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ddeston:
Three gbosa for that guy.

How would you tell me to choose between a dog and you?

That's the height of insecurity.

Moreover you came to meet my dog with me and now you want it out.

What if we both disagree and you dump me or I dump you, that means I loosed on both sides.

#threegbosa for that guy again

That guy is immature.

Ladies are naturally teritorial and that is just their make up.They deserve undevided attention and if the guy truly loves her he would rather have a heart to heart mature discussion with her and trust me,that lady will even love the dog more than him.

Ladies are who they are and it only takes a mature mind to dexipher their complexities and acomodate them.

someone should help me tell this boy to grow up.Toddler

Pope22:
http://www.unnpals.com/campus-flash/unn-cucumber-stuck-on-a-female-student-helping-herself/

She should brace up and get medical help fast.

I see no reason why she should be ashamed of that vecause many ladies do it with cucumber so kini big deal?

Rounakid:
1) He Does'nt Bother More About Your Appearance.
Is every compliment from him about your different part of body? It doesn't matter how creative he can be, if a guy's sole focus is on how you look, or 'talking dirty,' see it as a red flag. A real man will value your personality, your kindness, your intelligence, and who you are as a person, in general. The things he makes you feel good about will be things that you control, not just results of getting lucky in the gene pool.
2)He will never be intimidated by your motivation.
A man who has goals for himself, will want to be with a woman who has goals for her own life, too. He will never feel intimidated or threatened by a woman who goes after what she wants. He will want to be part of a power couple, rather than a dictatorship. Be mindful of anyone who tries to keep you from pursuing your dreams.
3)He will have more interests than just you.
I don't mean this in a negative way. You should, of course, be a priority in his life -- but he needs to have a life as well. Interests, friends, hobbies, aspirations. If a man works his entire life around you, it's another red flag -- relationships should be a great part of your life, but not encompass your whole life.
4)He will always provide answer in any situation
No matter how awkward or uncomfortable a situation is, a real man will approach it, and you, with respect. I have always felt that a mark of a man is how he handles conflict, criticism, and less-than-ideal situations. A man will not dance around answers or make excuses. If there is something you two need to talk about, he will talk about it.
5)A real man is always straightfoward.
In addition to the last point there will be no mind games or manipulation in your relationship. A man will be direct, to the point, and honest with you... but with kindness.
6)His Trust in you.
As long as you haven't betrayed his trust, a man will NOT be paranoid, or snoop around invading your privacy to make sure you're not doing anything bad. He will have confidence in your relationship. A boy will project his own insecurities onto you, and like termites in a house, will eat away at the foundation of what you've built.
7)He shower shower you deserved respect.
Nothing signifies an empty shell of a man more than someone who disrespects women, animals, or children. A real man will treat you with the respect that you deserve, never force you to do anything you're uncomfortable with, and never mistreat you. Be honest enough with yourself to walk away from any situation that is dangerous to you, physically or emotionally.
His unstoppable effort in the relationship.
Boys are generally apathetic and just look for one thing from a woman. A man, will do what it takes to make you happy, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Your happiness, is his reward.
9)He will make you want to be the best version of yourself, without changing who you really are.
A man will empower those around him. He will strive for greatness and therefore inspire others to strive for it as well. This not only includes friends and co-workers, but also significant others.
10)Add yours
Written By Rounakid Kutty.
Source : www.nairarich.wapka.mobi

I second everything except num 1.

If a lady is as physically alluring as i want i will not mind telling her over and over again but will never get carried away ny the physical looks.

FlirtyKaren:
@Dreamygiorgi shared his story on Twitter at about 1pm today. This happened to his neighbor yesterday Saturday 27th June 2015..

http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/06/heartbreaking-story-of-nigerian-lady.html

Just inboc me her twitter handle or fbook ID. I need a wife and i just might give her succour.

Dahnify70:
Nothing good comes easy
Saraki don't mind all those critics
They want to abduct you and you out smarted them and they are shouting
You are a better politician than all of them put together
I see you going far
All those fighting you will come to beg for committee chairman

As far as APC is concerned,there is no more prospect for saraki.

Xinoman:
Am waiting for my date feb 21

Coming soon

Mintek:
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Get the 1-year Bible Reading Plan today and start searching the Scriptures. I assure you that this time next year, you will pray to God for forgiveness, for ever asking this kind of question.

Until objectivity becomes the norm of mans nature,many will always remain dogmatuc.

Which one be forgiveness for this matter?

