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oseod:
Muh niggur, muh niggur!!!!!

lol

echo2:
But seriously this story get as he be ooo....I think the op is trying to advertise herself ni ooo....cos I just checked her profile and I noticed she uploaded d pics before creating the post....I think she is seeking guys to woo her ni...

Whatever the case maybe i believe she has the right to and as hot as she is,she must have some form of intelligence to "advertise herself" in this polished manner

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

The endangered life of a lady in a cruel
world of men...a fact file for the women
folk.

I honestly feel great empathy for the ladies because of their vunulrability in this cruel and merciless world of men.

A lady is usually engulfed with the euphoria of been approached by many men yet a woman can recieve love advances from 10men in one week yet all these 10 may have one singular intention of just sleeping with her and dumping her.

While some are kind enough to let her go as soon as they have their way,some men are so wicked that they let her waste many years with them just to latter dump her.

A lady may even have many men ask for her hand in marriage and all these men might just want to marry her for the wrong reasons,some may want her as a sex partner,house maid,baby mama with not even one of them wanting her for what marriage truly stands for.

The most astonishing part is that these men will give no clue about their intentions as some of them will practically beg for your love just to have you open your legs and latter show their true self.

If you are a lady enjoying attention from
many men please slow down and pray to God to prevent men of crazy intent from
approaching you but only let men of pure
intent see you.

GOD HELP OUR LADIES

tellwisdom:
Come, you pass like this?? Abi u remain for house??...person give u wine make u drink u carry yansh like person wey wear napkin....I no blame u na, Na the mumu boi wey suppose carry u go Jedi joint, drink 2 pelebe bottles of shepke; begin smooch and kiss u immediately, na him I blame

Did you read the topic at all?

Lunch date and alcoholic wine i guess do not go together.Maybe it wll make for sense for a dinner date.

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

you just had a lunch date with a boy.

LadyBoss1:
Ur right
Number 2 is more like me sha .. But dont u think if women stop depending on u guys .(homebased girls) , then u guys would find it hard to date cuz whatelse would dey want u for ??
Cuz u said 98% do this
Im telling u ,, its works for both

Then if you are number 2 and still single and searching it will be nice to know you because right now i don't want any distractions from a lady asking me for this or that even when i know i will do far more when i make my millions.

And please i hate when guys depend on ladies for finance,but my reason for wanting a financially independent lady is not that i dont want to do my duties but at least will give me ample time to get there.

Most Nigerian girls suck when it comes to money matters expecially the ones without a job or source of income.

trappatoni:
tell them oo. Just chatting with one telling me to help me pray for a husband for her. They'll KEEP looking for love in hopeless situations. SMH

I must confess one truth...

I am in need of a wife but im so scared wooing any lady above 25 expecially the ones above 28 because im quite sure most of them will only be packaging themselves because they need a husband.

The worst part is that even the ones above 30 who are looking for a hubby still wants a rich dude at all cost. Honestly its like most Nigerian ladies are cursed with this rich guy mentality.

Look at 2baba,psquare,basket mouth,AY even Olamide and many more, they chose a lady who have been with them when they were nobody even after using the waka comes yet many ladies will still not learn from this.

In Nigeria as long as you have money,even if you are a beast with al, the reasons op mentioned, a typically naija girl wil still tell you she loves you.

LadyBoss1:
I must be part of the 2% left lol

Thats what many ladies say.

Inmy opinion, theer are basically two types of ladies in Nigeria

1.The jobless or the financially dependent ones who cares less about a man's love but its all about how reich he is and what they can get from himj.

2.The Financially independent ladies that are not interested in a man's money but wants sincere love.

icedbeatz:
bro no offense so in other words we don't have self respecting girls at all? it's now so ok to cheat on your spouse after ITS JUST SEX?!?! WTF is that? don't let the number of useless whores like insidous make your lower your moral or ethics bro. [b]I believe we still have reasonable girls out there who knows themselves other than ones that think their puna is now used for greetings. [/b]any guy who decides to marry a who're should be ready to die Early cos most guys who thought they could handle it dissapointed themselves.

If you se one please let me know so that i can beg her to get a good friend like her or me to woo.

Getting a sexually decent lady is like picking a diamond on the floor

trappatoni:
Abi oo. The one that dumps you will still come back to beg. Seriously some gals don't know what they want. See list as if na Kate Middleton I wan date. USA don legalize gay marriage fa no yanga again

Very funny how ladies reason,you say yes to a guy, he bleeps the hell outta you and you say you are done while in his mind he is like "Praise GOD i can move on with a new chic"

Ladies are so so dumb because while they are feeling so high that they are with a new guy, this new guy is probably out to explore you goodybag and dump your sorry ass just for her to wiggle her way back to the guy.

