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craziebone:
Also, what manner of man commends a post that makes no sense to him? You are a confused idi..ot!

craziebone:
nigger, do us a favour and get the Bleep off this thread already!!!

What is your fucking business if a lady wants to go to HER OWN BOYFRIEND'S house to have sex? Are you interested in seeing a sextape of them? C'mon, tell us you mysogynistic hypocrite!!! Why don't you just mind your fucking business already!!!

Lol at someone, who at 26 is not married, not a virgin anymore and is probably getting ready to go back to the sexworker he picked from the brothel on his way home after having a frustrating day at his low pay job, to have the 5th round of sex in just 3hours, lecturing me about sexual decency.

when i called you a hypocrite, i was actually on point. Just to let you know that for your own good and in order not to confirm yourself more as a mysogynist and hypocrite, you better just abandon this thread and go to sleep.

Also, what manner of man commends a post that makes no sense to him? You are a confused idi..ot!

themodernman:
"This same lady will still be forming levels & claiming decency asking for expensive wedding when sne ought to just move in quietly into the home of the man that will manage her terribly used body"

I no fit laugh oh!!! This guy sounds so pained, is so funny & outright INSECURE...men I was once in your shoes...you av a lot of growing up to do boy!

Abeg dont even think of getting married anytime soon oh!

craziebone:
why don't this illitrate just shut up already!!!

My dear you need to get sound education before commenting on topics beyond your intellectual capacity. Who told you that a lady enjoying sex or not has got anything to do with the size of your pe.ni.s?

And the last time i checked, men are not the ones who file for divorse most times at least not for infidelity. Women are.

When i said your post reeks mysogyny, i wasn't telling lies. Again you tend to put the blame of failed marriages on women having slept with many men. How about women being worried about not being good enough in bed for her huby who must have had so many women before and may begin to compare? But your mysogynistic mind was completely silent on that. It is not a must to coment o topics especially the ones you know nothing about. I think you will make this thread better if you just shut up already!

And no, not everybody believes in God in the christian sense and i want you to live with it! You do not expect such people to do things your fucking way!

Lastly, you want to pass off as someone who is holy but i am surprised words like "dick", "Bleep" etc are comin out of your filthy mouth!

themodernman:
Pained niccur!

You won't be ds pained if you got d chance to flow wiv d trend.

craziebone:
my dear, if you get pissed reading this, then get off the thread!

Who are you to tell people when to have sex?

How is sex sacred? Please tell us. And whose rule it is that we all must have sex only after marriage?

Honestly, your post reeks embarrassing level of mysogyny! Your post goes to show that the whole idea of 'virginity' or whatever you call it is all about blaming women, not being considerate of women and their sexuality, denying that women have a plight and that has to be expressed. Most of all, you post reeks hypocricy!!!

You said you are going to tell your girls all those bullshit, but why don't you tell your boys the same thing? Oh, girls are the only ones who should bear the burden of keeping the society 'moral'? But don't you think that this burden you are puting on them is unfair, especially when they are not the ones who make the first move to innitiate sex? How do you want to heap the responsibility of stoping something on the person who's not causing it?

If pro-virginity crusaders like your hypocritical self are interested in keeping the society 'moral', i think you should focus on threatening the boys rather than the innocent girls. Why don't you go and ask the one who most times innitiate sex to stop initiating it? Maybe at that time, we would have cut sexual activities more by over 75percent. But you hypocrites and disgraceful mysogynists can't see this.

I have never seen anti-premarital sex activists condemn boys and hold them accountable for the prevailing sexual behaviour of the society. They always blame the girls who most times do not innitiate these activities.

I wonder how you hypocrites want to achieve chastity among women without actively encouraging chastity among men. Imagine this hypocrite called Toks2008 threatening his girls that he isn't going to fund his girls' wedding if he finds out they are not virgins. What if they lost their hymen to raaape? And how about threatening your boys the same way?

And no, not every man will feel like a king if he finds out that he is the first one to sleep with a lady. Only shallow men who look at superficial things will. What if the ladies who are 'virgins' do masturbate? Would you still call them holy and pure? Why can't people begin to value the most important rather placing value on a skin fold which can reconstruct it self and can be reconstructed?

