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'Testing' does more damage than good. Everyone has their flaws. You need to love the good things about your partner 1st so you can overlook their imperfections. If your hell-bent on feeding your pessimism concerning the relationship, then you'll find what your looking for.

Most girls will invite their very sexy friend over to 'test' him. We are talking a 2-week relationship where he doesn't even know her last name. He has nothing to fight for yet. The way he'll eye-fvck the friend, she won't sleep that night.

The worst is definitely NOT SAYING A WORD. Just stare at her with a bored expression while she rants.

Note: Hide the knives before you go to bed.

[quote author=Minet16 post=35398824][/quote]Too on point. I miss UK mehn. Chicks will come to hit on you, or give you the greenest light. A clique of babes will be admiring you aloud.

You and OP are talking about typical naija women (gold-diggers), trust me. Attractive and date-able is when he has a nice apartment and flashy car.

Since I got back from to naija, it's been HARD getting even female friends. I even posted "how to friendzone a girl" because babes would either play hard-to-get or be extremely nice (or extremely bitter esp. The unattractive girls).

Guys will be hating and being intentionally rude to you to boost their ego. Sigh

I'm laffing tears because...if you're honest about ur post then how the hell are strangers gonna decide what you should do to your FIANCEE to find out?!

And if you're lying...

You will never ever be happy....NEVER! Married couples that don't have it as bad as you (have no serious problems) are struggling to make it work because marriage itself is freaking tough. Now, combine your dilemma to a marriage...HELL ON EARTH.

Why don't women like peace of mind? Why don't you wanna wake up in the morning and have nothing to be worried about? Y'all are emotional masochists, Your drawn to emotional pain and drama just to avoid normal life because normal is too boring for you. SAD!

A few number of babes have fallen in love with me () but they already set their minds on made men who are looking to settle down. Then it's a serious dilemma causethey know I can make them really happy () but they wanna marry asap ().

That's my problem too cause I'm more drawn to women around my age; mature, outgoing and open about their feelings. Not young, childish, clingy, spoiled brats who are emotionally confusing and confused. Only good thing about them is, they not yet full blown gold diggers like females my age. Sweet yanz, swagger and your in.

OP, you should know all women live for society. They're weaker species and can't overcome social pressure.

Iyalasisi:
When you are stupidly over emotional

Get a grip on urself man and stop being a sissy

They'll say "don't be controlling", then they'll say "be a REAL MAN, nice guys finish last". (pls are there fake men?)

They'll say "we hate soft guys", then they'll say "unemotional guys are stressing"

They'll say "We admire hardworking men with goals", then you'll see them all fighting for a rich old man's son...or the rich old man...or both.

They'll be angry you have many female "friends", but they initially wanted you because you're a ladies' man...AND VERY EXPERIENCED. (most confusing. I don't see us guys wanting to make a slvt a gf)

They'll wear the most pushed up push-up bra so their bobbies reach their chin and wear the tightest, shortest skirt. They'll take a pic, post it on instagram for the world.......THEN THEY'LL PREACH TO YOU ABOUT PREMARITAL SEX.

I gave up on female logic a long long time ago. Listen to them, u go end up for yaba left I swear.

Who told you most naija women care more about the appearance and health of their future kids more than confam wealth?

Whether her kids will be worwor or have sickle cell...she needs her Dubai trips regs so she can post pics on instagram. Trust me, they live to show off to other women. Smh

You're too on point. I soooo agree with 'alone time'. I can't stand clingy girls that feel you like em only when you text em everyday. Drains every atom of attraction I initially had for the girl. It's not a freaking marriage, PLS BACK UP!

Worst is when they hit me up, disrupt my alone-time...and they be like they have nothing to talk abt. When I try to spice up the convo, their replies kill my soul e.g. lolz, k, hmm, ha.

Majority of females are consumers not producers in relationships, always consuming your products and services. I can't keep up atm. Single as fvck, facing my career...like most introverts are prone to do.

sonofananimal:
I AM TELLING YOU!
THERE ARE JUST TWO DIFFERENT KIND OF WOMEN,
THE BLACK ONE AND THE WHITE ONE, THERE MENTALITY IS FAR DIFFERENT. I ALSO STUDY THERE AND I HAVE SEEN IT,

I guess naija is backwards in almost every aspect. Sad!

sonofananimal:
I SWEAR NAIJA WOMEN DON'T WORTH IT AT ALL,
I HAVE SEEN A LOT OF FOREIGN WOMEN, IF I TELL YOU THAT THERE MINDSET ARE WAY MUCH DIFFERENT, MOST OF THEM DONT THINK MUCH ABOUT MATERIAL THINGS JUST LIKE THOSE ANIMALS (NAIJA WOMEN)

Guuuuy, I miss the attention I was getting in UK (I did uni there). There, confidence, swagger, sense of humor and fresh dressing are enough to get you a relationship with a correct babe. In naija, relationship is like marriage. You need money to take care of her and her extended family, as if she's already the mother of my kids.

gtswt:
Like seriously

"Like, seriously?" or "Like, seriously."

