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Guy, learn to use paragraphs. Look at what you posted, does it look organized to you?

The funny part was "And don't judge me". Some naij babes will be acting and dressing like sl&ts but will get crazy mad when you treat them like one. They aren't more than a one-night stand but with their fish brains they think they're worth more.

Now see this one travelling all the way down to gidi (loool) just for "big dick" and she says "don't judge me"...

GODDESS OF SLVTS!!!

pipz:
Aunty Linda, Wizzywizzy has replied u oooo

He's saying it as if anyone who hasn't achieved what he has and probably would counts as unsuccessful and sad.

So if we compare Wizkid to people younger and far more successful than him, he should feel old and sad?

Linda is richer than probably 98% of nigerian women her age in this dead country. WHY THE HELL WOULD SHE BE 35 AND SAD?

If he's saying everyone one must have his wealth and fame to be fulfilled in life, he's really thinking like a child.

The irony is, I really like his songs and hate Linda Ikeji's blog, her website is depressing. He's really coming off as a boy with no class.

mrlaw93:
Aunty Linda is jst trying hard to defend herself. Wizkid director actually fvck ur smelly ass. And fvck u for saying wizkid will come and go bt LIB is here to say. Shut up ma! Linda will come and go and Wizkid evergreen songs are here to stay. B1tch!

#UglyOldBitchLinda

Guy, chill. You're coming off as a 12 year old fan-girl. Control your hormones. Google "Linda Ikeji" and tell me her pictures are truly ugly.

Btw, was Wizkid fine before? Short and ugly but talented. I like his songs but dude still looking razz after all this years.

Guy, the fact here is Wizkid has a spoilt brat mentality. Yes, he's talented and rich but does that mean we should jump on his bus and support his lack of class? Not me o! See some Wizkid fans (obviously, the razz ones) attacking Linda like it's not her job to be brutally honest. Lol, the fact that she's mad rich is adding to the hating.

When you're unbiased, you can see how insecure and shallow some little minded boys on this thread actually look. They'll probably wanna bash me after reading this comment.

Click on "quote" and bash me too, I'm waiting.

Who says it's "tears of joy"? My guy don enter one chance.

You sure she's not being boring cause she isn't feeling you anymore? She might have lost interest. "I've gotten this guy joor, the mystery is over...he's now tiny down there again, mchewww! Next please. Hmmm, maybe that rich, buff guy that just moved in next door...and he looks like he's packing. Just need to bore this one off ". Lol.

It might be something else tho. My point is, you need to find out if she's intentionally being boring cause I know females; they talk too damn much...and they have fun doing it. Get inside her head first before jumping into conclusions.

Adaure4ever:
Madam poster, go and work, get some money and buy ur own car INSTEAD of advertising your body cheaply to car owning men.
Rubbish!

Nah, don't help her out. Let her learn the harder and more destructive way.

Jacinta44, you can ask vinshu for tips on how to get men with a house and a car. She has loads of experience.

halfricanadian:
So glad d 1% of ladies dat reason like her still exist

If i evet end up with a rich guy who shows no affection im prolly doing it to secure my future kids


But if he shows affection on a deep emotional level im with him cos i deeply love him

Well, I see a lot of that around; mothers staying in bad marriages because of their kids. Makes me wonder what marriages are to them. To suffer or to be happy?

Respect is something a lot of women overlook. "OMG, my man is an alpha male, he's dominant, he can protect and provide for me, he's made. He says he love me". Y'all never ask yourselves "is he truly respectful to me because I'm respectable or is he pretending to so he can please society he's married?". The respect will be easily earned if he knows you can be emotionally and financially independent and will leave his ass if he dulls. You see men looking for submissive, dependent women to turn into their housewife/housemaid/free-pvssy, hence run from working, ambitious women.

Respect is key ladies. Look at that one that said women should be with a man who has bought a house and a car. Would you respect a man who values your existence just because of your juicy booty and wants to have free access to it by marrying you? That dumbass would probably say "as long as he has a house and a car".

naughtynaughty, how do you want the short niggas to feel? What bout the broke niggas? The potbelly niggas nko?

It goes both ways. Y'all are just too insecure and you take it to another level.

Estharfabian:
Uhm....

If A dude doesn't Show he cares about my Ass. Like On a deep, emotional level.
Of course I'd dump his ass! The instant!


If I needed a relationship based on How much Money or gifts I got! I'd gladly Make do with A Hot SUGAR DADDY!

If you put it like that, I support you. Although I don't believe 99% of naija babes would practice what you just preached...you're completely right.

Vinshu:
Look at this nigga.

