₦airaland Forum

Veryfoolishboy:
This is the problem about rape allegations... It keeps flying with genuine claims and false claims...

The boy was asking for evidence rather than proving that he doesn't know her. He's culpable

DominusPrime:
She could be lying.
He could be lying.
If you pick a side your judgement is clouded by sentiments.

Isn't it obvious that he's not debunking it

You have only a paltry 2m naira and you wanna leave a job of 5m naira per anum for a business you've not thought up.
You will regret your life if you dare it.
Your one month salary is even enough to rent house beside your new office and if possible change your children school.
You need at least 10 years on that job. Except you start a business and it starts yielding over half your salary consistently for a year

DuBLINGreenb:
Trump na mumu man he just handed china more relevance on the World's stage, Chinese influence will only increase as a result of this while USA drops

Just like that??
Stop groping in the dark, man!

TripleOh7:
Actually, Trump's right.

The looting and violence dishonours the memory of the deceased.

And the looters are making things worse for the black man.

They call you a monkey, a thief and a brigand and you go right ahead and prove them right.

So so wrong.

#edited

For those inclined to quote me without comprehension, I am against shooting of any protesters or looters. And the killer cops should face justice.

The part of Trump's speech that I supported has been quoted by me here.

So read to understand.

He's very uncouth and undiplomatic

flokii:
Good move.. SW States just dey burst my head these days with laudable projects

Some IDPs from one particular region always running to South West in their millions can keep hating while we keep moving. Las las una IGR no go fit flash anything.

Absolutely stupid comment

Why do you need the mumu button of someone??
Lucifer!!!

Sanchez01:
Lol! Not sure he does. He is a villain in this story, particularly after Peter and May D's exposés. I equally doubt he'll do a thing.

You mean he's the guilty one?

You refused to add fùcking dicks like mad

Easybela:
You are still young, you never jam transformer before that's why you are thinking this way

Or rather transformer never jam am before

This stoppage is more political than considerate on the sick people and China's hand af

Sniper4real:
Wike justified if this true

How??
Even you can get positive for covid19 at and fùcking time T

Babysawale19:
This shows this President is very lazy. So he’s leaving government of a whole country to a secretary. Secretary approving things in his name that will become a problem for him and his family in the future.

What if the secretary is much more proficient than him

If someone is hungry and is seeing that the people who get covid19 are well fed, and they get to recover.

This kind of person will go round looking for how to contract the virus and will disobey all social distancing or guidelines

simonlee:
To all those sisters who refused to do Olosho work...

Na thierself dem de do

Diegostan:
Burna will tear his shirt when he sees this,

the only self acclaimed odogwu , African giant, nobody give you title you use your hand crown yourself because you manage break into international lame light last year every other person can eat $hit

Over inflated EGO....

Them don even collect the odogwu title give Davido

That religion is a very nonsense religion. Idiots!!!!!

Babatunde40:
The only thing fit here is the money paid to olamide's account. I am happy he is chopping itel money.

Itel on it's own make highly substandard phones

And he won't even use their phone no matter how much they give him

Jack500:
See this Op o, u are just in level 10 and u are saying u have gone far, even those in level 14 are porting, level 10 that is the entry level for professionals like pharmacist etc, na there u say u gone far with 80k salary?

U are not yet serious, move as fast as possible if u have the legal means or u will live to regret it forever(now this is not a threat, but a warning)

Peace.

Exactly
Person wey just de start

datola:
This that every one is leaving for Canada. Who will now remain to fix Nigeria

Most of you people just like to reap from where you did not sow.

And you are not going to the Canada to solve any problem for humanity but just to get 'good employment' and now pray that Nigeria catches fire and averyone remaining there should go to hell.

For those of you badmouthing Nigeria. Remember 'ajo Ko le da bi ile' (Other people's country can never be.like your own country)

By God's grace Nigeria shall be great again in my life time.

Oga no be by prayer

Lionessza6:
Don't complicate your life,respect your wife & your marriage, and you shall have peace of mind. What she is suggesting does happen in some cultures, but the woman usually talks to the elders 1st,and they are the ones that will recommend her the right* sperm donor in the family. What she is doing is creepy,sneaky and suspicious. One is left to think she was lusting over you all this while,& your uncle was a deterrent . Maybe she wants a younger man to awaken her senses ,and her need for another child is just an excuse to lure you into her web of deceit. Becareful with such people.

