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Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 4:32am On Jun 21, 2015

MARKone:
Oga I think you got it all twisted, your ex wife, has she not remarried, thinking about her to get sexual satisfaction, isn't that tantamount to adultery. Masturbation is the same whether with porn or without, many will still experience that pang of guilt at the end, and nothing separates one who indulges in the act, from a fornicator or adulterer. Believe me a greater percentage of people will prefer to fornicate or commit adultery than jerk off. Now my question is this, why is emphasis laid more on masturbation as a sin, than fornication and Adultery, which has been biblically condemned. There is still something morally wrong in jerking off.

I love your point,morally wrong but definitely not sinful by biblical standards(not by people's opinionated view of the bible verses) and a better alternative to raping,fornicating or exploding with passion.

If you do not ease of i bet nature will do it anyways with wet dreams so its all the same.

Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 4:27am On Jun 21, 2015

Durolajglobal:
Hello, being born again is actually not deliverance sir but simply means your name has just being written is the book of life and your past life style is over to start a Godly living. Il corin 5:17

Now what is Deliverance? Remember the moment you gave your life to christ you get enlisted with the sons and daughters of God which gives you power. You will have to defend the genuineness of your being born again by proving the devil wrong when he comes with temptation and the feelings of those things you used to do before you got born again by speaking the word of God having also dealt with your flesh.

Deliverance is freedom from unfriendly situation or experience. Deliverance is setting of the captives free from oppression of higher power. Deliverance is by force hence is setting free from oppression. Deliverance is when you know you have weaknesses and have done everything possible to help your self but to no avail now seeking assistance of higher or other methods to get rid of it.

The issue of Deliverance comes when you find out that you can still not control your flesh at any slitest provocation you fall or when the enemy doubles his strategy to get you to compromise your stand with christ. The devil is out not for those who dont know christ alone but majorly for those who claim they know Jesus and have forsaken their old bad ways and how does he do this, he send demons otherwise called spirits (invisible) into ones thoughts or character thats why you see some people do somethings at times they will say its the devil or they were out of control.

You have to check your life and be sure there are no ungodly character or traits so that the enemy will not take advantage of you. Deliverance is also when you say no to your weaknesses no matter what.

Save us all these stories.Getting married is the best way to avoid it and then after getting married you still see yourself doing it then that is when one really needs help.

Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 8:29pm On Jun 20, 2015

Abba999:
Thank you my dear. But Am may not be the woman you are looking for. I have two adults and I...

lol! ok just kidding though

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Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 8:22pm On Jun 20, 2015

SEXUAL URGE,SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT

Sometimes i sit and began to wonder how the unmarried youths cope with sexual urge and im talking about the greater number of singles who do not have that calling of a celibate.

Definitely we all know fornicating is a sin, infact you are not allowed to look at a man or woman lustfully as that also translates to sin.

Ok ok i guess you can self service(masturbate) but wait, seems that is also a sin or maybe a logical sin because believe me,self servicing comes with taught and i wonder what a single man or woman will be thinking about when self servicing,maybe thinking about tractor or your next meal. So i guess when you self service thinking about a lady or man you are not married to makes it a sin.

Hmmm! have you taught about watching pornography? i guess that is the best way out but wait! that sounds sinful too. Yes i know you are not doing it but just watching i guess but lets face it, when you watch porn i guess something comes to your mind,haha so you get it. That makes it a sin because you automatically starts imagining yourself been one of the actors or actresses AND THAT IS SIN.

SO WHAT ON EARTH MUST THE UNMARRIED DO WHEN YOU JUST FEEL LIKE DOING IT?

Pray i guess. Well i don't know if this will work for some but i have come to believe that your sexuality is independent of your spirituality.Its a biological system that has been designed by the master creator. When you attain certain age, you just start seeing the opposite sex in a whole different way and you can't understand why but its your hormones at work.

Whether you are holy ghost filled does not stop that urge from coming up and there must be a way to control it else you will be controlled by it.

Knowing fully well that most pastors will preach abstinence before marriage yet 90% of them did it with their women before they eventually married but nevertheless, this does not make it right neither does it change the fact that sex before "marriage" is sin.

