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Idowuogbo: Awwww...all na shakara! She go soon locate ur GPRS.Haba! No b Oga Tokunbo aka bedroom gladiator alias d guy with d golden gun again? Bros, Chillax! I go drop ur matter along wiv my prayer request dis coming Sunday..she must pack come back by fire or force.

Thank you sis. Its not easy o, i just dey wonder say how this girl go leave me go upon the pepper wey i dey show am but when she confessed two days ago that she is missing the massage i usually give to her, i got so relaxed that YES she is feeling my absence and that is when i knew she is not really sleeping with another man because except the man is a foolish man, he suppose dey massage her join.... lol!

Jokes asides, the bottom line is that love conquers all. Before we could even chat this way, it was not easy at all for the first 2 months so i still believe that if she is truly mine, she will come back so oga OP think again o. Cutting off the head is never a solution to a lingering headache.

Shebbi your wife is still willing to stay? my wife told me 4 months ago that she will rather die than come back to me just to tell me this month that she did not really mean it that way so you see that Love and patience is vital. It takes two forgivers to make a relationship work.

If i start to write what really heated up our separation then you will come to realize that our case is similar just that i am yet to confirm whether my wife has slept with another man or not and im not even interested in that.

So please forgive her IF SHE IS TRULY REPENTANT.

biolabee: Wow.. nice ish.. may your dreams come true bro..

OP please forget divorcing your wife and accept it was a repeated mistake and move on with her. Just do your self this favor and its very important, ask her how she wants it and what she wants so that you can always please her. All women are created to be monogamous yet very sensitive so until you really understand how to continually touch that soft spot, she may always get tempted to wander about. And im not talking about intimacy maters alone but in all other areas.

biolabee: shon sir! I am definitely a Learner

Bottom line, talk to your wife, some women love been kissed in a particular way, some love pre-intimacy for a long time and different ladies have different ways of letting off their hidden pleasure so discuss with your partner and understand this thoroughly.

some women will not cheat if they are really getting good satisfaction in bed. Every married man must make his wife squirt without minding the bedsheets getting wet. If you can achieve this, forget your wife ever cheating on you except she is.......

Idowuogbo: Ye! Eti mi! Oga Tokunbo!!!!! Baba werey ni man yi o! Lmaooo! True stories...

Yes o, that's why my run away wife still confessed two days ago on fb chat say she misses my "massage" as she no wan talk am finish.

yoddy01: Bros e, we are not seeking sex lessons here o . There are kids on this forum o.

Some threads should be rated Adults only. Lol!

logica: It's your case that proves my point once again that knowing your spouse for ages has no bearing on how long the marriage will last. Even after 13 years, you are still speaking of "incompatibility"?

My brother no mind my sweet wife, she is so beautiful that she just got carried away and you know, she must blame it on something but nevertheless, she is only human.

The funniest part is that she claimed she was never carried away by another man but i caused the separation.

Anyway, i still love her so well and i wil be ready to forgive her if she retraces her steps and if i wait a little more and she still stays away, i will gladly move on.

WhyMe222: Wow! So touching. Life oh life. You have touched one of my biggest fears. What guarantee do I have the next woman will be better than her? It might not be in terms of cheating but she might have her own faults that will make cheating seem like a child's play. I have also thought of not remarrying but the fear of growing old alone and lonely prevails over not remarrying. Sincerely it would have been easy for me to forget it and assume it was temptation if it happened just once and also if I did not stumble into evidences that what they shared permeates the S€X they shared. To add to that, these things were happening 4 - 5 months after the birth of our adorable daughter. Where I come from, it is sacrillage. I am at a loss of which way to go. I wish I could find and press a delete button to wipe it all away. Going on a cheating spree too is not an option (at least at the moment) because every woman at this point has the mark on their forehead. God help me.

Let me give you a hint.

Call her and sit her down for a real heart to heart talk.

Just maybe there is something she really wants that is lacking. We men must really know how to make her women happy in all areas.

I laughed my head off when my wife wrote to me that the only thing she missed is the massage i usually give to her but i know she is missing much more.

We are all adults here so please pardon me to tell you this, do crazy things to her in bed like licking her snail, explore her G spot, make her squirt and many more because women love good sex so really talk to her.

And anytime you make love to her, do it with serious vendetta by doing it real good always trying to prove to her that you are better.

But the bottom line is that you need to move on, forgive her and in no time GOD who sees your heart will make you forget. Stop bothering yourself about whether she had it 100yimes or once with another man.

[quote author=*Semuhle*Baby*]I"m sorry but i dont understand some men. Instead of sending her away, could you not perhaps listen to her and see what she is feeling? What if she decides not to come back? Hmmm[/quote]If this post is referring to me then maybe i should send you a copy of the fb chats where you will see series of posts appealing to her to retrace her steps but you see, sometimes this love thing must be tested. If you love someone and the person wants to go, try to make that person stay but if that partner insists, allow him/her to go, if they love you truly, they will come back but if they don't come back believe hey were never meant to be part of your life and move on.

