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[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I'm sorry about you and your wife growing distant, but I hope you guys manage to work things out. I just hope u know that its not every person that has the qualities their horoscope tells them they have[/quote]Yes but it so happen that this one gather all. Just that divorce is not an option as this case has nothing to do with infidelity but crazy incompatibility. We have great bonding yet always disagreement and quarrel. Na wa for this ting called marriage o. Not easy at all.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I'm sorry about you and your wife falling apart, but I hope you guys manage to work things out[/quote]Thanks my lady.

I advice everyone to do due diligence on their partner before getting married to him/her. This love feeling is all adrenaline based and fickle out in no time so find out if you guys are compatible so that you can know what you are heading into.

I don't pray any one goes trough the stress im presently going through trying to make an affair work against all odds when it should be a natural flow.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]But if u still feel that something that takes 5minutes to take away for good is more valuable than what will bring u joy for the rest of your married life, then u are just sad.[/quote]You are right my lady.

I actually popped my wife' cherry and we have been together for about 12 years but married 6 years ago but you know what? WE ARE NOT COMPATIBLE AT ALL.

I am sharing this here because i just had to. I don't believe in horoscope but according to the findings, Gemini man and Pisces woman are not compatible in any way yet we tried to make it work against all odds and we are still trying but im almost fed up right now. She has been away for 2 months now and still counting based on this same incompatibility, My words as harmless as they may sound are usually hurting to her and so many other issues.(pisceans are the most unrealistic,irrational and unreasonable people on earth no offense but that is very true)

I don't believe in divorce else i go don file for am tey tey yet she is still with her sis and i am still trying to make her come back home.

But if you ask me now, i will prefer to go for an Aquarius or Libra lady that is a LovePeddler than a piscean virgin lady so believe me friends im sharing this to make you all realize that its not just about a girl been a virgin but other things matter.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]so everything else carries 10% ?
Ability to give birth, being a good wife and mother, personal hygiene, ability to stay loyal and faithful

It takes 5mins to break than virginity, then what happens after that? Don't let what's inbetween ur legs reason on ur behalf.
I have seen women from family getting re-married (with kids from their late husbands) and they are much more self-controlled, they love and support their husbands...because they know just how important it is to value someone when he/she is still alive.
Marrying a virgin I'm sure is a beautiful thing but don't let that be ur sole purpose of entering into marriage. It has never guaranteed that a woman will be a better wife then.[/quote]you are very right sis Just that we men have this feeling been the guy that first popped our wife's cherry because there is this great self esteem that comes with it even if she sleeps with a 100 men afterwards I think its all about psychological stuff jare.

I believe every lady is a virgin to the new guy and her past does not count and as long as that lady remains loyal, no leles.

Elai147: How do you know she is a virgin? Please don't be deceived. I have had this kind of issue in the past. You just cannot ascertain it until you are in there or take her for a test. Besides there are different ways a girl can lost her virginity apart from sex. Dont be fooled by any woman- be sure.

Sure you are right but when a girl says she is a virgin, there is no cause to doubt her, one day you will do it and if you confirm she is then cool but if she claims she lost her virginity through other means but still insist that she is one then dint believe her at all except maybe she swears with her womb which i don't support but should be the best way to believe she is saying the truth. Ladies can be very deceptive so except you actually see that stain then don't believe her.

Furthermore we should understand that the fact that a lady is a virgin does not mean she has not been dating different men and infact many men would have smooched the hell out of her but we just decide to still give it to them because at least they tried by protecting that area.

beebop: I've said it before and I'll say it again.

A woman's selfworth is not tied to her v.agina. Whether she is a virgin or no, her character, intelligence, and person should be far more important criteria than a thin piece of skin located in her private parts. Women should stop selling themselves short, biko, it's very irritating to read the million and one posts on someone's virginity. We're in 2013 not 1950, if you marry a virgin, clap for yourself. If you marry a good person, other people will clap for you.

You are right but statistics have shown that men will rather settle for a lady that is chaste and decent in matters of sex than all these qualities combined and most times, any lady that has a high moral standard in terms of sexual matters usually have other good qualities combined. So believe it r not, its 90% about her vigina and this why Jesus said we should never divorce any woman or man except for SEXUAL IMMORALITY.

Only Men like me who are fortunate to be the one that dis-flowered their wife will understand the value of getting married to a virgin.

You will just love her and continue to love her no matter the misunderstandings that may come up between you two. And She will never ever forget you(ask ladies because they never forget the first guy that popped their cherry)

In fact there are whole lots of loveliness that comes with getting married to a virgin or been the first guy that popped your wife so bro if you know what is good for you, no leave am o.

snubish: betathings,
why bother really.

hate to comment on this thread but frankly the op's post ranks up there
among the most silly posts ever put on NL, it just beggars belief. he
even had the audacity to give it a catchy title.
if you have been indoctrinated by your pastor, must you come to a public
forum to regurgitate the pentecostal spittle you have been consuming
every weekend.
"God is the divine father......., you can be a Muslim or not.........,
God is not interested in religion........, you can stay in your room and
just accept Jesus as your personal saviour bla, bla, bla"
plzzz, save this your message for kindergarten kids at Sunday school.

ok ok, lets just assume im wrong that you need Jesus as your savior to make it to heaven. What do you stand to lose if you die and realize this? Absolutely nothing.