SO I ASK AGAIN! WHAT CAN THE SINGLE DO TO OVERCOME THIS URGE WHEN IT COMES?

-I could easily ask you to take your mind off it anytime it comes and this can actually work for some.

-I could advice that you get very busy with activities that will leave you no time to think about urge and that can also work for some.

-Well, i could simply ask you to pray for the spirit of GOD to help you keep the urge in check and this sounds nice though even if it sounds funny knowing it was GOD that put the urge there in the first place to start manifesting strongly after a certain age so he only can help you subdue it by the help of the Holy spirit and this remains the most ideal advice.

-Unfortunately i cant advice you to just wake up one day and get married if that is possible or that you don't court a partner for more than a year so that you will not burn with passion but that sounds stupid don't you think so?

Honestly all i can say is that you can actually control it and i will be frank with you all if you just find it difficult to subdue this natural urge, as long as you do not commit that act of fornication in the real sense as in having real intercourse with a lady or man you are not married to i just think any other means seems right yet i know some hypocrites will break my head for this but lets be sincere with each other.

Many churches who will be quick to condemn you when you fornicate will never give you a loan to marry but will not mind psyching you to bring the little you have saved in the name of giving and receiving.

Asides this, many ladies will always want an expensive wedding thereby leaving this guy no option rather than wait and wait until he raises good money for the marriage and while he waits,his urge automatically waits.

GOD WILL LEAD US RIGHT.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 8:17pm On Jun 20, 2015

[quote author=tintingz post=34972629]To me masturbation is not totally bad.

People in jail have urge for sex what should they do?

No matter how one said he can control the urge for sex he/she will still end up doing worse.

Masturbation is better than fornication, it is STD free and according to some scientists it is healthy.

..but that doesn't mean one should do it frequently, the addiction is worse. [/quote[b]]

GBAM! But unfortunately it still remain a succor for the unmarried and trust me, a better alternative to actual fornicating.[/b]

Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 8:15pm On Jun 20, 2015

Amustical:
For the sake of people saying masturbation is devilness! Tor, God dey......... Which one is better? RAPING&MASTURBATION

Definitely raping,fornicating,bestiality,homosexuality...please help me add more,Blatant hypocrites.

Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 8:09pm On Jun 20, 2015

Abba999:
Thank u.
Its a mystical world where the principalities lurk out for any given hole of entrance. We are at war with various eternal forces.
I suggest do spiritual cleansing of yourself and your house at any point in time you find yourself in the act.

I m looking for a good wife so if you are available just let me know so that you can help me solve it.

You think i am the type of guys who pretend and form what they are not? i am a realist to the core, i love sex die and if not for the fact that i ease myself from time to time i would have been a nonentity in my area trying to woo any available lady.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 8:05pm On Jun 20, 2015

Abba999:
You are right my brother but there are important things you must be aware of
1) The devil knows you.
2) The devil knows all your sins.
3) The devil knows your weakness.
4) The devil knows all your secrets.
5) They use all as a decoy to penetrate your world and gain stability.
6) They creat doubts in your mind.

Hope you can use this to understand what masturbation can possibly do.

I know many l;ladies who have stayed chaste for years because they settle for masturbation.

Yes the more you do it the more you crave fore the real thing nevertheless the act also relieves you from having overwhelming urge to do the real thing and that is the part im ok with.

There was a time i was like ok i wil not ease off for as long as possible but then just after weeks i realize that every lady i see walk pass me oozes sex and i was like wow to even a flat ass then i began to ask myself if im normal.

If we all know the level of fornication that happens each day, we will not even try to rule out masturbating as a better alternative.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 7:59pm On Jun 20, 2015

Abba999:
Yes! I did masturbated. I knew how and what I felt after the act. Like something good left my body. Like something evil pushed me often into it. Like you may know people who masturbate often do it because they want to play safe and remain faithful to their partners as in if they are living apart. Or those that are single and do not want to play around.
So please do not crucify anyone here. Am here to enlighten my likes of the empending dangers of such act, even though I had long been saved from it.

