₦airaland Forum

Mogidi:
Re-painting the house for another stooge to occupy, the Tinubu story continues in Lagos, what a shame.

By 2019 Lagosians would have permanently leased that house to the Tinubus.
2019 sees senator Remi Tinubu occupying same abode, the saga continues.

Tinubu would rank as the longest serving governor in Nigeria, ruling Lagos through proxies and stooges since 1999.

The question i keep asking is this...Are we not seeing improvements in Lagos irrespective of Tinubu's Godfather-ism.

ronald4lif:
It's funny how we all claim not to be in America when it's of convenience to us but claim otherwise when it doesn't suit us. Most American women are independent and don't rely on their men for their hairdo, shopping etc like most of you do in Nigeria. They are not leeches and parasitic like lots of you.

MouthAction has nothing to do with being an American or any particular part of the world. MouthAction is a form of sex that aid the maximum satisfaction of couple and enjoyed by two during sex. If you don't like it doesn't mean other girls don't. It's a choice after all.

Please come have my dinner...you nailed it.

chowlade:
Some don't like it and will never like it. if she doesnt like it, you cannot force her now. dats d point

I'm yet to se a lady that does not like to be given mouth action especially a married lady. Even those wh0o do not like to give it love to receive. Its all about making her feel comfortable and she will be addicted to it.

It is perfectly ok within the confines of marriage and i can't marry a lady who does not love to be pleasured in that manner even if i try to cope with not receiving it.

chowlade:
1. They wants their Woman to give them a BJ, Dick sucking, Ass licking e.t.c. Listen up guys all the Mamas of Africa of the ancient including your Mothers and grand Mothers did not suck Dicks. Cause we are not in America, but we are in Nigeria. so this annoying traits you watched on films from the Western countries(are from Sodom & Gomoras) are not in a typical african Woman spiritual being beside God is not in support of it.

2.They think relationship is all about sex. My friend if you are one, expect ur heart to be broken multiple times before you change the notion

3.Smoking/Drinking When you know youself as a periodic smokers/drinker, you should date/court a woman of your type. some hides it and impregnate a woman before they come out of their shell as a pot head husband, leaving the innocent woman in her nightmare.

4.They kick there woman out of her matrimonial homes whenever there is dispute in their relationships knowing fully she has no place to go.

5.They takes unclad pictures of their woman and leaks it on social media. in America is a felony.

6.Cheating on their woman while trying to prevent their woman from doing the same.

7. Intentionally Hurting the woman and they will start to watch her reactions

8. Tellling all sort of lies to get a woman. Don't they know that what's hidden today will be disclosed tomorrow?

9. Most Nigerian man don't cook or assist their woman in the kitchen hmm.u leave d house duties to your woman and you think you are the man(serious concern) why

10. Lastly, Disobedience. They don't take corrections from a woman.
Pls add yours

I agree with all except the bold part. As long as she is my wife,i see absolutely nothing wrong in giving and recieving mouth action.

They do not care about knowing her pedigree.


Have you wondered why some people have this way of not dioscussing their failed marriages or courtship? its because most of them have nothing worthwhile to say.

When we meet a new person who have been in a previous affair,many of us just start a new affair with such without asking deep questions and most times we realize too late after a recurrence of what led to the former breakup.

If we meet a new person and we are really interested in making such part of our lives,is it not just normal to really know the past no matter how unpleasant it may be at least you will have an idea of how to make the affair better.

Why do you think employers want to know your history of jobs? why do they ask for references? and why do they ask for years of experience?

You can never have a good plan of where you are going with someone when you have no clue of where the person is coming from.

As a lady you meet a man you see as WOW yet this guy killed his ex yet you have no idea of his past.

Many men have lost their lives by going into relationships with married ladies without even having a clue that these ladies are married.

Many ladies have ended up getting pregnant for a married man because they foolishly believed every poo the guy told them and how many men have fallen into the hands of evil women thinking they are angels of light

In my opinion,its not out of place to investigate the past of whoever you want to spend your life with and this is why marriages of our mothers lasts because the parents of those days do a thorough investigation not just on the bride or groom to be but deep into their genealogy.