This time around na the woman de eye the guy.
This woman has a hand in the demise of her husband

But culturally I remember my great grand mother (my mother's father's mother) was married to and had children for her husband"s younger brother after her husband's demise. My maternal grandpa was born by the first husband while I know my maternal grand aunt and grand uncles born by the second husband

TallNigerian:
Hello Nairalanders,

I will be 30 years in a few months and I have never felt so much unease as I do right now. I work with one of the federal parastatals and I am currently on level 10 going to 12 next year. I have a Master degree athough it is not exactly relevant to my current job.

The problem is that my organisation uses the Ministry salary structure and my monthly net is below 80k even as a level 10 staff.

I am not married and I am academically inclined. Asides having a Master degree, I have over 8 professional certifications.

I have been trying to clinch a transfer of service to a better parastatal where the remuneration is better and where my knowledge/experiences as a science graduate will be better appreciated but it has been a bit difficult.

However, just before the COVID-19 episode in Nigeria, I got the right link for a transfer of service to a better parastatal but the process got stalled with the COVID-19 palaver.

I have 4 siblings who are Canadian citizens and they have been on my neck to migrate. I never took the calls seriously until this lockdown period. My siblings are arguing about the uncertainty of the Nigerian economy post-covid and advising me to seize this opportunity to migrate and start a new career over there?

My question therefore, "is it wise to stay back since I have gone quite far in my public service career and just wait for the opportunity to transfer my service to a better paying federal parastatal OR do I migrate to Canada and start a new career?

Your honest inputs will be highly appreciated. Thanks!

@CrazyMan @1forall Please I need your help in pushing this forward for a wider view. Thank you.

You started from level 8, you're now in level 10 after6 years.
Oga you've gone no where. Even after 10 years of service you can quit

Is there a stigmatization way that covid19 patients are supposed to be treated??

Ok they will now adhere to two weeks isolation stipulated by yahaya bello.
So these people want to cash out by all means from kogi state at 50,000 per testing. I even think it is 100,000 naira if well scrutinised.
Thought that itse tsagay said they will deploy force into the state

Even if it will cost you your job, your obligation is to report such acts of stealing let alone when keeping quiet is what will eventually take away your job. Not exposing them makes you complicit, an accomplice of fraud without earning the benefits of fraud

Davash222:
I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain.



This is where your problems started. You don't win a woman, she's not trophy. You're the trophy not her.
I have nothing to tell you. You ruined yourself.

Just so you know, if your beloved wife gets the opportunity to fucck that ex for free now, she will not hesitate.

That one na small thing. They were fucking before, so it can still happen as if nothing happened

Eulalia:
Ok. Thank you. I think the couple have gone past this stage now cos they now have kids. So I guess this tips will be more useful to us the up and coming SUs .

Thanks.

Are lubricants safe and advisable?
I really appreciate.

Is that how SU has been bastardised??
SU wey de Bleep prick! No be say dem rape am

funmisticqueen2:
SU couples always have 'challenges' on their wedding night. I am tired of counselling many cases.

Pls give her some mills and boon, or harlequin romance novel to read. When it gets to the sexual scenes, let her imagine herself and her husband acting out the scene. This will build chemistry and enable her enjoy sex.


The secret to painless sex is to be mentally prepared for it.

•She should relax and come from the place of her husband loves her and doesn't want to harm her.

•She should tell herself that sex is enjoyable, with the man she chose. After being celibate, she better enjoy the sweet fruit of the her efforts.

•She should start to see her husband in a sexual light, as a sexually attractive man. Like in the romance novels.

She should communicate with him to be gentle with her and take things slowly.

I wish the couple good luck.

You're talking off point
The said lady tho an said to be an SU was not a virgin, wasn't raped before, and is now claiming SU.
A different advise is needed not this your own

Eulalia:
She wasn't raped. It was with her husband on her wedding night.
Yeah, she's an SU.
No genital mutilation.

I think its a case of secondary virginity.

SU, not raped, secondary virginity.
Abeg all these waec questions sef

Eulalia:
Nope the Lady that fainted didn't have any STDs. She was not sexually active for a Long time and so on her wedding night she fainted from excruciating pains and injury sustained as her hubby was trying to ..... Break her again.

Thanks for the heads up though.

How many times dem de break person naw

Ah finally.
Thank God for her life.
I thought about her this afternoon.

lalasticlala:
“To this end, residents of the state are enjoined to factor the travel time to their destinations into their daily operations.
.

How can you factor in your travel time into your movement. Are you God that knows how the traffic situation will turn out??
If you leave your office at 6pm, thousands of other people are doing same and this leads to serious traffic jam ensuring that many people cant beat the deadline