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Bosman17:
What I don’t understand is why the so much rush to bury him. He’s not even a Muslim, so why can’t an autopsy be carried out to ascertain the cause of his death

Every family have their custom and tradition

In their own family, it might be their tradition to quickly bury any young chap who dies below a certain age

mbeast:
This whole thing is funny. You sure the guy isn't the one forcing himself on the babe?
like seriously i get it that couples may talk about their plans in their marriage how they would build businesses and bla bla togeda which isnt bad.
However, making it a condition that i must fulfil before i will marry you( which in this case isn't a chicken change condition that one will just open his wallet and pay for)

she has said it in her mind and maybe discussed with her friends that she won't marry until/unless her man is a house owner. To me dats a red flag. 2mao that same lady will say she can't stay in that house cos it doesn't befit her.

Of course the OP said her babe isn't like dat( i laff) just like when someone told u ur babe is/was sleeping with one guy she calls her frnd but you beat ur chest and say naah, not my babe, they r just frnds. until e clear for your eye.

Don't let emotions/luv cloud you sense of logical reasoning.

You have spoken wisely... To me, I'm picturing the lady as someone that wants to live in her fairytales... You know those kind of ladies that have already picture themselves not settling for a man that doesn't own a car or a house at least to start with

The OP just needs to be careful and thread with caution especially when dealing with a woman that is putting you on a condition before settling down with you

Even couples that are already married do not rush into building house because there are still some things in place before considering building a house

mbeast:
I wanted to say this but you beat me to it. this is the best comment ever.
The guy is just a ho**y dude and obviously not thinking well.
Who does joint venture before marriage? You don't even know if your marriage will last one year(of course u will say godforbid) but a lady is already convincing and conditioning you to build a house together with her tiny 250k that can't erect a fence.
Mtcheww Bro masturbate and cum so u can come to ur senses.
That lady ain't ready to marry yet.

I thought I was the only one thinking towards that direction

No sensible lady would ever buy the idea of going into joint venture before marriage to the extent that she will be insisting that the joint venture has to happen before marriage.. Not even material venture ooo but property venture when they haven't even been married legally

Funny enough, they haven't even done introduction. Na only propose dem still do

Some things don't seem right

Building a house to completion in this economy is a not a child's play and the fact that she says she's willing to wait for as long as it takes else no marriage is where the real concern is

She may have good intentions but thread with caution no matter how comforting her advice may seem

Atletico Madrid

olaniyilukman:
They are lazy in that video, see the way the guy they knack self

I'm not sure there was penetration.. Watch it closely again!

UnfairLife7:
were you there when she leaked it? I wonder how some of you guys easily come to conclusions about something that didn't take place in your presence

It's very obvious she did it for clout chasing

Reason being that it was recorded by a third party

cathodekazim:
If you believe say Moyo lawal didn't consent to the leakage, then I Blv you should have your brain reset

I've watched the video times and times again. It was planned, deliberate and consensual

I noticed it too.. She leaked the video herself

If you watch the video again you will discover it wasn't even the guy taking the video. It was a third party and you can hear her telling the guy to focus on the camera

webincomeplus:
You don't use "modern" English without sense. In communication, there's location-based context. Which means you choose words based on how they're widely understood in your locale. Some words that are absolutely fine in the UK might be offensive in Australia.

Some words that are offensive in the UK might be better understood here in Nigeria. And when you talk to Nigerians, use what they understand.

Go and face a Nigerian audience and start calling them "people of color". Then tell me how majority would react. We don't have to be zombies! Even in modern dictionaries, there are some words that are officially regarded as "NIGERIAN English".

Learn to take corrections with humility bro

Forget all this blabbing you're making.. It's offensive to use the word "crippled" to describe a physically challenged person and no physically challenged person would be happy being described with such word

Do you even need the dictionary to tell you that?

Dshocker:
Seems you are occupied with office work, as to why you don't write anymore.

Like 5yrs ago, you literally used to write almost everyday

It used to be that way but I had other distractions that prevented me

Yes I still write and post but I haven't been doing that on Nairaland.. I've also been thinking of how to return back but it hasn't been easy ehn

digitalheadline:
While I agree that $100k is big and I am not down playing it but the goal isn't to have $100k. It is to be a dollar millionaire.
You can think whatever you like and say whatever you like.

All I'm trying to let you know is that there's no country in the world where the economy is designed to make $100k seem like a small money

Ernesthugo:
in abroad save 100million is a joke unless u do realestate in large qUANITY WITH THE MONEY EARNED FROM WORKING THERE

And someone is telling me that $100k is not a big money as if $100k is N100,000

Do such people ever consider less privileged people and the ratio of those earning that annually before making such statement or is it just that everyone abroad is financially stable?

obaidan:
Let me ask you, what percentage of Nigerians living in Nigeria will smell 100m in their lifetime....

That's it bro!

99% of Nigerians will only hear that figure, they won't smell it in their lifetime

In fact, not all rich businessmen can boast of N100m.. Assets wise, yes! But cash wise, not all have such amount because business minded people don't stockpile notes in their bank

digitalheadline:
Them don brain wash una head tire for naija. Better leave if you can. $100k no be money again for yankee. People dey aim to be dollar millionaires now...