There's a difference.

Flashh:
[color=#006677]The worst thing is that... The lady you are even trying to do all these to impress won't even give a damn to do same to you. Shior. [/color]

I was reading the post and thinking "this guy na jjc". Ma guy just land naija. When like three babes dump him in a row because they feel he's "too nice" and is no challenge, he'll know wussup.

Most men can be like this but are most naija babes worth it? Cause the last time I checked, a nice apartment and a flashy car are what make up a real man...to them.

You guys and your JAMB questions...sigh. Were you born yesterday? Women are masters of deception.

Forming clean babe here. You that you like me going R-Kelly on you.

Drinkwater:
Very beautiful model from Fuse ODG's TINA video.

Which "beautiful" is that? In your village? My guy, go n drink water.

REDDEST FLAG! A girl that has the balls to talk about her ex's performance is a no-no. She's already seeing you as a cuckold, a weaker man sexually and emotionally. Soon she'll have the balls to tell you she boinked her ex in your bed while you were at work. Then, you'll come here on NL to ask us JAMB question.

Back out from the relationship.

REDDEST FLAG! A girl that has the balls to talk about her ex's performance is a no-no. She's already seeing you as a cuckold, a weaker man sexually and emotionally. Soon she'll have the balls to tell you she boinked her ex in your bed while you were at work. Then, you'll come here on NL to ask us JAMB question.

Back out from the relationship.

I made the list long so we won't see repetitive comments. It's always rich, tall, dark, handsome, funny every time. Hundreds of other major qualities that make a good partner.

chijoy7:
only five out of all this

Yeah. The MAIN qualities you want, not all qualities you want in your man.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Idle? [/color]

Corrected. I meant IDEAL.

lefulefu:
op, include six packs among the options

Muscular seems okay.

Some words might sound synonymous. Just use words that are most specific to your expressions.

Oya naij women, choose ONLY FIVE main qualities that you think are COMPULSORY in your boyfriend, then in your husband, because they are two different roles in my opinion. You can put reasons for your choices if you want. Let's see what makes a great relationship and a great marriage.

Guys, you can share your 5 qualities as a bf and a husband.

Below is the nonsequentially long list of qualities to choose from:

- God fearing
- Good sense of humor
- Physically fit
- Nice
- Hardworking
- Aje butter
- Faithful
- Interesting
- Intelligent
- Supportive
- Adventurous in life
- Same height
- Highly educated
- Very friendly
- Muscular
- Dominant
- Very social networking
- Estimable
- Aje kpako
- Mysterious
- Gentle
- Tolerant
- Good listener
- Quiet
- Submissive
- Voracious to your home cooked meals
- Ambitious
- Fine facial features
- Big joystick
- Empathetic
- Very hygienic
- Charming swag
- Romantic
- Eloquent
- Fighter (I.e. capable of fighting when provoked to)
- Rebellious
- Facial hair
- Financially stable
- Pompous
- Light skinned
- Humble
- Dedicated and spontaneous in bed
- Fashionable
- Street wise
- Charismatic
- Dark skinned
- Aggressive minded
- Emotional
- Bad boy swagger (including dressing)
- High status
- Talented (pls specify)
- Children loving
- Rich

If there's a quality I missed out, you can include it in your lists.

PLS SHARE. Let's get as much opinions as possible.

ABEG, NO HATING! Respect other people's opinions.

IMO, I think there has to be a combination of 3 or 4 of these factors to make a GOOD MAN cheat.

Worst combination for me: Disrespectful, workaholic feminist with low libido who can't cook. He'll boink a call girl, her sister(s), her best friend and her worst enemy (if he could) just to balance the equation of emotional pain.

A relationship with 100% trust...HEAVENLY!

Flat tummy is a must for me. So, flat tummy and another outstanding asset with minimum average face. E.g. flat tummy + juicy jugs + 6/10 face.

Oh, and she must be mid-class and above. Not into razz females...at all. Not my type.

Gone are those days when I thought I was entitled to a nicki minaj kinda sexy. Reality smacked me in the face. "What you see is what you get".

She was very sloppy, unusual. Women usually never get caught. Their infidelity is mostly known when they confess due to guilt.

Your bae ain't loyal.

They are always 24 years old. Very weird.

Tell them bro. They'll be lying down there like a dead body shouting "ye! ye! ah! mmmm!"

EggovinMma:
Why Do you think she isn't in a position to pick?

Because her face looks clapped. I'm being euphemistic, don't force me to be blunt.