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safarigirl:
please help me understand

The advert says Korede is "Coming to church", they did not say "performing in Church", what's all the raucous about? Musician no fit go church again? Dem no get people wey sin pass Korede wey dey go church?

Hmmmm.. I'm not in the mood to type this evening

Commenthin:
Every idea here is valid but the first evil that crip in is family greed and jealousy. When people see or look at two people in-love, what do you see in the eye, throught or behaivour? Envy, jealousy, evil theoght and saying "it's wont last" why....because their when through same route, instead of guarding...they'll try to put apart.

Its start from husband or wife mother in-law and siblings demand for emotional or financial help, and they dont get enough...then problem start....meanwhile you never got such help from anyone.

The wife and husband will start to help there people in secret, the trust hit the rock. Then the affected family says "then so what, if he/she tell you nonsense tell him/her nonsense.....you see am. The pain creates the end of love and enmity starts....why one of the family camp rejoice....then they'll try to be the judge and helper to amend the relationship that started without their consent. The goal is to midate and continue to have access to whatever they wanted that wasnt enough initially....and love doesn't need a third party.

My brother, you spoke from the standpoint of wisdom.. Nice one bro

maybrowne:
Nice one, I will tell pastor to put you in councelling department.

I go good for that department abi?

frankwyte:
No matter how you look at it, i speak as married man with kids but there are ingredients that makes marriages work.
These are Love for each other, i.e letting go even when it's inconvenient.
Communication as often as possible i.e engaging in discussion that shows respect and care
Praying together, house that prays together stays together.
Sincerity! i.e openness
Under your limit in all dispute.

God bless us

Nice one bro... Thanks from speaking from experience bro

Sacluxpaint:
On point but remember the best counselors don't always have the best marriages.

Me I no be counselor egbon

Sacluxpaint:
Omo, na u for be the OP. Na this kind topic u like

Egbon, I finish work abi?

SmartchoicesNG:
another useless phone

Really? Maybe because your standard is higher than such a phone

mrmrmister:
You looked funny.
Were you wearing make up?

You don start again abi.. Hope you don take panadol this afternoon?

Here goes the picture of me and mumsy.. Been a while tho

SNOWCREAM:
I beg to disagree with you. When Jesus lived, you know there are many teachers and leaders who are staunch followers of the law (Law of Moses)? Did Jesus relate with anyone of them? When the harlot came to see Jesus, one of the disciples wanted to drag her away but Jesus asked that they let her do what she wanted to do.

Korede bello is a Muslim who converted to Christianity just like Pst Tunde Bakare, he is a secular musician, he has to make money, he has to live well, there's a demand, and he's supplying.
So will you now chase korede bello off to the devil cos of that?

First of all how many secular artists go to church? Second, how many of them are identified by their churches? Are they just going? Or are they trying to improve their spiritual life?

Korede Bello may be a secular artist but he is only secular cos that's what his current profession is about, he's not a vain or secular person. Can you compare him with kiss daniel? Or lil kesh? Or reekado?

And even though he is a member of LRA, this is the first time he'll ever perform in the church, hasn't he been to so many redeemed churches? And so many other denominations?

Please be objective.

Hmmmm.. The truth is what you're shying from, my brother

Churches should be very mindful of the kind of musicians they bring into the church. If we should face reality gan sef, it's not every gospel musician that is worthy of ministration in churches,... So what are you saying?

zanga420:
cc: tosyne2much . This is not rejection, church is not a political/social organization, rather a spiritual entity. If they're celebrating val or one social event like that n invite him, no problem. But a spiritual sunday service? No.
I blame those that approved this, if we hear from them will be good sha to have a balanced judgment. But they've ended up making it look like people are rejecting musicians with their wrong apportion of things. #churchserviceissacred#churchserviceisspiritual

You're very right.. If pastors can invite politicians to the church and give them few minutes to mount the podium to campaign, why would they see any wrong in giving hip hop musicians the chance to minister ?

Make we just dey look jawe, cos I'm fed up of all these anomalities

Hmmmm

This is what I expect him to do, not uploading the pictures of slay queens

SQLmastar:
you mean the Vaseline crew?
No I'm not the president. Meet tosy'ne2much for your application form

Hehehe.. So na me come be the president abi?

Every marriage has its flaws but if I were the one, shame no go let me accept her back

Mathematical:

Lolz.. Wish I witness such

Boya emi gaann ma shako die. And I'll be like arakurin to ba fe femi oje rinle

You dare not say that to a fcck boi cos he would be so happy ehn

dangotesmummy:
church has becoming a routine and ritual that Nigerians now attend.you hardly seeing people going to church for genuine reasons these days.it's usually because
1.they need a job or sell stuffs
2.there's one girl or guy they're eyeing
3.parents forcing their wards to go to church
4.their boss attends that church so they go there to impress their bosses or get favours
5.healing, miracles,money,husband, wife,children, promotion, house,car.every other reason except to truly worship

This reminds how one of my course mates started attending her project Supervisor's fellowship just because she wanted to an "A" to boost up her GP... SMH

oluwasheun94:
it just like saying dbanj performing olorun maje or wande coal performing jehova in a church is right

Brother, make we just dey look ni jawe.. Most church are now embracing hip hop

Mathematical:

Hahaha. Really?

As if you haven't experienced it before... Some guys be like "mtcheeeeeeewwwww omoge duro now

Mathematical:

Lolz.. Me wey no fine bf, ah con see pesn call me..n to fly reach thr.

But seriously it's way different up here but some silly blokes lacks coolness.

That's very true tho.. Some guys track ladies down like a gala seller

oluwasheun94:
as in?

I dey tell you bro

mrmrmister:
Sharrap

I dey tell u baba

Mathematical:

Yanga?

Yes.. Pompousity when a guy approaches

Mathematical:

I just hope you also don't exhibit the "yanga" the OP is talking about?

Mathematical:

she geh dick join her puna nii.wey ah go send her pm? Op kindly explain this

Fear sef grip me oooo.. We wey be guys gan, you never send us PM, not to talk of a troll

Here in Mozambique, ladies don't exhibit such uncivilized character

Juliearth:
I think people rush into marriage with the wrong perspective. Ladies always have that fantasy of a happy-ever-after marriage (too much of hollywood I pressume).
Another factor is that people rush into marriage for the wrong reasons and when these reasons do not suffice, things may take an ugly turn.
Above all,I would say that when a couple waste the entire period of their dating and courtship on copulation,pizza and shawarma,that marriage may likely develope some faults.
My admonition is this: Marry your best friend cos at some point in a marriage,love might be lost,but friendship will get things going. Do not expect too much of your spouse. I am not saying you should downgrade him or think less of him,but appreciate his efforts though little...Appreciate his/her flaws cos there is no such thing as a perfect man/woman... Lastly,no third parties.

Oooooh this is brilliant

imperiouxx:
I think it occasionally happens in Ekiti State (Ado).

It once hailed in Ado-Ekiti in 2004/2005 when I was in UNAD.

Wooow that's a long time ago bro

Even the names of rugged Nairaland guys sef feature for the list


BMW, what's Mathematical doing there?

myking95:
Its possible sha. I select food a lot Whenever mumc cooks food that I dnt like, na to drink garri straight. Those pre teen years...I dey hide garri under bed, for wardrobe... even rat no fit sabi the location. Mumsy talk tire..I've outgrown it sha...I love my eyes

Hahahahaha you don use lag finish me ooo

Tajbol4splend:
You know having more than one gf or bf can be of an advantage sometimes but when one is doing it for the right reason

Bros, don't let your babe see this comment oooo