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Crime › Re: Soldier Strips Female Workers Unclad & Tie Them To A Tree For Stealing (Photos) by Toks2008(m): 1:16pm On Jul 16, 2015

laplace12:
This is not Nigeria..

Its in Bene rep abi you no read the original post

Politics › Re: Jonathan Sends Anyaoku To Beg President Buhari Not To Probe Him- SaharaReporters by Toks2008(m): 11:38am On Jul 16, 2015

1. Abeg no forget our discussion o because one good turn deserves another.

2. Walahi you are on your own.

Romance › Re: Hilarious Response A Girl Gave Her Ex BF by Toks2008(m): 11:29am On Jul 16, 2015

dalyricist:
I posted it but the mods no gree take it to ftc

Na politics

God go judge them all
I even call on that one wey dey bear ishihate

LOL! Are you just knowing that most times,front page contents are not really based on how valuable the material is or the first poster but totally political.

The only reason why i like nairaland is because it is interactive shikena.But when it comes to first hand information and neutrality of administration,i will pass a vote of no confidence on the forum.

Romance › Re: Hilarious Response A Girl Gave Her Ex BF by Toks2008(m): 10:57am On Jul 16, 2015

butterflyy:
When the guy asked the question, he was expecting an answer, he got one, let him deal. Btw why are you pained with M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ comment, are you the small banana?

lol! If i handle you,you will beg me to marry you.

Romance › Re: Hilarious Response A Girl Gave Her Ex BF by Toks2008(m): 9:54am On Jul 16, 2015

butterflyy:
Epic response

Yeah i guess some ladies will find it very epic and let me see this scenario....the new guy dumps her and she finds herself with another man and she is asked this same question by the present guy who apparently would have been her ex i guess she will now place a bigger stuff beside the bigger one now right?Iranu,abacha

This is why many marriages break,the ex factor.A lady will marry an innocent man and starts comparing his dick with Tunde,an ex with a giant size rod,then compares his financial benevolence with that of Richard the rich ex she dated while in school and she will expect the hubby to be as romantic as Desmond an ex who was very caring to a fault.

GOD HELP OUR WOMEN.

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Romance › Re: Hilarious Response A Girl Gave Her Ex BF by Toks2008(m): 9:48am On Jul 16, 2015

lonelydora:
That guy is a disgrace to manhood. Why asking such questions? Well he deserves that answer.

Though the ex asked an innocent question in a stupid way but any matured man who understands the morphology and physiology of the female core will know the lady is only trying to annoy the guy.Except the ex is not skillful in the area of sex and his manhood is less than 4inches when erect then he can feel slighted.

As for the lady i guess she gave a slutty response though.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: This Is The Best Profession That Will Give You Good Wealth. by Toks2008(op): 11:48pm On Jul 15, 2015

I used to beg to perform at shows but now I charge millions – Okey Bakassi

http://www.punchng.com/feature/super-saturday-lounge/i-used-to-beg-to-perform-at-shows-but-now-i-charge-millions-okey-bakassi/

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: This Is The Best Profession That Will Give You Good Wealth. by Toks2008(op): 11:14pm On Jul 15, 2015

I remember in Lasu where i schooled years back, Tara will just see her friends and start shaping their eyebrow for free and she did it so passionately but today she is the CEO of house of Tara.

House of Tara / Orekelewa is a Beauty and Skin Care Consulting Firm. Small Business founded by Tara Fela-Durotoye who started in 1997 (an undergraduate at the time) as a Bridal Make-Up Artiste with her first make-up shop. With a StartUp Capital of N15, 000.00, she began her conquest of the makeup business world.

In the beginning, she started out by working for a makeup outfit while waiting to gain admission into the university. There she mastered the trade and as a result the Lagos State university world was opened with all hands to welcome this makeup genius. After seeing the amazing impact of touch on people’s faces, she decided to get her first kit for NGN15, 000.00 and the journey began.

Family › Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Toks2008(m): 10:58pm On Jul 15, 2015

fexyrich:
If you are truely born again like you claim you would know it is absolutely wrong to discuss your sexual and private marital life in a public forum..You are automaitcally seeking the counsel of the ungodly..cos you should know that a forum of dis kind is filled with different types of people with different religious backgrounds and even unbelievers..U better go and study the word for yourself and find out what the bible says about marriage..Don't also forget that you and your husband have now become one flesh..Read psalm 1 from verse 1..U would know that coming here to share such is even the real sin.Its your private marital life so face it tru the word of God.Simple.Also note that there is no limitation to sexual fantacies in marr

Who be this?