I don't want to be saved from it until when im married because if i dont do it like maybe once a week i dont trust me not to misbehave with any available lady which will result to fornication proper.

I think about sex a greater part the day and i remember a day my ex told me to go get another lady because of high demands for it.I am a sexually active man and as i wrote, rather than go out to look for a lady i would rather ease off and quote me anywhere, i do not like the act but with non availability of a wife for now, i will rather settle fore the act.

Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 7:45pm On Jun 20, 2015

Abba999:
You are right my brother but there are important things you must be aware of
1) The devil knows you.
2) The devil knows all your sins.
3) The devil knows your weakness.
4) The devil knows all your secrets.
5) They use all as a decoy to penetrate your world and gain stability.
6) They creat doubts in your mind.

Hope you can use this to understand what masturbation can possibly do.

My brother i agree and i am not debunking the fact that masturbation is not proper BUT NOT ALSO SINFUL.

We need to draw these lines, I hate sex outside marriage like poo but what will a man do when you are not married and you are feeling so Hot?i can't go to a LovePeddler or just call a lady in my domain just to sleep with her.

Se lets not over-flog this issue abeg. I cant remember the day i had sex last and trsut me, what kept me going is the fact that once in a while i ease out not by really jerking off but just thinking about sex within the confines of my marriage which is perfectly alright in my opinion.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Opens Spiritual Portals. by Toks2008(m): 7:23pm On Jun 20, 2015

Abba999:
People who cannot control the urge to masturbate or watch pornography are almost always plagued with a sexual devil. Maybe more than one.
In the world of the spirit and according to Jesus Christ: the sexual thought is the same as the sexual act (Matthew 5:28).

When we use the powerful force of imagining something as if it were real, we are actually attracting that which we imagine into physical being.
When we imagine having sex with another via masturbation, we are actually summoning the power of the spirit realm to manifest the thing we are imagining.

We've all heard about the law of attraction by now, made popular from books and movies like The Secret. Well the law of attraction also works with sexual imagination.

There are such things as sex demons. And the danger in masturbating is that one could inadvertently summon a sex demon to attach itself to you through the act of masturbating. And once that demon attaches, it is difficult to get it to leave. It will drive you to masturbate, even when you don't want to. You'll be hit with urges to play with yourself so powerful that only an orgasm will allow you some temporary relief.

In worst case scenarios the one demon may gather other unclean spirits to itself to also attach to your life. That way it can wrap you tighter in its web of control, making it that much more difficult for you to get free. And many never do (Matthew 12:43-45).

By engaging in those acts of sexual impurity you are giving such evil spirits legal access into your life. And they will remain, causing untold personal pain, guilt and shame until the more powerful force of Jesus Christ is used against them to expel them from your life for good—See: Luke 8:29, Luke 9:39 and verse 42; Galatians 5:19-21; 2nd Corinthians 6:17-18

*****This was an excerpt taken from diva, goddess Queen: Breaking the power of soul ties, lust, and sexual demons.

SEX, FAITH
AUTHOR// MACK MAJOR

See i just so hate it when people come to nairaland to give an impression that a certain thing is bad without giving a solution.

Look here friends, i gave my life to Christ since i was 13 and i have practically lived a chaste life all the years of my life and i do not think anyone is more born again than me as we all are justified by faith and not by works.

Now i do not even understand the act of masturbating because i cant remember the year i ever touched my penile shaft in order to jerk off but i often use the power of imagination where i just think about a sex act with my ex wife and once i do that i get satisfied not because i am so so attached with my ex but for crying out loud that is exactly the best i could do,but then lets say that is still wrong which i will strongly disagree with, the question is this;

How does a sexually active young man or woman get over the urge of making out without fornicating?

I will slap anyone who tells me they should not think about sex and i will spit on the face on anyone who says they can control the urge of not easing themselves for days, months or even years.

In my opinion, masturbation is far far better than fornication but the point where its confusing is watching porn while u masturbate because by so doing you are lusting after a human which is the porn starts thereby committing fornication.