Any woman who has a man that tries to stop her from leaving him must thank her GOD. There are too many aldies everywhere in need of men and with thye new legalized gay marriage in USA i guess Nigerian ladies are in for tough times as American ladies have now opened their doors to Nigerian men not minding the consequence.

Chibuhealth:
Who wrote this? Abeg come and collect one bottle of orijin...as in cold one

Ladies fooling themselves since time memorial.

Money answereth all things and a woman will prefer to love a rich jerk than to be with a poor faithful loving guy. At least 98% of Nigerian ladies

MrBasketball:
For her to have the guts to tell that, definitely she has something in mind but still love you, but she really get nasty by deduce if she can have it with another guy. @the bolded.

You can just imagine a lady having the guts to stand in your presence and tell you that, mehn... What of those who you date who you can't say if she loves you, because most them fake love just because of what they wanna get from you financially, you don't know the evil they have in mind against you or by keeping useless secrets.

A lady once told me she won't like if her husband is always around, she said she will if he do travel for at least a month... What do you expect from such wife in her husband's absence... A grown up lady for that matter. Cut the story short.

God bless you!

My brother they say say a fool at 40 is a fool forver.

I just turned 40 and i am no longer foolish in the ways of women.

Foerget looking for a chaste woman because most times its a facade and infact if i get an ex LovePeddler i care less but as long as she has learnt a lot from life to give me peace and be a good wife to me and a good mother to my children.

For teh records,i still respect my ex to the highest heavens because she was sincere with me and trust me even as i write i can't say she has cheated on me because im not aware and a s a matured man i have learnt never to imagine shits, its either i catch her or it never happened and if she confesses to me i just assume it never happened.

Marriage and infidelity are very relative, how can i give up a lady i made a woman because she strayed away to slep with one or two men? ok lets assume i say im no longer interested and i go for another lady, how am i sure the new lady have not bleeped my brother and many men in town?

I am moving on but this time i care les if i meet a virgin even if i would love to or i met a mosheeda of this world,all i want is a lady who have learned much from experience to understand what it means to stay faithful to a man.

Gurgle:
so what are you going to do now? close your eyes and just marry a woman not minding how many partners she has had?

Gurgle:
so what are you going to do now? close your eyes and just marry a woman not minding how many partners she has had?

That is the point so now you are reasoning like human being.

Once i see a lady that turns my swag on i go for her,period even if she has bleeped the whole world as long as she is ready to be faithful to me from the day i met her.

Its just a waste of time looking for a chaste lady which in my opinion IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME.

The so called virgins have been with even more men than the non virgins, they have done mouth action,some even anal s*x and i just tire for ladies.

Gurgle:
so what are you going to do now? close your eyes and just marry a woman not minding how many partners she has had?

That is the point so now you are reasoning like human being.

Once i see a lady that turns my swag on i go for her,period even if she has bleeped the whole world as long as she is ready to be faithful to me freom teh day i met her.

Its just a waste of time looking for a chaste lady which in my opinion IS A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME.

Thye so called virgins have ben with even more men than the non virgins, they have done mouth action,some even anal s*x and i just tire for ladies.

Insidous:
I used to think you get sense but with this, you need to shoot yourself.

Can you swear o good you have never fantasised about having menage a trois. Hypocrite oshi! Typical self-righteous man!

I am not sure you are alright because if you are,you wont reply in this manner.Maybe you should read my post very well then try to reason like a homo sapien

mzpetite:
hmmmmmm nawa. o. makining it seem like all of us are hoesss

GOD forbid! we still have good and sexually decent ladies but the point is that they are vvveeeeeeeeeerrryyyy rare to find.

MrBasketball:
Bro you really made a big point... I gave you a Like When still reading your comment at half, you really make sense and I hope guys can reason what you just posted here.

I am a guy of 25, but hasn't done it with a lady now, no homo and am not gay, but will indulge in it soon with my girl.

If men can keep their selves, what happened to a girl to go and have sex with another man in just seven, that's really shows how insecure she really is... The ladies here comments are really irritating, birds of of a feathers.

So appalling is the fact that if you dare talk about the importance of a lady getting disvirgined by her hubby you wil see heaps of insults that will rain down on you by ladies and even men and i wondeer what is going on.

The worst part is that even if you marry a virgin, you neeed to pray that she wil still not crave to go out and test another man because it seems it is in the make up of many ladies to have multiple men sample them.

I was discussing with my ex before we broke up about her fantacies and she said she has spent all her sexual life with just me that she sometimes imagine how it will eb with another man and i was like thinking to myself "This lady might just stray away" then when she started misbehaving and opted for a break i told her point blank that i know it would come to that because she really wants to se the world asking her to go and test other men but if she finds me better than them she is free to retrace her steps and if they are better she is free to go because as long as i don't catch her,i don't bother.