People like you lack objectivity and will be destroyed by dogmatism.

Any intelligent person will seek counsel from everyone and use his or her discretion to sieve out the good from the bad advices and even in the worst advice,there just might be something reasonable.

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Family › Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Toks2008(m): 10:39pm On Jul 15, 2015

Within the confines of marriage any sexual act is ok as long the individual's involved are ok based on personal reasons but please leave spirituality out of this.

Any man ore woman who is not giving the spouse mouth action is punishing the partner.And for the guys please note that many ladies fantasize about this a lot so please guys and ladies in marriage abeg give lots and lots of mouth action.Its very very refreshing and i can give my woman triple x pleasure(Don't ask me what this means) for hours.

Jobs/Vacancies › This Is The Best Profession That Will Give You Good Wealth. by Toks2008(op): 10:16am On Jul 15, 2015

Whatever you can do excellently and passionately for free is what will most likely bring you wealth if you professionalize it.

Passion is everything.

Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 7:24pm On Jul 14, 2015

Dindondin:
They are girls without perseverance.
They don't qualify to be a girlfriend not to talk of wife. They lack perseverance in everything. even when they marry rich men, any small challenge ll show their true colour

very right my friend.

The unfortunate part is that even if the ones who claim they can cope gets into an affair with you,they will virtually make you drop your vision to start looking for a paid job.This was why i wrote this sometime ago.

Blame it on the ladies

This title leaves so much to ponder over and what exactly are we blaming on the ladies?

Do you know that ladies should take the blame for the low drive in our Nigerian
men?

Do you know that an average Nigerian lady would rather prefer to marry a man who is an employee of a “well established” company rather than to say yes I do to a man who is still struggling to be an employer of labor.

It is amazing how an average Nigerian lady will go all out to kill the zeal of a young and promising entrepreneur simply because of the fear of the unseen,she will advice him to take up a job just because she is more interested in having the assurance that there is a regular in-flow of
cash either for her selfish gains or for the sake of the children.

Ok I guess you will be saying in your mind ”this guy don come again” so do me this favor and lets do this real life testing..

If you are a guy who is still searching for job simply call your lady on the phone and tell her “honey wow! guess what? I have gotten a business idea I want to start” and please observe her response.

Wait for another week and call her again but this time say “Honey you won’t believe I got a good job” and also observe her response.

And for those who are already working,simply call your lady and tell her “honey I have decided to quit my job to start my personal business” ..i am almost certain you are in for a long sermon on why you should not.

Some ladies are even kind enough to ask you to get a job first then probably raise the money for the business as though they are so certain that all the money you earn monthly from the hopeful job will be saved for your intending business and unfortunately by the time you start a job
you intend spending just few years,you will wake up after 20years to discover you are still stuck up in same job because the employers we have are pretty smart enough not to allow you space for yourself and you will even have to lie in order to attend an interview for another job offer.

Please don’t get it twisted…as a man,there is absolutely nothing wrong in taking up a job if that is what rocks your boat but I am simply laying emphases on some Nigerian ladies who lack vision,those who are mediocre and those who just believe that getting by is more important in life
than attaining a potential maximum IN YOUR CHOSEN CAREER.

Our ladies must understand that just as we have men who are ok with a paid jobs and depend on the employer to gain promotion and more take home pay,we also have men who are visionary,men who would rather want to be an employer of labor rather than be an employee,men
who will stop at nothing to achieve their dreams and men who will later become the Dangotes and bill gates of today and eventually become a owner of a company many see today as well established.

I have seen ladies leaving their relationships and marriages simply the man in question made it a duty to pursue his dreams rather than bow to the pressure of looking for a paid job and such men have been tagged stagnant,lazy,visioness by the women in their lives while the men who work in blue chip companies or “well established companies” are seen as the real deal,the hard-workers and the ones who are truly ready to raise a family and more absurd is the fact that many married ladies will not even mind leaving their marriage to be carried away by men with regular paid jobs.