Many will still say this writeup is trash but this is my frank opinion. INVESTIGATE BEFORE YOU COMMIT YOURSELF TO THAT PERSON.

pak:
You seem to be a wise man.
This even applies to relationships too, to an extent. When it comes to character, more often than not humans are like leopards who never change their spots

Exactly...if you get to know why some men or ladies broke up with their ex whether marriage or dating, you will run far from such people but when everyone keeps mum on the matter anf you met someone who was iin a prebious addair saying it did not work out you just waive it aside and start a new affair with suchh just to face the same situation.

Most times when issues of breakups occur in marriage people tend to keep silent over it.

Them man says i don't want to talk about it and the woman says the same and then they go their separate ways and probably remarries then the ugly nature that prom[ted the first breakup resurfaces maybe from the man or the woman and the new partner will say if only i knew...

The truth is that if we all can be very meticulous to know what lewd to the breakup of the present lady or man we are with presently,it will save us all avoidable headaches and heartaches because we would have known exactly what went down and what to do top prevent a recurrence.

bruno419:
She wants you to recharge her phone, pay her hair bills, flex, go shopping, yet she says she is keeping for her husband

My question is, what will the guy benefit?

MARRY HER AND GET ALL THE BENEFITS.

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booqee:
you're really shameless.. well its ur life.. keep snooping and analysing...

byeeee

I cant ever remember using derogatory words on you ever since we began this discusio so just take those baseless remarks back and hold your peace.

It is believed that it is best for men to keep mum when ladies start to rant but i have always looked at it from another angle that if we continue to kep mum and allowing you people continue with insolence then how eill the world be a better place?

I have observed keenly your unwarranted idiosyncrasy towards my personal opinion and i keep wondering.

Please this is a public forum and if you can not discuss politely i guess its better you don't at all.

I will stop here.

booqee:
pls stop already! You're even proud of your profession...

Don't misquote me.. the word 'past' as used here is relative. so, ok when did it happen? isn't it past? or is it in the present or future?

yeah what she did is wrong..but who made you the prince of judgement? we all av done bad things at one point in our lives, no matter how small.. and so that doesn't give us to right to judge other people.. it simply smirks of an hypocritic holier-than-thou-attitude..

just leave ppl alone with their lives and stop digging up evidences like it pays you salary, as long as they're not hurting you or the society.. you really should engage yourself in more productive activities? let the family deal with it..hian!

What profession is that?

Obviously you are not a communicator and i mean an intelligent and opinionated one else you wont be having issues over my opinion about a subject of general discuss so please just pretend you never saw that post and learn to maintain proper and unbiased stands on issues.

I am still finding the condemnatory comment i made on any these people rather than stating the obvious that divorce of a present marriage should be done before a new one is contracted and rather than overlook my comment or make morally justifiable remarks, you are here attacking me as if what they did was app-laudable.

Please just free me.

ebukaOtika:
Then i don expect you to overrate yourself ,,,, less the pride ,,.and people will speak of your personality bro ,,,,

Last time i checked also ,,. You are entitled to your own opinion but your opinion should be Matured enough and without flaws.,,,,

Please permit me to leave you now ok ,,,, i've got things to do in the Barracks.

You are on your own.

Bye

ebukaOtika:
I will not take it serious with the insults you are spewing here ,,,,but like i told you ,,,, mind your business and let them be atleast for there family. I dont support Divorce but wen matters come to worse , there is no other option left bro ,,,,


Again check well and you will see you are the one attacking me and my generation ,,. "argumentum ad hominem"


So please too much of everything is not good if not , you will find it very difficult to go along with people because you will forever investigate and police them for life ,,,, and for your wife ,,,, i pray God will help her understand to live you you in Peace and Harmony without Agony.

Bye.

Hope all is well bro because im kindda wondering where the insults emanated from.

I am a well opinionated person with lots of decorum and a proper one at that so please go check the next door and bleeping leave me for petes sake. The last time i checked this is a G-rated public forum where we all have rights to our opinion.

booqee:
My dear if you like use a quarter of a nanosecond, this shii is really a shameless thing to do.. there are better things to do than digging up pple past.. sounds boring and sad

Do you know the meaning of that word "past"

You got married and have not divorced your spouse then you marry another and you call your first marriage past?

I am beginning to suspect your personality.

ebukaOtika:
Clap for yourself ,,. So for your mind now you don old abi ,,.? Well pardon me for insulting you ,,.its not my type tho ,,,, but i will advice you stop finding fault in people ,,,, what if they've resented or even changed for the better ,,? You will still be there reading of their past history even when they are still alive ,,,, i wonder wen we will read yours ,,,, because i think your type believe to be too too perfect thereby being too Judgemental at any given circumstances.,,,, it is advicable to first remove the log of wood in your eye so that you can see properly to be able to help remove the speck in your brother's eye,,,, the Bible said so ,.,,,




So pls Be Matured now that your are Old. Goodday

Cc Otikigba 1.