She is still battling to let go of me as i write this but for me, im done and i have concluded that 98% of ladies are whores and even the one you disvirgin can still stray just to have a feel of another man but teh only confidence a man will have with a wife he disvirgined is the attachment she will have to him and even if she strays,there will still be that reeserved afection for her rather than coping with another lady who you really don't know how many men have been there.

The ex factor is also a terrible deterent to having a good marriage because ladies are evry sensitive to their past and have attachment to good sex so if you are not as good as the ex then you are on your own because anytime she has privacy with that ex,she must steal a quick one because "once debe is always debe" meaning once a man has bl**ped a lady,he can almost always bl**p her any other time even after many years of parting ways.

Make i just stop here abeg.

MrBasketball:
Very weak and insecure... Many are dating whores_ and planning to wife them.

You can't blame such guys because they have lost hope in getting a chaste lady.

I am a man and without trying to blow my trumpet a dude at that but when i look back at my life even as a man i have managed to live a very decent sexual life. At 20 i had a sexless affair for 6 years and from age 26 till last two years i have been with just one lady so will it be out of place if i seek for a sexually decent lady?

Trust me friend,about 2years now that i have been trying to hook up i have come to realize that 98% of our ladies are worse than dogs and most have lost count of the number of men that have tasted thier goodybag and that makes me even respect my ex more who i hapen to make a woman.

These days, i alweays advice guys to just close their eyes and pick a lady not minding the men that have slept with them. I met a lady not quite long and a single mother at that. She wil always tell me that she does not have time for men and i was like good but after she realized that i was not into her,we became friends and then she started teelling me some stuffs and i was like wat da fck! all the while she was saying "i have no time for men" she was actually with a man who was bl**ping her regularly and i was like gosh!

Please if you are a man reading this abeg just close your eyes and pick one of these whores so that you can marry and have a child.And if you are a lady reeading this who is still a virgin please don't believe your friends who say it is out of fashion because it is not.

Real men still long to have a virgin but we have decided to settle for less because it seems they are nowhere to be found.FACT

sonofananimal:
THAT'S WHY I KEEP ON TELLING PEOPLE TO FORGET NAIJA WOMEN,


AS FOR ME AND MY FAMILY, WE SHALL MARRY FOREIGN WOMEN

The logical reason why im contemplating marrying a non Nigerian is because 19 out of 20 Nigerian ladies will never love you ifr you don't have money and that one who claims to love you is only doing that with hope that you will make money and after waiting for sometimes,she will leave you if you don't make it on time.

Most times, the ladies who claim they careless about a man's money are only saying that because time is no longer on their side but if giving an option, they would still dump you for a rich dude.

Outside Nigeria, many ladies will love you and evcen remain fathful to you even if you are a road side vulcanizer or a driver but in Nigeria ladies will always want to suggest an ideal job for their men in order to boost their image.

So why should i have a Nigerian lady who really don't care about me but what i have to offer and at teh same time cope with the dumping ground under her?

Tes theer are Nigerian ladies who will love you for you but trust me, igetting such is like going through teh weyes of the niddle.

EggovinMma:
Honey, way of life is a choice.
Between you and I, you are an angel then.

This is why i find it hard to get a wife because most of the ladies i see are not really disciplined to deny theirselves sex at least for a considerable period of time.

When i look at how disciplined i am i always wish i find a virgin to marry nstead of a lady that so many men hav sampled

not easy though

EggovinMma:



BODY NO BE FIREWOOD!
IT WILL TAKE THE SPIRIT OF GOD ALMIGHTY FOR ME TO STAY 7 MONTHS NO FUCCCK!
I AM YET TO SEE A MAN I LOVE TO THAT EXTENT.

then i must be an angel because i cant remember when i touched a lady last let alone mking love.

Women are indeed weaker sex

TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.

Wat the eyes dont see dont hurt bro so forget and xntinue wth her.

Marriage is not dating so she possibly cant be that careless after marriage and remember that id she never told you the truth you wiill nver know so kini big deal?

Merlissa:
Ha!!!



This is so unfair



How can they not allow traders take their goods


Are they gonna be compensated?

they always get a prior notice which is usually defiled but it is the demonition that we hear about.

xmileeasy:
This addiction is of the highest level. He might even be watching it when the pastor was praying, the man no fear God. It's not right to watch explicit content in public places

_A married man addicted to porn or self service needs serious deliverance.

Apparently, obama is the antichrist in the making

Toks2008:
Hmmm..i think unmarried men of other
nationals should consider joining American
datinng sites to give succor to American
sphinsters as husband scarcity looms with the legalization of gay marriage.

