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texaco1: donors , i think that must have been sorted out before arriving at the price .

yes. But they are not to mention it but should be kept secret. But i believe not less than 5m should go for the donor if its just one kidney.

You guys are getting something wrong.

There is great silence over where the donor comes from.

See, i just lost a friend because he has no donor for his transplant. It is against the law to use monetary coaxing to get a donor but believe it or not, the donor of this kidney(s) for OJB should be smiling home with not less than 5million each if they are two.

So for someone to say 100k$ is too much may not understand this side of the treatment.

Garlic And Kidney Disease

Generally speaking, garlic is beneficial for most cases with kidney disease.

-it helps improve immune system. As we know that more than 95% of kidney diseases are related to immune system and this is why kidney disease usually reoccur after cold or infection. Garlic consumption helps boost immune system and prevent the relapse of kidney problem.

-Delay the development of Kidney Disease. Garlic is a good resource of antioxidants which help eliminate damaging particles known as free radicals that may contribute to the development of these medical conditions.

-Lower high blood pressure. As kidney disease develops, it may cause high blood pressure. Garlic may effect modest reduction of blood pressure.

-It works as diuretic. Garlic is natural diuretic which help eliminate salt or sodium and water from your body by forcing your kidneys to put more sodium into your urine.

-It prevents further kidney damage. Garlic may shield the kidneys from the potentially harmful effects of heavy metals such as cadmium and lead.

http://www.kidneyservicechina.com/diet/415.html


Garlic prevents and cures cancer.

Garlic (Allium sativum), a widely used herbal vegetable, has been suggested as an anticancer agent for several decades in epidemiological studies

(1). The most convincing evidence comes from studies on digestive tract tumors (i.e. esophageal, gastric and colorectal cancers) and prostate cancer (PCa). For example, a study on the association of gastric cancer and consumption of Allium vegetables showed that persons with high intake of total Allium vegetables (>24 kg/year) had 60% reduced risk of this cancer compared to those with low consumption (<11.5 kg/year) on 564 patients with stomach cancer and 1131 normal controls

(2). A more significant population-based, case–control investigation on 238 histologically confirmed PCa patients and 471 normal male controls conducted in China reported that men with high intake of garlic (>2.14 g/day) had significantly lower risk of PCa than those with low or no garlic consumption (3). These results suggest that garlic may play a positive role in the prevention of certain human cancers.

http://carcin.oxfordjournals.org/content/27/11/2180.long


Miracle of Garlic in Preventing a Heart Attack or Stroke

You cannot readily get a heart attack or stroke as long as blood flows smoothly through your veins and arteries. Both heart attacks and strokes occur when blood vessels are clogged, which can lead to high blood pressure and the formation of blood clots. During a heart attack a clot blocks circulation in an artery supplying blood to the heart, thus damaging or destroying part of the heart. In a stroke, a blood clot stops blood supply to the brain depriving it of oxygen.

How can we prevent a blood clot that can result in a stroke or heart attack? And how can we assure the smooth flow of blood through our arteries and veins?

Garlic can Help!

Garlic can also be relied on to help. Garlic not only helps reduce cholesterol and fatty deposits in the arteries and veins, but also lowers blood pressure and thins blood to help lessen the chance of clotting. An adequate and always balanced diet, including garlic, and a sensible – never excessive – intake of sugar or protein, especially animal protein, can go a long way in preventing a heart attack and stroke.

Be Healthy! Eat Healthy! Eat Garlic (raw is best)

Let it be the last thing you do before you sleep, peel a clove, chew it raw and you can take a little water to push it in, brush your mouth before going to bed and in the morning. With this routine, you worry less about the odor and very good for people with bad mouth odor too

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hzTcYKWyQw




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9E_jQkfyIgE

If this guy dies due to lack of fund then i .......

nikkyshyne: What does she expect from a guy who sings 'your waist your waist, all I want is your waist'

I just wonder my sister. I just wonder.

Its like you ladies know a good guy from a bad one but just that the spirit in you people will always yearn for the bad ones just to later regret and get heart shattered.

tintingz: This is what happen when ladies go after bad guys like jim and now iyanya... they think good guys are not man enough or not fun with etc

Now you have learned your lesson. . .next time go for the good guys you are pretty and am sure you yvonne have done same to many good guys that loves you

This is another mystery of ladies i cant decipher. They tend to get attracted to bad guys who will use them and dump them but always avoid the good guys. WHY? WHY? WHY?