An unmarried young man or woman can not also be thinking about a tractor or football game while masturbating but of-course must think about sex with another lady or man which is definitely not his or her spouse/

The issue of masturbation have been over-flogged and i keep wondering why people who go against it cant bring out just a passage in the bible that forbids it.

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Celebrities › Re: See What Hard Work Has Done For Comedian AY. by Toks2008(m): 6:35am On Jun 20, 2015

kromoto:
Religious extremist! If you like don't work, just fold your arms and wait for manna.

Apparently your brain lacks the dexterity to decipher the message in my post.

And i remember starting my comments with the facts that hard work pays but if hard work is enough to make people wealthy then i guess every truck pusher,menial job workers and infact every legitimate hustling man on the street will be wealthy.

Is AY the only comedian working hard? Please think maturely and get the message in my posts before you misquote me.

This was what i wrote and i believe will make sense to every logical mind.

Toks2008:
Hard-work is very essential but the truth is that making it in life is 5% hard-work and 95% of GOD's favor

Ecclesiastes 9:11.New Living Translation

"I have observed something else under the sun. The fastest runner doesn't always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn't always win the battle. The wise sometimes go hungry, and the skillful are not necessarily wealthy. And those who are educated don't always lead successful lives. It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time"

And this was written by King Solomon,the richest man ever lived.

Celebrities › Re: See What Hard Work Has Done For Comedian AY. by Toks2008(m): 9:00pm On Jun 19, 2015

kromoto:
Hard work pays while laziness kills.

Height or no height man na man!

Hard-work is very essential but the truth is that making it in life is 5% hard-work and 95% of GOD's favor

Ecclesiastes 9:11.New Living Translation

"I have observed something else under the sun. The fastest runner doesn't always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn't always win the battle. The wise sometimes go hungry, and the skillful are not necessarily wealthy. And those who are educated don't always lead successful lives. It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time"

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Family › Re: Woman Drags Boyfriend To Court For Dumping Her After Marriage Promises by Toks2008(m): 8:42pm On Jun 19, 2015

Excerpts: "Thereby committing an offense that contravenes Section 383 of the Penal Code".

I just made a research of this criminal code and the application into marriage is simple and this is important to understand,If you are a man who leaves your marriage non-cons-equally to marry or impregnate another woman then the woman you marry as well as you can be charged by your legal wife with an offense under this code except the man properly divorced his formal wife or can prove that she was the one who left the marriage.

As a lady who also leaves her marriage non-cons-equally to move in,get pregnant or marry another guy without properly divorcing the former husband,both the lady and the man she is with can be charged under the penal code.

This is why i always advice a man or woman who leaves his or her marriage especially legal wedding for any reason to make sure a proper divorce is done before hooking up at all with another man or woman or you must have strong evidence that it was actually the other person who left you without mutual consent.

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Business › Re: Nigeria's Four Refineries To Begin Operation Next Month - NNPC by Toks2008(m): 8:30pm On Jun 19, 2015

"thereby committing an offence that contravenes Section 383 of the Penal Code"

Hmmm, this part is very interesting

Celebrities › Re: See What Don Jazzy Shared On Instagram About Women And Fake Buttocks by Toks2008(m): 11:15pm On Jun 18, 2015

Fake hair, fake nails, fake pregnancy, fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows , fake boobs

The most anoying part is that these set of fakers will say they want real men

Romance › Re: Meet The Kano Lady Who Promised To Buy Car & House For Any Man Who Marries Her by Toks2008(m): 3:24pm On Jun 18, 2015

pboy247:
Hmm, she is not bad you know, beauty is not all about facial look, the question is not what she would get forthe man who said yes to her, the question is what does her life looks like? I mean total behaviour, because a lady with a good character doesn't need to advert on media for husband but her character advertises for her! No reasonable man would settle down with a woman who is not a wife material no matter what she has to offer, unless he would manage a man who will not only have her as a wife but combine her with an out side babe! That's all....food of thought for ladies in the house!!!

Honestly all you wrote do not apply to some cases.

For instance if she truly happen to be very rich God fearing and much more nut truly an ex patient of a psychatry then you can imagine how men will treat her like plague.

on the other hand a beautiful lkady with great virtues may just be unlucky with men and even some guys are also unlucky with women even the super cute ones.

