₦airaland Forum

Kayworld26:
She tweeted it that she needed a pair of canvas...the guy was even complaining that the lady was a bit slow at some point...lol

Hotel ke?,lol...people welcome them to their homes to pass the night.

Eeyah..ladies and their perculiar and interesting nature.

She don carry her wahala join the man asking for canvas and complaining of fatigue as if the guy was the one that invited her in the first place.

Kayworld26:
Hmmmm....I feel for them sha especially the lady who was already complaining her legs hurt.

They still have a long way to go...Lokoja...Okene...Auchi...Benin....Warri...Ughelii....to Bayelsa

I hope its worth it in the end sha...wish them GOODLUCK

Legs hurt ke? not at all because they can always stop over and logde in a hotel then continue...no be marathon trek o.

That babe get sense..saw a fine guy treking and quickly puts one and one together that at the end the guy may get arcolades from Jonathan and she quickly catch in.

Naija babes too smart.

drnairalov:
what is dese..never seen dem in my life
ME: Mum, Dad...so I Av decided 2 live on my own 4rm now on!
PARENTS: Ohh!!! Cool
ME: Ur bags are outside!

I love your honesty.
Threads like this gives me succor that im not the only old guy on nairaland.

Kingpinukecy:
wat d Bleep,hahaha....dos day wey we useless dis whistle life. We no let people here word,we jux dey use am make noise up and down.... Quaquaquaqua

Hmmm interesting.

But just curious...how old were u when you used them?

AKMoney1:
And this is a news?


Where is lalasticlala

SENSELESS TOPICS MAKING NAIRALAND FROM TIME MEMORIAL.

Emmanuel247:
FinE girl

I see a hopeless opportunist...
If flavor happens to be an unknown face will she still flaunt this?
Most Nigerian ladies make me puke.

And now a typical Nigerian lady will be like im just in love with him,i cant just explain it.

Even with all the packaging,his ancient nature still overshadows him.

godoluwa:
It's absolutely wrong for a man to beat his wife no matter whatever.

I totally agree and i will nver raise my hand on a lady but nevertheless i urge ladies not to take advantage of cool headed guys.

Trust me,some ladies are a sorry case when it comes to keeping a status quo n will see nothing wrong in using any imaginable derogatory words on their men.

If you see the way some ladies talk to their men walahi you will feel like crying for these guys.

Not all men are cool headed so ladies should learn to maintain proper decorum.

And funny enough i hve come to realize that ladies respect violent guys and will not mind walking on the heads of cool guys.

NEVERTHELESSS I BELIEVE THAT ONLY A BEAST WILL BEAT UP A LADY. THE BEST YOU CAN DO IS WALK OUT OF THE AFFAIR.

adrainuche:
Its been more than a year since I started dating my present GF and money seems to be one of the major problem in our relationship ... There's no need to know which part of Nigeria she's from

Previously I send her money at will or when she asks but I noticed it was becoming too rampant and sometimes recursive, so I decided to place her on monthly allowances .

Another problem has boiled out she says she wants
30k per month so in 12 months (NVM) although to me its a bit better because previously am sure I send her more than 30k a month, ...

So please I want to know if its a good idea for one to place his GF on monthly allowances and how much is ideal I once insisted I slash her monthly allowance to 20 or 15k monthly but she nearly killed me

Some of my friends feel its a bad idea that it seems too formal like as if dating me is a job, she's 21 and am 23 , we are both in university tho I don't study in naija presently ...



Am sure some Elderly Folks may find this insipid am honestly sorry

Its neither a good or bad idea.

i did this for 11yrs though she did not initiate the idea but i latter felt it was a mistake as she got so used to it and wen my business had issues,it became a problem when i could not keep up.

the best a man should do is help your lady who u love n intend to marry set up a good business and make her fbcially independent.

porka:
It's called rocket science not sky rocket.

jLol sure i know..just realised i wrote sky rocket.

thanks

Please someone should help me out on this..?