There was a time gay union was a crime then became ok afterwards and now a legal
practise. Very soon it just might be made
compulsory as an American to be gay.
In my opinion,Obama might just have sealed the fate of his soul by permitting sodomy in a country where the founding fathers followed the scripture to the letter.

Indeed there was a country called united
states because with this action,GOD has
turned his back to united states and the glory of GOD has departed with the few rightheous ones living by grace.

mosexuality. The Old Testament Lev.18:22
And with a male ( this word refers to any
male offspring, of men or animals: Ex.13:12, 15; whether a man: Jer.30:6. or a boy:

Lev.12:2) you shall not lie (that is, lie with
in an intimate manner: cp. Mic.7:5;
1Kgs.1:2; Gen.19:33-35) as one lies with a
woman. It is detestable. Lev.20:13 And a
man who lies with a male, as one lies with a woman, they both have committed an
abomination. They shall surely be executed.

Their blood shall be upon them.

Hmmm..i think unmarried men of other
nationals should consider joining American
datinng sites to give succor to American
sphinsters as husband scarcity looms with the legalization of gay marriage.

There was a time gay union was a crime then became ok afterwards and now a legal
practise. Very soon it just might be made
compulsory as an American to be gay.
In my opinion,Obama might just have sealed the fate of his soul by permitting sodomy in a country where the founding fathers followed the scripture to the letter.

Indeed there was a country called united
states because with this action,GOD has
turned his back to united states and the glory of GOD has departed with the few rightheous ones living by grace.

hensben:
Now i believe illuminati(anti-christ) is real. The ogas at the top are the ones giving Obama orders, after all, they brought him into power.

Well, more gayism, less husband/wife ish n more client for yahoo guys.

I just might consider joining an American dating site because scarcity of husbands will be the order of the day.

Demmzy15:
Madam Gele

We need to wait for her explanation. Its too early to make funny comments.

decode55:
Very childish

Asides jesus,nothing else is really worth flaunting.

kilmix:
Trashy outfit...
But her response is Epic tho.

Im sure if it was a beyonce that wore it people will love it.

irishCream:
Dear Family I'm in deep shiiit, so confused on what to do right now.

I just turned 29 few days ago and have been out of a serious relationship for over a year now.

Have been waiting patiently for that right man to come along but unfortunately it only the wrong ones that keep coming my way, they just want to have a feel of my sweet body and off they go, no genuine intentions.

Now there's a brother that have been friendzoning for over two years now yet he keep persisting, good a thing I'm not the type that pretends so I told him from day one he asked me out that I'm not interested in him except on friendship level, I told him I don't feel him emotionally but he keep hanging on hoping I change my mind with time, my reasons for rejecting him is cos to me he's not presentable enough and I can't be proud introducing him to my people and again he got no good paid job (why on earth must he be poor and ugly at the same time, what kind of torture is that ). He's just managing in a private firm that pays less than 50k.

But what makes me have a rethink is the character of this my friendzoned brother, he keeps in touch despite my rejecting him, he even offer little financial assistance when I'm in need, when I asked him why he's doing all these to a girl that openly reject him he claims he has faith that I'll consider him one day, sometimes I'm forced to suspect if he has cast a spell on me so another good man won't come my way.

Now he has called to schedule a date tomorrow and I know as usual he wants to remind me that the year is running that I should consider his request since he hope to settle down this year.

Please dear Family advice me accordingly is it advisable I say yes to a man I don't feel a thing for emotionally? Can I ever get to love him? I do hear love grows but I don't believe in such!!!

The question is..who is the wrong person and who is the right person for us?

At 40 i had wished several times to go back to age 26 and restart my life from there so that i can correct my mistakes.

Sometimes the person we think is right for us might turn out to be our bane while the people we loathe are actually the real deal.

When a man can readily correct a mistake in choosing a partner,for the lady,it could be calamitious as she would have wasted many years with a wrong choice.

So i ask again..who is the right man for a lady?

the right man for you is not who you have feelings for or who you desire neither is it the person you dream about.

The right man for you is that man who truly loves,cherishes and value you in totality.

Trust me,if you are a woman who ends up marrying a man she loves but does not really love her then she is finished but if a lady marries a man who truly desire her then she is complete.

yes i know you wont get to love him at the initial stage but the make up of a woman is in a way that she will always fall in love deeply with time to a man who truly loves her even if that man is a literal beasty in looks.

Beauty and the beast is not just a fiction but fact of life.

for the lady that wants a drop dead gorgeous as a hubby not minding if he truly wants them please think again because by the time the guy treats you like shit,he will be as ugly as poo and when a supposed ugly partner treats you right,he will always appear to you as the coolest dude on earth.

Jope this helps