But what if im right that You need to accept Jesus as your savior to enter paradise or aljonah? You have a whole eternal life to lose in hell but a whole lot to gain.

So i believe it is wise to carry a spare Tyre if driving out even if you eventually did not make use it because it just might come in handle. Just a funny allegory though but reasonable. Think about it.

tonididdy: hello fahn boy...can u handle this



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Adamsdelrio: E be like say na u fine pass 4 ur area and d gals there no get work. U sef no get work. If to say u dey insyd sun dey hustle like guys wey no get time to look themsef 4 mirror, u no go dey make advert say u handsome. Let me tell u d truth, gals no lyk to talk truth because of fear. Me i no send u. Guys u are not as handsome as u think and go get a job....come my area and see handsome guys, u go mellow.

Honestly you are right but nevertheless let the guy catch his fun bro, that is the stage he is now.

So funny stuffs like this makes front page.

Anyway young man you are cute but i was cuter at your age and maybe still more handsome than you at 38. Don't mind me ,just kidding but true though.

BetaThings: Quran 20: 135

'Say, “Everyone is waiting; so you wait. Then soon you will know who are the followers of the path, straight and right, and who have received guidance'.”

Believe me, Islam indeed is a religion of peace no doubt but honestly, the death of Jesus is not about Christianity or Islam but it i about salvation which is a gift any body can have. No matter your religion.

smile4kenn: I feel so honored to be the first comment. All of my hard work and dedication has paid off. Getting the top comment has been a dream of mine for many years, and I would like to thank those who have helped me along the way. First and foremost I would like to thank God for giving me this opportunity. Next, I would like to thank my girlfriend. She had been patience with me while I attempt to make the top comment. I would also like to thank my pet tadpole for surviving against all odds for over a week. Next I would like to thank the squirrel that lives in my backyard for climbing trees because that gives me inspiration that I need to get through the day to make the top comment. This is a special moment in my life and I would like to thank any of my unmentioned friends and family that have helped me along the way. This moment will be a moment that I will never forget. I just remembered a few other people I will like to thank; Facebook, my light in my room bc i wouldn’t be able to see the keyboard without it, the internet for letting me go on nairaland, my house because without it I would be homeless, and last but not least I would like to thank all the people out there that actually took time out of their day to read this. I cannot stress how much of a big deal to me this is. I have been trying to be the first comment on a post for years, but that has not been possible until this amazing day. Hopefully my good luck will continue, but this is undoubtedly a rare occasion. If you asked me how I did this, I would say, you can achieve anything u set your mind on. To all the nairalanders out there reading this, I would like to tell them to follow their dreams. Being the first comment is amazing, thank you everyone.

I can't believe i can laugh so so much with the present wahala between me and my wife. Oh my GOD. you really made my day and i cant just stop laughing. Kai~

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These are facts every Muslim must know.

1. Jesus is the son of GOD by divine paternity and not biological: Many Muslims have always argued that GOD was not borne by any man neither can he give birth to another and this is a fact in the literal sense so the fact is that Jesus is the son of GOD by divine paternity and this settles the discrepancies.

2. Jesus is not GOD the father who is referred to as Allah in Arabic language: God almighty is the creator of heaven and earth and he also created Jesus with his words and called him his son(Divine paternity). That is why he came to the world through Mary without the need of a man's semen.

3. GOD is never interested in any religion but what he wants is a relationship with you through his son Jesus

4. The blood of Jesus was actually used to cleanse the whole world from sin because it was impossible for the blood of bulls and animals to take away sins of the world(Hebrews 10:4). Even the Qur'an states In Sura 22:37 "Allah says that the blood of sacrificed animals does not reach him". And it is the standard and Principle of GOD that without the shedding of blood there is no remission of sin. Hebrews 9:22

5. You don't have to start going to church or stop worshiping as a Muslim in other to be called a believer in Christ or Born again: What GOD requires of us is to accept Jesus as your lord and savior by confessing with your mouths and believing in your hearts that he died for you and he is your savior.

This does not stop you from attending mosques and making your usual daily 5times prayer or even participating in Muslim festivals as well as acknowledging Muhammad(SAW) as a prophet of GOD.

6.You can be born again right from your bedroom without the need to go to any church or attend any crusade. Just read out the prayer of salvation and you are automatically saved. Any time you find yourself falling into sin, sincerely go on your kneels and pray that GOD should forgive you IN JESUS NAME and ask the holy spirit of GOD to come into your life to remove any trace of sin in your life.

7. Please get this straight. Its ok if you are a Muslim or even die as a Muslim but if you die without accepting Jesus as your lord and savior then forget making heaven that is also known as Aljonah in Islam.

8. There is no other way i can paint this fact and i have to spell it out blunt and in plain English. I don't care what you have read or what you have been made to believe but take it or leave it, if you die without accepting Jesus as your lord and savior, forget making heaven and be ready to spend your eternity in hell.