Did I write on my post that a man must buy his girlfriend galaxy and take her shopping? Did I write he must buy her a car? I was saying he must have a car and a house yes does not translate to he must buy her a car and a house. Please go back to grade school if you missing something.

The op has a car(obviously) and a house (obviously) that's what my post was about as he is capable of taking care of his wife when married. It's now left to the wife or bae to say what she wants (like his girl did).

Don't start with me man.

I'm not even gonna argue with you. Do yourself a favour, go and read your comments on your threads then come back and stop making yourself look silly. You even went as far as using the Bible to support your opinion of A MAN TAKING CARE OF HIS WOMAN'S NEEDS. He did that by buying her expensive gifts, showing her he has the finances to take care her...like you ranted about.

Now read your first comment and look at how you're contracting yourself.

Y'all women are confusing af. You say you want something and then complain about that same thing. I pity niggas who actually listen to "what women want". When they've done ping pong with your brain and you find yourself in Yaba left, it will be too late by then.

Estharfabian:
LoL!


...Nairaland Guys should please READ the post again!
The Girl's NIGERIAN O!!! and She doesn't want money!


Sometimes, Money and expensive Gifts isn't What keeps A relationship headstrong.
Most guys delude themselves into thinking All it takes to keep A girl is MoNEY, MONEY, MONEY! LoL. Sorry!
Gifts Most often that not don't show Love Or Affections.


-Buying Her the simplest things could mean twice as much as You getting her A Ferrari, A jet Or A skyscraper.
-Braiding her hair..
-Sending her texts at 2am, saying good morning.
-Doing her Nails.
-Cook Her A hot juicy meal! (if You can't cook, go n learn!)

Op, If You really want Your girl, get her that Teddy bear and Please try to Show more affections, devoid of monetary means.

HOLD THE HELL ON?! So what would you've done if you were in her shoes? You'd dump his ass for buying you expensive things?

Don't make me laugh.

Vinshu:
I'm sorry for your loss. Next time, get her a teddy bear. Instead of a Galaxy. Men.. lol always havin this idea that they can buy all women with cars and phones. Lol. Serves you right.

I think you're confused as fvck. Aren't you the one with a thread saying a man must have a house and a car? Talking about how a man must take care of his woman's needs. Now you've jumped the fence castigating the guy for doing what you were advocating a while back.

GET YOUR MIND STRAIGHT!

germainediva:
Let's just be sincere...why is staying faithful so difficult(especially for couples whom have been together for sometime)... bearing in mind dat cheating here includes chats,calls etc not just physical stuff.....dat call you can't take in d presence of ur partner or chat....seriously WHY

What do you mean "cheating here includes chats, calls etc"?

Are you saying if you chat with or call a male friend, you're cheating? Pls fully elaborate what cheating is to you.

ShutdownBrown24:
Ladies, which one of these men is your type?
We have Mr. Educated, Mr Swag, Mr handsome, Mr Businessman...
Which of them do you dream of getting married to?

All of them are handsome in the pic, bro. To make it even more unfair, "Mr Businessman" has everything. The face, the body, the dress sense, the swag (from the way he posed) plus the tag of being successful. THEN, the handsome guy looks scruffy.

It should be : Mr educated, Mr swag, Mr scruffy and Mr complete.

adegunwa4real:
Guys, remember When you chat like this with
your Spouse or Girlfriend:

You: Hey
She: Hello
You: Xup
She: I'm fyn & u?
You: Gud
She: K.

There's another guy online going
like this:

Guy: Good morning beauty, how's
ur pretty self doing 2day?
She: Lol. do u'av to make me
blush dis early morning?
Guy: You deserve that my bestie,
U always look more beautiful whenever u
blush.
She: Wow! stop flattering me
jhoor.
Guy: i'm not Baby, it's just that I
love u & ur
happiness matters a lot to me.
She: I'm in a relationship dear but the truth is that u've a way of
making me
happy whenever I chat with you.
Guy: U deserve 2 be happy, enjoy
ur day
my Angel, got 2 go now, chat
later
She:tnx Sweerie, i'll miss u, can't
wait 2 av u
back online.

There! Some weak minds would say she's too cheap to
fall for mere
words, but that's how women
were meant to
be. They like soft words from
their spouses, it makes them happy though some might not tell you, as a matter of fact 90% won't beg you for sweet words or complimets. But a real man should know when and how to Give it to her and watch her melt.

The greatest mistake a man can make
in a relationship is giving another
man a chance to make his woman happy. Some guys can't even remember when Last dem
tell their Babe, 'baby u are beautiful'.
The best they do is ask "baby when we go
see naa?" Cos all their brain could process is "Sex"! Well...she's not a sex machine to you but a precious Gift, Cherish her and watch her build your world with you!