The unfortunate fact most Nigerian ladies fail to understand is this…A man of vision will always achieve his goals in the long run and only death can stop such and if you take everything away from a man of vision, he will always rise again.

Another man on the other hand might just be lucky to be employed in a well established organization but unfortunately,if such job is lost,the lady
will be left with the stark reality that this guy is only the type who must get a job at all cost before his family survives and will not mind just any job just to get stipends to bring home to the family.

This is my point ladies…the choice remains yours but please do not stress our men who are visionary,determined and result oriented. Allow them pursue their dreams.Get a life for yourself,get financially independent and allow this man space to actualize his dreams.

As for the man, just as I wrote,there is absolutely nothing wrong if getting a job is your passion,go ahead and reach the zenith of your careers.

But for those who are determined to be employers of labor or self sufficient,please do not allow any woman talk down on you or make you dump your dreams but no matter how long you persist in achieving your dreams,you must realize that you must also have somethingdoing that pays the bills no matter how small it is.

My candid view.

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Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 7:18pm On Jul 14, 2015

Atlantian:
Oil & Gas firm as in Palm Oil and Cooking Gas selling shop ?

Lol don't mind them,that is why many men fool them.

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Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 7:09pm On Jul 14, 2015

humilitypays:
Very true all what u said but still bro, we need to pity and pray for our sisters too cos its not easy for them to make that decision.

You know, so many guys appear to be men of vision but they see nothing at the end, so don't blame the ladies at times

I am sure if ladies can see d future of guy, they won't mind dating that dirty, ugly broke guy walking the street today destined to be great tomoro

And what if the vision never materializes? was she married to the guy or his possible success? Are theer not ladies of great achievements whose husbands are never even rich?

What defines success in life?is it the amount of cash in bank or the fulfilled career? Those who changed the world with ideas,and inventions were not rich and i guess a typical Nigerian lady would have given up the founder of coca cola,Dangote when he started with selling sugar and salt in small scale and bill gate will not appeal to Nigerian ladies especially when he dropped out.

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Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 7:01pm On Jul 14, 2015

majekdom2:
clap for yourself, great write up. When buhari sees this, he would put you as one of his ministerial appointees.

I would rather work my way up and that was why i used the words "TECHNOCRATIC POLITICIAN" who will be appointed or selected into higher office based on excellent past performance(s)

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Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 6:57pm On Jul 14, 2015

humilitypays:
From my understanding, I think he's trying to advice ladies to try and avoid judging a guy making advances on them by the company he works for; which to me isn't a bad advice.

What I think ladies don't understand is that virtually all guys wish and desire to be richer than Bill Gates...but as time ticks, destiny places everyone where he or she belongs.

Its not as if those jobless guys u see around don't wish to work for Shell or Chevron, neither are those guys working in top firms more intelligent or wiser than that guy still job-hunting.

I think destiny determines how far we will go in life, sadly

In Nigeria,many chics will will prefer to cry in a hummer than smile in a rickety.

They are hopelessly foolish to decipher that a man of vision is better than man with television.That millionaire guy can be koboless tomorrow and that vision driven struggling guy can be a multi millionaire tomorrow.

Anyways,guys are wiser now and most guys stick with a lady who have been there through thick and thin while free-styling the hopeless money mongers.

Our ladies should take a cue from Olamide,P square,2baba and many more. While 2baba has many baby mamas. when he decided to choose,he went for Annie who have been there through difficult times

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Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 6:51pm On Jul 14, 2015

Gurgle:
i don't see myself as a money monger

like i wouldn't eat into his wealth i would just like him to be stable

as i would like myself to be

lol at freestyle them

wouldn't let anybody freestyle me joor

not for any amount of money

Then you need to understand that every lady can be financially successful in life even without a man and strife to get there because such women are well respected by men.

Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 6:48pm On Jul 14, 2015

majekdom2:
is politics now a profession?

Do you think i care?

Rotimi Amaechi said he went into politics because there is no Job and today he is an ex Governor but trust me, i am into politics because i see it both as a passion and profession.

Check my DP and note the face,in the nearest future i will be the greatest technocratic politician to ever walked the soil of this nation. I care less what any lady says.I have other stuffs i do but i chose to be identified as a politician because inded its a big time profession that needs patience and strategic planning in order to get to the pinnacle.END OF STORY.