9. Many Muslims will conclude that i am confused writing all these and will realize im not when it is too late.


10.Giving your life to Jesus is easier than you can ever imagine,just read these words on this page out loud and you are automatically saved.http://www.prayergear.com/redemption.html

donguutti: Can some please cut out the end time shit.There is no such thing,All predictions of the end have thus far proven to be false
please stop the delusion.

Back to the conclave, as it stands now after 4 balloting sessions yesterday,and no clear winner, it would seem the reformist camp and the
curia camp are evenly matched.The winner would require 2/3 of the votes to be declared pope( Pope paul VIII rules), maybe the Italian cardinals might
decide to stop the stalemate and vote one of their own.

I am not a freak of endtime bruhaha either but simple intelligence of life denotes objectivity in whatever we do and not dogmatism so i still sit on the fence as i wait for the identity of the new pope.

If it aligns with the age long prophecy then i may start to take this end time isue seriously but if not, life goes on.

[quote author=Fisherman.com]pls can u tell me d most important one?[/quote]If only you understand end times then you will know that this is the most important election in the world and even heaven is interested in it.

The calender of the world seems to be winding up fast.

1. The election of the possible last pope of the catholic church who according to 900yrs old prophecy of a catholic vertican by name st Malachi will be known as Peter the roman and he will be the false prophet that will work hand in hand with the antichrist.

2.This seem to be coinciding with the Visit of Obama to Israel to broker peace between the state of Palestine and Israel.

Should Obama succeed in doing this and the construction of Solomon temple starts, then we just might be on the count down to Rapture as Obama undoubtedly will be the Antichrist because it is only the antichrist that will succeed in brokering peace between these two age long enemies.

And when he finally makes the peace agreement, a new temple will be built and in about three and a half years into the peace agreement, the abomination of desolation will stand in the temple and declare himself as GOD then the world will witness three and a half years of tribulation such that has never happened before on earth. But the good news is that the rapture of the church would have taking place before the tribulation starts. Matthew 24:15

This is indeed prophetic so lets see if Obama will succeed in the peace talks between Israel and state of Palestine.

http://frontpagemag.com/2013/joseph-klein/obama-to-demand-israel-withdrawal-from-judea-samaria



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gsb2FxrUsAQ

The calender of the world seems to be winding up fast.

1. The election of the possible last pope of the catholic church who according to 900yrs old prophecy of a catholic vertican by name st Malachi will be known as Peter the roman and he will be the false prophet that will work hand in hand with the antichrist.

2.This seem to be coinciding with the Visit of Obama to Israel to broker peace between the state of Palestine and Israel.

Should Obama succeed in doing this and the construction of Solomon temple starts, then we just might be on the count down to Rapture as Obama undoubtedly will be the Antichrist because it is only the antichrist that will succeed in brokering peace between these two age long enemies.

And when he finally makes the peace agreement, a new temple will be built and in about three and a half years into the peace agreement, the abomination of desolation will stand in the temple and declare himself as GOD then the world will witness three and a half years of tribulation such that has never happened before on earth. But the good news is that the rapture of the church would have taking place before the tribulation starts. Matthew 24:15

This is indeed prophetic so lets see if Obama will succeed in the peace talks between Israel and state of Palestine.

http://frontpagemag.com/2013/joseph-klein/obama-to-demand-israel-withdrawal-from-judea-samaria


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gsb2FxrUsAQ

When i had a serious issue with my wife. One of the reasons why i just had to get her back into my life is because i was the one who dis-flowered her.

So anyone who says he cant marry a virgin is only fooling himself. Guys will do anything to be the one who deflowered their wife.

As for me, I am Born again and this has made me humble despite my good looks. I believe the fear of GOD matters.

The next pope Peter the Roman will be the last Pope


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WVtW76Isy4w

olas2u: T
textbook business man,have you done this before,you need to be sure,living and earning money abroad is not easy and you need to be abroad to know what he went through to get does buses.It maybe good on paper.But its will not work once he his not there.It is Nigeria.

Let me educate you a bit.

There are some businesses that you don't refer to as textbook busness. A blind, deaf and dumb person will invest and profit greatly with good management in any of these 4 sectors.

1.Agriculture
2.Power/energy
4.Transportation
4.Communication.

I will not elucidiate more on that neither will i try to instill the attribute of positivity in you.

r231: So who is going to drive it "pilot"

Drivers are not reliable either public transport or private shuttle they are all the same

It is a well arranged system.

Drivers will have a uniform and its not the usual transport sytem you have in mind. It is an executive one and there will be a specific number of times the bus will move and also have maximum circles of movement maybe just 3 times a day.will be monitored easily by the manager. there are some other logistics to be put in place to check mate agberos and wat have u.

Meals will be served in the bus for exra cost. Fully airconditioned with tv. ee you can't decipher this business plan thats why i cant let it all out here.

I am afreelance business consultant and i give numerous business ideas so i know exactly what i mean whe i say with 2 12 seater executive bus, you can be sure of not less than 30k each and every day. except sundays

r231: So who is going to drive it "pilot"

Drivers are not reliable either public transport or private shuttle they are all the same

It is a well arranged system.