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If you're thrusting and she's "coming" and you wanna be sure, pull out and watch her well for a while. If she's still unaware of your actions and still acting like she's having convulsion, she's on cloud nine. If she looks at you with her normal face and says something like "are you done?" "why did you stop?" or "is someone knocking?"...MY GUY YOU NO TRY AT ALL!

My advice is not to try and find out because stats shows women fake it most of the time, and I mean MOST. Very sad. Just enjoy the intimacy.

Dude, have you ever been on a rollercoaster? Your screaming, closing your eyes, grabbing something. It's scary but you craving that excitement real bad.

frankkydee:
must you meet someone before you know they are foolish?

How will I believe they are this foolish? This one is unusual. Read his last question again.

I think you should change it to "his attitude after sex". Body no be firewood, sex will most likely happen. Some men think they 'in love' after months or even years of a no-sex relationship. When they eventually have sex, he then realises wanting to boink her was the foundation of the relationship. The relationship slowly dies. It's even worse when the sex is very terrible. Serious frustration!

I never ever believe posts like these because I've never met a person this foolish. Niggas, keep trolling ehn. I ain't chopping.

There's a difference between approaching someone desperately and approaching someone confidently. Simply because she approaches a guy doesn't mean she's confident. She might be very desperate at that point in time and guys can sense it. Her body language should say "I find you attractive, I wanna get to know you more" NOT "I already like you, please like me back".

He must be a faithful, made man...which actually doesn't exist here. They'll just settle for made men.

BeastOfNoNation:
If your daughter told you that she wants to be an engineer, would you tell her she should play her role and shut her mouth? Would you tell her that she is supposed to be dependant on a man her entire life?

And why are you assuming that I attack men for being strong?

All these anti-feminist rants don't make sense. Feminism means DON'T TELL ME THAT BECAUSE I'M A WOMAN I CAN'T DO ANYTHING. Gbam. That is feminism. If a woman begins hating men, then that is misandry. There is a difference between feminism and misandry. I am a feminist (as some guys are) but I am in NO way a misandrist.

You said that women want to work in easy jobs and not the same jobs as men? In Sweden, men and women are equal in ANY job place. Sweden is ranked as the most gender equal country in the world. Nigeria on the other hand is at 118 out of 142 countries. Even India was ranked above us and that country is known as the rape capital of the world. The way they disrespect women is appalling.

I'm telling you that female brains are not made lesser than males. It's society and culture that raises women to be inferior. God didn't create them that way.

Before I begin, I respect you for arguing logically.

To me, feminism is saying "Look, I'm not financially dependent , physically weaker and emotionally needy like majority of the women. So, I wanna change how men look at ALL WOMEN because of me and a few other exceptional women". You and other feminists are suffering from the reputation women have shown since the beginning of time...THEN YOU BLAME MEN FOR IT (the funniest part). You should be blaming majority of women for being the traditional woman.

Concerning the the job sector, the most lucrative jobs require aggressive qualities men MAINLY possess: oil and gas, construction, computer and engineering technology etc. not modelling, fashion designing etc dominated by women because they are more interested in looking nice. Ranting for Nigerian women will not do anything. Why? Because they are busy enjoying the benefits of being taken care of, of being protected. But who protects and provides for the man? The woman? I categorically doubt that.

Maybe in Sweden, women are ACTUALLY PROVING to be as capable in every job sector. Definitely not in Nigeria, where women focus more on getting married or being in a relationship with a made man than being a MADE WOMAN. All I hear is: SHOPPING, BIG WEDDING, MARRIAGE, RELATIONSHIP, KIDS, FASHION, OTHER WOMEN, HANGING WITH BFFS, CELEBRITY GOSSIP, HAVING 2000 NICE PICTURES OF HERSELF, HOT GUYS, VACATION etc. Too many distractions. Do you know what we men think of here? Being successful and showing the world, being a provider, being alpha, sex, sports, the end. Men here in Nigeria are more driven to make money.

Vinshu:
Trash

'Trash' without pointing out why? Typical from women when they are cornered and can make a comeback. Now I'll reply the other female that I can constructively argue with and learn a thing or two from.

Vinshu:
First of all.. this is what we, the feminists are fighting against. In the Nigerian environment there is discrimination against women. African men in general have the Alpha-like feeling that they are the boss of the boss.