Is it sky rocket to provide Nigerians with stable electricity supply,working refinerries and viable economy template for enterprenures?

Buhari should at least focus on the first two and leave all these talk talk.

GOD HELP US

What if his friend cant drive?

Litmus:
Because the Generals of the Nigerian army are not stupid. Sambisa is the perfect place for Terrorists, outside of hiding amidst civilians in towns. In Sambisa, they can set up HQ,which is impossible to do in Nigerian towns, especially if your ultimate aim is conquest and not terrorism. In sambisa the Terorist have the seclusion the Americans and French need to provide them requisite destabilisation distribution literature, plans and equipments.

The Nigerian military knew that such a place is were forces ranged against us could strike and wipe out the Nigerian army (especially if our army acted like the typical African army(which is how Chadian army acts) and rush in with everything on the backs of pickup trucks). Therefor Nigeria had to make lengthy plans for Sambisa forest. Nigerian army may ironically have benefited from their British military techniques, which has not served Nigeria well up to this point against fleet-footed terrorists. This deliberating approach, utilising UAV's, Reconnaissance planes ( ELINT), our satellite (NigComSat ) and Hunters and Special forces spying, takes time.



Nigeria is not a Joke Nation - the sooner people recorgnise and acsept this the sooner we can get on with proper Nation improvements.

I appreciate your historical,rethorical and ecclesiastical mombo jumbo but with due respect you have succeeded in confusing me more.

But if i want to understand your epistle,the question still remains that WHY ARE THEY NOW MAKING THIS MOVE ON SAMBISA FOREST when we had years to do same?

Why wait until this collosal damage?

THE BIG QUESTION IS...WHY IS IT NOW THAT THEY DIM IT FIT TO INVADE SAMBISA FOREST?

RoyalBlak007:


i doubt any nigerian girl will

What a big shame on Nigerian ladies for guys to conclude this way.

The truth is that some naija babes who are financially indepent or those without the leech atitude will stay justy that such are rear.

I met an igbo guy in a cab with his togolese wife and the way this guy was speaking about his phobia forr even the igbo girls as regards money,i began to fear for the future of many Nigerian ladies and very soom we just may see many Nigerian guys going outside to pick a wife who will love n stay with you regardless of your financial status.

I really fear for our ladies.

Mhizkel:
Those of you bashing the Op, remember he created this thread from his own perspective.. You also can create a thread and write otherwise..I respect the list tho! #Making sense
Thank God i'm yoruba

All he wrote may not be 100% right but in my opinion,he is right to a very large extent

freecocoa:
Ignorance is bliss I know dear.

Read something else outside that your bible please, unfortunately, the so called ordinances of God cannot put anyone in jail in the real world, so we can't use it as a yardstick to measure how people should live.

You should keep such conversations within the walls of your church, that's the only place it makes sense to some people.

No offence but is this coming from an athiest or someone who just lack regard for GODs words?

i expected a more rationale mindset but this is totally antagomistic and rebellious to GOD. i will hang it here.

gbassa:
Tell this so called 36 years old lady that she should not have a male companion since marriage is not important in her life.

MY POINT EXACTLY

No one is castigating anyone for been singlr no matter the age...People should just stop using those consolatry nd hypochritical words.

freecocoa:
All I have to say to you is, is that, morality is subjective, so you are not in the position to determine what is morally upright, so long as people aren't breaking any laws, then they are allowed to live however they deem fit, never forget that.

My place ke? which one is my own? i follow Gods words n d last time i checked..sex outside marriage is sin so going agnt that automatically breaks God ordinance.

For petes sake do u see all i wrote as my purpoted theory? Hell No. Im speaking as an ambassador of GOD words.

Watever rocks ur boat though..we all have choices.

freecocoa:
I'm sorry but how does any of what you wrote make sense, even to you?

What does sex nor companionship have to do with marriage? How does hypocrisy come into play here?