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Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 6:42pm On Jul 14, 2015

wtfCode:
even if is a nollywood movies, nigerian gals have been fond of this nonsense 4rm d day nigeria got amalgamated.
90 percent of Nigerian gals are lazy and almost brainless.
Like say a broke niggah no go make am 4 life abi?

Anytime i remember the day i saw single on the cv of my ex i always marvel at the level women can go to deny their existence for money. And i asked her how much was she expecting as salary that she can go that length to deny her matrimony?

When my business was good for 10years and we were really enjoying life she will be the one to remind me to put on my ring and every pics of our legal wedding and intro was on her Facebook page but when i had issues with my business she became cold.

I just said to myself what a shame to many ladies especially Nigeria ladies who will not mind denying their existence for the sake of materialism.

Outside Nigeria 95% of ladies will love you for you even if you are a conductor but in Nigeria GOD help you.

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Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 6:34pm On Jul 14, 2015

Gurgle:
im trying to stop with the ready made thing but I cant

The unfortunate thing is that no matter how sweet you are,98% of ready made guys always have a chick who they can't give up due to her support for them when they had nothing so they simply use as many gullible money monger ladies as side dishes or simply freestyle them.

Anytime a lady ask me what do i do i don't waste time telling her i am a young politician with great future but not a rich guy. If she wil love me for me fine if not good luck.

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Romance › Re: Ladies STOP Selecting Men, Based On Where They Work. by Toks2008(m): 6:25pm On Jul 14, 2015

ashmanpolo:
Some Corpers around my area passed out like two weeks back so I was at one of my Favourite Pool side, chilling out that day. I started conversing with one of the Corpers. The first thing she asked me was, "where do you work?" see Jamb question.

Firstly, I wasn't even thinking of wooing this bae cos she got a bracelet on her left leg and that's a huge turn-off for me.

I told her I was an applicant, still job-hunting. Next thing this girl started advising me to focus on my job-hunting and stop toasting girls. That she's not in for jobless guys like me for now. I just taya.
Okay I told her to give me her number to at least get more counselling, "for where?" The girl messed me up 'jakajaka'

This morning, I saw her in front of our company gate, a popular Oil and Gas firm. She was holding a CV and she was so wowed. She was like "what are you doing here?" I work here
"Jesus, for how long now?" Seven years.
"But...."
I didn't allow her continue the questions as a driver came in front of me and I entered the Toyota Hilux. She ran up to me and I think I heard:
"Please give me your number"

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Agriculture › Re: Monster Fish Killed By Two Nairaland Guys by Toks2008(m): 10:16am On Jul 14, 2015

Hmm! yummy

If my wife can make a very good fresh fish soup with okro or ewedu to go with it then she has 70% of my love.

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Celebrities › Re: Basket Mouth And Wife (before And After Photos ) by Toks2008(m): 9:05am On Jul 14, 2015

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Romance › Re: Ladies; How To Know You Are Dating A Married Man. by Toks2008(m): 11:29am On Jul 13, 2015

williams368:
Why do ladies date married men?

This is because polygamy is the answer to the prayers of many ladies in lonesomeness.

Who marries a widowed lady with kids? probably a married man

Who marries a lady divorcee with kids? Probably a married man

Who marries ladies in their late 30s or early 40s who are still single? Probably a married man.

Who marries single mothers more? Probably a married man

Who do ladies who have been severally heartbroken by single guys run to for good care and succor? Married men.

Is polygamy a sin? NO

Is polygamy advisable? NO

Is polygamy an unavoidable solution to some women relationship problems? YES.

The more matured we grow,the more we understand the twisted nature of life.

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Jokes Etc › Re: To The Single Guys In The House! ;D by Toks2008(m): 8:32am On Jul 13, 2015

DrGroove:
Marry her

Blood covenant no be marriage

Sex is the greatest blood covenant and sex is marriage because SEX IS BECOMING ONE.

For this reason a man shall leave his parents(Leaving to woo a lady to live with her)
Be united to his wife(Marriage ceremony of any type)
And the two shall become one(sex)
Matthew 19:5

If you are a man or woman reading this please ask yourself...How many people have you really covenanted with?How many people have you really gotten married to?