Kamanda: No be lie

But why should any woman expect a man to stick with one shag partner all his life.
Chai,never!!!

.A male creature is meant to shag and keep shagging anybabe shagable till he drops dead.My two Cedis.

I totally disagree with you.

I am an attractive young man yet i never used that as an advantage to take women for granted. I have been with just one lady for 12 years.

I started dating her when she was 19 then suddenly at 30, she feels she is caged and she tells me she feels i have caged her all her life and she imagines how it will be to have another man and suddenly she started keeping cray online friends until she finally allowed a crack in the marriage.

Now separated from me and staying wit her sister for months now and i cant help but wonder what type of spirit works in ladies.

This is a lady i love with so much passion and genuineness. I cant accuse her of infidelity cos i don't have any reason to but for her to ever get so carried away to this extent then it goes to show how shallow minded ladies can be.

So a man can actually stay with one lady all his life but i have come to conclude that ladies are not worth the stress, at least 99% of them so i don't blame any man for using ladies like real rags and dumping them with utmost disdain cos that is what most of them truly deserve,

I am not talking from a bias point of view but judging from the various stories i have heard and read, we men are in serious shit.

ND: I am not soliciting for any advice concerning this private matter but just stating this instance to buttress my point.

ayenny02: Rubbish!!! Continue we shall see who follow the wrong and right path when you see the clear envidence I.e death

Ok o.

JOYCEOUS: u neva c anytin.
we r komin 4 u.

Please come fast, i need one necessary evil badly at the moment

I need one with the following qualities.

1. Must have been in at least 3 previous relationships.
2. Must be curvy
3. Must be pretty but not necessarily too pretty.
4. I don't need you to be GODLy or to have the fear of GOD cos its all a facade.
5. Must be ready for a serious affair

ItsModella: And you arrived at your number how?

All these kukere statisticians, y'all will never cease to amaze me.

Please don't start any argument.

If you think you are decent then count yourself as one of the 1% and let things be.

We have billions of ladies in the world so 1% should still fall into the range of millions so lets not start any baseless arguments.

We have had so many topics on nairaland about ladies cheating and getting caught in adulterous acts more than we read about guys and i have heard too many stories that goes to show how irresponsible the ladies of these days are.

In-fact i was forced to advice young men to marry because it is important and treat their wives like queen because it is necessary but they should expect any unpleasant surprise at anytime because 99% of women will always misbehave even if you treat them like gods.

Reference: What are you talking about. I don't need a guru to tell me Iyanya is a ladies man. He lives, breathes and makes a living off the part of music that exploits sexuality. What do expect, Papal prejudice. Why not try and get hooked up to lady Gaga and then come running to mommy as to how red this world is painted. If she wants a boy toy then the corporate world is filled with em. You wan marry Tonto and you no go vex. Shior.

My brother abeg leave tory. I repeat that 99% of ladies in the world today are cheats, liars, highly promiscuous and i can continue to list how terrible they are.

Imagine a lady in London going on stage to start showing her .... to the whole crowd just because she wants to dance to Iyanya's song.http://news2.onlinenigeria.com/latest-addition/295529-girl-exposes-private-part-on-stage-for-iyanya-during-uk-concert-photo.html

We blame tuface for impregnating many ladies yet you don't blame these loosed hopeless bitches to hold their pants up. Even married ladies now even commit sexual sins more, Kai!

Please next topic.

Popowaa: Yvonne shd move on.she denied one celebrity guy in ghana and the law of karma has visited her.Some women deserve whatever they get.they treat the good guys like trash and when they are treated like trash in return they cry foul.Yvonne make we hear better word.mitchweee.

GBAM! End of story.

99% of ladies should be used and dumped like rags cos they deserve it. Pleas don't attack me if you think you deserve a better treatment, you just might be one of the 1% good ones remaining..

precy jewell: Nawa o!so its men's world abi?if a woman commits an adultry,it become a serious news a kwa ya?what about men that adultry is like a hubby to them kwa nu?

