₦airaland Forum

KingTom:
You are right my friend, in doing so he has left the door open to escape, most of the thieves have fled the country. He would do well to thread cautiously, silence is the best answer. So that he'll take these rogues by surprise.

Just in less than a month after Buhari became president elect,i have seen his lapses and to me he is neither smart nor intelligent...

All those utterances are baseless such as

Nigeria should not expect a miracle..
The manisfesto is not quran or bible that can not be changed...
I will probe the 20billion...

Naaa this is not an ideal virtue of a smart leader the only happiness i have is yet another character of his and that is allowing his subjects a free hand to administer authority and this was why i voted for him because i know that he will appoint seasoned and purposeful technocrats which was a major faupax of the outgoing president.

KingTom:
That is the best thing to do

This man has a character defect which is talking too much and i hope he doesnt get killed before he is sworn in.

The elders keep mum on their plans untilk its time to unveil.

Many of us will be so quick to blame these guys for dabbling into this type of business but trust me, we all have our breaking point.

Nigeria is a country that will not do anything for you,will not allow you to do anything for her and worst still will prevent you from doing anything for yourself..its that bad.

Unfortunately the labor market can not accommodate every graduate or youths with skills.

At the age of 26 i was a millionaire talking about 14years ago and i was doing very well as an IT consultant setting up cyber cafes,software development as well as selling and installation of computers and related businesses.

In 2001 November i had an accident that sent me back to square zero and was bed ridden for months and the accident left with with a nerve impairment that changed my zealous life style to a very low drive one and unfortunately this nerve impairment would have been averted if there were good health facilities in this country but nevertheless my never say die spirit was at work.

I delved into clearing business and as a freelance agent involved in clearing dutiable items i was doing very well carting home not less than 250k a month until this same clueless government brought up stringent policies that collapsed the business about 3 years ago and as i speak im springing up once again against all odds reviving my IT firm and of-course adding other profitable ventures..

Many people may not believe that prior to when i started the clearing business about 11years ago,i almost died of hunger drinking water from morning till night with no one to help and i guess many people would have rained abuses on me if i delved into armed robbery or drug trafficking.

See friends,Nigerians are hard working and given the chance we will never dabble into any crazy business but the economy and the government policies are terrible,your family and friends are also busy digging their life out,the business centers in the name of churches and robbers as pastors will only try to get the little you have and many banks will ask you to provide properties you don't have as collateral.

optimusryga:
Gals thinking holding sex is wah u use to know a real lover, wait till u gt involved with a gal beater or a serial cheater. I can be wit u, not asking for sex, getting the sex outside and waiting for the day u'll open ya legs and wen I gt it, I bochaaaa live. Even if it takes me 5yrs to gt. Gals sef!!!! :- ur biggest mistake is thinking sex is all a man desires. Best u take time and learn a man cos that u stayed 10yrs witout sex doesn't mean a man will not come and break ur heart d nxt day.

Funny but insightful...

In my opinion these are the 5 things that 1 cherish in ladies and will do anything to keep such...


1.A sexually decent lady
2.Humble and self sufficient(Financially independent)
3.Mentally intelligent
4.Excellent cook
5.Good in bed

pussyfucker:
O yea, it happened out of lust and love on the part of the young woman, but the young guy was unable to resist her young,soft and succulent body.

But what scares him is that this young woman is a one week widow and her husband has not been buried.

So, are there any dangers involved in what he did?

How i pity men..

No same woman will jump into bed with another man in such a hurry.

And for the man,he must be evil to do such and yes grave consequences await bboth of them...

holluwai:
After 11years?

Is she married now?

You suppose follow her husband marry her ni mehn!

Sincerely, sure it wasn't your fault?

Im too plain to jilt a lady.

lalasticlala:
I got this mail from a Nairaland visitor who seriously needs advice.

Please help her by offering her good and useful pieces of advice that would help raise her spirits high..

Go and dye...

Sorry just kidding..just move on with ur life and thank God it happened now.

we have worse cases of a grooom walking out on the bride..4yrs na moi moi...my ex broke up with me after 11yrs so your case no be case. He is not worth u provided that no b u misbehave.

asadike:
I don't know for others but mine is a year and seven months now.

Maybe because you are not in a strong affair...just saying.

LyfeJennings:
IF ONLY U KNOW WHAT MATHEW ENDURES.
If U ever have a 10 minutes chat with Omotola's husband about his marriage to her. I swear U go open mouth for 10years. Oh, U think Omotola is a saint? U think she's never cheated? Or say she doesnt ride her husband when the fame and money take over her. Women are made for the good times alone. They dont last forever, the good moments all have an expiration date.