Trust me,life can be more comples than we can ever decipher.

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Politics › Re: NASS N9bn Fallout: We’ll Reduce Our Salaries, Allowances – Saraki by Toks2008(m): 9:50am On Jun 18, 2015

handsomeclouds:
Big lie

All these while i had always known that the news going round as regards billions of naira as wardrobe allowance is unfounded.

We Nigerians must learn to wait for clarifcation before drawing conclusions.

Crime › Re: Corps Member Gang Raped To Death In Ilorin, Kwara State by Toks2008(m): 9:17pm On Jun 16, 2015

http://www.nigeriaschoolsblog.com/news/female-corps-member-murdered-in-kwara/

Family › Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Toks2008(m): 10:39am On Jun 16, 2015

bukatyne:
[size=20pt]BROS!

A maid as used in the bold is a woman; not housemaids.

Maids were referred to as servant girls.

Softly softly twist the Bible![/size]

iS THERE ANY TWIST THERE?

was only referring to the fact that even Bible gives a funny picture of the possibility of men sleeping with maid servants from time memorial.

Family › Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Toks2008(m): 10:21am On Jun 16, 2015

streetzdreamz:
nice one,temptation ain't a sin, but falling is,the girl prolly tempted you n u fell....the moment u did that u lost your self will n control...OK u've been celibate for some years,so?that's not enough excuse to sleep with a woman u ain't married to,hate going into religious teachings and all when it comes to issues like this,but ur previous post had a bible quote now u can justify yourself all you want,but the truth is ur self will isn't strong enough to keep off from such acts.......

LOL! Some people preach abstinence bla bla bla but trust me, sexual sins should be totally avoided else you fall thats why the bible used the word "flee" when it comes to sexual sins.

I knew that allowing that maid to come in may lead to something crazy but her preempting the act even made it worse.

1 Corinthians 6:18:Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.

Family › Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Toks2008(m): 10:13am On Jun 16, 2015

babygirlfl:
Bros, if you are really one man with self control, then you should be promoting that and not justifying the actions of cheating men. Anyway let's agree to disagree. Have a good day.

I am a realist sis and that is why i reason from a realistic point of view.

Thanks.

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Family › Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Toks2008(m): 10:08am On Jun 16, 2015

Adesiji77:
It depends on the circumstances....

While a wife would be too careless to bring in a "full-figured" maid (I can't think of any other word atm) into her matrimonial home despite knowing that she has a randy husband, you must not lay the blame on the woman should there be an incident of infidelity.

The woman should not create a vacuum that will lead the man into temptation.

Ultimately, a man must take control of his "vessel" and take responsibility for his actions.

It is not about being randy but that is just men fore you or most men if i must say. As i am,i have taught about the fact of hiring a maid but on teh other hand i felt it will be very funny to think she will just be a maid and not a sex mate since of-course i stay alone and as i wrote,even if i don't stay alone, i will never allow my wife bring in a maid with good curves to the house, never because i don't want to fight temptation each day of my life,prevention is better.Sexual sins should be avoided rather than promoted by bringing home a maid with a banging figure.

Family › Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Toks2008(m): 10:01am On Jun 16, 2015

babygirlfl:
I don't mean to insult you but Christians like you make mockery of true Christians. After the long epistle, you still did not answer my question. i don't remember saying anything about common maid. I am disgusted that you think promoting child labour is the right to do just because some men lack self control.

Sis when you talk about self control,it is very relative.

Men generally are weak when it comes to matter of sex and i can't stress this enough. I am not debunking the fact that there are no men with self control and im very proud to be one of them.

In two years after my breakup i have maintained the self control factor but there was a time a friend asked her maid to come stay with me for two weeks while she was away in UK, the maid was a young girl of 17 but with fully developed sexual features.

Now here is a man who have been single for more than a year with strong sexual drive and here is a young maid who ordinarily should be allowed to do her normal jobs but then i realized that even this young maid was practically interested in getting down with me and as disgusting as it sounds, i fell for her crazy pranks not because i was not disciplined or because im sexually loosed but it just happened and i had to stop and warned her to maintain a status quo.