In as much as im not a male chauvinist, i would state emphatically that women should never ever claim any form of equality in the area of comparing sexual exploits of men with theirs.

since the day the world was created and even in the bible, polygamy has been.

legendsilver: mayb d man nor dey satisfy d woman emotionally.

All these excuses are unfounded.

Marriage is for better for worse. Don't rush in, know who you are getting married to before saying i do. THe only reason for divorce is sexual sin which is adultery but as i wrote, that is not even applicable these days because if you drive away an adulteress, you can be sure to bring in another adulteress in the making.

toshmann: Faithful wives dey scarce. Even at that, majority of them go fall into the hands of promiscous men
But even when the faithful wives marry faithful husbands like my humble self( ) , other issues may jump out to scatter the joy of a marriage

Infidelity is not the only marriage destroyer

Honestly i don't know what to say.

Women these days are far more promiscuous than men and majority of these cheating ladies are married ones. Worst still, they never tell their partner in adultery that they are married.

Now i understand clearly this verse in the bible.

Proverbs 31:10-12 (King James Version)

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.


My Advice to men

Forget about putting your wife away if caught in adulterous act and she is sorry for the act. 99.9% of ladies these days are cheats and unfortunately you just have to marry one of these people. So pursue her and bring home even a worse lady.

FRANK TALK

Looking around us, we can see the diversity in which GOD made men and women.

We see guys of different colors, heights, looks and built and same goes for the women with varieties to choose from and i guess it is this variety of choices that is the cause of the problems many people face as concerns faithfulness to one partner in a relationship.

Yes we know that choosing a partner has so much more to do with the inner qualities as we are made to believe but wait a minute; will you marry a monkey look alike even if he/she has the best inner qualities in the world? So lets stop fooling each other and face facts. Physical qualities matters a lot and in fact responsible to a large extent in maintaining fidelity in relationships.

As different individuals, our choices differ and it is very pertinent as a man or woman to know what you want and go for it if you spot it be you a man or woman and don't settle for less or at least try your best not to. Yes we know we must not set too high a standard but nevertheless, try your best to have a man/woman with physical qualities closest to what you want if you cant get exactly what you desire.

Now lets take this case study.

You know that you love a particular food and you will never be tired eating such. Men and women are like the food we eat. No matter how full our stomach is after eating any food at our disposal, we will always have the urge to taste our best food any time we come across it.

-Are you a man that loves a well endowed lady?, then don't settle for less.

-Do you love pretty faces?, if you do then make sure you get a pretty face as your lady.

-If your swag gets turned on whenever you see a curvy lady then do your best to have one for yourself.

-Are you a lady that fancies dark skin guys over the other color or visavis? then don't dull yourself when that skin type asks you out,

- Do you love cute guys or tall guys?, then if you come across one simply give him a sign that you like him and this dies not make you look cheap but its the way you relate with him after you kick start the affair that will show if you are cheap or not.

-Though not everything about a man physical attributes is visual so if you are also the type that believes that what a man has below his belt is also a factor then im sorry to disappoint you that any average size man is ok for any woman according to science so you need not worry about that.

The bottom line is that there is someone for everyone out there and we must learn to be patient to see such.

I will never start any affair with a lady that does not catch my fancy no matter how im tempted because i believe in one man one woman affair so in order to maintain that status, it is advisable that you get what you want and only admire others with same physical qualities without the urge of having them since what you want is already at your disposal.

In my opinion,we can always try to work on the internal qualities by learning to adjust, tolerate and been objective with each other. And at the end of the day, if the inner quality is not tolerable and marriage has not taking place, take a walk.

There is no point marrying or having an affair with someone less than what you want and wallow in lust every passing day whenever you spot your choice woman or man. No sentiments in love.

Don't even ask a lady you know is less than what you want out and a lady should never say ok to a man she knows is not her choice (except she is desperate) and also do not hesitate to show subtle signs to a man that catches your fancy(funny but true).

Lets learn to be disciplined to get what we want so that we can remain faithful to the object of our innermost desires.

You may be attracted to the blind, crippled or deformed but as long as the person catches your fancy without sentiments then that settles it.

Know what you want and go for it.