Irrespective of my experience i am tempted to agree but please not all women at least most women from countries outside naija will love you unconditionally.

ogene007:
Abigail's problem started from when she was sent to study law by her first husband, the father of Yobo's wife. She left the man after graduating because a once innocent girl from a very poor background had gotten over exposed. First thing Abigail did after graduating from Law school was to desert her husband. To imagine that her first husband not only sent her to school, but also went to her father's house to replace the mud house there with a new house, is very disheartening.

Another major problem with Abigail is that she is desperately trying to get Yobo's wife to follow her footsteps, by constituting an ober bearing influence on that marriage. Abigail is a typical example of all that is wrong with a rich man, marrying a girl from a very poor background, and attempting to get her to a privileged level. Only very few of such girls can contain the exposure that goes with such new social status.

Seems you know so much about them.

Honestly sometimes when a breakup occurs and the parties start to talk,there wil always be 3 sides to the story.

His version
Her version
The truth.

In my case till tomorrow i will still insist that i don't know what went down but all i know was that my business had issues and the guy who brings home over 200k a month for over 10years suddenly finds himself in a precarious situation and suddenly i started hearing stuffs from a lady i have been with for over 11years.(6 yrs of courting and 5years of legal wedding)

Stuffs like,

-hope you have not offended someone..
-Won't you go out and seek help as in spiritual help
-I will walk away at 30(then 29) if this stagnancy continues

And trust me, exactly 2 years ago when she clocked 30,she left and she suddenly remembers that i have not paid her bride price despite the introduction we had and the legal wedding we had and of-course after staying with me for over 5years with plans by both of us to have the traditional wedding when her mother comes back to Nigeria having left for united states for sometime.

This is why i see most Nigerian ladies as money mongers,opportunists and I now know that struggling attracts the woman you need while success attracts the woman you want.

If i have my way i will never ever marry a Nigerian lady ever in my life again because 95% of them are hopelessly materialistic.

I cant frget in a hurry the day i saw a CV she wrote where she put single as marital status while still living under same roof with me and i simply showed her just for her to tell me it was an error but one she never corrected.

Some will actually start dating you when you had nothing hoping you make it and after waiting for so long and they see that no good sign of that coming up,they will dump your broke ass with teh hope of meeting a rich dud and will start creating silly excuses that makes no logical sense.

youmour:
I wish my woman would cheat on me with a woman,shiiiit even if shes straight i will try planting that thought on her

Are you for real?

Princecalm:
What happened to this words:
for better for worse
for richer for poorer
in health and in wealth
.
.
Good days turning sour.

When i read stories like this i kindda remember a similar story but this time not about sexual infidelity but about a nigga getting broke and the lady walking away.

Sweetguy25:
I hate to hear that phrase "god willing". Its stupid and annoying.
Buhari will fail, it has nothing to do with god. Nigeria is country setup to fail, for the past fifty years every president has tried and failed.
Buhari was there as a military president when it was easier to effect change and he FAILED.
He will fail again and so will the next president after him.
Goodbye.

Are u aware that he ruled for just 18mnths? yet he made a great impact in a short time.

Mprex:
seconded sister. There is something feminine about fair guys that i cant juz explain












i love my guys, tall, dark and handsome, holy ghost filled and naira loaded

Nigerian girls and money...the question is after getting a naira loaded guy with all those qualities n something happens n he gets so so broke?

the bottom line is as long as our ladies keep adding that rich factor to the criteria for wanting a guy,theb the true essence of love affairs will be defeated...

just follow your heart

asadike:
Or even abstinence and save yourself a whole lots of headache and emotional heart break.

lets face it...how long can a lady really abstain from sexual drive?

write2obi:
Why don't you showcase more of those qualites you have that will attract the "non-ukwu seekers" .

A million likes for this post...

She does not want ukwu seekers yet displaying it when she knows that men are carried away by wat they see.

I naturally do not get attracted to ladies who flaunt sexy assets...i want to see wat u have up their in your brain as i have xcome to believe that most girls with sexy curves have nothing up there

pretydiva:
Nobody gives a hoot. If d equipment is bad, y don't u get urself a new 1 ..common sense wil tel u dat

i believe its too much weed.