And they present it in a way that women are lesser than they are. It's true. Even in the economy, the top positions in offices are run by Men, even major paying jobs are run by Men. Women are mostly traders (Petty) why?

All government offices are headed by Men. In fact I heard a news that a state in South East Nigeria appointed a Man to head women affairs. How long would this continue?

A guy does a favor for you, he expects a Mouth Action. Why?

They feel when they marry you they are doing you are favor. WTF?

If a girl express her feelings towards a guy she cares about.. she is cheap.

I was at an event last week and a guy requested my contact info and I was hesitant in releasing it to him then he offered me money. Why? Like I'm some LovePeddler? Most men have the idea that all women are prostitutes. .direct and indirect that we all love money. It's rude and disrespectful but who cares? It's Men's world.

A girl is raped they blame the girl for her dressing and no one blames the guy. Continue.. there is God.

No one cares about a girl's opinion in a conversation once 3 guys have spoken.. whether it's good or bad it's settled.

I do not blame these men because women are in the shadows. It's time to start fighting for our place in the society and stop feeding them that ego or giving them the chance to feel on top.

So @Op, not Nigeria alone. .it's everywhere.

If you want to get married make sure you use brute force.

The same chick will be like I wanna marry an alpha male who can make me feel secured, who can provide for my needs and take care of me. Good luck marrying a soft nigga with no balls. One day, you'll wake up and start hating him "what a weakling".

You feminists say you want equal rights but be honest, how many women put equal efforts? How many women want to become police women, SOLDIERS, engineers, boxers (LOL) etc. They are too difficult for you women abi? You want to do fashion designing, accounting, business management, law etc. Jobs that don't involve RISKING YOUR LIVES! Please I'm talking in general o, I don't care if your aunt is in the army. You're blinded by your own ideas you don't wanna face facts, facts that women are dependent, softer, emotional creatures and men are the dominant, tougher, logical creatures. God designed things this way for balance: Day/night, man/woman, good/evil, life/death etc.

BUT if you still wanna continue being a feminist (thank you for wasting my time) STOP ATTACKING MEN FOR BEING STRONGER AND ATTACK WOMEN FOR BEING WEAKER! Start with, blaming your kind for being financially dependent, physically weak and too damn emotional. Tell them to be the providers and the protectors...or just, PLAY YOUR ROLE AND SHUT YOUR MOUTH!

Cuddle ko hug ni. So I'll now be smelling of period abi? Plus I'll be in good position for her to grab and squeeze my nuts out of frustration...NO, THANK YOU!

humilitypays:
Good evening bro, sincerely, in as much as I would like to argue some of your points, I am nodding in agreement to all u said, well said.....very mature and sensible response

Respect bro!

Your article will be 100% if niggas were getting the fruit of labour.Atm, it's favor from God and the few good privileged men still existing. It's no longer just hardwork, passion and determination, L O freaking L!

What women need to do now is be that ambitious, hard working, God fearing woman that can stand by an ambitious, hard working, God fearing man. KPERE!!!

God fearing (not church goers) is very crucial because mostly God fearing people really appreciate life itself even though they don't live large. What if that big house or flashy cars never come? GOD DEY!

Elan83:
remain blssd bro,, d apostles of diz kinda topics 're doin more harm 2 our ladies dan gud,, dis z a con3 wit 5% med men & abt 85% hustling yng men & dis milions of lazy old & yng women're frownin at dis guys witin 4 doz so called med men, i pitty our ladies,, keep decievin urslves,, mad ppl

IT IS SERIOUS IGNORANCE O! Majority of the youths are suffering for just a job, not even a good job, ANY JOB. Niggas went to school, worked hard, got good grades, graduated, looked for career jobs but couldn't find. Niggas settled for lesser underpaying jobs, hustling and bustling to live average life. Niggas will now chyke an equally broke, jobless chick. She'll now frown and say "YOU ARE NOT MY TYPE". Because she uses money WHICH THEIR PARENTS SUFFERED FOR O to form big girls. Driving around with daddy's car or using daddy's money (including the hustling daddies o) for sexy clothes, make up, gadgets, accessories. Most of them will now look at a nigga who goes into the wild to survive by himself...AND BELITTLE HIM! The thunder that will fire all you gold diggers is gymming with steroids mixed with cocaine.