Hope this helps

Source: Olatokunbo Olabode

Sex Is Marriage

Sex can simply be defined as a designed union that changes man and woman into husband and wife.

Unfortunately, many people today indulge in sexual activities so casually and they later split saying after-all, they are not yet married but the truth is they are physically and spiritually bonded together but have not actually done the ceremonial joining together which many tag marriage.

So lets take a look at this biblical passage:

But from the beginning of creation, God MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE.
FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH; so they are no longer two, but one flesh. (Mark 10)

It is only in sexual intercourse that you become one but the joining together is what the world lays so much emphasis on and they spend so much on this aspect whereas they have actually been married to several men/women in the course of their careless life styles..

Indulging in casual sex is very tempting and quite exciting but very dangerous both biologically and spiritually.

There is always a fusion of the blood anytime you have intercourse and this fusion of blood has many spiritual implications asides the sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies..

You form a covenant with whoever you have intercourse with meaning half of all the curses or blessing automatically get transferred to each other and worst still the blessings turns to curses upon you as a result of the sinful transmission.

If this person has slept with 5 people, it means he/she is a carrier of five people's demonic influences, ancestral curses, and many covenants which will be transferred to you.

So if you find yourself involved in casual sex, go on your kneels and pray for forgiveness and also ask GOD to deliver you from every possible curses and blessings that are not for you which may become a curse upon you.

-I have heard stories where a lady turned to a nymphomaniac just after sexual intercourse with a a man.

- I have also heard stories of men having their life crumble just after meeting a lady.

The bottom line is that we should try not to indulge in casual sex because the act of sex is indeed the real marriage.

Hope this helps.

Source: Olatokunbo Olabode

We can not categorically ascertain what went down but who knows, it just might be connected to act of vendetta from rivals.

Stories like this are very common and this goes to show how extreme one can get when disappointed by a partner.

Cant believe this is coming from Oshiomole

lynpetra: Guys vs guys on pre- testing of punnnany!wow.This is wonderment!!

Its not our fault as guys that we fall into this act. Ladies caused it.

I have always maintained a righteous ordinance since i was a young chap. I gave my life to Christ at 13 and ever since i have had a zero tolerance to fornication and still do but any girl that comes near me always want that crazy act and i had to break up with many because of this(crazy but true)

I was raped by a lady when i was 20 and that was my first ordeal and afterwards,believe it or not, it has been ladies luring me into the act. So it was no fluke that i have been faithful to my present wife for over 12 years ever since we met.

I remember a lady after trying to lure me with no success, she went to the ladies hostel to start telling them im impotent from a reliable source which happens to be her.

So if we make no attempt, this same ladies will call us names so what on earth are we suppose to do?

In as much as i don't support testing before marriage, i will rather be silent and allow GOD to help the guys.

[quote author=distribute inc.]I think lack of emotional connection is a big issue with Nigerian ladies,thy simply focus on what the man can give them,they are dead emotionally.[/quote]Always complaining of what they don't get but never realizing they true happiness comes from giving without expecting anything back.


Worst still, they lure many innocent men into having an affair with them lying about their true state of affair. They either tell the guy that they are not in any affair, or they are separated/divorced from their husband.

We men are in deep shit and only GOD can save us from these daughters of eve.I use to believe that only men are polygamous in nature but i have been wrong all these while.

Now i have come to realize that ladies are far more polygamous in a coded way.

joe4christ: [size=15pt]This is the best ''10 this 10 that'' thread i've ever come across.
In summary this thread is telling how to look out for the true personality of your partner in accordance to their priorities and compatibility with your values in life and relationship.

If only i could find a lady that possess atleast six (6) of this attributes mentioned in this thread, then i'm a married man already. I tell ya!
But i know my God will allocate one for me, i will cherish her with my life. So i swear!!![/size]

I pray you find a lady that Truly has even one. Better get one and be ready to take shit to a certain level else you never ready o.

See friends,

No matter how hard you try, you cant marry "the right person" because in fact, there is no right person ever.

It takes tolerance and a forgiving heart with the fear of GOD to make any relationship work.

I keep wondering what went wrong in my marriage after spending about 12yrs with this lady. We courted for 6yrs and married for 5years before she suddenly realized we are not compatible and that i have been taking her for granted and she cant take it any longer so she left the house for over four months now and stayed put with her older sister.