Toks2008:
Bro honestly if i begin to elucidate on this matter page go full.
What stops a lady to get married at 25 or even 23? Economy situation and unrealistic expectations.
Our parents will ask you what does your boyfriend do?tell them he is still struggling and they say NOOOO he cant take care of you and our ladies are also quick to say "my guy is not ready for marriage because he has not..."
But this same guy who cant take care of you bleeps you to stupor and when he is probably ready will go for another lady.
These are some reasons why our ladies tend to give in because of their sexual drive. I was a virgin perse till i was 26 and tell me why a lady cant be a virgin till 25?
If a lady falls in love with a man and the guy is ready to start sleeping with you then he should as well be ready to marry you as long as he has a roof over his head and struggling and the girls parent should encourage both parties to do a wedding they are capable of and whenever teh money comes they can do a bigger and more expensive wedding.
Let me just stop her abeg.

Viciyus:
You go hear bride price of about 500k for just one stup1d girl were men don see her yansh tire.


I don swear say if I go marry naija girl,
Na 1k I go pay for brides price.
Take it or leave it

TheChosenOne1:
I understand your point from A-Z....what if she did have sex?..will u dis-own her by that?...don't let us forget there are exceptions to your write up and we humans aint perfect...

Princephelar:
U very ryt bro. D most painful part is d unsoberness of dis generation in wat JOSEPH called SIN... I jez dnt undastand d point wea we started losing our moral values... Tnx to d movies and music vdioz... LUBISH lik u said... And I kno somonez gonna definitely av ish wit dese two comments. say somin lik "itz dea lives and deaz freedom of expression" bt guess wat dt sametin applies and dtz why I can voice my opinion witout ur persmision (to whom it may concern)

#LifezTooShortForFrivolity

TheChosenOne1:
if they end up getting disvirgined before they get married...how will u know?...will u put rod inside their pussssy?

MrsChima:
Fornication is the oldest verb since beginning of time! Hell...those virgins back in 1600's were not innocent!

wristwatch:
Who dem 4 marry before?

bukatyne:
A cheating husband has also planned the act and How to escape before starting.

bukatyne:
No, he won't

By God's grace

Else that is the death of the marriage

bukatyne:
You mean an adulterous husband's sugarcane just fell into a wet pussy? No prior plan to it?

The earlier We treat an. Adulterous husband /wife. The same way, the better

Even look at the Old Testament that seemed partial to women: a man. & woman caught in adultery had the same punishment.

A cheating husband is NOT better than a cheating wife.

A cheating husband has also planned the act and How to escape before starting.

Godownchild:
I love ur first post, about the holy spirit being in charge.
But what of the case of bf/gf relationship.
The boy cheaating on the girl, thou the have MouthAction but have not penetrated the vjay cos the girl is against that but does the oral to make him happy since he love sex and said sex is the best tin on earth.
And the girl saw unclad pics of the guy with anoda girl as the were haaving sex puttint d dick in her mouth et al..on his phone by mistake,and he apologised, the friends also apologised on his behalf,
What should the girl do in this case

bukatyne:
What do you say about a man who leaves his wife because of adultery?

What is the hope that the next wIfe will not change?

tohpahz:
So u r saying d wife shud leave d husband or what??

grad2012:
my broda how i wish u men can just stay just for one person, even after a woman is married she has to be prayerful.

jamex93:
Hahahahahahahahah

oboy this light green pass mango leaf

I swear,

full current light na e she dey pass for u so

tohpahz:
Since your wife thinks u r innocent.. that means the wrk is reduced kinda..
Jes try to reassure her..
And please block that gal/lady /nurse
..

MEILYN:
Jonathan has fulfilled what stupid mission? For almost 6years the 1diot took us for granted and you say he was sent by God? God must be a corrupt and a wicked man if I should agree with this church's logic.

When the righteous rules, the people rejoice. Jonathan's government was the opposite. This church should just shut up and preach what they are supposed to preach.

Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

ianq:
@op, allow me to share a lil insight- any woman, no matter her race, or her religious inclinations for that matter, or her chronological age, social status and credence, academic qualification and achievement in career, or her geographical background and moral upbringing, or her physical attributes and, I daresay, her marital status; any woman is readily willing to submit to you if you have attained being a mere 53.8569% of the man u are formed to be.