See, the fear of GOD conquers all. I am an extremely attarctive young man but the fear of GOD in me will not just allow me sleep around with ladies.I have tried all i can to get her back and the last post i sent to her 2 days ago is to either retrace her steps or stay put but i will not force it. You don't need to beg someone to give you a space in their lives, if they love you enough, they will create one for you.

So i still advice you OP, forgive and GOD will help you forget.

devour129: you are a great man and you will be in my prayers this night.may God heal your family too.so many forces fighting marriages these days.

I really need your prayers o. To think that as a believer i have remained faithful to her right from the day i met her in 2002 till date,these 4 months have been hell,and everyday i doubt if i will not fall into temptation, but its the fear of GOD that have been keeping me.

I cant imagine myself wooing another lady just to get intimate with her when my heart is with another lady. I really need you to pray that she comes back home before a colossal damage occurs because once i start seeing another lady, i may not find it easy to break the lady's heart because my stubborn wife is back.That will be the height of foolishness hence i become polygamous against my wish. GOD help me.

Thanks

OP Let me give you a true advice.

I am a married man, i met my wife when she was 19, made her a woman, at 25 i married her now at 30 she says she is disconnected from me because of incompatibility issues and i kept wondering if i have been pretending all thee years so i sternly told her that she is simply carried away and that whenever her brain settles she can come back home provided she has not defiled herself with another man. For about 4 months now she has been staying with her sis.

Now get this straight, even if she sleeps with another man and she realizes her mistakes and comes back to me, i will forgive her and move on like nothing ever happened. You know why?

What is the guarantee that the next lady i will marry will not do worse things? and what is the assurance that the new lady have not slept with the whole men in Nigeria.

Wake up man, she is your wife. the question you should ask yourself is:

1. Is she a good wife to you?
2. Has he always made you happy?
3. Is she worth forgiving considering what you guys have been through together?
4, Is she genuinely repentant?

If all these answers are positive abeg forgive her if she is sincerely sorry.


See, the only difference between a man and a woman are the genitals and some hormones, they can also get carried away like we men and i believe if it was you who defiled the marriage bed you will ask her to forgive you abi? Abeg forgive your wife and pray to GOD to help you mend your broken heart.

I have been married for 6 years now so my advice is worth considering.

Hmmm, Adultery,Adultery,Adultery. I am so so confused here.

I am equally married but separated from my wife at the moment. Reason? Incompatibility as she Claimed but i simply told her she is carried away by another man which she denied vehemently and presently staying with here sis.

Though i don't know whether she is seeing another man at the moment but the mare taught of her with another man drives me crazy so i can imagine your case knowing that the act really happened.O gosh.

Asking you to forgive her seems ok but you definitely can't forget. Each time you touch her, kiss her and make love to her the flashes must come no doubt. I really feel for you and i believe GOD will help you in making your decision.

But whatever happens, Love forgives all things.

mysticgal: ị keep reading aliko's story over and ọver and i kind of wonder,"how strong his determination is"i realy want to b lyk him"a model"

I am happy for him and i wish him greater success. But nevertheless let us all pray that GOD should send a dantata to our lives so that we can also get the support required to get to our promise land.

Dangote is not different than most of us but giving the right support, he utilized it and today the story is different..

I am 200% certain that most of us reading this would have become a multimillionaire today if we have someone to support us financially at one point or the other.

So lets pray to GOD to bring a dantata(Helper) into our lives.

Imagine getting a loan that huge in those days to pay back anytime he is ok.Chai!

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I can see the OP is a boy and not a man.

Real men don't say a lady is fine until she has the complete features to be called that name talking about curves in the right places. That is what makes a lady fine. All i can see is a pretty lady which is just about the face.

Lets have her full body picture before i make further comments.

coputa: Courtship is a period when both partners pretend to be a nice and better person....they try to outdo one another in the game of deceit.....after marriage they begin to show the monster in them.....marriage is meant to complement one another,tolerance and making amends....

It depends on the duration of courtship. I recommend minimum of 3years. It will be very hard to pretend for this long especially when you both spend ample time together and not funny unrealistic far distant affair.

Durchmann: I understand what forgiveness means but i think it is given to someone whose actions demand such. I considered all these and so much before i made my decision.
Besides, i don't intend going into another marriage for any reason whatsoever. I prefer the single life for now.

Cool down bro.

I am also a married man but my wife and i have been separated for about 4 months now and the reason is incompatibility according to her not me.

We met 12 years ago and married about 6yrs back. Nevertheless i don't wish for a divorce an even till till seconds ago we still chatted and im still asking her to come back.

Marriage is a union between two forgivers. See Bro, aproko dey sweet but the end is destruction. To be a single man gives us that feeling of freedom to look for a firmer boobs but believe me its not worth it.

Ever since i met my wife 12 years ago, i have never seen the undies of another lady because i fear GOD and love her and even for these over 3 months we have been separated, im still without any lady despite having crazy hard on every now and then BECAUSE ADULTERY REMAINS ADULTERY WHICH EVER EXCUSE YOU GIVE TO COMMIT IT AND REMAINS A SIN..