If there is one thing i will never understand here..its the fact that you guys are attacking me for stating the obvious and there is no where i judged these people other than the obvious..."they were and even still married to other people"

Now please tell me if this is normal for you to be legally married to someone yet get married to another even when it was you who initiated the breakup?

I am really disturbed by the mindset of people these days and here you are worrying me over pictures rather than address the decadence.

Something is fundamentally wrong with our generation

Osirimononaye:
U need spek, to view crystal-clear

Sorry i forgot that every man has his spec so those things don't impress me.

booqee:
as in ehn i tire for the guy ooo... imagine spending your day poking around for people past and even keeping pictures for proof.. very funny.. toks2008 i bow for you oh....

This is why my IQ keeps baffling me.

No offense intended but apparently you are ignorant of the potentials of the internet and search engines because it took me less than 30secs to get these pics from the internet and paste it here so if you think i waste spaces on my hard drive storing poos then think again.

Its about Intelligence.

Osirimononaye:
She got everything, don't knw abt the character though.

Everything you want i guess...because to me i no see anything.

Martins301:
Na so all the ladies dey talk o. .before marriage they are excellent lovers, after marriage dey turn to excellent boxers and fighters. . .I believe u sha

And if you come marry the type wey dey speak grammar wella you are on your own cos na ur head she go pratice oral english and eloquence.....how dare you,inconsequential fool and a sorry case of the male gender,i loathe the day i ever set my eyes on u and infact you are the most uncomely,nefarious,gregarious...

Story for the gods.

My lady slaps me once i simply telll her that im sure it was spasm of the hand but must never happen again then she does it again....she will choose one of these..pack out or get the beating of her life.

Arrant nonsense.

There are always 3 sides to the story of divorce...
1.His version 2.Her version 3.The truth.

ebukaOtika:
So this is what you go around doing right ,,? Carrying peoples past mistakes like popcorn and grandnut huh ,,,,? You better stop it and stop finding FAULT peoples life and mind your business ,.,,, Tatafo. Gbegborun , Gbefila.

Obvious you are a garbage in garbage out type of person but unfortunately im not. I am highy objective,intuitive and inquisitive which has really helped me in many ways.

It is people like you who end up in jail or six feet down simply because u were foolish not to scrutinize facts before maling a decision

And for the records...i read a lot nd people who read a lot definitely know so much...please grow up.

Even mercy aigbe... The list is endless.

I really feel for some ladies.

http://www.nigeriafilms.com/news/9376/9/being-a-second-wife-was-never-my-dream-but--actres.html

lepasharon:
So this guy has a history

There is no crime marrying a another a lady though...such is life provided the previous marriage did not work out and divorce properly but its just funny that ladies who we think are so hot tend to be settling for already married men.

Even Tiwa salvage.

lepasharon:
He was married before?

This is no wishful talk,,,pictures dont lie

I will never understand the ways of women.

As hot as she seems to be i still don't understand why she has to share abi na snatch another woman's husband and worse still displaying her shamelessness on social media.

The girl sef too sweet for this kind task and maybe she was stylishly trying to win the dude's heart been a fine guy and as i heard the guy is married so no point....I just they think o

Good for the sake of her image.

Baseless reasons.

One reason for unfaithfulness is LACK OF COMMUNICATION.

If you communicate effectively i guess any possible reason will be addressed.

Just stay faithful to one partner.

Kayworld26:
Interesting nature indeed ....She even said she doesnt know if she will go beyond Lokoja

Meanwhile i heard others have joined the trek from Lokoja (that's the guy's hometown according to him)

Nigerians and their follow follow nature and worst still they are not doing it for the passion but for the possibility of cash reward.

How i wish the guy can maintain just himself and the lady.

I hate follow follow.

Anyi3:
Uuuhmm who is Toni Payne?

Well GEJ wasn't told he murdered his daughter on national tv. Besides the Man/woman called Toni Payne should come to nairaland and see what people say about Buhari.

I think she needs to get her facts right...

Buhari has recieved more insults in just months before election than GEJ recieved in 5years.