Learn to make your partner
happy and cared
for her, before it gets too late!
But sha, whatever u do, don't forget money o(masterkey)

You're partially wrong. If you give sweet yanz to a chick that has zero interest in you in any way she'll still dull the convo. If you keep trying hard then you'll look too desperate which is worse.

It's about both parties wanting each others company first, then the communication skills come second. Get? So, they're more than one factors that make an enjoyable convo.

adegunwa4real:
Guys, remember When you chat like this with
your Spouse or Girlfriend:

You: Hey
She: Hello
You: Xup
She: I'm fyn & u?
You: Gud
She: K.

There's another guy online going
like this:

Guy: Good morning beauty, how's
ur pretty self doing 2day?
She: Lol. do u'av to make me
blush dis early morning?
Guy: You deserve that my bestie,
U always look more beautiful whenever u
blush.
She: Wow! stop flattering me
jhoor.
Guy: i'm not Baby, it's just that I
love u & ur
happiness matters a lot to me.
She: I'm in a relationship dear but the truth is that u've a way of
making me
happy whenever I chat with you.
Guy: U deserve 2 be happy, enjoy
ur day
my Angel, got 2 go now, chat
later
She:tnx Sweerie, i'll miss u, can't
wait 2 av u
back online.

There! Some weak minds would say she's too cheap to
fall for mere
words, but that's how women
were meant to
be. They like soft words from
their spouses, it makes them happy though some might not tell you, as a matter of fact 90% won't beg you for sweet words or complimets. But a real man should know when and how to Give it to her and watch her melt.

The greatest mistake a man can make
in a relationship is giving another
man a chance to make his woman happy. Some guys can't even remember when Last dem
tell their Babe, 'baby u are beautiful'.
The best they do is ask "baby when we go
see naa?" Cos all their brain could process is "Sex"! Well...she's not a sex machine to you but a precious Gift, Cherish her and watch her build your world with you!

Learn to make your partner
happy and cared
for her, before it gets too late!
But sha, whatever u do, don't forget money o(masterkey)

You're partially wrong. If you give sweet yanz to a chick that has zero interest in you in any way she'll still dull the convo. If you keep trying hard then you'll look too desperate which is worse.

It's about both parties wanting each others company first, then the communication skills come second. Get? So, theyreore than one factors that make an enjoyable convo.

daretodiffer:
You are

Sweet!

kaziblake:
it's happened to me too.

Looool. Who else? Tell me how many female victims you know and I'll tell you how many men I know who got dumped for a rich guy. Should I now label all naija women gold-diggers?

If it makes you feel better, I'm one of the good guys. Do you yourself a long term favor and count the good guys first. Focusing on good people (like me) brings so much positivity to your life.

daretodiffer:
Stop trying too hard

It happens to women too

Deal with it

It happens to men too.

As soon as she's upgraded (by bae's hard earned money) and more eligible to a rich nigga, she'll dump bae's ass and move up the ladder.

Am I right too or are you only bashing men here?

kaziblake:
Who doesn't like the good things of life?
Some guys aren't worth the stress.

I know a lady that suffered and stayed with a broke guy till he made Money,when money came, he realised the girl wasn't his type.

Can you listen to yourself? "I know a lady"...A LADY O, not women, a lady and you fixate your mentality on what happened to "a lady".

What are you gonna say now? That you know more ladies?

Vinshu:
In my country, feminists are recognised and besides, no man is and no man will dominate me. Seems you don't know me

First, I doubt you're really who you say you are. This is most probably a Nigerian chick going incognito to support women being completely selfish with her possessions and relying on her husband for his.

Second, if you're really not a Nigerian, its seems unnatural that you'd come here and try TOO HARD to convince people far away from you about your views. I read your comments about how things in "your country" are better and how you have a "good job" and make "more money". Seriously, what right do you think you have coming down here to castigate Nigerian men when your NOT gonna marry or date one and will probably never meet one.......except you're really a Nigerian female?

Another thing, you quote the Bible and then go to say you're an "atheist". Most atheists don't wanna justify Christianity by reading the Bible and approving enlightenment. When they do quote the Bible, its always things to use against Christians to prove logical, moral and scientific flaws. I had enough atheist friends, I schooled in UK. It's odd that you're using the Bible to prove your points (which contradicts being an atheist)...except you're a typical religious Nigerian female who knows her way around the Holy Book.

Too many red flags.

KashyBaby:
Don't worry if he got a plan b...next time he told u that again, tell him as well u have a plan B & C...u must have ur own tactics when playing with his game..girls called it a reverse psychology ...

But remember this, not all men we dated are meant for us forever...so I betta step up ur game.