If you have something logical to contribute please do so that at least athiests can learn

dejt4u:
By Tofarati Ige

Have you watched popstar, David Adeleke aka Davido’s latest video, ‘Fans Mi’ featuring American rapper, Meek Mill?

Then you will agree that no child under the age of 18 should see it. Even though music videos have since been reduced to nothing more than scantily-dressed ladies shaking their butts, and the glorification of drunkenness, Davido’s video pushes the boundary of decency.

From the first view, one’s eyes are assailed by lots of cash displayed on a table with several types of guns. As if that is not bad enough, nearly naked girls are spotted dancing raunchily in almost every scene of the video.

The story-line of the video is worse. Davido tries to seal a deal with a drug dealer to supply cocaine while the dealer hands him cases of dollars for the transaction. Davido then goes back to his mansion where he can be seen aided by the brassieres-and-panties flaunting ladies preparing the cocaine. It is not until the end of the video that we get to see that the cocaine Davido delivered to the drug dealer was only semovita (a local Nigerian food).

We must ask though: what is he trying to teach his fans who are largely made up of impressionable youths? That it is okay to engage in the sale of illicit drugs to make money? Or that guns are now suddenly ‘cool’ toys to have?

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/06/why-your-children-should-avoid-davidos-video-fans-mi/

Wizkid,olamide are far worse than davido who i still regard his lyrics as far reasonable.

Olamide is bad news to our children with lewd lyrics and wizkid is abnother bad type.

Out of ten sonfs badoo will only try to sing good contents in just 2 but the rest will be gutter songs.

Davido might have gone overboard in the vew video but he is far better than badoo and wizkid in terms of good videos n lyrical content.

We now watch porn in the bame of music videos.

Dahjhi:
u avnt decide boss

i don send am o

See as una dey humble unasef because of mr nairaland vote but if na another thread na to dey yab we nairalana papas and mamas lol

I vote TOMFRENCH

Jollyjoy:
so u be monkey nw abi?

Lol, Now ladies of 25yrs call me uncle as if i be their mama or papa brother

KelvinGraphics:
Please choose Tomfrench when you come back sir.
Thanks and may U long sir...

Ok i choose Tomfrench cos he reminds me of my days in Uni when i was very cute.

I will be back to choose.

onatisi:
the op came to a forum of over 1million member to criticize and condemn a product and u call that thinking out aloud!!!! Maybe when u labour for 12months to bring out a product and spend millions on it ,you will be very very happy for someone to come here and rubbish all ur effort and destroy ur works !! We always feel good doing to others but when it comes to our own turn we beg such critics not to go public but communicate with us. Don't support what the op is doing ,the op can keep his thinking to himself or herself nobody cares about what he thinks . Ay surely will have a facebook ,twitter or a social media account where his fan relate with him fully ,why didn't the op go there Do unto others as you will be done by.

Trusty me,sometimes open constructive criticism can go a long way in sanitizing an issue.

The Op did not condemn the movie but only expressed his opinion of it being overhyped which is his personal opinion which he is entitled to.

onatisi:
go and make ur own film and let's see if it will sell like the one u are condemning. Ppl that condemn other ppl success never get to be successful as them . Ay has made his money,if you don't like his film then don't buy the next one he makes . Simple as ABC

No nro i think you are getting it twisted. The op is only thinking out loud which is perfectly ok.

Objectivity is the opium of a sound mind.

demmy0325:
.. Wel... I wonder why pple are nt talkin 'bout that crap movie... That movie is so fuckin over-rated.. Nt evn funny one bit.. It deserves to be banned...

The first and third point are spot on .


Ay has never striked me as a good comedian but he is a super talented packager.

lucky032:
So you can't deny you$elf sex for atleast a year.how old are you?

When a lady waits for a man to always make the move then there is bound to be issues of conjugal deprivation.

I like my wife to be crazy and turn me on whebever she wants it and there are many ways of doing this.

Guys hve many things on their minds and often times sex is the least on our minds so we need a lady who is not rigid.

Go to him while he is doing other things no matter how serious it may be n touch him in his sensitive body parts and let me see that man who will not scrw u well and i wll show you a seriously troubled man.

Omotayor123:
You dey Try

My sweetheart how you dey?

biaka1994:
Really crazy am still tying my tummy till nw am planning 2 tie it 4 a year. My hubby lyks chubby ladies!

Lol please dont go through that stress because it may yield little result.

Just google natural ways to have a flat tummy after childbirth

or how to get a very tight vgna after child birth as well as how to maintain a firm bustline adter breast feeding a child and so on

biaka1994:
I have done dat but will still try. Thanks

Please dont also forget to look good and
get rid of that after child birth baby bump.