Sorry i forget that we are now in a world where people see sex and marriage as two different things but in the morally upright school of tots that i belong to...having sex with someone is juxstaposed to marriage so if you blive marriage is not necessary yet you find it cool hving sex with the opposite sex then that is a slutty lifestyle.

My opinion please..no need for harsh or insultive remarls.

freecocoa:
Happy birthday to a very beautiful and amazing woman, wishing you all you wish for yourself.


As for the ones talking about aging, beauty fading, finding a husband and whatnot.

It is only a natural process that someone ages, and as far as that goes! She's aging gracefully.

There is no law that says one mus get married, it's her life and she's happy, who de feck are you to demand she gets married? Marriage is not meant for everyone and it certainly is not a guarantee of anything in life.

I agree with your notion but that last paragraph is a familiar consolatary remarks made by ladies who seem to b hving a tough time getting a man to marry.

i usually tell women with this mindset that if marriage is not important then they shld also not make love to a man at all else their theory remains hypochritical and any lady who says marriage is not compulsory yet has a male companion is either a slut or she is outrightly clueless.

36 and still searching...God help her.

There is no perfect man or woman...

There will always be a reason to like and dislike people we meet in life no matter how many times we change partners.

a great union can only exist between two forgivers and those who can tolerate.

missclasssy:
Why is it that most guys think they are so smart, that they can break someone's heart and just move on like it's nothing?

Guys, why do most of you think that you can mess with the life of a girl and just ride off merrily into the sunset, and you still do the same with subsequent ladies?

Why do most of you enter a relationship having the mindset that you are going to just use a lady and move on, and you still do it and feel no remorse?

Don't you know that we are humans and we have feelings and we have emotions? Why do you toil with our hearts like it's your play field?
Why are most of you this heartless, why?

Most of you need to be tied up and burnt at a stake for the gross wickedness you show ladies, and I mean it.

Rubbish!

Se oro leyi?

See me see wahala o,OP abeg change that topic fast. FYI 90% of guys who treat ladies badly were taught by a lady.

Go do your research...its a boomerang situation...

DickDastardly:

Very true sire, but his caustic & fork tongued offsprings on Nairaland will still attack you in their charasteristic trademark approach to obvious truths.
Simply put, Buhari is in for a long rough ride with his fellow country men

He nailed it.

One succour i have is that Buhari will allow the seasoned technocrats like the VP and the rest to champion his course...he is known for that anyways.

Owliver:
ofcos I would love to marry quick if I can get someone who'll have to understand what I want and not pressure me. The reason am not taking any chances is because the average naija girl thinks differently so worst case scenerio is what I gave out I unlike an average naija guy don't believe marriage is key to happiness so am not really freaked but if I find someone of such(which is most likely not lol) mindset then why not.

If i say i dont understand then i will be fooling myself.

As a man with ample experience in life,i have had several experience and i can tell you first hand that most Nigerian ladies especially the ones who are not financially independent will give you serious issues if you insist on no job hunting policy.


So the bottomline is that if you truly want your lady to give you breathing space,ensure that she has her own viable source of income else...

Well Olwliver the truth is that you dont have to s

Owliver:
OP I agree with your post but you don't only get such from girls, even guys discourage someone. I am an aspiring entrepreneur and got a plan which could take longer due to low starting drive being a recent graduate. Talking to a group of guys weeks ago about settling down and I told them I would love to get married at maybe 35years old and they asked why wait 10years more since am already a graduate. and I told them I need to put things in place and wouldn't want a serious relationship for now since am in my mid 20s and You know how nigerian girl will be ringing marriage matter like towns' crier. These guys made lots of statements like, small pikin, immaturity, you wan old dey born... name them. Just because I need to accomplish something that seem unrealistic in their view point. well, that had no effect on my decision though. I still think poverty has done a bad job on we nigerians especially ladies lol, let me not even talk more on the ladies part. So in summary, guys also have such views but I agree its mostly common with our ladies

Well Olwliver the truth is that you dont have to shelve marriage at least from my experience,marriage does not stop you from achieving your goals but all you need is a lady that will support your dreams.