This is how girls start drama in relationships, you're even telling her to go with the flow. Till she destroys the relationship, right?

She asked a selfish, cold question and he gave a cold answer. Was he meant to give an answer that would make him look hopeless without her? He might be lying about having a "plan B" cause I know guys well, we don't wanna look weak and needy.

Bbsharon, reassure him he doesn't need a plan B, let him know you've got his back. Don't play any immature games.

Teempakguy:
Guy, you be olodo so?

The reality of the situation is that boys need girls more than girls need boys. Sad truth.

Of course, there aren't enough guys, so girls are often left to scramble for the ones that are left. giving the illusion that they can't do without Guys.

WHO THE HELL TOLD YOU THAT?! Can you be this naive? Who are the ones running around more often for emotional and financial dependence? How are the ones desperate for long term relationships and marriage? Cos the last time I checked men are the ones in the wild hustling and bustling to get made while women are looking for support from already made men.

Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.

Now you're talking without facts or personal experiences. Survey on a dating website shows black women are the least desired. If you're interested, I'll find you the link, it's on YouTube. It's been a while since I watched it but I think Latino women where the most desired women.

Listen and listen good, I schooled in UK (not bragging) and I've seen with my eyes and heard with my ears from men of other races. The usual answer they give me when I ask them about dating a black woman is that black women act too aggressive and loud, not gentle and feminine looking like their women. I remember my white roomie saying "they look like they can kick my ass, bro. They intimidate me". It's pains me sometimes because I love and appreciate black women generally (not the Nigerian ones tho). Non-black men are too soft, trust me, they can't handle you masculine women.

A good number of UK white girls on the other hand are generally attracted to masculinity. That is: tall, tough looking, broad shoulders, confident, deep voice etc. Indians and Asians don't date men beside their men because of tradition. Indian girls are so freakin cute and it pained me they weren't into black guys. Both were nice and gentle tho.

Please, don't go to Europe and embarrass yourself by looking desperate for a white man. They love their women and are mostly against interracial dating. Only black men can handle men-looking women like Nigerian girls. Stop jonzing. Lol.

That's the thing. We guys need to be single and patiently develop ourselves in all aspects (financially, physically, emotionally, spiritually etc) so you can clearly spot majority of these messed-up females and ex them swiftly.

If you're flawed, you'll have lower self-esteem and settle for less. Plus, what right would you have to point fingers when you're a piece of work yourself? Be like me and take a break from these waste-of-time-and-money...especially the ones that dated players, bad boys, aristos and wanna punish the innocent niggas for their well deserved heart breaks.

Upgrade yourself and find you a keeper.

Josephamstrong1:
Ogbeni, u stl get tym to preach? 'em bitches r so lazy for workouts. thr adolescents blooming gets to thr empty skulls, neglecting wateva u wana tel 'em abt thr body and health. they cry foul, claim and gv flimsy excuses juz to console demselves.... as u already seeing here.
They want d best buh can't work for it. lemme juz hush here.
ciao.

I know, right? They'll complain that we only care about looks and not what's inside. They'll use this mentality to eat anyhow and claim they have a beautiful personality lmao. These same girls will judge a guy by his assets and account balance. "I want a rich, financially secured, popular man who will look past my poor body shape and love me for who I really am". Nigerian women are funny. *smh*

Really? We all know most Nigerian women care only about financial security.

And I'm beginning to think most Nigerian men are the product of how those women think. "Abi money is the only important thing to them. Infidelity? She go stay. Verbal, emotional and physical abuse? House and car dey, no wahala. Getting overweight? Wetin concyn am, money dey. 5-second sex? DSTV dey dere joor".

And these men will exactly live family-destructive, unhealthy, egotistic, sexist lives...since Nigerian women will manage.

So, potbelly is not a problem for majority of them. Don't worry, just get the money.

Morountodun:
You can't hate on them. For some if not most of these girls, it is their childhood diet (eating late at night etc) and the fact women do not burn out fat like men.

I'm not hating them...just the unhealthy lifestyle. It's hard but it's possible to change. If they give in and accept their flaws then they will suffer the consequences. Older people who are suffering for the lifestyle in their younger days, if they could go back I'm sure they'll be like f@#k excuses, I'll value my health much more. Diabetes, HBP, heart diseases ain't a joke man. See for yourself:

http://www.m.webmd.com/diet/features/impact-of-weight-on-your-body

Leriebloom:
The self love is here dear, and i am my own beautiful

Sweet . Good night.

Morountodun:
You have options

Stop projecting your negativity, bad belle!

Just saying we should all try to be better versions of ourselves including physically, and inspire others to do the same...even tho I have to come off blunt and mean.

Good luck, sir.