He can still get the voice back if he wants to.

ephemm:
There so many f00ls who still listen to this fraudster

in my opinion,this man is the most accurate prophet i have seen in Nigeria.

i have been following this man since 2011 and i have personally followed his prophecies meticulously and just as he said..most of them do come to pass and just as he also stated...prophecies can be reversed totally just as we have read in the bible on secerral occasions.

he has my vote of confidence.

Coincidentally the article is right about me because as a lover of Blue color,all they wrote seem to tally...hmmm!

Bonapart:
have you ever imagine why the sexual organ is located in the lower part of the body... the only place you can use your mouth is kissing cos it's direct... anyone who reduce his/her mouth to the sexual organ is a fool that's is no longer sex but sodomy...
I rest my case here

I cant believe this is your bias reasoning about the issue. All the best bro.

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Using dildos or vibrators in my opinion do not douse intimate desires but would rather increase the demands.

The best way is just to get yourself busy and keep your minds off it or better still get married if you have a man who wants your hand in marriage and you are ok with him.

Well I don't know what any one will think but in my opinion,if as a lady you feel your sexual demands runs wild and you are not married or your hubby is far from you,i will prefer she settles for this rather than fornicating or committing adultery.

As i wrote before,i care less what anyone thinks... except there is a verse in the scripture that forbids a lady quenching her desire for fornication in any other way asides lesbianism or actual fornication or adultery. If anyone has any contrary opinion based on the scriptures, it will be nice to have it so that we all can learn.

And i imploy all the sabi sabi pastors not to come here and make any contrary opinion without biblical references.

The worst thing that can ever happen to mankind is the beginning of the best thing that can ever happen to those who have accepted Jesus as their lord and savior.

While death of the mortal body is the beginning of sorrow for the unbeliever,it is indeed the beginning of a greater life for a believer in Christ. Ironically,death can come calling at any time and there is absolutely nothing we can do about it but to prepare for it by living every moment as though its our last.R.I.P to the dead.

freecocoa:
I don't get this wholly, so is the article saying, only women can get genes transferred to them? This is some sexist crap, why didn't they do the same research on men?

Yes dearie and this is not rocket science but simple logic judging from the female anatomy.

Just like its easier for a lady to contract HIV during unprotected sex from man than for a man to get it from woman, in the same way this is very possible. HOW?

The woman's core is designed to receive ,maximum fluid and ofcource to accommodate the size of the male organ but in a man what we have is a tap like opening which is considerable small in size so it is quite difficult for a woman' fluid to pass up through the penile opening.Simple logic

We are so blessed in Nigeria as we don't see crazy natural disasters as it happens elsewhere in the world.

My condolence to the lost souls and speedy recovery for the injured.

What is marriage?

Many people usually see marriage as that ceremony where a dowry or bride price is paid and when there is a colorful celebration with families and friends...

The simple fact is that anytime you sleep with someone,you are actually marrying that person because you have successfully jumped the first two stages of marriage to the last and main one which is becoming one.

Matthew 19:5: 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife(marriage ceremony of any type), AND THE TWO WILL BECOME ONE FLESH(Sexual union)

Foolishness in the name of bragging.

I have heard many guys boast about the number of ladies they have bedded and even some foolish ladies do this and when i hear some clueless people pride themselves about this i only feel pity for them because rather than boast and celebrate the number of guys or ladies they have slept with,in actual fact, they ought to be in a church praying for deliverance for the number of curses they have added to their lives.

For every lady or man you sleep with,you become one with such and that means you share in any form of curse he/she has irrespective of the source of the curse...

Bonapart:
do you know the meaning of sodomy? Married couple commit sodomy also if you must know... the one you people call mouth action. God is not please with it...
These are the major reasons sodom and gomorah where destroyed. They turned sex upside down....
So my brother i won't satisfy a woman and displease my maker thereby miss out on heaven

Mouth action is a sin uuh!

Please i need a quote fro the scripture that any form of sexual act within the confines of marriage is a sin.

Bonapart:
ok water gush out from a gad forsaking vagina at the end of the day you have money in your bank account? Or you have food in your table? Or it will help me make Heaven...
Sodom and gomorah generation

Bro i guess you and i are of same taught but sexualityy is an integral part of our lives and if you must know,ignorance about stuffs like this is responsible for marital problems even when they blame it on other issues..

A spirit filled sister still lives in a body and God made sex for the body so lets dscuss it within the frame of decency.

One day you will marry that is if you are not and that lady will definitely want optimum sexual satisfaction so u cant run away from this topic.