Take away their fathers money or investments in them, these girls will not survive ONE DAY!

LAZY NEEDY BRATS!!!

Note: This is NOT dedicated to the real, hustling women out there that know what the hustle is like but still strive to be the best she can be, career wise and financially. You the best joor.

IBROHIM:
my guy you too much! You deserve 10 kg of Sallah ram meat!

It'll do. Text it to me abeg.

OP LISTEN TO ME! You're not getting the issue. It's like a country where 95% of women are fat and ugly and majority of the men are like "I MUST MARRY A SLIM, CUTE CHICK". Very ignorant, right? We need to ADAPT to our surroundings. As you said, population is rising with lesser jobs available due to stunted growth in the country's economy. Now, you are indirectly saying all women MUST be with a financially stable man by saying all men MUST be financially stable before getting a partner. When he's 44 abi?

Listen, things have changed. Relationship is also a hustle nowadays, 'hustle' in the sense that we need relationships to go through hard times more than good times. Blame this dead country.

And ladies, keep searching for "made men" ehn. To one made man, there are 150 interested babes. HE'LL BE A FOOL NOT TO MESS AROUND! After suffering he'll now settle with one woman? RUBBISH! Which one is love? Did you love him when he had nothing? ABEG SHARRAP DER!!!

Have you been living in a hole? Where you born yesterday? Are you new to heterosexuality (i.e. doing females) because you still sound gayishly ignorant. Guys like are what females call "nice guys", "doormats", "predictable", "boring" etc. They take you for a fool because they instinctively dislike weaklings like you, ACTING like your goal in life is to please them. You're now in the part of the world where 95% of them are gold diggers. If you like be forming True love starring Emeka Ike, and don't focus on getting made. You go chop friendzoning die.

Leave her voicemails to wake up to? WHAT THE HELL?!

prettythicksme:
lmao!!in dis situation i wont mind about d bad sex!
Show me what i am missing? here i guss

You'll take back what you said after I give you multiple orgasms. It's up to you though.

agarawu23:
not all
Some rich busy business men don't have that time

But when they eventually have time nko? I'm talking one night stands not affairs. It takes one free night with their other rich friends in a club or party. Just one. And when he starts and enjoys the thrill...game over.

prettythicksme:
i no fit follow dat first guy!!i wont lie!

You underestimate the effect of bad sex in a marriage. Women are dying in silence.

Maybe...just maybe you don't know what your missing dear, I can show you. It's like...HEAVEN!

Op, the CEO is meant to be the cheat. Rich men are more likely to be monogamous.

prettythicksme:
Den i will go ahead and suck d dick

Hahahaha! My Lord! See girls living horror movie lives for money. Hilarious!

prettythicksme:
op since i hate to lie,i will go for CEO anyday anytime!

Imagine waking up in the middle of the night and you turn around to see if CEO is sleeping but CEO is staring at you. Lights off, just a little moonlight to see his red eyes looking into your. Then he whispers "I'll never let you go...never. Now suck my tiny prick"

Toks2008:
Absolutely on point and just as you wrrote,eearrly marriage but we guys should just try to oveerlook that asspect of weight gan because eeven as men we tend to grow bg and even some of us ddevelop protrudng tummy.

But as you wrote ladies should keep ther tummy considerably flat to avod looking lke a pregnant woman all the time.

OMG, potbelly on young women, it's too repulsive bro. I get you on the weight gain with aging but women need to pay more attention to their looks than us. The wife should stay attractive, the husband should stay financially secured.

Mikel fanboys. Y'all are defending him because he's NIGERIAN. Mikel lacks the work rate that a solid DM should have. He's not difficult to dribble and when he's dribbled, he struggles to catch up. Go check his rating on FIFA 16, he's the lowest with an overall of 77. Stop being blinded by patriotism. Mikel is only good for last 15 mins. Why did you think he was the 1st to be subbed against Everton? The CBs were constantly exposed and it was forcing Ivanovic to run into the box to give support instead of man-marking the winger. Watch Naismith's 2nd goal again. See how the back was exposed after he was dribbled off?

I won't take away the fact that his passing is on point and neat but the MAIN JOB of a defensive midfielder is to cover the centrebacks. If he can't do that effectively then he's a liability. Picture a striker who passes well, dribbles well, is a good team player but doesn't finish his chances. Isn't it better to have a player with ALL THE RIGHT QUALITIES FOR HIS ROLE?