And who's talking about a million Dollars?

Go and sit down bro..

$100k is a big money anywhere in the world no matter how you try to use exception to downplay it. Exception is not always the standard to judge things

Very funny question!

N100m is about $100k

Even in the US, 90% of people no go smell $100k in their lifetime

HRprof:
Yes that’s why you hardly see Africa’s settle there for hustling like they do in other countries

You hardly find Nigerians in such a country

Nigerians and lawlessness are 5 and 6

It all depends on the situation. In some situations, money is superior to power and vice versa

But in the grand scheme of things, I think money is superior to power and my reason is this, you can't have certain power or privileges in life without money but with money, you can buy your way up to have access to most things

In summary, money itself is the strongest form of power

Acidosis:
Even my kids would be surprised that I'm not standing by their mother. Anyone who can fight (beef) your wife to the point of not talking to her will not respect you. Engaging in conversations with such individuals will only amplify the disrespect. It's only a matter of time before they come after you as well. They will insult your wife in the middle of conversations and come for you after a while.

If you want to experience maximum disrespect, start talking to someone who doesn't rate your spouse.

May God bless you for this comment... Some people are just funny sha

Do you know that some men have so much protected their wives and children that when they pass away, dem no born any family member well to start frustrating the wife and children

descarado:
That's a very dangerous precedence.

Elders always advocate never to take side. They have their reasons.
As we age, we see why they always say that.
Annie idibia is not in speaking terms with tuface child mamas. Should tuface do the same?
You know the answer and to Annie and those in her shoe, that's the right thing to do. Tuface should support her.

Also, in some families, a wife is never wholly accepted. Someone somewhere in that family don't really like her, the husband should take the side of the wife in your opinion?

As for what happens outside, spouse maybe lying. It's his business and has nothing to do with me.
I won't put my head to defend what I don't understand before it will cost me my life and oga will continue with his life as soon as I had passed away.
Marriage is not sustained by rioting emotions rather wisdom.
As a matter of fact, this was one of the wise sayings laid down to me during my trado on both sides to never involve myself in what does not concern me.
I will rather be a mediator.

So, the wise saying laid down to you during your own trado was that should any family member arise to frustrate your wife because they don't really like her, you will stay neutral without taking sides?

cococandy:
I don’t even know why it’s a question. You hurt my person, me and you will have problems for life. Period.

I read some comments and was wondering the kind of relationship people are into that warranted such comments

I thought couples should have common interest and enemy

DenreleDave:
You mean Penaldo fans

No loud am bro

This reminds me of how some people became the fans of Saudi Arabia, Australia, Mexico and Croatia at the FIFA World Cup

Let me end it there

id4sho:
Boss,
Longtime, I miss your topics

Omo e don tey bro

phemmyfour:
Even if she's at fault

Yes you have to inherit your partner's enemy unless you end up with a spouse who goes around making troubles

So many immature responses here

Yes you should and it depends. In friendship, you may not but in marriage, you should

The only exception here is if your spouse was the one at fault or a troublesome. Barring that, you can't be my wife's enemy and expect me not to inherit the beef

Politics at work here


They're both friends

lagusboyyy:
Same here.

I have been using itel A60 since April,so far so good,the device has been serving me well.
And it is really sleek,the design is top notch,some people do think its a very costly phone,especially if you dont use pouch with it.

Itel really tried.

The phone is very beautiful without a pouch

Using the white pouch that comes with is still nice but risky in case it falls.. Using any other pouch aside that white follow come pouch kills the beauty

Do you use the follow come pouch with yours or you use it without pouch?

Youngpo413:
does it support fast charging atleast 33watt, how about the processorand screen resolution?

I decided to give Itel A60s a trial about a month ago.. When I wanted to buy it, I dey panic say hope say my money no go enter voice mail like this but to my surprise, the phone has been working fine.. I have never experienced lagging whatsoever which was my major concern

Went back two weeks later and bought Itel P40 for my wife and she has never made a single complain about the phone likewise myself too

I think Itel did a good comeback to rectify their ways

When people refuse to treat you with open arms, learn to preserve your self esteem by giving them their space

You don't have to force the friendship that isn't there in the first place. Just wish them congrats. That's all

Lordsinger:
It's not so easy trust me.
We've talked about this, we know the implications if we continue.
But then, I feel our bond getting stronger ever since we found out we shouldn't BE.

That's why I'm here seeking advice,
I don't know what I feel lately, if it's love, pity or undiscovered emotion.

Marriage is not easy.. Even those who conceived and gave birth shortly after marriage and never went through the stress and headaches of artificial insemination still don't find marriage easy

The loads of responsibilities that come with marriage isn't a child's play and when you add the issue of artificial insemination to it again especially for someone like you that wants to bear many children.. Omo! That love and bond wey still dey shark you now go clear for your eyes

The question is, are you psychologically, emotionally and financially ready for the foreseen stress that can be easily avoided now?

I no understand any maths topic till date

Is it just me that is having the feeling that she may be late?