the end due to ignorance of the facts ...

rofemiguwa:
Hehehehe in the process sir.

Melish:
No be theory oooo..
Wisdom gathered from real time experience...
I'm so sorry for people who won't learn until they're devastated...

Doing wifey duties will not bring a proposal your way... It delays it rather... That's why women date one man for years and are eventually dumped....
Why should a man still propose when you're already doing everything for him....
. Until women starts seeing things from men's perspective they'll keeping harming themselves with their very good intentions..

Melish:
Hmmm.

Melish:
My sister not just for dating even if you're engaged keep to this things.... If you are doing the opposite I'm very sure the r/ship will fail or you'll not enjoy love and respect in it....


Until a man takes you to the alter he can wake up one morning dump you and nothing happens...

rofemiguwa:
Sorry all. I qualify for sideliners. Am 2yrs short of target. So I will jus watch n learn. I just had to comment cos her post reminds me of my younger sis, she is in that age bracket and has same ideas n behave same way. I jus look at her n laugh esp we she goes ' I can't be u o! I can't cook for anybody when jevinik has not closed, what I will I be doing when u marry me' and I am like hehehehehehehe. Yes ma! Anyone that rocks ur boat o! I luv cooking don't see why I can't extend my skills to leboo. Funny idealogies I just don't get! . I cook for even my normal male friends, no strings attached when I was in school. I take the stomach of my man very serious. It is important to me! He doesn't even eat out. Well that's me. It has being working for me sha! Don't know about other opinions. I believe a lady should be domesticated. And u r not a slave. If u help make his meals and clean up together when u r around.
Differnt strokes, different folks sha!!

dmandy:
Do you know the number of bankers who want to go out of job?

Laitesmart:
Whether educated or not... This post or thread is directed to all parents and even the intending parents can learn one or two things from this while those who were victims may also share theire experiences.
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I was in SS1 to introduce the newly promoted students to Physics as a subject... I felt there is the need for me to ask them why they chose the science department even when some of them know how demanding the department could be... I was taken aback with some of the response i got from some of the students. A female told me categorically that her passion is to become a writer in the nearest future as she love reading poems and Novel but her mother was against it. I asked her what was on her mother's mind when she said no and she told me that her mum told her emphatically that there is no Nurse in the family and as such she has to be a nurse to fulfil her mum's wish... I was left dumbfounded as the girl has no other option but to obey her 'dear mum'.
As if it wasnt enough, another told me he loves designing but his dad want him to be a Pilot and he doesnt have any option.

The matter above is somehow sensitive as even the so called educated fellows make the mistake of 'departmentalising' their kids if that Word exist in the english context.

The scenario reminded me of the movie 3 idiots that i watched back then and i had to prescribe it to the students to go watch with their parents...

Imagine what disastrous effect it would have had on their careers if MOHAMMAD ALI's father had forced him to be a musician and MICHEAL JACKSON's father had forced him to be a boxer...

I Shared my impression with a friend and he stated point blankly that this is one of the many reasons why our educational sector keeps falling beyond expectation... It isnt about what they want, rather, it is about what we the parents want.

Parents have totally forgotten that they are suppose to CHOOSE WITH their Children and Not CHOOSE FOR them when it comes to their careers...

We might be vastly experienced but we still need to respect the passion of our children...

Let the children know that they need to follow excellence and success will chase them pants down as stated by Ranchoddas Chalmadas Chanchad...

I have spoken...

duwdu:
So far, this is a right-thinking government, and I wish the leaders - as well as the country as a whole - all I can wish myself.

P34c3
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rofemiguwa:
Don't cOok for him, don't ans all his calls,return some of his calls,be mysterious, stay away from his parents house.hehehehehe. For someone u want to marry or is dts for dating stages.

Okay you are 20years. Dating stage. Issorait!!
Different strokes!! Differnt folks!!!
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IceDude:
Oga Toks2008 i can see you o!

fairlyisabel:
@ siamia, you look good. Indeed black is beautiful. You did a nice job for creating this thread. I pray it doesn't get abused by guys below 30 and the ones that are 30plus but on assignment to do harm. Guys should also upload their pix(s) so that ladies can compliment them and chat them up too.

DIVFAVOR:
Good morning house ooo,
You guys should welcome me na, Have introduced myself before.
Toks2008, Siamia, Fairlyisabel and all I dey wait oooooo.
Am Divfavor, a male, Lives and work in Lagos. in my 30s...
Abeg make una tell me welcome.