It takes the fear of GOD and a forgiving heart to make any relationship work so think again and reverse your steps on divorce. I am not just writing trash but i am also experiencing a potential divorce case so there is no better person to advice you than myself. And it is this situation im going through that made me write that piece on marriage.

Durchmann: NICE! You make think about calling my wife back even though i've settled for a divorce already.
Anyway, my mind is made up. I just hope others can get the real message in this piece of yours.
It will save them a whole lot of time and resources...

Show me a perfect marriage and i will show you two pretenders.

There is no perfect marriage and there will never be but it takes TOLERANCE, SELFLESSNESS,PATIENCE FORGIVENESS and most of all the FEAR OF GOD to make any relationship work.

To make a marriage work, two people from different backgrounds, different ideologies, different dreams need to understand each other and believe me, it takes a life long process to acquire this understanding of each other.

I have always pondered over this lie from the pit of hell and i hear most couples that are divorced using this as an excuse. IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES. o gosh!

Look here friends, if you like change spouse every year,there will and must always be irreconcilable differences.

There is no marriage that can not work except both parties are not willing to make it work. Even if your husband/wife suddenly turns violent and it becomes a matter of life and death, then simply involve the authorities, get separated from him/her and go on your kneels and pray to GOD to change him/her. Divorce is not always the solution to a troubled marriage.

Whether you are a christian or a Muslim, GOD hates divorce.Malachi 2:16 "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel.

But if you are a man or woman and you have truly done all you can to save your marriage and your partner insists on divorce then let him/her go and you can marry another person, there is no sin in that.

1 Corinthians 7:15 But if the unbelieving partners leave, let them go. Under these circumstances a Christian man or Christian woman is not bound [by a marriage vow]. God has called you to live in peace.

On the final note, there is no perfect man/woman and there is no perfect relationship. Yoruba says "ori bibe ko ni ogun ori fi fo" meaning cutting off your head is not the solution to a lingering headache.

Lets trust GOD to lead us through troubling times in our marriages.

Hope this helps.

She try but my wife fine pass am.

Pipsland78: Yeah I opened this thread so people could upload their live accounts and not just give tips, talk about analysis and make false claims of making hundreds of pips daily.

Any trader who cannot support his or her claim with uploaded live account statement is simply lying.

Very true but you know what? Some people still think this business is a child's play hence they make mockery of themselves and bringing ridicule to people like us who have taking up this business as part of our vocation.

This is hy Seun will remain vindicated. Now get this straight. Showing off cut and paste statement is a ridicule to every one here.

We have professional monitoring sites that show accurate in-depth details of any trading history over a very long period of time. We have fxbook topping the lists of monitoring sites and many others.

If you cant use any of these sites to show proof of profitability over at least 3/6 months minimum duration then please keep mum.

Pipsland78: Why is it that any forex trader who decides to open his own thread gets attacked by other forex traders? Must we all join the "forex trade alerts" thread? That thread is full of fakers and losers who only boast with no proof of their claims, so I prefer to have mine where forex trading is made more practical and people can actually relate with it - enough of those abstract terminologies.

With due respect bro, i don't think you are any different at this point in time until you show real time proof of consistent profit with utmost transparency and not cut and paste..

Toks2008: ok ok, lets just assume im wrong that you need Jesus as your savior to make it to heaven. What do you stand to lose if you die and realize this? Absolutely nothing.

But what if im right that You need to accept Jesus as your savior to enter paradise or aljonah? You have a whole eternal life to lose in hell but a whole lot to gain.

So i believe it is wise to carry a spare Tyre if driving out even if you eventually did not make use it because it just might come in handle. Just a funny allegory though but reasonable. Think about it.

Think about it.

Sholay made me cry. Not listed here.

When amtab died after the coin became totally washed.


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I guess i was 13 then.

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kulyie: Please leave single ladies with numerous unsolicited advice.any lady that will marry will marry any one that wont marry,so be it...shooooo una no dey taya.1o things every single lady must know,1o advice to nigerian ladies,1o this,1o that.issshhhh

Thats all.

I had a bad feeling this was coming. RIP

Friends, the vanity of life is so obvious. I hope he makes eternal bliss which is far more important than all the treasures of this world.

chikeorji123: Hello Toks2008
What u said is true nothing but the truth!..these exactly what l"m trying to inform our ladies @ THREAD FOR SINGLE LADIES set up by our sister Carmy.Most ladies u see above 30plus miss their chances of getting married on time b/c they believe time is on their side or the suitor is not up to their class,not yet ready for marriage,l'm still schooling,she perseve he's not rich.,.Some ladies might be in a relationship that may not yeild any result closing their mind on someone more serious to marry her.l still believe once a lady is above 19 to 27yrs a suitor must have approach her for marriage!..97% of our single ladies today will not deny that..sorry for long epistle,more is even coming.

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