She will not divorce me and she will not come pack her stuffs from my house. All plea have fallen on deaf hears as she is just bent on not coming back.

If you ask me if she was the right person for me i will say BIG YES. Very lotal dedicated, GOD fearing and homely but suddenly, she changed overnight. Begged and begged her promising there will be a change despite the fact that she was never communicative enough at the initial stage that she was condoling somethings but wuld just casually express it and laugh it over.

So if i claim she has been GOD fearing all these years then why is she bent on not fogiving and letting go of the grievances against me.

So the bottom line is that you cant know the right or wrong person, just pick any lady you are comfortable with and try to make things work.

Then expect the worst from her and also from him because crazy things are bound to happen.

And for the guys abeg forget this issue of driving your wife or fiancee away because she strayed into sexual sin with another man except you never loved her and she is unrepentant. The reason is because ladies these days are more promiscuous than men and i don't want to argue this.

Just forgive and forget because if you drive her away, there s no guarantee that the next woman will be better but may even be worse than you can ever imagine.

There is a lady i tried hooking up with and she is just 21. When we got talking, i realized that she has had 6men in the past with two records of abortion.

Now tell me; can i compare my wife who i met when she was 19(now 30), made her a woman and got married to her until this moment? I may not want to boast my wife have not slept with another man until maybe when she left a couple of months ago but i can bet that my wife have never slept with up to that number of men ever since i met her.

So lets assume my wife is been screwed by another man now and she later comes back sorry and repentant, will i drive her away at all cost to settle for another with unknown past?

I think once we have a forgiving spirit, we will always have a happy relationship. Forget the issue of marrying the right or wrong person, its totally inconsequential because the wrong person may later turn to be the right one or vise versa.

[quote author=~Bluetooth]
The above article was [in part] inspired by and adapted from a presentation by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.
[/quote]Very insightful but avoiding premarital sex is not an easy thing. We just need the grace of GOD to control our desires.

Furthermore i will advice that forgiveness should also be a watchword because in this present world i have come to discover that both sexes are prone to straying at any point in time.

I'm voting for no one until i see their photographs in Bikinis. Lol! Don't mind me. They all look beautiful.

BetaThings: Thanks
But we simply don't believe that Jesus is dead. We attribute miracles to him - birth, deeds etc. But NO Muslim believes Jesus is dead. We don't see that as a necessary condition for him to have an exalted status

I have been pondering over this too that the Holy Qur'an and the Prophet Mohamed(SAW) corroborated every story about Jesus except his death which is far more important than all his life story put together.

Honestly, as a Believer and Born again christian, i still marvel at the discipline the good Muslims exhibit in terms of praying to GOD and obeying his rules to the letter and intact, many good Muslims are by far better in conduct than many born again Christians.

I also know that as a good Muslim, the teachings of the Qur'an must be followed and i dare not insinuate that there might just be a mistake somewhere concerning the story in the Qur'an about the death of Jesus.

But this is the truth and i know it may not sound pleasing to many Muslims.

GOD seek a personal relationship with us all through Jesus and until you have this relationship with him, you cant have eternal bliss in aljonah and not just about the good things you do.

Can a man come to your house and ask you to allow him stay with you permanently if you don't know him? Even if he goes on telling you about how the people know him, saying e gives to the poor, never indulge in any sin and so on, you will still not grant him audience except it is someone you personally know.

This is the same situation with eternal life. Until you acknowledge the death of Jesus as an atonement for your sin, accept him as your Savior. Then and only then can you have a hope of eternal life.

NOW WAIT FOR A MOMENT

lets assume im crazy and all i have been writing is total bull shit but you still go ahead to accept Jesus as your savior then you die and realize that his death was a total facade. What do you have to lose? NOTHING.

But what if you die and realize that accepting him as your Savior was actually the best decision to make. Then you have a whole lot to gain and would save your soul from eternal damnation.

So why not hold your umbrella when you are not sure it may rain so that if it does not rain, you simply leave your umbrella folded and if it does rain, you already have your umbrella to shield you.

Think about this.

