₦airaland Forum

sokul:
You don deh follow religious gists abi...

adepeter26:
A nursery 1 child would rather remain mute than utter this trash...

Cc Tosyne2much, wetin you fit talk about this

octopusfreaky:
Nahh, it isnt needed on ds thread, advice her only and if u cant. Let go cox you are not her Creator.

octopusfreaky:
@tonyebarcanista and tosyne2much, na ur type dey make some people commit suicide. To that guy dat suggested her marrying a 55 years man, God forgive you..To d OP, where is the father of the baby and why cant you go to him. You neeed to give reasons why you cant marry the man.
Ask God for forgiveness and become a worker in the house of God and see God work wonders.
Then, you come back on this same nairaland to give testimony.

fratermathy:
Her lawsuit came weeks before SuLAIRman gathered the nerve to sue her back. Once this case is over, you sheeple will bow down in shame.

Edwinmason and Tosyne2much: Sheeple of the year 2017! How market?


http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2017/03/pastor-johnson-suleiman-accused-of.html

Bollinger:
Of course na. There is nothing more fulfilling that taking advantage of sheep.

samijay8:
What're we even waiting for? Nigeria is finished and this people calling themselves pastor dey keep finishing us like Andrea Belloti. Make u kuku tell people to stay at home and as long alert is coming in, their prayer is being answered. Make no stupid touch not my anointed quote me else na sango go strike that person

Bollinger:
I am opening a church soon. I know for sure you will be a member. Welcome in advance.

Absa:
That was hw i saw 2007 camry on NL for 4.7m nd i cud nt help but wonder what kind of tin hatred we av for each oda...

azimibraun:
Now that was bad!!! The unprofessional conduct of the Doctor should be investigated.

Acidosis:
Humans generally love lies and there's a likelihood that majority would dislike an honest man, one who spill nothing but facts without unnecessary sugar-coating.

We also have another set of humans, these ones love to run away from reality, only to embrace the sugar-coated talks of idealists. Ideas are fine, for example ideas from people telling the OP to make money. Imagine telling an already devastated 30+ year old(?) lady, who has struggled since graduation, to make money. What kind of money can she probably make in this desperate time much more than what a single and searching Genevieve Nnaji has made in her lifetime?
Money is absolutely good and more money? Great, but who is going to make the money for her?

Making more money may sound like an easy way to attract a man (bad or good man), but it remains the fastest root to damnation, since the foundation is bad.

Whoever truly loves this lady will tell her the basic truth, without necessarily attaching damnable suggestion.

@OP, I would advise you to remain single and love your baby, than make some imaginary money to attract an i m b e c i l e in the name of finding an husband.

OP, if you must make money desperately, it is better to do desperate things (olosho), and use the yields to take good care of yourself and your child. That sounds better and much more greater than struggling for money only to spend the yields on pampers and napkins for a 'husband'.

I'm not encouraging bad and desperate actions, but pleaseee, that you're not married shouldn't make you embrace c.r.azy ideas. You're not alone in this struggle.

Bigsteveg:
Hope we can get to talk better. try reach me on 08095300265. a text will do

Taryur3:
No but because she started bleeping at 15

ibolomo:
what tribe are you from? Are your parents strict enough to disown you if you stand your ground? Are you willing to choose the woman instead of your family? Do you believe the lady in question is worth it?
If you answer these questions truthfully, you have your answer already.

I won't advice anyone directly, before they say one guy on nairaland is the one that destroyed their life

dominique:
So because she made a mistake at a young age, she's supposed to pay for it for the rest of her life?

Useless men everywhere, taking advantage of and impregnating young girls and denying responsibility. Had the useless baby daddy risen to his responsibility, will the op be proposing to her? It takes a real man to love a woman with all her baggage and op is one.

ststyreal:
My friend, you have a good point but the truth remains that he (op), loves the girl so much from what I can deduce from his write up and in turn the girl loves him too, so why will he allow his parents to decide or determine who he shares his life with. The issue of marriage is first about your happiness and secondly, you can consider your family. If I tell you my story of how my husband's siblings including his mother, ganged up to beat me up during my courtship period, you would think I would never smell their community again let alone getting married to him today. The young girl is innocent, in the sense that she have not offended them in any way except for having a child, if they are without sin, let them be the first to cast a stone at her. Family people always widen their nose when it comes to their son getting married, always looking for faults to castigate the lady even when there is no need for it. My husbands family were against me for no just cause but when they saw that their son really loves me, and me self come dey show my husband better love make dem for vex tire, today the story has changed. I didn't hold all that their evil plots against me then to heart after we got married, rather I proved them wrong by respecting them all, embraced the kitchen like cooking and assisting anyone of them in the kitchen. Your wife should just be good. Be sure that she possesses good character because that is the basis of marriage not beauty and most importantly, prayers!. Prayer works wonders during my time of trials with my in-laws. God turned their hatred towards me to love. Today, the whole village knows that my mother in law loves me. Today, my sister in laws call to tell me their challenges and seek for my advice or opinion even when they are far far older than I am, this is what prayers can do and above all, pray that the will of God be done.