Not all Nigerian ladiies have the leech mindset so go on and achieve your goals and you must understand that most times,struggling attracts the woman we need in our lives while wealth attracts the women we want.

So go on and do your thing and i will advice you go for a very young lady of like 18 or 19 so that at least for the next 7 years therabout she wont bother u for marriage and that will allow u space to achieve your dreams but heaven helps you dont jilt her aftrwards.

Just follow ur dreams and who knows...you just might achieve your goal faster than you think...

All the best.

Finance minister promised to pay 100billion naira today to the marketters.
God help us

Nori:
the op implied that we ladies should always support guys when they want to be self employed, he made no exceptions. he didn't bother to ask why a lady might tell her guy to go and work instead that's why I gave those instances, she might have noticed some negative traits I listed so she saw the need for him to get a job.

Im so loving your direction of discussion and this is the interesting part.

It is not in your place to discard his idea no matter how stupid it sounds...yes as his lady you can advice and give your opinion but nvertheless if he insibsts that his idea is practicable then give him your support.

for instance your guy says he wants to start a business called stander and you say never simply because the business sounds stupid but in united states people make great income just by standing in line for people who cant wait on a queue.

there are many absurd businesses that can be professionalized so no matter how ridiculous his enterprenural plans may sound, just give him the benefit of doubt.

Nori:
funny enough I love guys who are entrepreneurs and talk very passionately and intelligently about what they want to do, guys with a clear vision about where they see themselves in some years to come. but the thing is I don't think many have what it takes to be an entrepreneur especially in this country where many businesses end up crumbling, its not for the faint hearted, its for those who are go-getters and very determined to succeed.

many young guys just want to be entrepreneurs but they don't know what it takes to become one, they think its easy , they just stay at home taking no action and telling people they are entrepreneurs with no clear vision about what they want. some just feel too big to work under somebody. or some are very unrealistic and living in a fantasy world. for you to take that big risk by quitting your job and being self employed you have to have a very good and realistic plan. cant take the risk with some of these "self employed'' guys roaming the streets.

Im proud of your intellectual prowess and we need intelligent contributions like this.

The first sign to know a guy who is purposeful is that he must be sure he is good at something then he must be true to a course n not dabbling into business for stomach reasons as in anywhere belle face.

If you have a guy who knows his onions then do all u can to support him.

IamOdin:
mehn,,how old are u??







It's only a 76yr old can say this


u just knacked d jackpot..they believe just that and i think that's why we have more break-ups and marriage divorce.Reasonable men go for wise girls and that's why u'll see a guy dump a so-called queen when he's ready for marriage.I'd prefer a wowoh with sumtin upstairs that can reason like a human being than marry miss america which will be a liability,behaving sheepishly and clueless in family matters..and most of all,no one iz gonn' eat beauty,it will fade even b4 u knw it,i wonder if they know this.


On our girls,u should know all of them are american wanna-be's..

I have many things to say but i don't want to derail d thread..afterall they got brains and if they can't make use of it let them dive into d abyss mehn,,ion care anymore.
A word is enuff 4 d thoughtful.

lol..

By June i will be marking my 4th decade on earth.

See friend a fool at 40 they say is a fool forever

I stand challenged on this fact..most Nigerian ladies are sorry case.

Have you observed the front page junks expecially when it comes to ladies? ok let me refresh yur your memory

Tonto dikeh flaunts naked body

Chika ike shows off cleavage

Juliet ibrahim flaunts sexy curves in bikini

I can go on and on and when i see stuffs like these i just wonder.

Please do a thourough check and go through threads of unequivocal relevance to ladies and you can bet that you will hardly see a lady comment and the most of those who do usually write short codes like

lol,
wow,
smiles

Then i began to wonder if the crop of ladies we have now has any grey matter.

Aneg let me just stop here..God help our ladies.