Jokes Etc › Re: To The Single Guys In The House! ;D by Toks2008(m): 8:26am On Jul 13, 2015

This is why i tell every lady who cares to listen that your sexy curves and outward beauty may attract a man to you and you can be a great sex machine in the bedroom but from time memorial,the way to a man's heart will always remain through his stomach.

LADIES LEARN TO BE AN EXCELLENT COOK AND BE HUMBLE TO YOUR MAN THEN WAIT FOR THAT LADY THAT WILL SNATCH HIM FROM YOU.

If my wife is very good in the kitchen and humble to me, i can consider forgiving her even if she commits adultery.FACT.

Family › Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Toks2008(m): 9:20am On Jul 11, 2015

craziebone:
i disagree completely! Two people who are truely in love with each other would not even be bothered if they are married or not!!!

lol so you are still one of those living in delusion of true love?

Keep dreaming...i will advice you to just get a good friend to marry.Love is a facade,it does not exist between humans but only from GOD towards human.

if you are a lady getting married just know that without court wedding a man can wake up and booth you out and a woman can just leave you whenever she likes.

Most annoying is the fact that despite all the money spent on trd marriage and white wedding,you can still dvorce easily and all they will say is that the man should get bck the bride price paid and thats all.Iranu,abacha.

in court wedding you must prove youyr case as to why you want the marriage dissolved or have ur case thrown out.

Any lady who marries without doing court wedding is on her own.Love does not exist but what we see is partner with benefits.

only matured minds can decipher my assertions,only babies still believe in love.

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Family › Re: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Toks2008(m): 11:17pm On Jul 10, 2015

suggyspic:
She wants court marriage while he wants traditional marriage. This resulted to argument between Prince and Amaka who have been dating for 5yrs. Prince have propose to Amaka and the traditional knocking of door have been done. In the process of planning for the marriage, prince have insisted that he would only do the traditional marriage and later the church marriage, but Amaka insisted that she prefers a court marriage and later the traditional marriage. Amaka went further by telling prince its either the court marriage or no marriage at all, stating that court marriage would proof to her that Prince truely loves her and wants to protect her further with him. Prince on the other hand insisted that he would do the court marriage when he deems it fit. Amaka have threaten to break up the relationship. Prince is the only son in a family of four and is doing very well. Marriage preparation is 80% ready.

Should Prince concede to her or maintain his stand?
Is Amaka's stance right (using love as a yardstick to buttress her point)
do you smell any hidden agenda on the part of prince or Amaka.
In your candid opinion, do you think this marriage would work.

A man who truly loves his lady and has no hidden agenda will gladly do a registry marrage.

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Romance › Re: The costly mistake many ladies make when choosing a spouse. by Toks2008(op): 7:06pm On Jul 10, 2015

Thanks dear.

lagmostkuit:
It's alright..
Nice write up!

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Romance › Re: The costly mistake many ladies make when choosing a spouse. by Toks2008(op): 5:48pm On Jul 10, 2015

lagmostkuit:
And what makes u think a woman would be able to cope with a man she doesn't love in a marriage?

The love must be equal cos I can't bear it staying with a man I don't love.

Great but as i wrote before,i have not seen that lady that will not fall in love with a man in the long run who makes her feel really loved and special.Beauty and the beast is not just a fiction but applicable in real life scenario.

You may never understand and i pray you don't.

FYI,The feeling of affection can never be equal no matter how the parties involved claim they love each other so every lady should pray to find a man who loves and wants them more than she does.

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Romance › Re: The costly mistake many ladies make when choosing a spouse. by Toks2008(op): 5:44pm On Jul 10, 2015

egobetatoday:
well said. but u know some ladies will not understand this until they become examples for others to learn.

Yes agree.Experience they say is the best teacher but i would rather love to learn from the experienced than to learn from my own experience especially the bad ones.

Romance › Re: The costly mistake many ladies make when choosing a spouse. by Toks2008(op): 5:34pm On Jul 10, 2015

delleby:
This assumption is not entirely true. If you marry a lady whom you love and who doesn't have feelings for you, you'l just be among those that will prefer to live in a house with thatched roof than wit that woman.

Then you are getting it all twisted.

A man can marry a lady who does not love him and stil manage to cope real good but when a lady marries a man who does not love her,SHE IS FINISHED.

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