As Yoruba adage says. "Ki olorun ma se wa ni adorun mo oto" meaning may me not be part of thse who will only realise the truth after they die cos by then it will be too late.

ileobatojo: You're looking for a lady friend to join you in this mess you're in? Why not clean it up first, formalize things and set the divorce in motion before derailing another woman's destiny with your mess? If you start dating someone else and then your wife comes back later, what's the guarantee you won't follow her? I hope you plan to tell this new lady exactly what the situation is, no lies, so she will know what she is getting into.





I see nothing funny about this. Anybody can get tired of accepting crap anytime they like whether it be after 1yr, 11yrs or 30yrs. So the fact that she accepted it for 11yrs means she should continue to accept if forever more even though she is older and wiser now and knows she has other options? Until you admit your wrong and offer to compromise you have not done all you can to keep your marriage. Your stance of "I don't need to change since I've been doing it the same way for 11yrs and when she comes back to her senses, she will come back to start tolerating it all again" is not reasonable.

Now if she has slept with someone else and you have no plans to be with her anymore, goodluck with the divorce.

Well written. Nevertheless i want restate emphatically that its not about me but her decision to get carried away and i keep telling her this too.

In marriage we don't do things as though we are courting so please get this straight.

I have been me since day one that i met her in 2002. We courted for 6years and that is a long time for her to decipher if she will remain with me or not. So when we give advice we should consider some facts on ground.

You can't say you are tolerating a guy for 11years, it does not make any logical sense. So whatever made her tolerate my "shouting at her or whatever it may be" for 11good years cant disappear in a month or two except ther are other factors responsible.

Even after complaining that i took her for granted,i begged her that i am willing to change but she never gave me the chance to. My mum and sister with some people begged her to reconsider but she came back telling me she would not have come back if not that she was coaxed. Anytime she has the opportunity, she reminds me that she is tired of the affair so in that case will i kill myself?

I am not dragging anyone into any mess

I can marry anyone i want right now and i stand justified before GOD almighty and in any court any day anytime because she abandoned her home without my consentt which is a good ground for me to carry on with my life.

Ladies can be crazy a times and i will not allow any lady disillusionment to stall my life.

I am about a year away from clocking 40, no child yet all because i was loyal not wanting to try any other lady so what th hell am i suppose to do?

Waste more time waiting for her? Abeg free me. She has made her decision to go and i have tried to make her realize her action but she seems to be enjoying it.

See friend, her case is clear, she is naive, Forget the age.

Maybe if she has had previous affairs and she has been disappointed like two to three times, she will see me as an angel. I just wish its not too late before she realizes this.

alutacontinua: The story is one-sided. I believe your wife also has something to say to all this. So, I cannot say anything now. As bukatyne has said, try and pray and know what God wants you to do. Also know that God is not going to tell you to do anything that contradicts the bible.

Believe me, her reason is because she got disconnected. saying i took her for granted and i shout at her.

She suddenly realized this after spending over 11 yrs with me.

So is that not funny? She definitely have other reasons she will not want to divulge.

You ladies will see no big deal in a man complaining of lonesomeness because his wife left for 4months and still counting.

Stayed with her sister and left all her stuffs with me.

Came back three weeks ago saying she wants to pick some stuffs and left again.when asked if she ha been with another man and if she wants to come back, she replied saying she has slept with another man and still not wanting to come back.

A lady friend told me she is only saying that to hurt me that no lady will have teh guts to tell her husband she has slept with another man just like that.

For me, i am tired of playing the waiting game. If i see a lady that catches my attention, i go for her and if she comes back then it will be too late.

No matter what is wrong with her, i cant place my fingers on it. And if she has truly slept with another man yet showing no remorse then of hat use is my waiting?

I have developed high BP because of this issue and the only way to heal it is to get a friend of teh opposite sex to wipe this nightmare away.

And please no lady should say stuffs like i still love her and dating another lady will not....

If you check the romance section, i was pushed to send a post there asking any GOD fearing lady to add my face book ID which is KADIRI OLABODE.

I hate the idea of wooing ladies around. I really need a lady friend, potential soul mate. For me, she is gone for good and even coming back holds no water.

bukatyne: This is really twisted!

Are you sure she's not punishing you for that?

Pray to God for forgiveness and healing. There is nothing He cannot do

I dont even know what to think.