Wear crazy bumpshots and try to look as though you never drop one because guys foolishly always want to see their wives looking the way they met her before child birth.crazy i guess.

biaka1994:
Please I just need your advice or advices which ever of them. I met my husband in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Some times i'll have to beg him to make love to me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought things would change but it's all the same. I keep begging and begging I have just decided to be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk to is his cousin and have become so close to him that am beginning to lust after him he is married tho but he lives close to us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him and I felt so embarrassed. Please guys help me it's Getting out of hand. What do I do? Please no bashing we all are humans and we do silly things atimes.




Cc: Lalasticlala

Why should any sane person bash you?

Anyways it boils down to communication.

wake him up at the middle of the night which signifies seriousness of the matter.

Tell hiim you are a lady who never ever would contemplate cheating on her husband but as a sexually avtive lady,you need conjugation so that your emotions will not run wild at least once or twice a week.

Also ask him to let you know if there is somthing you did or anything at all that may be the issue that he should be open with you.

Finally i presume you are not the rigid type. Men love their wives to be a LovePeddler for them alone. dont wait for him to make the move,go down on him when he least expects it and give him an unexpected BJ,caress him when he is just sitting and in the bedroom do crazy things on him and i bet he will always want to hve u.

Please dont also forget to look good and get rid of that after child birth baby bump because guys foolishly always want to see their lady looking the way they met her before child birth.crazy i guess

rattlesnake:
only JESUS can stop death when it comes

GBAM. Only God

Kingsasian:
This is unbelievable. What got into him?

In yoruba language we call this Edi or Asasi meaning evil spell

youngberry001:
walahi the one@white ijab is too cute mheen

Guys dey find wife and these ones are wasting their beauty in a crazy act.

Upnepaa:
*Grabs vaseline *

You definitely need help if these old mamas pics looks sexy to you.

barcanista:
My Darling, we don't have a choice o. We brought it upon ourselves so we have to endure it. Sai Bubu

I dont know maybe im the only one thinking rationally but i honestly think we all should refrain from making unwarranted bias remarks about a government that is barely a month old.

After 2yrs i will make my remarks.

Maxymilliano:
Lifting of ban on textile, others will be tragic for local industries, what the government should focus on is how to revive the wobbling industries ...

The truth is that these products despite previous ban are still finding their way in but if the government can lift the ban,their will be more revenue for the govt and the local industry can then be revived and made to compete with the foreign ones.

peedeeasobie:
After writing a thesis on how slutty she is, what's your solution?

She made a mistake, a stupid one at that but what's the use flogging a dead horse!

She needs help not bashing!

She is on her own so let her confess and hope the guy understands which i strongly doubt.

cococandy:
Is the guy in the video a slut too?
Recording his sexual activities.
Yes, No?

If you can't answer yes or no without beating about the bush, don't bother.

An emphatic NO.

Im even surprised you are asking this funny question.

How can a man be a slut for doing thatYes he is foolish and irresponsible but sluttiness is the least word because to the guy the lady is an object of conquest and just as a lady poster wrote,she will even be happy if her hubby performs well in a sex recording but im yet to see a man that will be proud of his woman sexing so good in a video recording.

I remember the day my ex insisted we record a sex session and i vehemently refused yet she went ahead to do it and i had to delete the recording.

Imagine now that we are no longer together and that tape is with me,even if i dont use it against her,the fear that i have it will almost kill her.

ladies should get their brain set because you can fall out of relationship with even a guy you never taught you can part with.

Some thibgs are better imagined than viewed.

baby124:
And you do know that some people don't know there is a video of them out there having sex? Some depraved guys have hidden camera's too. What them if you find out an ex did such to your intending wife? If I was the OP sef, when the guy brings it up, I will pretend like I do not know what he is talking about. If your fiancé finds out, say it was without your consent. Except you were doing styles with hand camera. Lmao. Tufiakwa. I never did sex video, but who knows what type of mad people are out there. If such video comes out of your wife, as long as you were not a virgin yourself, you can move on easily from it. I see no big deal at all. Except the video was boring and really bad sex. If a video came out about my husband and he had really bad sex, I will be ashamed, angry and disappointed at him for that. Lmao. Not the Fact that there is a video out there of him

I understand you perfectly and you are thinking like a perfect lady but most guys wont see it that way whether good or bad sex and infact for guys it better be a bad one.

However no matter how a guy tries to understand that it was a hidden camera,it will still haunt and hurt him no matter how matured he wants to act.