This is not about self control dear but its simply something that many men can't seem to overcome and trust me, if i had a woman in the house,there is nothing in this world that will make me look her way no matter the seductive moves. So please read that article very well and you will realize that your response to it was baseless and totally unnecessary because i really went against the act.

Family › Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Toks2008(m): 9:44am On Jun 16, 2015

babygirlfl:
Really, hire minors just because her husband lacks self control?

The maid factor..

This article is borne out of my taughts as regards the issue of a man and the maid in the house but before i continue i will like to quote this scripture:

"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid" Proverbs 30:18-19.

I get so surprised when a woman finds out that her hubby is making out with a maid and she uses words like "How could you? a COMMON MAID"

Now ladies open your eyes and widen your reasoning faculty and get this straight.

Men are visual,we think about sex way more than you do as women and we are very polygamous by nature meaning we naturally love to be with as many ladies as possible but if you find a man who is decent and disciplined then such a man is a rare breed but most guys naturally will sleep with any maid that catches their fancy even if they are married to the most sexy lady in the world.

I sometimes believe that Abraham would have refused to sleep with Haggai if he has not been eying her and if not for the fact that the whites of those days slept with common maids and even slaves from Africa we definitely will not have African americans today so save yourself that COMMON MAID word.

Wait guys, i am not promoting randy lifestyle or justifying the shameless act of sleeping with a maid not because SHE IS A MAID but how can you have yur wife in the same house and yet sleeping with a maid? This is arrant nonsense i must say

But then to the women, please if you must get a house maid, get a minor that has no visible sexual feautures and lets see that beast of a man that will sleep with a minor.

They are house helps and not slaves so i believe a 13 to 15year old maid will do just fine.

Lets leave hypocrisy, if my wife brings home a maid that has sweet curves, i will call her to order and ask her to send the maid back. Prevention is better than fighting temptation.

A maid is human, a maid was born the same way you were born, a maid has the same feminine sexual features just as you have and even usually younger,Stop employing matured maids if you have a man at home to prevent unplesant situation.

If you like ,start saying you trust your husband, he can not do this or that but by the time it happens, don't say i have not warned you.

Be wise

Politics › Re: Rep Kicks Against Campaign To Cut Lawmakers’ Earnings by Toks2008(m): 7:01am On Jun 16, 2015

THE FUTURE OF NIGERIA IN THE HANDS OF CRIMINALS,TOUTS AND CULTISTS ..

Ever since I was a young boy,I have always known I have a passion to serve people,to make people happy and to see people succeed and as I grew up,I have contributed my little quota in ensuring that people benefited immensely from my ingenious initiative of empowering people financially thereby reducing poverty and unemployment in Nigeria not until the Nigerian factor reared its head..

As a former united states of America president said ”think not of what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country”,…I guess that is true for any other country but not Nigeria. This is one country that will not do anything for you,will not allow you to do anything for her and will stop at nothing to make sure you are rendered useless for yourself and no thanks to the crazy policies of the government and the looters of our treasury and to make matters worse,we continually have criminals,touts and ritualist occupying most of the political offices and this has made me to have no hope for this country called Nigeria unless something drastic is done to stop these devils in human flesh from clamoring for political offices.

As a young politician, I have looked deeply into the political terrain and I can say that No matter how hard the government of the day or the government to come try,Nigerian will remain stagnant except the needful is done and that is talking about the crazy remuneration of political office holders.
Please lets ask ourselves these questions;

A. Is the work of any political office holder more tedious than that of a lecturer,police officer,civil servants,Army officer and other public servants?

B. Is it not he same country we all belong to?

C. What exactly makes a political office more special than that of civil servant?

I can continue to ask endless questions but I guess we all know where I am heading and this is why I believe that we will be living in fools paradise if we think we will have men of purpose,men of integrity who has the fear of GOD and the passion to serve the people clamoring for political offices when they have to compete with touts,ritualists and criminals who have seen another alternative to money ritual and armed robbery because if we juxtapose the remunerations of political office holders in Nigeria today with the proceeds from robbery operation and money ritual we will see that it is more preferable to occupy a political office where all you do is use the pen to steal billions of naira and at the end of the month take home millions of naira as remuneration. THIS IS SICKENING AND A TOTAL ABSURDITY.