I hate Arsenal but I have to give it to Coquelin, bloody energetic. Please, that guy needs to do drug test.

At the end of the day, I understand. I'm pretty sure Chelsea fans in Serbia will still show Ivanovic support even with his dreadful form.

Staying in shape is also important. African women tend to lose interest in looking fit and blame child birth for their laziness. Ladies, imagine your hubby getting broke and lazy and blaming it on the economy...that's how we feel when you become shapeless.

Note: I mean early in marriage.

Mother: Charles!!! CHARLES!!!
Charles: YES MAMA! *runs into the sitting room in his tattered singlet and boxers*
Mother: what are you doing, my only son?
Charles: I am learning how to win the heart of every beautiful woman in our village, mama *chesting out and speaking confidently*
Mother: Hmmmmm, I see, my son. Bend down and let me give you my blessing.
Charles: thank you, mama. *bends down to his mother sitting at the edge of her chair, adjusting herself*
KPASH!!!
(music: ghen ghen, ghen ghen)
Charles: Mama you sla...
KPASH!!!
Charles: Bet why, mama?.................BEETTTT WHHHYYYYYY?!!! *camera zooms onto his face as he cries out*

*screen blacks out*

TO BE CONTINUED...

WILL POOR CHARLES GET SENSE NOW? WATCH OUT FOR PART 2!

IN GOD WE TRUST

Cast
Charles - Charles Nneji
Mother - Patience Ozokwor aka mama gee

Crew
Written by - Tommy chow
Music by - Tommy chow
Produced by - Tommy chow
Directed by- Tommy chow

HAVE-SENSE PRODUCTIONS NIG. LTD.

Very good write up, but summarize. Makes a lot of sense though.

misspicy:
No one is denying they still exist buh how do we identify dem,no rapist will tell u am a rapist,until u find out,babe pray u dnt fall victim,beta not to trust any guy at all,dan to trust d 'good' ones and be raped.

The good ones are the "nice guys" u all label to be boring, a doormat, too churchy, predictable and "poor in bed". You see these beta males as unattractive with no sexual appeal.

Please tell me if you have visited one of your single pastors or the other single male workers in ur church. Oh! They aren't your type right? They too goody-two-shoes for you, not exciting enough abi?

You like the "cool guys", "bad boys" etc the ones that can "WOO" you, that are spontaneous and interesting with manly, aggressive, sexually attractive aura......and can spend on ur needy a.s.s.

See mumus want to eat their cake and have it. Please stick to MFM prayer warriors and stop complaining.

Well said, but if you think men don't have it as bad in Nigeria, think again. Men have their own hardships and so do women. I've seen friends and I go through a lot of shyt but still end up good enough. I've seen others use rough childhood as an excuse to become everything wrong with this world. A man doesn't just grow up and decide to fvck other ppls lives up.

About men being slvts, hypocrites to women (not rapists and killers o, your going too far with that one), it all comes down to women being way too dependent on men for survival. BELIEVE ME, men respect STRONG AND RESPONSIBLE women. Niggaz don't fvcks with them. Men will only check 'em and wish they could even try to talk to her. No sane man will call a hardworking and ambitious woman who wants a successful man a good digger. I know the girls I call gold diggers, the ones that their occupation is to be in a relationship and live off her man's earnings. No goals, no dreams, no future plans, no ambitions. Am I supposed to respect her? HELL NO! Neither do I respect men who are foolish enough to support their laziness. BLOODY DOGS!

Finally, you addressed men should bash men. Listen, people hate what they don't understand. As a man, I know the crazy konji we have on an hourly basis, you don't. To an extent, every man understands each other. Same goes to you. I doubt you'll eagerly bash women for their flaws you understand and we men don't. You get?

#beforesex I think I'm crazy about you
#aftersex I think I need you to leave...and never come back...ever.

Orijin101:
Buahahahaha.. .. ..
Or else, blood shall share

She go turn cosmetic surgeon dat night.

Trust me, some girls are masochists. I've met about three girls that wanted me to force myself on them. They wanted me to manhandle them, force a deep kiss while I aggressively grab her ass, squeeze my muscular self on their weak, vulnerable, sexy bodies. SMH