As it is, there is no difference between money ritual and occupying a political office and this is why people kill to get there,people use innocent humans for sacrifice and many join a secret cult society just to occupy a political position and I keep asking “ARE ALL THESE DESPERATE MEASURE NECESSARY BECAUSE YOU WANT TO SERVE THE PEOPLE”?

Must anyone interested in clamoring for a political post go to the extent of dining with the devil? ,Obviously these people are only interested in one thing…to service their pockets and as long as these crazy remunerations are still in place,men that mean well for the country will never clamor for political offices and the few who have the guts will have to safe guard their family and be ready to be killed as we had several stories of a whole family of a senator elect in the last elections getting wiped out and this keeps me wondering if this is all about serving the people.

Why should other civil servants or employees of the Nigerian labor market take home salaries that are ridiculously less than that of political office holders? Are they not all public office holders?

This is why men of integrity and true intent will have to settle for political appointments rather than occupy vantage position where they can have direct and definitive impact on the people.

Lets not fool ourselves Nigerians, until something is done to drastically reduce the jumbo pay of all political office holders,we may never ever have people of integrity and people who truly mean well for this country coming on board and we wil have to continue to put the future of this country mostly in the hands of touts,criminals and ritualists.

GOD HELP NIGERIA.

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Family › Re: Men Sleeping With Their House Maids...who's To Blame? by Toks2008(m): 11:25pm On Jun 15, 2015

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

People talk about maids as if they are not humans too.

Some made are more sexy looking than Kim k and just because they are less priviledged does not stop oga from seing those curves.

My advice is for wives to hire minors who do not have conspicous sexual features.

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Fashion › Re: Only Illiterate Can Wear This To An Event by Toks2008(m): 11:29am On Jun 15, 2015

MsPat:
Nna ehn.....i just weak

What do you expect?

These days when our children watch porn everyday in the name of musical videos when the likes of Olamide and wizzy have corrupted our little children who glady sing lewd lyrics so honestly im not surprised at all.

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Celebrities › Re: Nigerians Drag Annie Idibia Into The Toke Makina Mess by Toks2008(m): 10:54pm On Jun 14, 2015

kendraloops:
sorry o but you no well for this thing you posted. honestly!!

I don't need to be well to post my opinion madam.

We will always have husband sharers and please tell me,if you have a friend who is widowed at very young age with children,wil you advice her to wait for one single guy to marry her? What about those who were thrown out of their matrimonial homes by their hubbies for no just course,make dem begin look for a single man shey? and what about the ladies still single in their very late 30s, i guess you will tell them to still hold on even if they see a married man who wants to marry them.

These are the secrets our mothers know and that made their marriages last very well. Men will always be men and you can do absolutely nada about it.

I am a naturally faithful man but i also know that polygamy is the solution to some ladies marital happiness.

If you quarrel with your husband too much about him seeing another lady walahi he will pack out of the house and ruyn away with the lady and you will never see him again.

My advice to married ladies is that they should focus on their lives and close their eyes to the man's fidelity.There are more important things in life than hinging your marital happiness on your husband fidelity because trust me, you will be living in delusion if you think your hubby wil be faithful to you alone.

Please don't quote me wrongly, we stil have very faithful guys but please bother less about a man's faithfulness to you.Focus on your life and be happy irrespective of his fidelity or infidelity.This is my point.

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Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Runs To MFM Church To Crush Spiritual Hold On Husband(see Tweet) by Toks2008(m): 9:54pm On Jun 14, 2015

I remember making this remark.

https://www.facebook.com/kadiri.o.olatokunbo/posts/792733314097114

Education › Re: Have You Ever Been Bashed In Public Due To Grammatical Blunders? Share by Toks2008(m): 9:45pm On Jun 14, 2015

Still waiting for the day i will make mistakes without quickly correcting myself or where i will be laughed at in public.

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